Everything posted by TotallyOz
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Vanderbilt Doctor Fired
I remember this doctor and have always been impressed with his tweets. However, he was fired based on the attention he brought to his hospital. Sad. If anyone hears of a boycott Vandy, let me know! https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2018/06/08/outspoken-doctor-who-sued-trump-and-won-loses-job-vanderbilt/687128002/
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Mister Rogers
A nice read here too! https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/my-family-knew-mr-rogers-and-yes-he-was-like-that-in-real-life/2018/06/07/095503f0-6815-11e8-bf8c-f9ed2e672adf_story.html?utm_term=.3a79e20304bf
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Anyone been to Tel Aviv Pride
Anyone been to Tel Aviv Gay Pride? It looks like a blast! https://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-5281844,00.html
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The Fosters
I think you must understand the context of the original post. This young lad and another boy (both straight) had the first teenage gay kiss on TV and it was on The Fosters. It was truly a beautiful moment and if you have not seen the show and watched these 2 lesbian moms raise these foster kids, you are truly missing a great show. IMHO
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The Fosters
I do! USTVNow is my favorite. Then, Netflix and Amazon prime.
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RIP Anthony Bourdain
He died of an apparent suicide according to CNN.
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Don't Forget - It's Pride Month
Happy Pride everyone!
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Getting older (loss of sex drive) medication fault?
FloridaRob, I am with you. My drive decreased so much over the years and I think a large part due to medication I took for testosterone, blood pressure, etc. After my surgery last December for weight loss, I have now gone off all those meds and my sex drive is increasing. Still not what it was when I met you in Brazil but if I can just get about 20% back, I'd be happy!
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I’m HIV POSITIVE
First, thank you for sharing with us. That is a brave act when someone opens up something so personal. Thank you. My first boyfriend in NYC was HIV Positive. He taught me a lot about HIV as he was in multiple studies and his blood was highly sought after by researchers because of the previous studies he was in. I was very young and very inexperienced sexually and would have done anything with him. But, he wanted to make sure I stayed negative and he taught me a lot. Just a few months back I went on PrEP. I have had a lot of friends that died and a lot more that survived and thrived. The ex was diagnosed in the early 80's. He is still alive and doing great. I also hope that the next generation that did not see the devastation in our community realizes that they have options and things can be different for them. At least this is my hope.
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Emails from BoyToy
I have been told by the admins that this issue is resolved. And, if you do not wish to receive any emails from the site, log into the main site, go to My Account and Preferences and click No emails.
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The Fosters
I did miss the original Jesus Adams Foster who was played by Jake T. Austin for the first few years and then it changed. I never found out why it changed.
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A Newbie's 2nd Time in Brazil: Sao Paulo and Porto Alegre
I love Parque Ibirapuera. It is great. Do they still have gay cruising at night? I loved the vibe of the sex Brazil guys chatting and drinking and listening to music.
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The Fosters
The finale episode just showed. It was a three night conclusion to an amazing show. I can honestly say I enjoyed every episode and this will be one show that I miss. It was beautifully written, acted and talked about relevant issues in the gay community. The last few episodes even talked about PrEP. It was truly a picture into the life of a great inclusive family. http://www.justjaredjr.com/2018/06/05/the-fosters-hayden-byerly-talks-saying-goodbye-to-jude/
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Emails from BoyToy
More than likely this means logged into the front part of the website. But, I'll look into it. No, don't ignore them. Yes, we don't need to be sending this message to forum only members. Years back, we had an area for Forum Only and it required no additional detail. But, this has changed over the years and the admins need to know this. Thanks.
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Soi Twilight Visit on June 1
They stay with friends, pool money and hope one of their friends gets a good farang. I am not guessing here. It is what happens!
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Soi Twilight Visit on June 1
On Friday night dead, dead, dead. Yes, they had customers, but not much boy candy!
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OBSERVATION
Sir, I do appreciate your defending my honor. Honestly, when I read the post I didn't see it as an attack but just funny. I was not upset in the least. As you see, my tolerance level is high. Perhaps that is because I learned a long time ago that very little of something someone posts on a message board is meant personal. Most don't know me personally. Some do and the ones that have met me know I am mellow and gentle.
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A Newbie's 2nd Time in Brazil: Sao Paulo and Porto Alegre
Yep, stayed there a few hundred nights over the years. They use to give me a great 60 or 90 day stay rate. Actually, that is the hotel I met Hooboy at on my first trip to Sao Paulo and loved the hotel and stayed ever after.
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OBSERVATION
Lord knows that you are not a child. Never even crossed my mind that you didn't know I was talking about your post. I was simply asking you to take the insight of a moderator. If you had seen that post from someone else, would you have left it? Warned the poster? Banned him? It is never an easy call. At least for most. I try to give deference to those who are active on the site and that is sometimes not the right call. But, I am only human and try my best to let adults defend themselves. However, I am getting to the mindset that perhaps more control will serve the site better. This is not an attack on you at all.
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OBSERVATION
Some threads are ignored. But, while there are some posters that visit both sites, many do not. Double posting to me seems like no issue as you will reach a bigger audience. But, many people do not like to post if they don't get tons of comments or likes. That is the Social Media age. But, I also like having a record of posts and trips and dates for others to view and read. Even those that do not get reactions do get read and for me, that is enough. I have always seen this site as a way for guys to promote other guys who are good in the industry and to help them get work and to warn against those that people need to be leery about. Plus, how many times on this site have you or anyone else posted where that thread is deleted? That number is very low and I can only remember a few posts in the last few years and all were basically the same controversy.
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OBSERVATION
What would you have done for the third post in this thread? And, then it got even worse. Nothing civil at all about it and other threads. Often a very hard call to make.
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OBSERVATION
Many would say that when someone new tries to post that they get swamped with criticism and trolling behavior and thus do not participate long. Perhaps it is time for a more heavy handed moderation?
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Soi Twilight Visit on June 1
Well, are they sitting for hours for work? If so, is that not what a security guard does? If you think for one sec that a non-sex massage person makes more than 300 baht tip for a massage, I have some ocean front property in Arizona I want to sell you.
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Soi Twilight Visit on June 1
If you are talking about money boys, you are totally wrong. In the USA, a guy can easily work 6 hours per week and make a nice income doing the same business as you referred. That is not the type of job you and I may have, but I have seen many able to do it. And, lets now forget that the 6 hours is not a for sure thing. Many do not get offed for days or weeks. It is not as easy as you make it sound. Or, perhaps I misread what you said.
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Moving to Bangkok in 2019
Jealousy usually based on treating the boys different financially. If that is fair, both both can be happy with the situation.