Bipaulm

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

Hi there - here's a quick summary, I'll try to put together more later.
Thank you to everyone for their advice and input, all of it was helpful.
BKK - I was only there two nights so didn't have chance to experience much. I went to Obsession (ladyboy bar) and found it a bit intimidating. I think it must have been a quiet night as I was surrounded!
I had more luck off ThaiFriendly and Grindr (for boys and ladyboys). A had one great session with a boy who came to my hotel - very hot and active both ways. Around 2K including tip.
Pattaya - had a couple of ladyboy encounters from bars with rooms on site, on Soi 6. One great, one less so. Both around 1.5k.
One guy at my hotel which was pretty good and one boy in his room who was super hot. Both from Grindr. The area around Jomtien beach has plenty of bars, but I didn't like them much. But that's just personal taste - there were loads of hot boys around.
I also went to Sansuk sauna - it was ok, but not brilliant. 
I'll definitely be back!

For ladyboys, try Soi Buakhao where there are ladyboy bars.  Soi Buakhao runs from South Pattaya  Road (near Tukcom) to Central Road.  I don't know the location of any particular ladyboy bars but they  are there!🤑

Grindr is great in Bangkok... I made so many plans for visiting massage spas before my first time back in Thailand after many years in June 2023.  No plans were needed as either free sex or (mostly) paid sex was plentiful off Grindr. I'm 50 and a bottom.   I'm not really into ladyboys, so I'm not sure about them.  As for the paid hook ups it was pretty nearly always 2500 baht for two hours-ish for sucking and fucking, but I seemed to be finding an even bigger cocked guy each time, which I guess was my idea, and never lasted the two hours!  I was blown away by Thailand in my two trips last year...

For boys in Pattaya there is Jomtien Complex aka Supertown with many host bars and massage shops.  ;  Boyztown (Toy Boy, Classic Boy, ABomb, XBoys and Dream Boys all go-go bars); Sunee Plaza (Winner Boys and Nice Boys, go-go bars). Also massage shops in vicinity of TukCom in Pattaya. 
 

and dangerous.....those long nails 😲

Although I had many chances to do it with ladyboys I never had the courage. seems bizarre experience for me .

Ladyboys are also mentioned here quite a lot. Read the threads about robbing on Pattaya Beach Road and the latest one about an afray in Soi Nana 🤣

If you are after ladyboys, go on Grindr in Pattaya. I remember there were more ladyboys than boys. In Bangkok you may have to go to the straight areas (Soi Cowboy/Nana Plaza) as I think there are ladyboy bars there, but I'm not too familiar with that scene. Although in Silom, the bar that is next to Screwboys (Pink Panther maybe?), as I was walking past I had one girl approach me but I said 'I like dick' to which she replied 'I have dick' to which I really had no comeback! Otherwise, the usual boy bars are all mentioned here in this forum a lot if you peruse a little.

Can't verify ThaiFriendly. Never used it.

Grindr is well used in BKK and Pattaya.

10k is way, way too high. Avoid these, clearly trying to rip you off.

If anyone asks, this isn't your first time in Bangkok

Some folk are very trusting and don't think of this: Keep your valuables in the room safe when you invite someone to join you at your hotel, don't leave your phone and wallet on the side when you go to shower with them in the room - especially so if they're from Grindr, TF.

Enjoy and have fun!

4000 is on high end and rather in Bangkok , in Pattaya 3000 for long time is generous. Everything above  4000 is extortionate unless you really like the boy and he is not budging but that will be very rare and I'd say try somebody else. Good looks are no guarantee of good service but neither are  bad looks. Still must be some chemistry

I have found Grindr very good in Bangkok.  All the boys looked like their pictures, and performed.  I may have been lucky as other members have had disappointments. Line is used a lot, though I find it difficult! Plenty of massage parlours, look through the threads on here, some very good. Bars not what they were, shows tame. The one with a live show, Tawan, was closed by the police a couple of days ago. People speak well of Fresh Boys, Screw Boys, Hot Male, Banana Bar. Some members have success in picking guys up in the street!