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homtom, be a softie, I am looking forward to your next chapter on self flagellation and remorse.

Actually the outdoor exercise display was the highlight of the evening for me. What I do like about boyzboyzboyz is the 9pm outdoor parade of boyz but that is on hold for a period of mourning. Should mention that the Bboys did an excellent job while on stage during the nightly show.

For me, I like Cupidol and Kawai since the boys on stage move around and dance, some very actively. Large selection at Cupidol but fewer at Kawai. Toyboys is also very good but little movement on stage however there is a lot of eye contact and flirting. Guess I have seen too many shows over the years to get excited about them anymore.

Went there tonight for the first time in many years and it will be the last time. Prior to the show they stand around on the stage like mannequins in a store window although there are some coyote boys shaking their bods on some podiums. The show was, for me, disappointing and not worth the 280 Baht for a drink. Any of the other bars in Boyztown are better except for X Boys which is even worse.

1000 - 2000 for tip to the Boy. Off Fee is paid to the Bar, about 400-500.

Can't wait for the next episode of this melodrama.

Spice, more like vitriol!

Many may disagree with that part of your statement.

The Times They Are A Changin.

Singlets, thongs, speedos not acceptable attire at this time in Thailand.

Great post ryanasia, you were right on about rappa.

News of the King's passing was on the front page of the New York Times but not quite as a headline.

Thanks to all of those posters who gave a "like" to my earlier post. I thought it obvious that Michael's initial post was to show respect and offer condolences on the passing of His Majesty, nothing more and nothing less.

I am not a hypocrite, as one poster suggested, and have no problem with someone starting a thread which deals with bar closing, entertainment closings, etc. However the title of this post by Michael is The Nation Weeps Over His Majesty's Departure not about anything else.

The Nation weeps over the Departure of the King and some people on this forum weep over the closing of bars. Show some respect and post such comments elsewhere.

I don't think you need any advice; you seem to be doing rather well.

ryan, you may be reading too much into posters' coming here to be with their boyfriends. Coming here to be with a boyfriend may not be all about sex.! Yes, want to be with the bf but, at same time, enjoy the club and beer bar scene. As for temples and ruins, couldn't care less although Pattaya is somewhat in ruins!

Actually went to Jomtien the other day and had very good food at a newer Italian restaurant and then a good time at 2 Donna Bar which is now gay.

I come here to be with my bf but also to socialize with all my expats friends and frequent flyers. It would be no enjoyment for me if the gay scene were gone. I enjoy the go-go bars and host/beer bars and massage houses and their loss would be devastating. Apps do noting for me at all, much that same as ordering take out food as opposed to a restaurant setting.

My Thai bf comes from nearby Roi-Et in a small village. When he was a boy he told me that the local people who come out to see a farang. Look like monkey, all covered with hair! Someday I will go to Roi-Et and check it out.

Just click on Reply to this topic as you have just done.

Welcome homtom! Like most of us, we want love and we want to be loved which is a good reason to come to Thailand especially for an older gentleman. I recall, some years ago, finding this lad who wanted to be my boyfriend which was something I longed for. A real boyfriend, something I never had, someone who loved me even as an older man. Well, he was a lying, thieving little cock sucker (and a good cock sucker). After escaping from him I again fell into the same trap. That is why so many of us would urge you to be cautious in any relationship which may develop between you and a younger Thai guy. Unless you have disposable funds, the loss of which will not affect your financial future, then be very careful of any relationship you may enter into. It doesn't matter how "in love" you are with him or him with you, the bottom line is he will never understand or care about the sacrifices you may make to "help" him. Waiting to hear the rest of your story.

By definition bars are place to drink especially alcoholic drinks although water and juices are available. If speaking of host/beer bars and go-go bars a customer is expected to drink and pay for something not just freeload and enjoy the amenities.

Seems like Eros Bar in Sunee Plaza would be the place for you although not all fem boys; a mix of different type.

My question was directed to curb22 who was interested in fem sluts; perhaps he can clarify his desires.