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Thanks guys, I agree with Floridarob long time doesn’t really do it for me, however if I was out late with a boy were it would be difficult for them to get home I am not opposed to them staying over. I understand paying for boy at all venues. Last year I was more shy, so this year I would like to be more assertive, especially now having more knowledge from this forum. everyone here has been a huge help, so thank you!.
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I don’t know if y’all are getting tired of me asking these questions, however I was reading another thread https://www.gayguides.com/topic/61297-bangkok-pattaya-october-november-2024/page/2/ It was mentioned that he took his boy that he offed to dj station for dancing. Is this something that the boys are open to? Like if I like a boy in one bar however I want to go see some more shows, is it ok to ask the boy if he wants to come along with me, have dinner, before returning to hotel? when I was in bangkok, for the first time, last year when I hired we pretty much went straight back to the hotel for fun. I only ask because I don’t want to come off asking these questions to the boy who may feel obligated to just say yes to ensure an off. If it’s not normal or something that’s been requested before I don’t want to put them in That position. I am currently rereading a lot of threads on these forums to get advice and recommendations for my upcoming trip at the end of September. I will likely have more questions, if it becomes annoying please let me know as I am still fairly new to this scene. I also plan to do a lot of sight seeing and I’m glad a lot of trip reports include some of the attractions like the Tiffany show or coliseum show in pattaya. Visiting the zoo, I did safari world last year and had a blast, and of course shopping.
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He definetly does, when at the temples he explained the meaning of the different buddhas and the backstories. I was really impressed.
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I am going, I’m just trying to decide on the best hotel to stay at value, space, location. For pattaya I’m excited to go just not sure of the area. My first visit last year I spent a few months on here researching before I finally booked. The biggest help for me was the shamelessmack blog, the area maps really helped. This year in bangkok I definitely am going to try some of the saunas that I did not try last year. I am here for tourist activities too, last year I hired a guided from siamroads, Mac, I found him very informative and he taught me how to use transit, showed me boat taxis, temples, and some of the more local areas of Thailand. I will likely being hiring a guide again.
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Thanks everyone, you have relieved some of my concerns, looking forward to my second trip to Thailand.
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Thank you, that’s reassuring to hear. I used grab exclusively in bangkok last year. I did have a look at east suites.
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Hello everyone, im planning my second trip to Thailand, reading the forum last year I got some great advice that helped me a lot. This year I wanted to spend some extra time in Thailand so I’m likely going to go for 22-23 days. I want to spend a week at the beginning of my trip in pattaya and the rest in bangkok. onto my questions, for pattaya reading the forum it seems like the best area to stay is Jomtien. I want to of course hang out at the beach, do some shopping, eat some more amazing food and of course visit the bars, I have been reading trying to determine which hotel to stay at. The forum seems pretty decided that Agate is the best value and from my pricing search it seems so, I’m just confirming it seems like there is no issues bringing guests back and it is right in the heart of the action. Besides Jomtien, should I also be visiting boyztown? If you decide to bring boy back is this too far from my hotel in Jomtien? I will likely book a car from BKK to take me directly to the hotel as I prefer the certainty for a new destination. In bangkok, last year I stayed at Furama silom. I stayed in an executive suite and really liked it. I was going to book again this year however prices are nearly double what I paid last year. So for this year I’m leaning towards the quarter saladaeng, I’ve searched this on the forum however there is only two pages of results, I have read them all even how minor a mention. It seems like guests are not an issue correct? I’m feeling very confident in this selection based on the limited reviews on this forum and the YouTube reviews I have looked over. I will likely be visiting in October similar to last year, and will gladly post trip reports like I did. thanks for any advice you can give!
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When I visited bangkok for the first time, I tried the bars. I found if I asked the mamasan at any club I went to for someone that has decent English I wasn’t disappointed. I offed most from freshboys and had no issues. I liked the fresh boys show the best however all the shows are repetitive so I enjoyed visiting the different bars to see the different shows, banana room has a lot of drag performers, it’s not something I hate, while a couple times they lip synced to English songs they didn’t know. When they lip synced to Thai songs they really shined. a lot here saying the mamasan at fresh boys can be pushy. I didn’t have a problem with her really, I just stated. I’m looking for now I will let you know when someone interests me, and she left me alone for the most part. I think just don’t be afraid to be assertive. If you are indecisive they may be more inclined to keep checking in and try to get you to buy a boy a drink or off a boy.
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I think I saw the sauna by Furama silom when I was there. I was thinking of going. It’s in the mall with the broken escalators correct? How was it? I’m planning to return to Thailand for my second time for 3 weeks this time likely spend first week in pattaya and rest in bangkok but would love to visit sauna this time
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I’m not big into the club scene, I did find a few non MBs on Grindr and had some hookups I didn’t mention here, even a fun time in the sauna here in furama.
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I went on Wednesday and Saturday but the shows seemed to follow similar format, Saturday had more entertainers and backup dancers, which makes sense as they are busier on weekends, one thing I can say is if you are thinking of offing a boy and he comes to sit with you. Don’t be afraid to be direct in what you are looking for. I think if you both know what to expect going back you will be less likely to be disappointed.. they have heard it all and when I spoke to them no one seemed shocked at questions I asked. Things are a lot more discreet in North America even when talking privately.
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Unfortunately on Thursday night I wasn’t feeling well so I stayed in bed all night which continued onto all of Friday. It was mostly my allergies and unfortunately i didn’t bring any allergy meds, first gen antihistamines make me drowsy but rarely work so I tried some tiffy which made me sleep. I looked up online if they had mine prescription antihistamine and they did under a different name so on Saturday morning I went off to retrieve which has helped me recover. on Saturday I went down to the bars again, I was early so I walked around a bit. I remembered banana room started their show early so I headed over, when I entered it was packed, nearly every seat filled, I sat in the back last row to the left of the stage, I watched the show a few of the drag queens did quite well and I tipped, some of them tried to lip sync to English songs but it was obvious they didn’t know the words and only trying to voice the syllables, I think it would look more impressive if they lip synced to a thai song as some of the other performers did. Once again we had the nude shower show and the cock parade. I like this bar as overall seems to be less pressure, you are allowed to take a look in first to decide if you want to go in, mamasan comes around and asked if anyone you like but if you simply say “I’m still looking” they don’t push further. The show was over and unfortunately the boy I had my eye on went to join someone who had bought a bottle, another boy I had my eye on joined a couple who was preparing to off two boys, what a fun night for them, on stage only 8 boys remained, compared to other clubs it seems like banana room has the least guys on stage. Now I didn’t want to pick someone who wasn’t interested in me, atleast faking interest. On stage only one boy waved at me and showed interest, the papasan came around and I asked to buy this boy a drink, he called him down and he joined me, where he cuddled up with me very fast, he asked me all the standard questions and then I asked his position and he said “anything you like” however for me I want someone who can preform so I asked what you like more, and he told me, his English wasn’t the greatest so I asked where he was from to ensure I was translating to the correct language and we discussed fees. I agreed and since the show was over asked if he wanted to go now or stay and watch next show, he said he would get dressed, I called papasan over to pay fees. I discussed with papasan, papasan who is very friendly, why I choose boy, I told him he smiled at me and waved. I told him I look got a boy who shows interest if I take back I don’t want a dead fish. He understood and hopefully he can give some advice to the other boys. boy was dress and off we went, everything went well, he really did do “anything you like” I was tired from the previous two days and didn’t want to complete however he said Noo, I’m happy if you finish too. Which was nice made everything seem less transactional. We showered discussed bangkok a little bit and off he went. on Sunday I wanted to visit the chatuchak market, this is a huge market. I specifically went to buy some souvenirs and take in the experience, I was pleasantly surprised to find a lot of the prices cheaper than malls such as platinum. I took the mrt back through to lumphini park and walked through as this was something I had not done yet. After I took a grab back to my hotel. I relaxed for a bit and then decided I was just gonna pack tonight and stay in and relax. Even tho it’s my last night in bangkok I did need a rest I had a great time and I will definitely be back, likely the same time as this year. Most thunderstorms were overnight with only a couple in the venting early morning, it did not last long. I will likely visit some other areas such as pattaya next time. Hiring Mac at the beginning of the trip was great as he showed me how transit works, showed me the area around my hotel to eat, get laundry done, and explained things to look out for. I would definitely recommend hiring guide for first timers to learn the ins and outs, if not atleast learn how to use transit. Bangkok traffic is no joke, 3km turns into an hour long trek and the skytrain can save you so much time. my hotel furama was great. I stayed in an executive suite so I cannot speak to the other floors. I only ate breakfast once but it had everything you can expect from a western breakfast plus other cultures as well. The executive club is nice to unwind and have a drink. They provide snacks all day and some lights meals in the evening, the pool area has fake grass around the area now, pool water appeared to be tested everyday and was comfortable temperature, the city looks great at night from the rooftop pool area. maid service was amazing. She did not speak English but she didn’t get bothered when I fumbled a bit with google translate to request extra towels. She always ensured I had plenty of bottled water (sometimes I had 4 in the fridge and 6 on the counter) even when I got up late or left and came back she still did the room as late as 5 pm! Amazing service, I’m sure it helped I tipped everyday but it’s not much by western standards and the service she provided made my experience a lot more comfortable, the front desk staff and door men were friendly, never judging when bringing people back, even when I brought two. the only downside is the keys, they reuse hotel key cards so over time they wear out, so simply placing them in contact with your cellphone can erase the data causing the key not to work in the door, they did give me three keys, one for the electricity. And two for me. So I kept extra key in my wallet just in case. tomorrow I leave in the afternoon, it was suggested I simply use grab. So hopefully they won’t be mad that I have 1 large suitcase 1 carryon and my backpack. special thanks to everyone on this forum who posted. I read a lot over the few months before my trip to prepare myself and I feel like without these tips I would not have ventured out to the bars or even gotten as far as I did, so a big thank you! 🙏
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On Tuesday I just did some more tourist activities and went to arena Massage and had another great massage with the guy from before. His massage is almost trained. He is more focused on the clinical and less on the erotic aspect until you flip over. I don’t mind this as I get a good massage, but would be nice if he blends Wednesday I slept in finally, I couldn’t decide what I wanted to do today. I was thinking of going to Jodds fair later in the afternoon, I decided to head out for some shopping. After shopping I returned to my hotel around 4-5 I saw that traffic was brutal so the 20 minute journey to jodds was gonna take over an hour so I decided against. I ended up on Grindr and talked to a guy we Decided to meet up in the hotel sauna where we fooled around for a bit. I showered then headed up to the pool. Furama has some nice views of the city at night. I was gonna stay in again but decided to venture out to the bars. this time I walked past dreamboys the promoters outside did ask me to come in, it was early so I said I would come back. I walked up the alley to the next one and past by banana room the promoters called out to Me. I said too early for show I will come back. However he told me show already started it was just last 9:30 when first show starts. He asked me if I wanted to just take a look, something the other bars didn’t, I peaked then decided why not. Drinks here are only 360 baht. Later I also enquired about boy drinks they are 300. So much cheaper than the other bars. When I entered there was only about 8 other guys watching the show, mostly all Asian tourists I sat in the back right by the door. The show consisted mainly of drag queens/lady boys? They lip synced and danced, there was 7 different ones in total. They had a shower show with two guys and then a cock parade show with 5 guys. While I do like drag shows there was not enough performances featuring the boys. The show ended around 10:40 which was quite long. During the show lots of people peaked inside but didn’t stay. By the end of the show there was around 12-13 customers, The boys went into stage. Only around 8 boys in total. They are mostly shirtless wearing black pants. The boys here are less twinky than the other bars I attended. They are attractive. However only one guy caught my attention but he seemed uninterested in being on stage, no one wants a dead fish. The atmosphere is good here. You are far enough away from the stage to observe but not feel like you are on top of the guys. The stage is well lit but the customer seating area is not bright. I decided to pay my fee. I tipped the lady boy who answered my questions and thanked her for her time and left. i decided to head back to dreamboys and check it out. Outside the promoters called out to me. I said what time is next show and they told me now, now. I went inside and was led to a seat on the front but asked to change to the upper seat on the side. Dreamboys was packed with customers I say a good 20-25 90% Asian tourists and 10% Caucasian. The show was some erotic dancing with the boys. A drag queen came on next. After there was a cock show, some sucking and simulated sex. A lot more variety than banana room. I didn’t check price but I believe drink here was 500 baht, boy drink was 400. After the show boys went on stage, they had a lot. Over 20. They are dressed in skimpy white shirts some wearing white tank tops but most shirtless. One guy number 77 had huge bulge in his shorts. The papasan came over to me to ask which I liked. I told them I still deciding and I felt no pressure just assistance. I saw another guy looking at me and he was cute. next show started and I forgot the numbes of the boys I was interested in. I watched show which was a bit different, however when the boys are “backup dancing” they all do this slow motion running in place move which looks a bit awkward . When the show was over boys went back on stage I narrowed down the numbers to two. I asked one of the papasans if he between the two numbers he knew which one spoke better English, he told me so I picked that boy to buy drink, he came over asked me the same questions “where you from” “how long you here” I asked him his position. He told me “I gay, I do everything” it’s funny here gay means top and bottom or just bottom. Straight is just top. We discussed his off fee he told me rate for short time and long time. I was thinking because he was a little more expensive than boys I brought back from fresh boys however I gave them extra which equaled this amount, while I was thinking he asked me “I go get dressed?” I said sure, we took taxi back to hotel, which he said he has been to many times. Back in the room he showered while I got the room ready. Then I showered. We had fun. He was just as engaged as I was and wanted to ensure I was having good time as well. after we showered together and sat on couch to talk a bit which was nice, he told me he has been working at Dreamboys since Covid restrictions ended, I saw a lot of people asking if Dreamboys where Thai only so I asked him, he told me mostly Thai but now they are hiring more from different countries and have a few already. He traded his WhatsApp asked me if I wanted to do anything in afternoon before clubs open to message him. He showed me some pictures of other boys in the club who he likes to work with, was a fun experience, it was raining so I tipped him some extra so he could take taxi. He left. Later I ordered some food and went downstairs to get it where I saw him still sitting in lobby. I asked him if everything is alright he told me he is waiting for rain to stop because he has motorbike. I asked if he wanted to come upstairs and wait and share some food but he said he is fine and wants to wait. I wished him goodnight. dreamboys was one of the bigger clubs I’ve been to. They have two entrances and a huge stage. I would definitely return. not sure if I will visit moonlight, I don’t know if I like the idea of the higher off fees. I may visit banana room again on the weekend hopefully there will be more guys on stage.
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I believe it was the papasan he was younger tho like the bar boys sitting and chatting with another guy. The boys on stage themselves were not being pushy.