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I did not get over to Soi 4. They had some guys there. But, I was headed to a bar around the corner from Mango Tree. It had about 14 guys there but none on stage. I always forget the name as no big sign there. I think it is called Super A. That is exactly the word I was looking for!

I went to the gay bar area tonight. Most places are still closed. The two gogo bars open in the area were Hot Male and DreamBoys. Hot Male had about 15 guys working and they had some customers. They are practicing social distancing at least by putting red x's on the seats. Boys had plastic face shields. Dreamboys has one boy on stage so I didn't try it. There were several beer bars open but they were very slow and not many customers. A walk from that area to Tawan was so quiet as no street vendors and no one begging me to come in for massage. A soft opening for sure, but look like some places are starting to try to open back up.

I am glad you are back and posting. Your voice was missed. But, to clarify, I believe what I said was I was not going to ban a poster because other posters wanted me to. And, it is ironic, that the biggest issue was with the person that this entire thread is about. That is the true troll and the person who created over 30 names over the years to reek havoc. I realize you and he were friendly, but I will never regret taking Rockhard's side against him. Running a board is not easy. But, one thing I know, is that one person that has caused more issues over the last 15 years does not get preferential treatment. And, I have lost many posters over the year because people threaten to leave if they want someone banned and I don't ban them. I just don't do it. I never have and I never will. I want a variety of voices and opinions and I feel every site needs them. But, make no mistake, I'll ban anyone I think (with probability) is the person creating so many names over the years.

I think it is definitely a two way street. The one thing I always ask for is honesty. I can forgive anything else. But, honesty is important. Also, let me just say, when any relationship starts with money, it will always be about money. I know people will say their boy is different and not with my guy. But, I stand by that 100%.

I certainty hope that is not the case. And, if so, that is nuts. We have posters that post in both places for years. You are always welcome here.

I told him what he lost out on. But, have no intent on spanking him. BTW: I didn't consider myself a victim. I knew from the moment he brought up his father's accident 2 days before rent was due where it was going. I gave him the "loan" knowingly and knowing the outcome. It saved me more money in the end as I don't normally like a regular all the time and I didn't know how to let him down easy. Worth it for me!

Yes, it was a "loan" to pay for his father's funeral. Yes, I could have let him offer to pay off in time but I'd never trust someone who went through such an elaborate scheme to get money from someone. Just like he should never trust someone who would set up a fake LINE account, message him and ask for a date saying we had met at a bar just to test if he were in the same city when he was supposed to be in Chiang Mai. So, I don't think another meeting would be good for either of us. Trust and verify. But, never give money unless you are willing to loose it. IMHO

In the end, I thought if it was true and he had no one to turn to to help, I won't be able to sleep. 5,000 baht was a small price to pay for my guilty conscience if there was a real issue. I gave him 2500x2 times per week. So, the money just didn't add up for me but it was the end of the month and rent was coming due. However, I knew when I saw him the day his dad died and he told him that his dad had a motorcycle accident. I knew at that point. But, knowing and knowing are different.

Yep, all complete bullshit. The funeral. The trip. Everything. But, not smart on his end. I was seeing him 2 times a week for 2500. He got 5k for "the funeral." I caught him in the lie and he is now blocked. Yes, I loose out on seeing him but I am OK with that and it saves me money in the long run. But, the extent he went through to show me photos of the funeral, the flight info, etc. was amazing. Very planned out. I am sure I was the first one that he ever prepared all this info for.

So, he sent me photos from his father's funeral. Nice lad. He flew to Chiang Mai (emergency) and needed money for family. He will be there for a week. But, he forgot we met on Grindr and I watched him over the last 2 days log in 6 miles from me. So, I created a new LINE account and messaged him and tried to book him for a date in Bangkok tonight (although still in Chiang Mai). Guess if he was actually in Chiang Mai or is willing to meet a new date tonight in Bangkok?

Really? When the vast majority of any grade is the term papers? At least at the good schools.

That is kindness!

That is why I think it is our responsibility to each take in and care for 10 guys each! Who is with me?

We have all (most of us anyway) been there. I just ended a 16 year relationship with a great bullshitter! He was so good that I also miss him. But, so much BS that I'll never revisit it again. I sent him 5k instead of 10k and told him it was a loan and to feel free to message me when the loan is paid back. I don't expect it. But, I'm OK if I don't get it back either. It is always worth 5k to know someone's intent. (well, someone I'm sleeping with at least)

Tass, I have had over 20 friends from into the USA in the last month. There was no quarantine anywhere. Now, if countries are smart and not political, I would not allow an American in without quarantine. No need to risk it. IMHO

LOL His Daddy got him in. And, look, I was hired by all the rich kids to write essays, papers and law review articles. I was poor and a good writer. They were not stupid but lazy and often were in because of parents. I don't think everyone that graduates from college or law school are smart. I do KNOW that degrees can be purchased. From what I have seen of him, he can't even answer questions logically. I do not think he is smart. But, I do think he is a good salesman.

Regardless of what Bolton wanted, Trump bows to Putin because he is impressed, a dummy, or Putin has something on him. I don't see other options. But, this story is big news as it confirms the fact that Trump does not care about our soldiers at all. I don't think his supports give a rat's ass about that. But, I do.

IMHO, any President who is given paper for a briefing, got it. It was in the reports and he received it. Did he have someone sit and dumb it down for him? Most likely not. That is on him and the nuts that elected him.

No, he is just not smart enough to understand US intelligence briefings.

I hope all goes well. Keep us up to date. I hope the opening up of things goes well for the area. Does Mexico still allow Americans? Twins? Love it.

IMHO, the refusal to be briefed is reason enough to get this bastard out. However, not sure how much intelligence he can get out of any report.

And, the home-run just sent a message asking for 10k baht for funeral. Can I change the title of this thread?

This is a hard time for everyone. Those that have no money or job may be able to get some food but so many other things. They can't pay for their motorbike, rent, phone, etc. It is truly destroying lives all over. I can't do much for everyone but I have upped my tipping of every delivery person, maids, guys I meet online, any one else I come in contact with. Remember that most of the boys we meet still send money home to family and now that is stopped and they were depended upon.

I have been using them weekly for a year. I have also visited the shop (not big) as mostly take away or delivery. It is clean and well-run. Their food is excellent. Every American friend I know orders from them.

May I'll just send this image next time and ask 1 or 2 or both?