I'm in Pattaya and stopped by a small bar in between the sois where some bar guys stop and drink at times.

I asked Mae if she's seen Arm, a guy from Dream Boys @vinapu you know him, and she had a shocked look on her face and told me he died ln October, not sure if she meant last month or last year...I was surprised too... apparently he overdosed on drugs.....so sad.

Made me think about how many guys over the years that I've known that have died from accidents, killed, Aids, natural causes, etc...

Some I'm really surprised about, such as Arm and others, not so much....

Any really stand out to you?

What a pleasant topic to read , just when I was on a high announcing what a wonderful year 2026 was ?!

Still it backs up my theory that time is precious ⌛

I had a work colleague who died earlier this year 64yo heart attack on the job , not that it affected me as we didn't speak , but still it shows we can go anytime

10 hours ago, floridarob said:

I asked Mae if she's seen Arm, a guy from Dream Boys @vinapu you know him, and she had a shocked look on her face and told me he died ln October, not sure if she meant last month or last year...I was surprised too... apparently he overdosed on drugs.....so sad.

Oh my God, if that is THAT Arm, #thirty something from Dreamboys, my heart is bleeding. We met only twice , two nights in row and both were among my best 10 encounters ever.

Charming , engaging , patient and very well built , all was there. He did not made an impression he will be druggie, rather he knew quite well what he wants in life and working in bar was just short stop to make some cash. On next visit he disappeared from the scene and I was told he went to Phuket.

Both times before going home we stopped at his friend's bar in that short soi where Vassa bar used to be so your post makes painful sense. Hope it's just another Arm but don't believe in what I'm saying.

If true he will be only guy I'm met closely I'm award about death of but over years I heard about few cases of bar boys who were no longer there and when I asked about them , I was told that are gone for good.