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Tomcal

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For me, a break from posting was a great idea. I don't intend to post at the level at which I was once known, but I do enjoy the interaction, especially considering how many interesting, smart, and well-traveled men post here.

Having said that, if tomcal is taking a much-needed break from here, more power to him. But I would like to express the thought that my return here found his absence disconcerting as I consider him to be one of the more valuable members of the board.

Thus, I hope he is in fact just taking a break and plans to rejoin us. He's not just a great guy to be in Brazil with, he's a great guy to be posting with.

Here's to his health, happiness, and continued travels, which I hope to hear all about!

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I, too, hope that Tom returns soon because he gave valuable information to all of us who've traveled to Brasil, and for me, salient data regarding our interests for parts of Europe and the US as well. I hope to be traveling to parts of Eastern Europe in September on a postponed trip; Tom gave me additional information for a contact in Prague, a guy who's written to me in the past, an escort I am eager to meet when I am there in September.

Tom posted some great pics of guys as well. When he decides to return here, I do hope that he'll resume doing what he's done oh, so well previously! I, for one, has missed his visuals as well as his words here!

Along with Lucky and others, I wish him well in "his health," "happiness," and his "continued travels, which I hope to hear all about"-- too! :smile:

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I too miss Tomcal's informative posts and photos. Unfortunately he let a few comments drive him away instead of concentrating on the many many positive messages and thanks that he received. Probably more thanks for his posts then anyone except OZ.

If you are going to be a poster and participant on a message board , you have to expect there may be someone who does not like what you post.

That is life and if your skin is so thin that you let a few random negative comments drive you away then you not only deprive yourself of the pleasure of being a member of the gang but you deprive the overwhelming majority of members of your knowledge.

Food for thought!!

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Munch, munch, crunch, crunch. :smile:

Best regards,

RA1

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I too miss Tomcal's informative posts and photos. Unfortunately he let a few comments drive him away instead of concentrating on the many many positive messages and thanks that he received. Probably more thanks for his posts then anyone except OZ.

If you are going to be a poster and participant on a message board , you have to expect there may be someone who does not like what you post.

That is life and if your skin is so thin that you let a few random negative comments drive you away then you not only deprive yourself of the pleasure of being a member of the gang but you deprive the overwhelming majority of members of your knowledge.

He will be back. Give him a while longer.

At least a half dozen times over the years he has had his feathers ruffled on other sites and vowed never to post again but he always came back.

He has posted some interesting experiences that no doubt helped a lot of inexperieced Brazil travelers.

When he is ready, he will return.

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I saw a picture on the internet just now that caused me to do a double-take. There was tomcal, in Rio, helping the Pope with his luggage! The article went on to say that tomcal had been hired to asssit the pope as a "guide" during his time in Rio. Well, I can only imagine IL Papa at 117!

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Il Papa is much more of the common man. He would definitely minister to those poorer boys who make their way to the more derelict Clube New Meio Mundo. Actually, almost the whole house was watching the Pope's arrival on TV as he took a zig-zag tour through Centro, entering via Ave. Presidente Vargas. On of the boys who works at both saunas told me that frequent Saturdays and Sundays receive a couple of priests. After all, between Masses they must minister to their flock and the palace of the cardinal is just around the corner at Benjamin Constant.

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For me, a break from posting was a great idea. I don't intend to post at the level at which I was once known, but I do enjoy the interaction, especially considering how many interesting, smart, and well-traveled men post here.

Having said that, if tomcal is taking a much-needed break from here, more power to him. But I would like to express the thought that my return here found his absence disconcerting as I consider him to be one of the more valuable members of the board.

Thus, I hope he is in fact just taking a break and plans to rejoin us. He's not just a great guy to be in Brazil with, he's a great guy to be posting with.

Here's to his health, happiness, and continued travels, which I hope to hear all about!

Hasn't tomcal's return been a real boost to this forum? I am so glad that he is back to posting here.

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Hasn't tomcal's return been a real boost to this forum? I am so glad that he is back to posting here.

Yes! I like reading about TC's escapades, conquests, adventures, and experiences!!!

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