March 18, 201313 yr A friend of mine who is an escort had a date turn up with a used sex toy. The escort was like "no fucking way." The dude was like "I'm paying you, deal with it." What are your thoughts?
March 18, 201313 yr Active Members I admit that I have not been into using sex toys so forgive this question. Is the suggestion above that a sex toy is to be only used once and/or dedicated to be used to one person only?
March 18, 201313 yr I'm assuming he wanted to use the toy on the escort, rather than have the escort use it on him? If it was a dildo, I suppose you could put a condom on it, but I find the idea somewhat repulsive. Does the same apply to Fleshjacks?
March 18, 201313 yr Active Members If a used dildo, isn't it sufficient to do a good cleaning with soap and water? Or is that somehow not considered appropriate, sanitary or safe? I just assumed a dildo would be used over and over on different individuals without an issue if properly cleaned. I have seen in some porn where a dildo was used with a condom on it....doesn't quite hit the mark for hotness in my opinion.
March 18, 201313 yr Active Members Agree. Well washed with soap and water or ran through dishwasher (isn't that a thing?), fucking deal with it. Possibly with a condom. Dirty in any way: NO FUCKING WAY.
March 18, 201313 yr Active Members disagree. if you care about your health, dildos should be reserved for ONE person, or else with a condom (which I agree is not as hot). Therefore one person/one toy better. True many organisms that cause STI's die quickly outside the body, but not all. Hepatitis and scabies can live for weeks on a toy. Gonorrhea and chlamydia for days. You trust someone else? Not to mention, washing with soap and water probably ok for glass and metal, but most dildos made of porous, permeable material where bacteria leave inside the pores of the soft material, making routine cleansing less than 100% effective. For the escort in question in the original post, dealing with strangers whom he knows nothing about, his response "no fucking way" is absolutely the correct response. And for hirers who want to use escorts and toys but be considerate to the escort's comfort level and reinforce safe sex pratices... spend $10 and buy a new toy for the session and open it in front of the escort. You are spending $200 or more for the session. Is it really too much to spend $10 more?
March 18, 201313 yr Active Members I'm assuming he wanted to use the toy on the escort, rather than have the escort use it on him? If it was a dildo, I suppose you could put a condom on it, but I find the idea somewhat repulsive. Does the same apply to Fleshjacks? Definitely. see my other post. the Fleshjack is lined with a porous, permeable material and people cum in it. Certain organisms that cause STI's can live for days/weeks in there and no reliable way to clean it effectively 100%. Own your own.
March 18, 201313 yr Active Members Thanks marcanthony....I learned something today As I mentioned before, I haven't used sex toys but if I do I will follow the advice and not share it. This is why I love these forums so much, even after all these years and many experiences with escorts, I can still learn something useful.
March 20, 201313 yr "Sharing not caring" I like it... (SnC) Wanna make some t-shirts out of it with me? When it comes to sex toys sharing is not caring.
March 20, 201313 yr Active Members The customer is not always right. Just because he's paying doesn't mean he should demean or put the escort at risk. I hope your escort friend got up and left. It's not a good way to start a session by saying, "I'm paying you and you better do as I say."
March 20, 201313 yr Active Members This is really weird. Polished metal and glass should give up prior sins to a very warm soapy wash. Do not use dishwasher. if doubt remains then wipe down with 90% alcohol or peroxide, rinse with water and dry. Treat typical rubber, gels and plastic toys by baking in the oven at 325 for 20 minutes then deposit in trash. Make sure to line baking tray with foil. When customer tells escort to deal with it then do -- tell customer 'no used toys' or 'no escort'. Simple as that. If that is the client's attitude then he isn't worth dealing with anyway as he has no concern about what kind of harm could befall you.
March 20, 201313 yr Active Members I would hope that the use of toys, by either an escort or a client, would have been brought up ahead of time. I personally can't imagine just springing a toy on an escort and assuming he would be fine with it (even if it was fresh and still in the original package). Not everyone will be willing to have toys used for whatever reason they may have (just as I would decline if it was suggested by an escort). If it was brought up suddenly at the meeting, a simple no should suffice but certainly a discussion of the use up front would be best, including if an escort was ok with using them and making it clear his preference of the type of toy and conditions for use. If the client was offended at a no and insisted, then he is way over the line.
March 20, 201313 yr Agree the escort was in the right here. I don't even like to reuse my own sex toys.
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