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From Soi Twilight, the place was dead. I heard many sexy guys at Screwboys but not on Soi Twilight. Plus, read the thread over there about Soi Twilight closing and being moved this year. Things are changing. Plus, I find easy to meet guys in Thailand at coffee shops, etc. I am not shy. But, the bars are still good for shy people. The massage places are not what they once were either. But, still, I have not found any other place that can compete with what is left here on a bad night.

I rarely travel with more than 15 suitcases checked in as baggage. Not never. Just rarely.

Dude, I am afraid of heights. You would never see me on top of anything (unless a bed in right below me and then I do get flexible).

Have you ever met a truly monogamous man? I keep looking. Where do you find them? When I was in undergraduate school there was another student who was HIV and openly gay and an ActUp activist. I am not sure which I was most afraid of as I knew nothing of HIV or gay life. We were part of the same student group but I would never sit by him or talk to him for fear of being “found out.” I still remember his name, his smile and his scent. But, I have never gotten over the shame of not acknowledging him and have had nightmares about it for 30 years. He died not knowing how much I wanted to talk to him, how many things I wanted to ask him and how much his example meant to me later in life. I was not out yet and very closeted. Religion was a huge factor for me. I prayed each night for God to take away the desires of men. The shame of not talking to this man has carried on for 30 years. @LarstrupThank you for sharing your story as with the sharing of stories, we can all learn and grow. I wish I knew as much back then as I do today.

Just an FYI: I split this topic off from the politics thread as it had nothing to do with that topic. However, I find the discussion interesting. I keep notifications on for forums. This means when someone likes a topic, responds, sends me a message, etc. I get a notification. That is one reason I am often quick to respond. But, I have a vested interest in keeping things on track. However, I do this with all other forums I post on. I get instant notification. So, my suggestion for all is to turn notifications on so you are always in the know on Boytoy!

One of the great things about forums is that anyone can post. One of the hard things is that it is easy to derail a topic. Keep topics on point and follow the message center policies. If you have not viewed them recently, go to the About Us section of the main site and there is a link at the bottom. The main gist, keep things gentlemanly. https://www.boytoy.com/boytoy-forum-policies I will split topics when they start to veer off topic. I did one with the DeNiro thread and I'll continue to do this. Start a new topic if you want. But, lets keep topics on point or others get bored shitless reading things not related to what they go to the thread to view. Hugs and kisses to all!

LOL Are you infatuated with him? Why do you care where he is at? I don't get it. But, anyone who lives their life through me is leading a boring life. I rarely go out and rarely do exciting things anymore. That was different 10 years ago. But, the older I get, the more time I spent with a few very close friends and less big events, parties and clubs. Hell, I am in Bangkok and have only been to the gay bars 4 or 5 times in the last 2 years. How much more fucking boring can anyone get?

I am amazed anyone would even notice such a thing. LOL I visit profiles from time to time but funny anyone would notice something like that.

Me too. The God thing took away from the message for me.

Yes, I agree, a bit dark. The end of the season truly surprised me. But, snakes will always be snakes (Season 5?). I love Malkovich in everything. He is good at everything he does.

He is muscular lean, mid thirties, Thai with Korean wife. He speaks great English but that was only today as we didn't talk much before so his command of the language surprised me.

If you read my weight loss surgery thread, you know I am working out a bit. Recently, I met this one guy in my gym who is hot and I always smile at him. He is married and his wife is in and out with him all the time. We never talk. But, last week I was in the shower when he came into the shower as well and asked if he could rinse off. I was shocked but said OK. (only one shower in my condo gym). He started washing his body and kept bumping into me. Not a hard thing to do in a small shower. But, he then started jerking off. I was fascinated and just watched. He then thought I was a bottom and his hard dick rubbed against my ass. As an adamant top, I kind of nudged his cock toward my ass. He was more than happy to enter and ended up fucking in the shower. I was happy but sore. Three times I have seen him since and no further instance until today when he knocked at my door. I invited him in and we had some bedroom sex. He likes fucking and getting fucked. He likes oral and eating ass. But, he is not into kissing at all which is a big turn off. However, free sex is free sex. Thailand is fun and sexuality is not the same as America.

I met a few of them at Gay Pride in NYC when the show was out. I was in love with Justin. But, for the show, I loved the lesbians. Something about lesbians always does it for me.

Nice critique. I like DeNiro and glad he spoke up. You are right, it distracted from the show and the winners. But, in this fucked up world of Trump, would anything been reported anyway? I am not sure. After all, we had a Trump Kim summit that changed the world and deserves a Nobel Prize.

They just had a reunion. https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/queer-as-folk-cast-reunites_us_5b1dd215e4b0bbb7a0de93fa I enjoyed the photos and the interviews I found online. This was one of my favorite shows years ago and I had parties in NYC with gay guys who would sit in my small living room to watch each episode. It was delightful. BTW: Peter Paige is the one that did The Fosters.

I like the fact that this is a drama that is a family and the lesbian thing is secondary. This week's episode was one I had been waiting for since the first episode.

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His profile is also here: https://www.boytoy.com/#boytoy-profile/Daniel313 Very sexy man. Welcome to the site.

This show has turned out to be one of my favorites on TV. Each season gets a bit better. This season (Season 3) just ended and it was a fucking great ending. Each season has been well-written and with a great cast. The storylines are interesting and never dull. If you have missed the Showtime drama, catch up and binge watch it!

I love the new series called Vida. It is about a family in LA and the mother was a lesbian and the daughter is also a lesbian. It is quite enjoyable to watch each week. The first 2 episodes were a bit slow but the more I watch it, the more I like it. Is anyone else watching it?

I cleaned up your last post as it had tons of extra links and page links to things not Trump like the top and bottom page footers. Everything about Trump was left in the thread. Trump got to the bottom of the birther movement? Really? He didn't keep going on and on after it was proven false? You are black. Right? You are gay. Right? Show me what he has done to help you or your groups. I know you won't. But, that is OK. People have their beliefs and never change them. Like me. I cannot in my mind see how any gay person would support him. But, some do. And, I am not a democrat only guy. I would have voted for McCain if he had chosen wisely. I was never a big fan of Obama and did not want him as President. But, I also never wanted Bernie. I still don't want Bernie. Not because I think he would be a bad but because I don't think he is electable. I did support Hillary. I also supported Bill. I never supported Bush Jr. but I voted for Bush Sr. I am up and down based on the individual candidate. I was disappointed in Hillary's choice for VP. But, in the end, we all have things we like about people and things we don't like. I just find it very hard to fathom why anyone would support the buffoon in office.

Trumps beliefs 1. Obama was not American 2. His business had policies in NYC to discriminate against blacks and favor whites. 3. Calling for all Muslims to be shut off of entry into USA - Farrakhan would have loved that right? 4. All immigrants from Haiti have AIDS. You do the numbers on black and white percentages in that country. 5. Shithole countries. 6. Have we truly helped Puerto Rico? 7. White people marching with those assholes in the Carolina's were fine people. 8. Bannon, Arpaio, Sessions and Roy Moore (I'm from Alabama remember). And, yes, this SCOTUS appointment and many other judgeships. Patterns from a life of Trump.

Farrakhan also said, "The Jews don't like Farrakhan, so they call me Hitler. Well, that's a good name. Hitler was a very great man." I don't think all people that voted for Trump are racists. I come from Alabama and I know many friends were bedazzled that that devil. Bucknaway, if I remember correctly, you are black. And, I do think your support of Trump puts you in the minority in your own community. Being gay, also puts your in the minority of that community. However, if you are unable to see that there is a big part of his agenda to enhance the white man and devalue all minorities, then you have not been paying attention to his policies.

You didn't see him bow to the King in Saudi Arabia? Jeeze, you are behind aren't you? LOL If you think Trump is better for any minority than Hillary, you are watching too much Fox. This week at G7 showed the world America is a mess. And, Trump is an embarrassment. You think it is good that Trump is the topic of conversation every day? What about those poor kids in cages? What about the water in Flint? What about the mess our education system is?