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Merida vs CDMX

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First time poster...

Looking to take a long weekend next week and as I live in the Southern US, Mexico is the easiest option with Level 3 or below CDC rating. Let me start by saying I love CDMX, the food, nightlife, museums, vibe — all tops.  But I’m seeing a lot of chatter on here about Merida and it looks tempting.  

Close proximity to Cenotes offer cool day trip options, the housing options on Airbnb look great — the homes in el centro with pools in courtyards are affordable — plus loungey, casual sex (group or solo) outside, in the sun, or at night by a pool is the best.

im just wondering about the guys. Thanks to posts on here I got some tips and looked — and there are only 2 or 3 on milleroticos that are interesting to me (much smaller pool than CDMX or other Central and SA cities).  Same with Grindr. Although I only looked once and I did the explore feature which is never as good as being there.

if folks have guys that I should contact feel free to DM me.  If it matters, I’m fit, 41 and my sex tastes are pretty expected. Muscles, nice smile, good ass. Vergas grande aren’t that important to me, but I don’t turn them away... I’m versatile. I prefer gay guys to bi.

also, if you have other tips in addition to guys, places to stay, day trips, restaurants, markets, etc. please share here or DM me.

I promise I’ll report back post-trip.  Thanks!

For me the most action can be found on Grindr! it seems most guys are on it and the price varies from free to $500. Mx. Pesos(roughly $25.US). the biggest problem is getting them to leave, as many will want to drink beer and spend the night! On the whole really nice guys. Escorts that come through from Cancun ask $1,000. to $1200. pesos($50.US)

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6 hours ago, Tomcal said:

the biggest problem is getting them to leave, as many will want to drink beer and spend the night!

The old saying comes to mind: I don’t pay for sex, I pay them to leave :rolleyes:

9 hours ago, Tomcal said:

For me the most action can be found on Grindr! it seems most guys are on it and the price varies from free to $500. Mx. Pesos(roughly $25.US). the biggest problem is getting them to leave, as many will want to drink beer and spend the night! On the whole really nice guys. Escorts that come through from Cancun ask $1,000. to $1200. pesos($50.US)

I almost exclusively tried to get boys overnight when im in bangkok/pattaya lol i guess id do very well in mexico then hahaha. 

12 hours ago, TomNg said:

Is Merida currently in restricted mode ?  I am also planning a trip for September and debating between Merida vs Mexico city.

At the moment there is a curfew from 11:30pm-5am

Most places are closing by 10pm so their employees can make it home in time.

Papi's, the stripper bar I like is closed.....should be changing hopefully, they've been vaccinating lots of people , currently doing 30+ and registering 18+

hi Floridarob,

Do you know if cenotes are open?  In your opinion, will bars be allowed to open in September?  I just don't want to show up there and everything is still closed :-)

17 hours ago, TomNg said:

hi Floridarob,

Do you know if cenotes are open?  In your opinion, will bars be allowed to open in September?  I just don't want to show up there and everything is still closed :-)

Cenotes are open as far as I know.....Sept?  I thought Thailand would be opened by last December, so I'm no good at judging, lol

 

On ‎7‎/‎16‎/‎2021 at 3:59 AM, Tomcal said:

 the biggest problem is getting them to leave, as many will want to drink beer and spend the night! 

I suppose they are looking for turning a short-time hook-up into an over-night stay (with a much higher remuneration). 

10 hours ago, speedoo1 said:

 

I suppose they are looking for turning a short-time hook-up into an over-night stay (with a much higher remuneration). 

nah, many are free...live at home with family (or wife/gf) and like to get away, especially if it's a nice house, bed, a/c...free liquor/food, better than where they sleep. Only the traveling escorts that charge 50-75usd+ look for more money for more time spent with you. Local escorts don't put a time limit, if they're having fun.

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Many times these guys live in pretty poor conditions, so the opportunity to spend a night in a nice place is to be welcomed.I can't blame them for trying. As long as we have had a good time and they do not want to be paid for the overnight, why not?

In Thailand I once offed a guy who was crushed when I sent him home after a short session. He had expected to spend the night despite a short time charge.I learned that he slept on the floor of the bar where I offed him, and had to face his colleagues who thought he had scored a better place to sleep. I felt awful when I learned this.

On 7/17/2021 at 10:38 AM, TomNg said:

hi Floridarob,

Do you know if cenotes are open?  In your opinion, will bars be allowed to open in September?  I just don't want to show up there and everything is still closed :-)

Yeah, that the BIG question, isn't it. I'm arriving in CDMX in 19 days. When I booked, everything was pretty much OK. Now, numbers are on the rise. How will it be in 3 weeks??? No idea! If you look at Colombia, it seems to be going in the right directing.

For me, I can just go and see where it ends. I wouldn't mind buying an extra ticket to Medellin, but my travel companion has set dates. I could spend an extra two weeks in CDMX or anywhere else for that matter. My friend is not so lucky. He has responsibilities and testing positive before the flight home would be a drama for him.

If I could turn back time, I rather would have booked last-minute and accepted a higher airfare.

Hindsight!

If not Mexico or Colombia, I could have gone to Romania, Ukraine, Moldavia, Turkey...etc...

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On 7/14/2021 at 4:18 AM, Collins said:

First time poster...

Looking to take a long weekend next week and as I live in the Southern US, Mexico is the easiest option with Level 3 or below CDC rating. Let me start by saying I love CDMX, the food, nightlife, museums, vibe — all tops.  But I’m seeing a lot of chatter on here about Merida and it looks tempting.  

Close proximity to Cenotes offer cool day trip options, the housing options on Airbnb look great — the homes in el centro with pools in courtyards are affordable — plus loungey, casual sex (group or solo) outside, in the sun, or at night by a pool is the best.

im just wondering about the guys. Thanks to posts on here I got some tips and looked — and there are only 2 or 3 on milleroticos that are interesting to me (much smaller pool than CDMX or other Central and SA cities).  Same with Grindr. Although I only looked once and I did the explore feature which is never as good as being there.

if folks have guys that I should contact feel free to DM me.  If it matters, I’m fit, 41 and my sex tastes are pretty expected. Muscles, nice smile, good ass. Vergas grande aren’t that important to me, but I don’t turn them away... I’m versatile. I prefer gay guys to bi.

also, if you have other tips in addition to guys, places to stay, day trips, restaurants, markets, etc. please share here or DM me.

I promise I’ll report back post-trip.  Thanks!

Hi Collins,

did you end up making the trip?  Care to share some tips?  I am planning a trip for October 😊

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