Recommendations requested for online community or social platforms/apps on edging/milking/gooning/cum control

[noctiluca]

Hi.  I have been reading from this forum for a while, but have not registered until now.  I apologize if this has been asked already, or if I make any blunders or faux pas around here.  I'm still learning to navigate.

Anyway, my inquiry is whether any of you could kindly recommend where, apart from here, I may find an online community or any social platforms/apps, if you're looking for gay men or whatever spectrum you fall into, who are into edging/milking/gooning/cum control or similar interests.

For me, it's not easy finding someone (especially locals) who share the same interest on this topic, without being looked at weirdly. It's my fantasy to be the one to do the edging/milking.  This is different from going to one of those spas or massages as I want to be the edger/milker, not the other way around.

I live in Bangkok, Thailand, by the way, and I'm Thai.  Just an FYI, I'm not young, cute, or good looking, however, or not anymore.  

Edited November 30, 2024 by noctiluca
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[bkkmfj2648]

Please let us know if you find any such edging/milking/gooning/cum control groups.

I am also a BIG edger (giver and receiver) but it is extremely difficult to locate people that are into this activity.

Often I just need to train the massage guys who already have a sensual touch - then it is an easy leap to get them into edging once you show them some edging videos.

My experience to date is that most of the men that I meet are into fast orgasms - which goes against the philosophy of edging.

--> Slow and steady wins the race <--

@noctiluca - you might want to try a Twitter (X) search with these key word hashtags:

• #bkk
• #edge
• #milking
• #Cumcontrol
• #edging

Unfortunately, I was only able to find one such user in Bangkok with Twitter handle = @CCTEMBKK

For a city with more than 10 million inhabitants - it is very surprising to find only 1 single edger in all of Bangkok.

The other edgers that I found in the above search are female who are edging men - so I do not count them.

Then occasionally you will get an edger who is passing through Thailand on vacation and you may find 1 or 2 more edgers.

I am in Pattaya - and it is EXTREMELY rare if you can find a fellow edger here.  The only ones that I found were tourists passing through or soft sensual masseurs who I had to train.

Below are some hot related edging Twitter profiles.

 

 

[Moses]

Hornet may help. Many users are shy and don't fill profiles, but if you will place your interests as #tags in your profile, then they may find you.

[noctiluca]

1 hour ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

Please let us know if you find any such edging/milking/gooning/cum control groups.

I am also a BIG edger (giver and receiver) but it is extremely difficult to locate people that are into this activity.

Often I just need to train the massage guys who already have a sensual touch - then it is an easy leap to get them into edging once you show them some edging videos.

My experience to date is that most of the men that I meet are into fast orgasms - which goes against the philosophy of edging.

--> Slow and steady wins the race <--

@noctiluca - you might want to try a Twitter (X) search with these key word hashtags:

• #bkk
• #edge
• #milking
• #Cumcontrol
• #edging

Unfortunately, I was only able to find one such user in Bangkok with Twitter handle = @CCTEMBKK

For a city with more than 10 million inhabitants - it is very surprising to find only 1 single edger in all of Bangkok.

The other edgers that I found in the above search are female who are edging men - so I do not count them.

Then occasionally you will get an edger who is passing through Thailand on vacation and you may find 1 or 2 more edgers.

I am in Pattaya - and it is EXTREMELY rare if you can find a fellow edger here.  The only ones that I found were tourists passing through or soft sensual masseurs who I had to train.

Below are some hot related edging Twitter profiles.

 

 

Thank you for your valuable information.  Better than I expected!  At least, I don't feel I'm alone in this now.  LOL

I prefer being the edger because I find men in their "gooning" stage tremendously sexy.  

Yes, I'm aware of CCTEMBKK on X.  He did a phenomenal job representing Thailand, BKK specifically.  I envy what he gets to do, with plethora of men.  I wish I had some kind of "mentorship" to improve my skills.  

I always feel weird to have to explain this to local men here, as if they don't grasp the concept.  I even had many of those receiving "monetary compensation" refused to participate.  I even showed one of them the video clip to explain, which is benign in terms of sexual adventures, but he looked as if he got offended.  In hind sight, maybe they just didn't want to let someone like me do it, or they want more money especially the MB.

And yes, I find foreigners, especially westerners, are much more open to it, but I rarely get this chance due to various reasons.  I'd love to open my horizon, though.  That's why I am trying to reach out.  

 

[noctiluca]

1 hour ago, Moses said:

Hornet may help. Many users are shy and don't fill profiles, but if you will place your interests as #tags in your profile, then they may find you.

Thank you.  I have heard of Hornet but have never registered.  I will check it out.

[ematt]

I generally go to a massage shop that has straight muscular guys, choose one I like, and then in the room I announce that I will be massaging them. They are often taken aback at first, but with gentle encouragement, I have never had anyone refuse. I massage them for 5 minutes or so, accidentally brushing up against their cock until they are hard. At that point I edge them very slowly until they are moaning and squirming, stop, then start again. I repeat as necessary until they eventually explode. 

[bkkmfj2648]

1 minute ago, ematt said:

I massage them for 5 minutes or so, accidentally brushing up against their cock until they are hard. At that point I edge them very slowly until they are moaning and squirming, stop, then start again. I repeat as necessary until they eventually explode. 

wow - what a GREAT idea.  I never tried this.  I will definitely give this a try.... 

Thanks for this tip.

[Tomm42]

Chanced upon this topic and I am now, as of a couple of years ago, a frequent Bangkok visitor and had 4 great trips over the past 12 months . A total fan of massages, and I’d average 3 hours a day when I’m in BKK - with a 2 hour Thai massage followed by a 2 hour oil massage at Prime every day over a consecutive phase being my record.
 

 It’s true that edging isn’t an activity that is anywhere near mainstream in Bangkok, although an obliging masseur will on occasion indulge and accommodate.  I’m always hoping a great masseur who knows his strokes also naturally gets into and likes to edge his customers in a pleasure torture way, but this is a rare breed indeed.  This chain is over a year old but If like @bkkmfj2648 mentions, there is any other new community or platform that is interested in this, I’d be hugely grateful to know too. ——  alongside any masseurs or spas/massage shops that anyone has had a pleasurable edging  session at.   - I’m essentially a control freak at work, who likes to be made to lose control slowly in an edging scene whilst trying my darn hardest to fight it.  Haha….   I’ve read about Spa Bangkok, although as some have observed, tantric massage for non members there are pretty pricey. ..

Hugely tempted though, and am looking very much forward to my trip to Bangkok next month… 🤣. Merry Christmas!

[noctiluca]

On 12/24/2025 at 2:02 PM, Tomm42 said:

Chanced upon this topic and I am now, as of a couple of years ago, a frequent Bangkok visitor and had 4 great trips over the past 12 months . A total fan of massages, and I’d average 3 hours a day when I’m in BKK - with a 2 hour Thai massage followed by a 2 hour oil massage at Prime every day over a consecutive phase being my record.
 

 It’s true that edging isn’t an activity that is anywhere near mainstream in Bangkok, although an obliging masseur will on occasion indulge and accommodate.  I’m always hoping a great masseur who knows his strokes also naturally gets into and likes to edge his customers in a pleasure torture way, but this is a rare breed indeed.  This chain is over a year old but If like @bkkmfj2648 mentions, there is any other new community or platform that is interested in this, I’d be hugely grateful to know too. ——  alongside any masseurs or spas/massage shops that anyone has had a pleasurable edging  session at.   - I’m essentially a control freak at work, who likes to be made to lose control slowly in an edging scene whilst trying my darn hardest to fight it.  Haha….   I’ve read about Spa Bangkok, although as some have observed, tantric massage for non members there are pretty pricey. ..

Hugely tempted though, and am looking very much forward to my trip to Bangkok next month… 🤣. Merry Christmas!

I have not visited this topic for a while, but came back and see this post again by chance.  Surprised someone still replies!  😆 

Still no luck for me finding a community or platform out there, but perhaps I didn't try enough and got a bit discouraged.  

However, I got by by visiting a few massage places around BKK, or using their 'outcall' service, as ematt has mentioned, to get around this.  Not ideal but I have some luck occasionally.

I know of one who seems to be successful edging and 'commercializing' it on X app, specifically in BKK or Thailand.  His account is cctempBKK or something like that.  I guess you can search for him in the X or Twitter.  So envy of what he does!  I wish he would offer some kind of workshop for us wannabe.  Imagine to learn the sweet skills from an expert!  😂 

If anyone wants to try (being edged), let me know.  You may drop a note here and I'll check back here time to time.  By the way, I don't do this for money or social engagement.  It's just my fantasy or I guess you can call it fetish, giving pleasure to another man by edging him.  😁 

[jimmie50]

Pardon my ignorance, but what is 'gooning'?  Something I have never heard of before.