tomaruj72

Planning a trip for the end of this year and am planning to get a massage..with full hard happy ending (thinking Olive Salon or Redline?), and another appointment for an Escort place (Gym-k?).  Do those places sound good?

I am wondering if they prefer younger customers?  I am white and will be 54 soon.  I will be working out and dieting to lean up for the trip, which was totally worth it last year when I went to Thailand and my VERY muscular massage guy complimented my stomach area after I said how muscular he was.   What I am trying to say is I am in decent shape but I am worried about my age.

I'll be travelling with my taiwanese boyfriend who just turned 50, but he could pass for 30. 

That being said I do feel more interested in older escorts/massage boys, but there aren't many over 30.

Appreciate any comments!

Hello guys.  I’ll be in Bangkok in a week or so and will only be there for about 34 hours.  I’m landing at BKK at about 11:40pm and am wondering if i should just get an airport hotel immediately upon arrival and try to get some sleep. I could then wake up and take the BTS to the Silom area and checkin to my hotel before hitting up some massage spots and later in the night, the gogo bars. I haven’t booked my hotel yet but i stayed at the Quarter Silom last time and it was fine and great location for what I’m interested in. 
 
On my last trip I only tried Freshboys and am hoping to at least see two more of the other bars but don’t want to deal with any overly pushy boys.  I enjoyed Freshboys.  Is there a similar bar but with slightly more hunky dudes.  Maybe I’ll try Hotmale.  Hunky/Twinky is what i’m looking for.  I plan to pick the one guy i find to be the hottest, make sure he is willing to top, and then have him select another hot dude so they can put on a nice show for me at my hotel room.  
 
I’m also looking to get a couple massages with potential extras and have read many threads on this forum.  I’m thinking I want to go somewhere where i can see the selection of guys and have my choice.   I’m thinking The Prince is where i should go.  Last time I went to The Green and got lucky with my sexy foot massage guy but i’m worried i’ll be assigned someone i don’t find attractive. Last time I also went to 9-Teen but the massage was lackluster and wasn’t offered extras.
 
Anyways, thanks for reading and any advice you may have my fellow forum members!

Thank you for the reply!  Makes total sense.  Too rich for my blood to keep all day but maybe a 'short' visit is in order.  I don't know how my BF and I can manage to get one to share for some soft play.  For only 500 baht per day at the bar, they must really reply on tips for income.  
Last time my BF and I took a day tour on a bus to various attractions.  It certainly looked like I had 'long time' offed a guy because my BF (asian) wore a tank top shirt and short thin light shorts that were women's shorts.  He had picked them up for a friend but mixed them up with his and wore the wrong ones.  And since I am white...it totally looked like I rented him.
 

LOLOL!  We met our tour group and a white couple kept looking at us.  I was very self conscious about it until I realized they were lost and asked us if they were on the same bus.  They were just looking at us because we were speaking english.    It's been a few years, I am far less self conscious, and yes, even with my BF looking like I rented him, nobody cared.  On a different day we did a boat tour and one of the hosts was a woman who was very interested in us.  She finally asked us about how we knew eachother so we explained we were friends from Canada but my 'friend' is from Taiwan.

In our travels we did spot a few older white guys with much younger rented boys.  It was very obvious and new to me.

LOLOL!  We met our tour group and a white couple kept looking at us.  I was very self conscious about it until I realized they were lost and asked us if they were on the same bus.  They were just looking at us because we were speaking english.    It's been a few years, I am far less self conscious, and yes, even with my BF looking like I rented him, nobody cared.  On a different day we did a boat tour and one of the hosts was a woman who was very interested in us.  She finally asked us about how we knew eachother so we explained we were friends from Canada but my 'friend' is from Taiwan.

In our travels we did spot a few older white guys with much younger rented boys.  It was very obvious and new to me.

Thank you for the reply!  Makes total sense.  Too rich for my blood to keep all day but maybe a 'short' visit is in order.  I don't know how my BF and I can manage to get one to share for some soft play.  For only 500 baht per day at the bar, they must really reply on tips for income.  
Last time my BF and I took a day tour on a bus to various attractions.  It certainly looked like I had 'long time' offed a guy because my BF (asian) wore a tank top shirt and short thin light shorts that were women's shorts.  He had picked them up for a friend but mixed them up with his and wore the wrong ones.  And since I am white...it totally looked like I rented him.
 

It certainly did, lol. But this is Thailand so chances were nobody cared or even paid attention.
This brings another issue which sometimes bother me when I off boy for whole days. They still tend to dress like moneyboys ( skimpy shorts, very fitting jeans, flashy shirts etc, )  instead of looking casual which I'd prefer

Thank you for the reply!  Makes total sense.  Too rich for my blood to keep all day but maybe a 'short' visit is in order.  I don't know how my BF and I can manage to get one to share for some soft play.  For only 500 baht per day at the bar, they must really reply on tips for income.  
Last time my BF and I took a day tour on a bus to various attractions.  It certainly looked like I had 'long time' offed a guy because my BF (asian) wore a tank top shirt and short thin light shorts that were women's shorts.  He had picked them up for a friend but mixed them up with his and wore the wrong ones.  And since I am white...it totally looked like I rented him.
 

500 is for the bar , boy must be paid separately at whatever rate you and him agreed.
Whether he hangs with you all the time ( not recommended ) or you meet him at specific times needs to be worked out with boy. It may include staying with you whole time but also just coming every night at , say 10 p.m.,. for 2 hrs short time session and after and before that you both free, or everything in between.
What you should do in Moonlight ( or any other bar in similar case ) is to discuss with boy first that he will enjoy company of both of you in sequence , of course with 2 sets of tips for his time and services and then one of you would off him paying just one off fee.

When you 'off' a guy for 3 nights, does that mean instead of going to work at the bar, they hang out with you?  Do you pay them on top of the 500 baht per day?  He stays with you overnights too?  "all inclusive?

Right before covid my BF and I tried to 'off' a guy from Moonlight.  All was good until they realized there were 2 of us trying to 'off' him.  I was prepared to just wait in the lobby so my BF could enjoy but they said no, unless I off another one myself.  For the price at Moonlight we couldn't afford 2 of them.  We'd be a bit shy/nervous to get 2 at once anyways. 

Thank you for the info!  I will shortlist to the ones you suggested!  I was thinking 1.5 hours.

I'd be happy to book the right guy in advance.  I'm worried I'll be very shy and nervous in the moment and choose poorly.  Maybe I'll just have a list of what I want in my pocket (in Thai) so I can just hand it to them.  
 
Ichigo, That's a good plan.   I am a bit worried I'll be too nervous to get hard but I am guessing they are skilled enough to solve that problem.  

don't worry, you will chalk off  one evening as not fully used but it gives you more confidence for boy hunting next day as you will be more familiar with environment.
If it any consolation, my next trip , whenever it will be , will be my 39th and still I have goosebumps when I approach Arena and Senso . Curiously even for myself, not when going to other places.

I will be so nervous...I am sure it will be awkward.  A few years ago we went to ao gogo boy bar in Phukey and it was very tiny with about 4 gogo boys looking right at us.  I felt very uncomfortable. 

Hopefully whoever I choose will be able to 'relax' me.  I am seriously thinking I may not be able to get aroused when I am so uncomfortable.  Stupid inhibitions!

Thank you again for the suggestions.  I can see the benefit to choosing in person, to find the guy with the right connection (eye contact etc).  Maybe that is what I should do instead of  booking in advance.
 

Thank you again for the suggestions.  I can see the benefit to choosing in person, to find the guy with the right connection (eye contact etc).  Maybe that is what I should do instead of  booking in advance.
 

Thank you again for the suggestions.  I can see the benefit to choosing in person, to find the guy with the right connection (eye contact etc).  Maybe that is what I should do instead of  booking in advance.
 

Thank you for the info!  I will shortlist to the ones you suggested!  I was thinking 1.5 hours.

I'd be happy to book the right guy in advance.  I'm worried I'll be very shy and nervous in the moment and choose poorly.  Maybe I'll just have a list of what I want in my pocket (in Thai) so I can just hand it to them.  
 
Ichigo, That's a good plan.   I am a bit worried I'll be too nervous to get hard but I am guessing they are skilled enough to solve that problem.  

Just do both, I usually do. Not every boy can though, so best to ask first.

sessions in spas are 1 or 1.5 hr, some places are offering 2 hr. as well. You decide on length beforehand, they will ask you . I suggest you go for 1.5 hr as it's easier to shorten long session than to extend short one ( room may be needed for next slut, er. customer)
Don't sweat it, all will be clearly written on the menu and captain will answer all questions you may have . They hear it all so don't be shy and tell them what you are looking for. 
Arena, Senso, Prince, Jey Spa and VCK club are yo although places to go as they will have boys on display although Jey seems to be moving into booking based operations.
Yes , they will have  a lube and condoms, usually also mouthwash but nothing stops you from bringing and using your own if so desired ( I always carry small bottle of mouthwash with me in case they run out )

In January my boyfriend and I will be travelling to Thailand on a holiday.  He has given me the 'green light' to have a 'spicy' massage so I want make my 1 time count!  I am verse and cannot decide what I'd want to do (T or B) but I want the option there.
Ideally I am hoping for a place where I have all options available a fairly reasonable price.  I know it will cost a bit for the 'spice' and I am going to factor that into my travel budget.
I will be lost on the nuances of negotiating a tip to get the extra service so I have seen a youtube video about The Prince, where you go in and choose from a menu before the service.  That would be nice so I don't have to negotiate in the room later. 
This is my one shot to enjoy a nice young muscular guy outside my relationship so I am really hoping every thing I want can be possible (oral, me to bottom and/or top, kissing, rimming....you name it).  Seems like I'd have to choose a gay masseusse to get all I want but if you wank in off the street yo a place like The Prince..you just choose then and there so that might limit things.
I am white and will be 53 then so I hope age won't be an issue?  I'm in decent shape and fit so I hope that helps.  I assume they will have condoms there?  How long a session is not too rushed but not too long?

Thanks for any suggestions and advice!  There is a LOT to read through!