Jasper

If you promised a Thai bar boy that when you visit Bangkok next time, you will take him to Bali/HK/Tokyo etc or invite him back to US/UK/Germany and changed your mind after the infatuation with the boy faded, please pick up the phone and tell him so.
 
Please don't just ignore his repeated Line messages thinking " Oh he's just a bar boy. He is used to disappointments."
 
Because I know something inside of the boy dies a little.
 
Yes, I am a sentimental fool.

Most of the guys providing services experience very complicated, stressful, and difficult lives—defined by grinding poverty and never ending financial obligations to the bottomless pit of very dysfunctional and often broken families.
They generally lack the critical thinking skills that most Westerners experience as second nature. Very few of them actually like working as service providers despite the smiles, genuine affection, and good nature they so readily share.
They will also not hesitate to completely reject you & your money, no matter the amount, if they don’t like you for whatever reason (e.g. fear of losing face, or loss of face, is by far the biggest driver). The interactions with the vast majority of their clients are opportunistic (and in real time) and a fleetingly brief transactional part of their lives.
In my experience, this is generally an accurate profile of who you typically meet. They are young men without much direction, ability to plan, very poor father role models, and not much hope for the future. Of course, there are exceptions to this but they’re few & far between.

After visiting Dreamboy briefly to watch an exJupiter boy and ever energetic dancing bunny Johnny, I went to check Lucky boys where I heard so many good reviews recently.
Despite heavy rain around 9 pm, the place was 80% full on rainy Monday night.
There were 11 participants on big cock show and surprisingly they took boxer shorts off at the end of the show completely naked except shoes. 
 
Their fuck show had a sort of twist at the end.
The third guy suddenly appears and jerked off to the chest of bottom guy while the guy was getting fucked by the top. lol
In my opinion, between Moonlight, Jupiter and Lucky boys, off percentage of this bar is highest.
Customer comes here for the purpose of offing boys and not just looking at shows.
Lucky boys drink still 350 B
Boys are prohibited to quote more than an official tip of ST 2000/ LT 3000 therefore some guys are complaining generous tippers are very rare.

Terry, you took your decision to go bareback considering all the risks and options reading all the information available to you or consulting a doctor armed with Prep and other vaccinations and precautions, right?
 
What about the boys???
 
Have you ever considered that you could put your uninformed sexual partner in risk? Or you thought it’s ok because you paid them generously.
 
They’re probably young enough to be your grandson, uneducated, desperate for the rent money only to be lured into something they wouldn’t normally do.
 
Your action clearly shows your lack of respect towards boys and inability to feel any responsibility whatsoever.
 
I just hope you stick to Pattaya and stay away from Bangkok. lol
 
Vessey I am too lazy to search for the source but if I remember correctly female sex workers HIV infection rate is something like 5% in Thailand whereas male sex workers are over 30%.

Terry, you took your decision to go bareback considering all the risks and options reading all the information available to you or consulting a doctor armed with Prep and other vaccinations and precautions, right?
 
What about the boys???
 
Have you ever considered that you could put your uninformed sexual partner in risk? Or you thought it’s ok because you paid them generously.
 
They’re probably young enough to be your grandson, uneducated, desperate for the rent money only to be lured into something they wouldn’t normally do.
 
Your action clearly shows your lack of respect towards boys and inability to feel any responsibility whatsoever.
 
I just hope you stick to Pattaya and stay away from Bangkok. lol
 
Vessey I am too lazy to search for the source but if I remember correctly female sex workers HIV infection rate is something like 5% in Thailand whereas male sex workers are over 30%.

Prime minister was reading our  boards full of praise of how well Thailand was handling pandemic ( at one point rightly so  but it looks it was more luck that shrewd policy) and thought country is relatively safe just by closing Swampy and chasing foreign  arrivals away ?

I’ve come across this ad while I was looking for body trimmers.
Modelled by apparently a famous gay events gogo dancer.
 
 
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kqWtAxw6jSI

Jojo #31
 

All the shop’s signboards are removed so it looks permanent unfortunately.

So, a bit of an update. Jupiter Boy left, Pattaya Boy came, I missed Jupiter Boy and he missed me. He returned less than 10 days later and has been with me ever since. He is a lovely lad who I enjoy spending time with. His English has shown remarkable improvement. He has also made himself at home faster than any of my ex's. He came into the room yesterday with a sticker for his motorcycle to park in the condo area. He has been parking there for months but wanted it official. The front desk did not even ask me to sign for it (odd). But, it was OK with me. Now, they call him for anything I need to do or packages I need to pick up. I wonder if they think he is my boss just because I do whatever he says?

We all love Bernie. But, we are honored to have him visit this great country and support our gay area!

I went there last night (26 December). Should have been the height of the high season in normal times.
I was the only customer and the “show” consisted of one bored boy at a time on the stage.
I drank up and left.

DJ station is open.

If I remember correctly, the shop has moved to Patpong soi2 due to the refurbishment of Thaniya Plaza shopping mall.
According to their website, hair cut is still 400 baht


 
 

First Bangkok Michelin Guide announced today.
 
⭐️⭐️ Three Restaurants including famous Gaggan
⭐️ 14 restaurants including a ‘street shop’ Jay Fai
 
Personally I am happy to see Jok Prince mentioned as Inspectors’ favourites for good value.
 
https://guide.michelin.com/th/en/bangkok/restaurants/page/1?max=30&sort=relevance&order=desc

I have lived in Pattaya for nine years now, and recently spent five nights in Bangkok so will add a little to this report. The new "Pride" bar in Soi 4 was really doing well, busy every night, with live music which was not deafening. The small "Connections" bar/karaoke place opposite was also doing well. I still feel loyal to Telephone Bar which I remember from my earliest visits to Thailand 22 years ago, when they still had those ancient telephones on each table and you could call over to another table if you felt like chatting to someone. 
I visited Patpong too, and sat at the outside bar opposite Dream Boys, just watching the world go by, and of course watching the young gentlemen arriving to work in the bars. Went into Dream Boys for the show, with about ten other customers. A good show culminating in the big cock show, with about nine taking part and looking very proud of their significant appendages. It must be hard work to keep that up with so few customers.
The next night into Jupiter 2018 on Soi 4, where the show was also great, even a little more professional in their choreography, though no big cock show, but all the young men look like models, so handsome and muscular. Customers about fourteen or so. A great show, and where I sat I had a good view of the corner where the chaps do their exercise, pulling weights and so forth. That helps too! 
My last night I spent in the front of Telephone Bar sipping a bottle of cheap champagne, relaxing and watching people come and go, still a great atmosphere, but I do look forward (as I am sure the business owners do!) to the return of the big crowds. I might even treat myself to a better bottle of the bubbly to celebrate that! Hopefully by the middle of next year when the vaccine has been distributed across Thailand. For now I remain grateful for how well Thailand has dealt with the pandemic.

This is nothing new, foreigners are ID checked at most major nightspots and ordered to buy bottles at the door. They also have an uncanny ability to distinguish other Asians from Thais, and spot go go boys entering with customers. The boys are welcomed like old friends, their customers are shown the priciest drinks. Fortunately DJ Station is exempt from this practice ! 
Babe from Moonlight is a fan of Barbarbar because it is sufficiently hi-so! 

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