I am planning my first trip to Brazil soon. I searched this forum and I found one reference to condoms and oral, where the garoto insisted on a condom before he would suck. This is my nightmare! It has happened to me twice before, in Zurich and in Puerto Vallarta. Zurich was my first experience with this type of sauna, where I walked in and I was immediately greeted by a multitude of amazingly hot guys, almost all of whom turned out to be visiting from Brazil. Once I got to the cabin, I was very disappointed that the guy insisted on rolling on a condom before he would consider getting down to (oral) business. He also insisted (at first) that I would need to put a condom on him before I could suck (although he relented on this point).
I am on PrEP, which has revolutionized my life. I have pretty much stuck to oral for the last 20 years because I simply don't enjoy condoms. My question is (and, please, I do understand there's still some risk for other diseases, so I'm not going into this naively), what are the norms in Brazil? I assume that insisting on a condom for oral must be a little unusual, or else it wouldn't have been pointed out in that other thread. But what about anal? I realize I might be inviting criticism or commentary with this post, and I'm truly not interested in either. I want to ask: are most garotos comfortable with oral, either way, without a condom? And what about anal? Will some guys top without a condom? And lastly, I assume this is more rare, but are some guys OK getting topped without a condom, or do they all insist on a condom? I don't blame them AT ALL for insisting...I'm just very curious about the regular practices, and maybe the irregular practices as well.
And I guess a follow-up question is: do you negotiate all of this before hand? Asking, do you suck without a condom, get sucked, etc? It's a given that any such negotiations would take place privately, out of earshot of any friends who might be nearby.