mima_bk

I think Thais have no problem with seeing older farang with a much younger Thai man. They may or may not notice, but i feel they just don't give a fuck. I am little over fifty and my - idk, situationship - is 24, looking 18. If you respect Thai culture and keep showing affection in public to a minimum no Thai will bat an eye. After all he could just be my son. Sometimes you get strange looks from tourists, but i came to the conclusion long ago to not give a single fuck what strangers say or think about me. It rather makes me smile because it feels like a confidence boost.

Ok, I returned from BKK today. I don't really know what to write, but to thank you all especially @Travelingguy, @jimmie50, @mauRICE and @khaolakguy for your input. I really didn't discuss the moneyboy situation because it was "I know that you know, and you know that I know" situation. But the whole ten days with him were so sweet. and y I don't really care if he is or not. he still seems to be very much into me. I think your opinions have changed my view on this. Thank you. I will be back to Bangkok soon to see him again. And I am at peace with this.

I am contemplating exactly these questions for three weeks now. What I know is that I don't want to let go (yet).

Thank you all so much. Maybe I am just overthinking. As @floridarob suggested I will take it one day at a time. And see how it goes.

Or just wait if he asks for money at some point? I would not mind giving some, that is not the point.

I will be soon back in BKK but I am at a loss how to proceed. Continue this boyfriend phantasy or mention that I know? And how to do that without hurting his feelings or him loosing face....

Made an alternate profile on the app which he promptly liked. Then i asked some direct questions.

idk, this guy is still texting me daily. but this is still not honest, i think. what do you guys think.

so @floridarob was right XD

I would have preferred if he had told me the first time to be honest. Because he would have been BF material.

thanks again, contacted him via "other means": - not on PrEP - condom only - no kiss/suck (what he did already XD) - short time 1500 - long time 3000 Will check him out anyway haha.

thanks for all the answers. in fact i already booked a flight in early january. but this was before i found out. so i think i will see how this plays out.

basically via his social media

So i met someone via a dating app and spent a few days with him. He ist very sweet and seems to be into me. I found out that he is working as a moneyboy, but he never asked for money... is this common? I paid for food and grabs but that was all.