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Lol, I went through the whole process of giving them all my information and setting up an Avianca LifeMiles account, and at the end it just said “sorry, we cannot identify you” what a waste of my time.

Wow, 1100 business return? I was looking at coach prices for July and it was roughly that!

Will you meet me if I guarantee you I am coming?

You’ll get a few people. As you said keep it simple: just location and date, no other expectation. If Daddy is petty like that, we can be petty too. For example he won’t get my contribution this year.

Lol. And you have a meet up to organise, without the ability to post! Thanks Daddy! I was banned last week for having once used the report button incorrectly The admins over there are trigger happy with the bans, and no warning, in direct contradiction with their own rules.

Well my contributions are probably not worth much, but I certainly would withdraw completetly from any thread where he gets involved. In any case, enjoy each other’s insults, guys!

Sure, @AdamSmith if you think most people enjoy him and he bring the boys to the yard, your call. or alternatively, if you enjoy talking to just about 3 people, also your call.

But bad participation can also drive away people. Then you end up talking to yourself.

Today I learned the symbol for the Russian Ruble thanks to to @AdamSmith

One of them works as a garoto in point 202. Nathan. And really good as well.

Yeah, initially I was thinking of offering a low daily rate + extra money for each time we have sex, to create an incentive for him to ask me for sex, rather than the opposite, but I don’t think I can handle sex too many times per day with the same guy. I mean, in the sauna, I can do 5 guys + bring one of them to the hotel, but that is because they are different guys. Obviously I agree, the bonus is not discussed, it is just surprise at the end.

I was also considering to set expectations like this, with a daily rate and upfront money, and then to say there will be also an extra $xx for every time that we have sex. But oz, if that means the guy keeps asking for sex multiple times per day, maybe that is not such a good idea :-)

Oz, you are winning at life!

I am going to reuse that image one day.

Between @Latbear4blk saying I am just causing stress and trouble to myself and you saying what have you got to loose, I am torn now.

Husband would not know. It would happen while he is away from home visiting family.

@Latbear4blk it would only be if the husband goes on vacation somewhere without me. Short window, but there could be an opening soon. That is why I was thinking about it. The ticket can be a fully cancelable ticket at low cancellation cost (they still do exist, even if they are more expensive that normal tickets), so that would be ok. But $160 just to apply for the visa, with so little chances of success, and all the concerns, potential issues: sigh. You are probably right.

Me? No. But the Garoto might, if it is his once in a lifetime chance of visiting NYC.

Eeuurgh.

Ok so no letter of invitation, then.

Ah! Indeed, that does make things much easier.

Thank you all, all good intel. I really appreciate that you take the time to provide it . I may still try, and the only real cost would be that my garoto likely will be disappointed by the rejection, but I hope he can handle it. 2 more questions: - He needs a proof of having a return flight already booked at the time of application, right? So we need to make sure we get a fully cancellable flight? - Does the visa request costs less than 100 dollars? (I don’t want to sink too much money into it given the small chances of getting through).

You sell-out!

First of all, so happy for you that you have plans like this, and a bit jealous. I hope the vibe stays the same between you too. And no, a piece of coal can be replaced by another piece of coal, but a good guy which has a vibe that resonates with you, that is quite rare. Still, I second @Walker ‘s question. Now on a practical thing: I guess the visa for him to enter Mexico is not an issue, compared to a visa for the US?

Thanks Tom! Looks like i am fucked, then, and not in the good way.