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this would be a stretch , while crime level is low , road safety record is one of the worst in the world so I'd say , 'safe', may be even 'very safe' but certainly not ' one of the safest'

sure, as former New Yorker you know better LOL

10 countries - interesting piece to watch but seems to be biased for Anglo-Saxon world, with America , England ,Scotland, Ireland and Australia on the list I'm surprised Isle of Man, Jersey and St Helena didn't make it

isn't it thing they call "brown shower" ?

you have a point , thanks for a good laugh. ' Role model ' is a bit of stretch but if one looks at the issue from the angle above , at least there's something to envy us farangs with younger boy in tow

Don't worry too much about our reviews, just go there and see for yourself. At end of day if boils down to a boy not a place, if there's mutual interest , eye contact and smile chances are you will walk out happy even if other visitors were not. All three places mentioned are very popular and it must be reason for that. If you shy type start with Prince where boys are behind the glass so less intimidating for an uninitiated. If you ask me, start with Arena for two reasons: I never had bad experience there and they are cheaper than Prince in case something will not work out. If you chicken out , you can always have a meal in restaurants downstairs so your foray won't be wasted. And according to my trusted source lost of boys from Hero landed at Arena including mamasan DO NOT FORGET TO REPORT PLEASE

another reminder that experiences of short time visitors and long time residents are very different and it mostly boils down to time. It's why I read statements like ' I did not walk through soi Twilight for ages" with eyes wide open since for me it would be blasphemy, LOL but if somebody is there all the time it's understandable

that case answers OP question quite eloquently

certainly advice of not waiting for a bus at night after operating hours is very handy advice , ghosts or not

that one you can find in Mongolia as well

1. you are correct but one need to take into consideration other factors than just disciplining unruly boys i.e. possible noisy or even violent scene in the room or if boy is from the place one visits often , we don't have control over what scenario of events he presented to his bar friends, not necessary reflecting truth. When I threw not-performing boy from my room at On Yim , from facial expression I could see that night time receptionist despises me more that boy did. And my next night off was also from Dreamboys and he told me what he heard from his friend / that I wanted to beat him / 2. forum like this comes handy but on another hand posters are presenting their side of events which may not be accurate either, nobody is going to say loudly that boy refused to get into interaction just because we refused to shower and brush teeth 3. that is a brilliant idea, gives you best of both worlds - avoiding trouble and expenses of bar offs and at the same time having a chance to see an offer before commitment

I find it to be a case very often with Thai boys. Oftentimes boys on websites of their places are looking much less attractive than in reality. One more point to go and check by ourselves.

deleted / I wanted to ask where you are but read another post and know now /

not a great idea as to how to spend vacations

cautious yes, suspicious , no. Peoples preferences are different and sometimes they want to try new things so why not to discover some fossil , at least it's legal. Being that guy from OP I'd be offended too, I don't use apps but can imagine that many users are just looking for a casual fun , not money. This is what happened to one of my friends who hooked up with somebody of interest , had a great time and after guy left he discover to his amusement / he is pretty well of and meeting was in his home / that he left him money tucked under the towel. At this stage of life I deal exclusively with MB but from time to time is clearly visible that they like more about me than just tip they know they will receive or already have / if I offed boy few times before I like to give him money up front just to see if he will be trying some antics but so far experiment is 100 % successful /. So you may think you old and ugly or whatever but your boy or man may actually crave unrushed session with somebody whose skin may need ironing but smile is sincere.

this would be my approach as well - at least to pay him something, most likely at least half of what his normal tip would be. the same when boy reneges on a sealed deal ie. agrees to long time and all the sudden after hour of two recalls his motorsai wrongly parked and wants to leave. When I renege on a deal for whatever reason then it would be full tip / case of Toy Boy guy we promised to off in Jun and then my QBF saw better potential, first boy got his promised tip anyway , early Christmas for him I guess /.

Very interesting points from both of you above. As for lie detector I can only say until one is actually hooked to one it may be very risky to guess what answer will be to ANY question. There are loud homophobes who not only had gay intimacy experience but actually liked it and there are gays who are firmly against gay marriage. They may be priests who don't believe in God but also proclaimed atheists who do. There's a lot of hypocrisy and I would not single out leftists for it but certainly abdismaili has a point. Lots of rightists , family values defenders have mistresses of both genders aside. And preachers of transparency and honesty with palms waiting to be greased at every turn.

on Uninhabited Island perhaps

are you saying that person capable of walking to the immigration should request this service just to bypass immigration lines? I have my doubts to put it mildly

it's also in the self interest , what if he retaliates with ' I never saw men with such a small cock in my life ' ? and will translate it to Thai just to make sure all.know

I'm superstitious free but had few situations in life which can't be easily explained so I'm not dismissing them , still I have no problem of getting of bed with left leg first on Friday the 13th

One can quite often see familiar faces of bar and massage boys there but try to be discreet as this is not a pick up area so don't embarrass your boy by saying loudly 'I see you in the bar in the evening". And don't be surprised if boy you had massage with just last night pretends not to see you. In short behave like in any public space , after all if you meet you last night's boy on BTS you won't be saying loudly ' my ass is still sore after you pumped me last night'. Paulfort approach is sensible one, sit somewhere close and hope for the best

English is not my first , in fact not even second language so I need to ask : can one be both promiscuous and monogamous ? serious question, not trying to stir arguments here I don't think it will do any harm and may help a bit against milder forms of contamination. As for brushing , I'd say avoid few hours before sucking since brush may cause microcuts and gum bleeding.

with their hand only perhaps either or but not both, you have sex with somebody chances are you have a sex will all others he has sex with before.

accepting yes , but not necessary paying for it, no reason to call it judgmental. I have story similar to firecat's and yours from Nov 2013 with Dreamboys boy. In bar he looked manly but when I offed him and he dressed he turned out to be fem in the extreme. Before we landed in the room we visited a restaurant and a bar where he gave me enough signals to dismiss him and send back but I did not to my regret. In the room new round of antics followed and after 40 minutes of not even being able to touch him finally I kicked him out with 1000 consolation prize, worst spent money in Thailand ever for me. As for a subject I, like few other prefer an interaction in the bar and to see what I'm taking home. Simply I like whole decorum of sitting in the bar , watching a show and parade of boys , fending off mamasans, picking up massage boy out of line behind the glass etc. Disappointments still possible as example above shows but minimized with an entertainment value thrown in. But of course it comes with higher costs and sometimes a lot of time wasted but those a prices I'm prepared to pay and gladly do.