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Be surprised. I have NEVER rented a car outside of the USA or Canada. I have been to 80 countries so I am not a novice. I found the information valuable. You are smarter than me so you didn't. But, I found it interesting, relevant and something that made me consider doing it the next time I visit Brazil. In other words, it made me think.

I have always felt the way my mom taught me is best 99 percent of the time and that is, if you don't have something good to say, don't say anything at all. I learned the hard ways years back. I have never understood the need for anyone on a message board to be critical of another poster, post or thread. I like Suckrates photos, for the most part, but the ones that he posts that are all the big older muscle guys, do nothing for me. So, I look and I go on to the next thing. I do not feel the need to say, "ooh, that is not sexy" or anything else. I did not think your post that I know you are referring to was horrible. But, you said details were boring. That was for you. Not for me as it was useful information to me. But, you could have said it in a much kinder way. IMHO.

When I lived in NYC, the NY Sports Club used to be filled with great Steam Room sex. The one in Times Square was always an easy BJ, HJ or fuck.

I think there are many reasons to escort and I am sure most do it for money. But, there are always those with different motives. One of the most successful boys in NYC that ever worked for me graduated from MIT with dual degrees in Physics and Humanities, went to Columbia Law School and graduated at the top of his class, worked for one of the most successful law firms in the city and worked as an escort on the side. He loved sex with everyone. True, he was a rarity. But, he made more money escorting than he did in his other job and that was a big salary.

Having just a bit of experience in the escort world in NYC, I can say that many will continue to escort when finished school. Often it is a about more money and sometimes it is about sex. I had one guy that worked at the NYC Campus Escorts and found him by hooking up with him at a bar. He later found out what I did and wanted to work. He was great. He had a full-time job in a publishing company and educated. But, he said the guys he picks up in bars were similar to clients and that he liked getting paid for doing the same thing. Also, I know many escorts who work much after school, and even grad school. One guy I spent time with in SP Brazil was educated and came from a wealthy family. I could tell many stories of the same in multiple countries.

Floridarob, you get my favorite quote of the day award! Agree 100% with every word.

By shit, I hope you mean postings. I had a bad experience in Amsterdam with real shit, so I try to avoid it as much as possible and my outlook on shit actually changed after experience. And @AdamSmith love you as well!

Sorry for your experience. I am not sure what I would have done. But, I did have a problem at the Intercontinental in Sao Paulo and I called the concierge and security to come to my room. Naturally, they dealt with the situation. For me, I always have one boy per country that is my long stay boy and he always deals with the issues. I found this easy, cheap and well-worth the trouble. I have had the same boys in multiple countries and they don't mind helping out as they are there to protect me from scammers.

Well, I have been splitting topics since 2006. I normally just message the poster and say it was off topic but I liked the idea and started a new topic with his post. That has always worked well. That said, all must remember that in a topic about my trip to Thailand, to then change to the topic of boys in Brazil and stay on the Brazil subject makes it difficult for others to follow and also frustrating to the original poster. Who is going to go to the Asia forum to find info about Brazil boys? (other than FloridaRob who likes both). Members create content. It is truly, greatly appreciated. Rarely, if ever do we put things in the Sandbox. Ever rarer to ban a user. We are pretty fucking lenient. But, that does not mean this is the wild west where anything goes. I see the value in a well run board and honestly, I do a piss poor job at moderating as I do not believe 99% of posts need moderating. However, there are always exceptions to the rule. Once in Brazil, I was in the cafe Coriginas (sp) and talking to a group about how stupid it would be for anyone to take a boy from the streets. Insanity, I called it. I stuck to my point and we had a great conversation as I only hired guys from the saunas. Then, across the street came this beautiful lad that caught my eye as he was walking across the street. I got up, walked over to say hi to him, chatted for less than 3 minutes and asked him to go to my hotel with me. I then returned to my table and my friends whom I had just argued with, looked at me and I said, "there are always exceptions to any rule." The guy, Richard, stayed with me for weeks on that trip and future trips and attended at least 2 carnivals with me and at least 100 3-ways. I had a great time with him. But, had I been so rigid that the rule was inflexible, I would not have fucked one of the sweetest asses I ever laid my hands on. Moral to the story: Sweet asses can be found in the most unusual of places. Or, boytoy is very lenient in 99% of posts but very firm in not deleting or banning members unless they are the one sweet boy that crosses the road and an exception must be made. See how I framed both about the boy?

I have taken Rio to South Africa and then SA to BKK. That was years back and I used Thai Airways for the last part of the trip. I found that a much more relaxing trip than going back to USA and then going to BKK. I hope that helps. Good luck in your planning. Just don't take Air India for any reason!

OMG. Gross! Really?

I have been using Nespresso for years and love it. I like the choice of capsules and the variety they offer. I have not used any other pod system. Are there better choices for making good coffee?

Reading multiple articles online, they all say the report just released showed the FBI did not conclude incorrectly saying there were no laws broken by Hillary. http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/nationworld/ct-clinton-email-case-20180613-story.html

Wow. A road trip via rental car in Brazil. You are an adventurous soul. I loved the photos of the city and saw instantly the German touches.

OK. Since you bring this up. Can you rate your sexual encounters in each country for paid vs. unpaid encounters? Do you find one more satisfying than the other? Does one group have more expectations?

Happily. First post in this thread says a split happened in the Robert DeNiro political thread about the Tony Awards. Then the topic changed to people viewing profiles of other people. That thread is fully intact, unedited and all post unchanged and is here: If you read the linked topics, nothing in that thread had to do with DeNiro. Even I was part of the conversation. However, it was not about DeNiro and I felt it deserved a thread of its own.

Adam, Please explain to me how a topic off thread being split and the off topic posts entirely untouched, unedited or changed and only moved to a new topic is worse than the posts being deleted or the person being banned. IMHO, we ask people to stay on topic. It is easy to do. If people have posts that take a topic off course, it makes it harder to find the content they are looking for. For example, if Tomcal posts about Mexican and Brazilian Boys differences and half way though the subject changes to Thai boys and how great they are and the rest of that thread talks about Thai boys, does it not seem reasonable to move the posts that are off topic to a separate thread and let the conversation continue?

Log out. Go to the homepage of the main site. Log back in and the click forums. However, I do see this post on Recent Posts and I see posts from other threads for you.

I don't visit over there and thus I don't know the history. But, for me, I have split threads in the past to keep things on track. Some things are OK to veer a bit off course. But, some things are not. However, it is better than closing a good thread or moving it to the Sandbox. That just tells people that when they don't like a thread they can then derail it and move it to another area. That won't happen. So, I'll try my way for a bit to see how it goes. Who knows, my tolerance level is pretty high most of the time so it may be better or worse than the other site.

From Soi Twilight, the place was dead. I heard many sexy guys at Screwboys but not on Soi Twilight. Plus, read the thread over there about Soi Twilight closing and being moved this year. Things are changing. Plus, I find easy to meet guys in Thailand at coffee shops, etc. I am not shy. But, the bars are still good for shy people. The massage places are not what they once were either. But, still, I have not found any other place that can compete with what is left here on a bad night.

I rarely travel with more than 15 suitcases checked in as baggage. Not never. Just rarely.

Dude, I am afraid of heights. You would never see me on top of anything (unless a bed in right below me and then I do get flexible).

Have you ever met a truly monogamous man? I keep looking. Where do you find them? When I was in undergraduate school there was another student who was HIV and openly gay and an ActUp activist. I am not sure which I was most afraid of as I knew nothing of HIV or gay life. We were part of the same student group but I would never sit by him or talk to him for fear of being “found out.” I still remember his name, his smile and his scent. But, I have never gotten over the shame of not acknowledging him and have had nightmares about it for 30 years. He died not knowing how much I wanted to talk to him, how many things I wanted to ask him and how much his example meant to me later in life. I was not out yet and very closeted. Religion was a huge factor for me. I prayed each night for God to take away the desires of men. The shame of not talking to this man has carried on for 30 years. @LarstrupThank you for sharing your story as with the sharing of stories, we can all learn and grow. I wish I knew as much back then as I do today.

Just an FYI: I split this topic off from the politics thread as it had nothing to do with that topic. However, I find the discussion interesting. I keep notifications on for forums. This means when someone likes a topic, responds, sends me a message, etc. I get a notification. That is one reason I am often quick to respond. But, I have a vested interest in keeping things on track. However, I do this with all other forums I post on. I get instant notification. So, my suggestion for all is to turn notifications on so you are always in the know on Boytoy!