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Yes thats a good plan! @Blahlol...good to hear! I'm guessing it's not uncommon to the massuer then to have older customers.

Thanks for the comments. For sure I will be as clean as possible and tip for sure. I am sure I worry too much. I wasn't sure about tipping but in this type of work I assume it is accepted.

Planning a trip for the end of this year and am planning to get a massage..with full hard happy ending (thinking Olive Salon or Redline?), and another appointment for an Escort place (Gym-k?). Do those places sound good? I am wondering if they prefer younger customers? I am white and will be 54 soon. I will be working out and dieting to lean up for the trip, which was totally worth it last year when I went to Thailand and my VERY muscular massage guy complimented my stomach area after I said how muscular he was. What I am trying to say is I am in decent shape but I am worried about my age. I'll be travelling with my taiwanese boyfriend who just turned 50, but he could pass for 30. That being said I do feel more interested in older escorts/massage boys, but there aren't many over 30. Appreciate any comments!

LOLOL! We met our tour group and a white couple kept looking at us. I was very self conscious about it until I realized they were lost and asked us if they were on the same bus. They were just looking at us because we were speaking english. It's been a few years, I am far less self conscious, and yes, even with my BF looking like I rented him, nobody cared. On a different day we did a boat tour and one of the hosts was a woman who was very interested in us. She finally asked us about how we knew eachother so we explained we were friends from Canada but my 'friend' is from Taiwan. In our travels we did spot a few older white guys with much younger rented boys. It was very obvious and new to me.

WOW! Now that would be fun to try!! Met him on Grindr? Paid?

Thank you for the reply! Makes total sense. Too rich for my blood to keep all day but maybe a 'short' visit is in order. I don't know how my BF and I can manage to get one to share for some soft play. For only 500 baht per day at the bar, they must really reply on tips for income. Last time my BF and I took a day tour on a bus to various attractions. It certainly looked like I had 'long time' offed a guy because my BF (asian) wore a tank top shirt and short thin light shorts that were women's shorts. He had picked them up for a friend but mixed them up with his and wore the wrong ones. And since I am white...it totally looked like I rented him.

When you 'off' a guy for 3 nights, does that mean instead of going to work at the bar, they hang out with you? Do you pay them on top of the 500 baht per day? He stays with you overnights too? "all inclusive? Right before covid my BF and I tried to 'off' a guy from Moonlight. All was good until they realized there were 2 of us trying to 'off' him. I was prepared to just wait in the lobby so my BF could enjoy but they said no, unless I off another one myself. For the price at Moonlight we couldn't afford 2 of them. We'd be a bit shy/nervous to get 2 at once anyways.

I will be so nervous...I am sure it will be awkward. A few years ago we went to ao gogo boy bar in Phukey and it was very tiny with about 4 gogo boys looking right at us. I felt very uncomfortable. Hopefully whoever I choose will be able to 'relax' me. I am seriously thinking I may not be able to get aroused when I am so uncomfortable. Stupid inhibitions!

Thank you again for the suggestions. I can see the benefit to choosing in person, to find the guy with the right connection (eye contact etc). Maybe that is what I should do instead of booking in advance.

A place like Jey's is 1250B for a aroma massage (90 mins). I assume the masseuses tip is on top of that? Is it negotiated in the room or beforehand?

Thank you for the info! I will shortlist to the ones you suggested! I was thinking 1.5 hours. I'd be happy to book the right guy in advance. I'm worried I'll be very shy and nervous in the moment and choose poorly. Maybe I'll just have a list of what I want in my pocket (in Thai) so I can just hand it to them. Ichigo, That's a good plan. I am a bit worried I'll be too nervous to get hard but I am guessing they are skilled enough to solve that problem.

In January my boyfriend and I will be travelling to Thailand on a holiday. He has given me the 'green light' to have a 'spicy' massage so I want make my 1 time count! I am verse and cannot decide what I'd want to do (T or B) but I want the option there. Ideally I am hoping for a place where I have all options available a fairly reasonable price. I know it will cost a bit for the 'spice' and I am going to factor that into my travel budget. I will be lost on the nuances of negotiating a tip to get the extra service so I have seen a youtube video about The Prince, where you go in and choose from a menu before the service. That would be nice so I don't have to negotiate in the room later. This is my one shot to enjoy a nice young muscular guy outside my relationship so I am really hoping every thing I want can be possible (oral, me to bottom and/or top, kissing, rimming....you name it). Seems like I'd have to choose a gay masseusse to get all I want but if you wank in off the street yo a place like The Prince..you just choose then and there so that might limit things. I am white and will be 53 then so I hope age won't be an issue? I'm in decent shape and fit so I hope that helps. I assume they will have condoms there? How long a session is not too rushed but not too long? Thanks for any suggestions and advice! There is a LOT to read through!