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Marc in Calif

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    Marc in Calif got a reaction from gytis123 in Should we be ashamed to meeting younger men ?   
    Why in the world are you concerned about comments on TikTok? 🤡
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Keithambrose in Make a plan please !!!!   
    Have you considered  learning to read?
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Keithambrose in Make a plan please !!!!   
    You asked the same questions on May 25th!
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Olddaddy in Make a plan please !!!!   
    Thankyou Peter ! 🙏
    It's a pity others are not researching as well !!!!!
    Please look up on what area I can get a Airbnb close to everything on the city of KL
    I want to be close to railway station,gym , etc and walk to city eg petaling Street etc 
    Guys , research what time does the bus leave KL for Singapore 
    Also gay saunas please !
    Surely that's not too much to ask 😔 
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    Marc in Calif reacted to PeterRS in Make a plan please !!!!   
    I have been many times to KL over the years and enjoy it. But never for more than 4 or 5 nights and often having taken the bus up from Singapore. Personally I would say 4 weeks is much too long for that one city. Also, I have usually gone to the gay bar and sauna rather than find MBs. I have found the apps busy but again I have been looking for Chinese guys rather than the broader selection of Malays and Indians and others.
    The shopping mall Sungei Wang always used to be quite cruisy, but I am talking about quite a few years ago.
    I would definitely travel around. In Johor in the far south just across from Singapore there are several gay venues and I assume the apps will be pretty busy. I would also go up to Penang where i know there are (or used to be a few years ago) massage spas with mostly Chinese masseurs from mainland China. Malacca is historically interesting but no idea what gay life there mght be there.
    I believe @spoon is Malaysian. He should be able to give you more details and advice.
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    Marc in Calif reacted to khaolakguy in Another Ferry sinks near Bali   
    It was only a month or so ago when the last ferry sunk near Bali. If I was travelling there I think I would find an alternative mode of transport.
     

    At least six people have died and dozens are missing after a ferry sank off Indonesia's tourist island of Bali, rescuers said.
    The boat was carrying 53 passengers and 12 crew members when it sank at 23:20 local time (15:35 GMT) on Wednesday while on its way to Bali from Banyuwangi on the eastern coast of Java island, the Surabaya office of the National Search and Rescue Agency said.
    Thirty-one survivors have been rescued, the agency says, as the search continues. However, several reports indicate there may have been more passengers on board than were listed on the official manifest.
    Authorities are investigating the cause of the sinking.
     
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cew0yz5xw1no
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Kwilliams in Romania   
    There a loads of Romanians in my part of London. Around September last year I started experimenting with drugs for a few months for the first time in my life. I was high off my head driving around my area with zero inhibitions. As I was driving I zeroed in on this drop dead gorgeous guy acting erratic and walking around very fast. I could tell he was high as fuck like me. I turned down my window and asked him where he was from and how old he was. He told me he was Romanian and 23 years old. I asked him if he wanted a blow Job and he asked is it for free? I said yes and told him to jump in my car. I was so fucked up high and drunk and so was he. He kept saying he was straight and I said so am I. I drove him to a park, got out the car barely able to walk straight and sat on a bench in the park. I pulled his trousers down. A nice already hard 8.5 inch and thick cock popped out and I sucked and deep throated him like a vacuum hoover. He was moaning so loud so I told him to shut up because there are houses near the park. I then pulled my trousers down for him to fuck me and he asked me for a condom. I told him I'm clean as I lubed my ass and he stuck it in raw and fucked the shit out of me relentlessly for 30 mins on the bench until he shot all his cum inside me. He said we couldn't meet again because he was not gay and I dropped him where I found him. For weeks after I would get high and drunk on a Saturday night, douche and drive to the same spot and find him there, pick him up and fuck again on the same bench in the same park. Every time we were high fucking. The last time I saw him was around early January. He told me he was moving back to Romania tomorrow and he was extra fucked up that night. I was so high and drunk myself. While we were fucking in the park I thought I would try to fuck him for once since I was probably never gonna see him again. After deep throating him for a while I pulled down my trousers and grabbed his head towards my crotch. I thought he would stop me Abd get angry but he sucked me so good I was shocked. I then started fucking him his hole was shaved and clean. He started thinking he must have done this before. His cock andd body was always so clean so maybe I shouldn't have been shocked. He then bended me over and started fucking me. We flip fucked for about an hour until he came. And then I fucked him one last time and came quickly after him. I noticed he had dropped his phone and a knife out of his pocket. I didn't feel scared at all. I picked up the knife and phone and gave to him. He started getting angry Abd said I broke his phone screen, I told him to fuck off and that it was already smashed we argued for a bit and told him I would give him £30 to fix it. He never asked for money all the times we met and I would have given him a bit more but that was all the cash I had on me and I was too high to think clearly. Looking back now while sober we were fucking passionately and rough so I could have easily stepped on his phone and smashed the screen with my boots. As I dropped him off he left things on a sour note. He said he was straight and that I saw his knife and that he would kill me if I told anyone. I wasn't scared or intimidated at all because I was so high. I told him to fuck off and get out my car and I never saw him ever again. 
    I got more stories about my shenanigans picking young guys up off the street and taking them to local parks if anyone is interested let me. I got a real taste for it after meeting this guy and was most successful while I was high. 
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Marc in Calif got a reaction from FunFifties in Singapore not popular?   
    Quite available. Don't forget that maturity and experience are typically appreciated and admired in many Asian cultures.
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    Marc in Calif got a reaction from sydneyboy1 in Singapore not popular?   
    Quite available. Don't forget that maturity and experience are typically appreciated and admired in many Asian cultures.
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    Marc in Calif got a reaction from fedssocr in Singapore not popular?   
    Please don't forget the gorgeous young Malay, Pakistani, Indian and Eurasian guys on the planet -- all together in this tiny city-state. ☺️
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    They drink but it doesn’t mean that they become gay friendly
    be carefull
     
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    I have to buy protéine for him
    I already sucked his dick while this time he offers a triple sex. He is really gorgeous , see his Pic attached 

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    Why the new thread on the same topic? And why the focus on Tunisia? Do you work for the Tunisian department of tourism? 🤔 If I want to have gay experiences in Africa...Tunisian is near the bottom of my list.  Same-sex activities are still illegal and can get you up to 3 years in jail. Let's not try to romanticize when the reality is jarring.
    https://finance.yahoo.com/news/20-most-dangerous-countries-lgbtq-154759423.html
     
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    Hi, 
    are you sure that these soldiers are happy with finding there Photo in the internet? 
    I do not speak arabic, but is on a few photos their name badge visible? 
    Please rethink if you are doing them a favor with these pictures.
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    Marc in Calif reacted to FunFifties in Singapore not popular?   
    I visited for a couple of nights a few years ago at the age of 50. I found them very available and got a lot more attention on grindr than I had time for.
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    Marc in Calif got a reaction from FunFifties in Singapore not popular?   
    Please don't forget the gorgeous young Malay, Pakistani, Indian and Eurasian guys on the planet -- all together in this tiny city-state. ☺️
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    Marc in Calif got a reaction from BjornAgain in Arthur & Paul   
    Because you posted an image, that video link is unclickable. But here are a couple of direct links to Arthur and Paul videos:
     
     
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    Marc in Calif reacted to PeterRS in krakow , Poland .   
    Have you looked at the Warsaw thread?
     
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    Tantric Euphoria London operates in various locations across London, including Covent Garden, Leicester Square, Tottenham Court Road, Piccadilly, Bayswater, Wimbledon, Kensington, Earls Court, Soho, Battersea, Camden, Watford, and Maida Vale. They offer both in-call and outcall massage services to accommodate client preferences. For more details visit the agency website and learn more about it.
     




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    One's post from beginning to end was bitchy. And one did indeed end it "with a genuinely bitchy remark."
    Was that a lame attempt at sarcasm? It landed l like a turd. 💩
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Tartegogo in Infinity Spa   
    Thank you, I just went down that rabbit hole, most of the tweets I see are people mentioning they just went there or are planning to go there, but I couldn't find anyone talking about the action that happens in there.
    However, many of the guys who mention "going to the spa" look like they are actually heavily associated with it (the spa reposts their tweet, and they mention it on a number of occasions), so I am assuming they are actually the masseurs promoting the spa they work at. One good thing about that is that you get to see the masseurs' pictures that way, and most of them are hot.
    I will try the Pampanga one when I am there in November and report.
     
    If I was in Manilla I would have so many better options such as the links below, unfortunately I have to spend most of my time in Angeles City.
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    I hope you are kidding or you are not already suffering the effects of Alzheimer's or Dementia ?
    Our gayguides.com forum is divided by physical nation states with different geographical locations - as shown below:

    Your reply about Borocay was posted in the Vietnam sub-division of our gayguides.com forum.  Boracay is part of the Philippines.
    I already posted about my 4 days in Boracay (which you already commented on back in February of this year).  Below is the link to help you remember.
    So, this thread is dedicated to Vietnam....
    Thanks  🤩
     
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    Marc in Calif reacted to PeterRS in Buddhism and the gay visitor   
    Without wishing to take anything away from @macaroni21's masterful analysis, I will query one issue about same-sex relationships. Victorian England with its strict surface religious morality was very different once one dug below that surface. There, it was basically true that anything was permissible sexually whether legal or not. For almost 3 centuries England had had a law outlawing sodomy for which the punishment was death. Early in the 19th century death was replaced by a long term of imprisonment. Then in 1885 the increasingly popular views of what we might term a moral and religious majority pushed through further legislation. This was primarily to contain what it regarded as male lust, in particular protecting adolescent girls rather than prohibiting same-sex behaviour. Indecent assaults on girls over 13 were not against the law at that time. Yet when the bill was introduced in parliament its scope had widened from making assaults on girls up to 16 against the law, thanks to an amendment this morphed into one making all "indecent assaults" punishable as gross misdemeanours. Yet the wording of this amendment was unclear. As a result, what became law was changed and suddenly had included consensual male-to-male same-sex acts. Had the terms of the act been rigorously applied to those who found male-to-male sex under the surface of society's morality, it is assumed that many tens of thousands, including many of the great and the good, would have found themselves in prison! Sex between women never featured in this law.
    This law was then widened to include all Britain's colonial possessions. The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Rights Program of Human Rights Watch states that approx. 34 countries around the world have retained the former British colonial anti-sodomy laws.
    With respect, according to the 2024 Korea Research's regular survey 'Public Opinion in Public Opinion', 51% identify with no religion whatever, 31% with Christianity, and just 17% with Buddhism. Yet Confucian influence remains very strong and I am sure is one reason why South Korea as a whole is more homophobic than one would expect. Certainly, the three main Dynasties - the Silla, Goryeo and Joseon - showed much tolerance for male-to-male relations. This is very similar to China where for those at the top, having a male lover was not uncommon for millennia. And it was a Japanese bonze returning from a visit to China around 800 AD who brought the idea of monks taking young novices under their wings and eventually into their beds. This fashion caught on and many samurai warriors adopted the practice. The Shinto religion has no specific code of morals between humans and so appears to regard homosexual sex as merely a natural physical act to be enjoyed.
    Where South Korea, Japan and some other countries have turned against ancient practices is, I believe, largely a result of American influence in the post WWII period. Since South Korea (as it became) had only had a Japanese colonial government for most of the first half of the century, the Americans who took over greatly influenced certain elements in the country. For example, American doctors all but mandated that Korean baby boys be circumcised, a practice that has now fallen out of favour.  
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Londoner in Buddhism and the gay visitor   
    Thank you for your posts. I hope others found them as informative as I did. I should like to add  three  issues to the discussion.
    Firstly,  the belief in the transmigration of the  soul. I mentioned some time ago how my partner interpreted our first meeting, claiming that we'd met in a previous life, and how that  affected our relationship..  
    Secondly, a distinctive view of duty of the young towards elders and parents , as expressed by the Thai word "gentanyu". This perhaps influences  intergenerational relationships, of which there seem to be many compared to within Western cultures.
    Thirdly- and this has a relevance to gay relationships and sexual identity as mentioned by previous posters- is the contrast between Eastern and Western religions. The three Abrahamic faiths  tend to celebrate the soldier, the crusader, the physically strong. Even Christianity which, once it became an institution, quickly abandoned the   pacifism of the New Testament  and replaced  it with the need to be "a soldier for Christ", "a soldier of the Cross", "a crusader". There is no such requirement in Hinduism or Buddhism, no desire to evangelise, to conquer  non-believers (taking their land wherever possible!); in short to be  "manly".  Instead,  the "feminine" virtues of love and tenderness, even beauty, are encouraged.
    Of course, we can ask how much of this is cultural rather than specifically Buddhist.  I write not as an expert but as an observer.
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    Marc in Calif reacted to Travelingguy in Buddhism and the gay visitor   
    Being present in the moment (a Buddhist concept) is not the same as “eat drink and be merry for tomorrow we die.” 
    One can strive to be present in the moment while still making plans and preparations for the future. The two activities are not mutually exclusive  

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