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emiel1981

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    emiel1981 got a reaction from Zaffran in Weekend trip rainy season. What to expect?   
    It’s really nice to read something about the massage spots we haven’t heard much about on this forum yet. Thanks!
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    emiel1981 got a reaction from Daddy415 in Are they really only tops?   
    I completely agree with that. I wouldn't want a guy who is actually a top but agrees to bottom just so he can get some action. When I fuck a guy, I want him to enjoy it—or at least give me the impression that he is—rather than struggling through it with a grimace.
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    emiel1981 got a reaction from vinapu in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    It’s great to read that your introduction to Pattaya was so positive. You can certainly count on @bkkmfj2648 to show you around, he’s great company! If I’ve got it right, you only spent a short time in Pattaya City and didn't visit the raunchiest bar/show there? I’ve had some really fun nights there myself with @bkkmfj2648 , where we put hands on and tongues in multiple guys... oops. ;) lol In short: there is still something to discover during the next visit.
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    emiel1981 got a reaction from aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    ;)
    Boyztown is in Pattaya City, while Supertown is a name used for the Jomtien Complex...
  5. Haha
    Shall we start a Gayguides forum GoFundMe for you?

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    emiel1981 got a reaction from a-447 in Are they really only tops?   
    I completely agree with that. I wouldn't want a guy who is actually a top but agrees to bottom just so he can get some action. When I fuck a guy, I want him to enjoy it—or at least give me the impression that he is—rather than struggling through it with a grimace.
  7. Thanks
    A member from the We Love Jomtien Facebook group posted an update today regarding the Jomtien Beach sand replenishment project.
    It definitely has reached the police box where Dongtan beach begins.
    https://www.facebook.com/share/v/19SibobSym/

    There are many discussions going on locally as to whether they will continue northbound - into the gay beach area. Many people are saying no and a few people say yes that they will continue. I am in the YES camp - for what I show below:
    With us definitely in the monsoon rainy season - there has recently been some intense rain storms where noticeable beach erosion has already taken place in the Dongtan beach area:

    In the above photo, you can see that the storm waves have already started to destroy the foundation of the Dongtan Beach road. This is directly in front of The Heritage Beach Resort - which is just after the gay volleyball courts.
    In the below photo - which is at the edge of the Dongtan beach pavillion where the daily aerobic classes take place - you can see that the sea is already washing away part of the foundation of the Dongtan beach sidewalk. They keep filling it in with sand - but as you can see in the upper right corner - the sand already has a steep downward slope from the erosion.

    I was chatting with a forum member today and he was asking if the rain is intense in these days. I will let this sexy guy Misha be your testimony (see his recent Instagram post below) - as he can be found frequently working out at the outdoor Bamboo Gym - which is directly adjacent to the gay volleyball area - of what a recent rain storm was like here in Jomtien:
    https://www.instagram.com/misha221995/reel/DdHOXgCpCeS/

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    emiel1981 reacted to bkkmfj2648 in Any new m2m massage places in Pattaya.   
    When you say Pattaya - does that also include Jomtien?
    if yes, there are many m2m massage shops in the Jomtien Complex, aka Supertown that are physically within the complex and also out on the exterior road (Thappraya) that circumvents the complex on the outer perimeter.
    Sudjai is the newest addition to the complex:
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61591910247066
    Regarding the areas near Tukcom and Boyztown I am not aware of any new m2m shops.
    Supertown MAP
    Those entities displayed in green on the above map are the massage shops.
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    emiel1981 reacted to bkkmfj2648 in The opening of Guidos   
    One of my "seasonal" farang friends is back in Jomtien from Europe so I used that opportunity for us to go and eat at Guido's new Pratamnak branch restaurant last night.
    Guido has also dedicated a NEW facebook page for his Pattaya operations in Pratamnak at:
    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61594474049812
    The restaurant is beautiful, especially the outside area which includes a waterfall, mini decorative pool, tropical landscaping and wonderful lighting. It was lightly raining and we still preferred to sit outside as it more magical outside than the indoor airconditioned area.


    The menu seems to be the same as the Bangkok Silom soi 4 branch. The food was delicious as is always the case at G's.


    As the portions are quite large there was no room for dessert.
    Unfortunately, Guido was not there last night as he was still in Bangkok.
    After our big meal we should have made the 20 minute walk along Dongtan beach back to Supertown in the Jomtien Complex (as the rain had already stopped) but we were bad boys, as we were too eager to see what kind of trouble we could get into at one of the pillow bars, as they have added some new guys to the crew....👹🍆💦😜
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    emiel1981 reacted to vinapu in The opening of Guidos   
    dream on
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    emiel1981 reacted to floridarob in The opening of Guidos   
    @vinapu as people wiser than me, which, as you might say, includes almost everybody, have been known to say, we tease the ones we like. 😇
    No attempt to put @Olddaddy down at all. Quite the opposite. His  claims of VIP status have been providing me/us with some entertainment for some time now....
    Besides, if I didn't like him, I certainly wouldn't have worked so hard on the penguin. 🐧😂
    And I think your mother used to say, “in nature nothing gets lost, only finds new owner.”
    Apparently that applies to offense too. @Olddaddy didn't seem to take any, but fortunately it still managed to find a new owner. 😇

    Some of that old-world wisdom and dry sarcasm of yours has rubbed off on me. One should always learn from the masters 🧐
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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    It was a fun night for sure. I am going to check out the raunchy though at some point when I go back in a couple weeks. 😜 My Airbnb I like in Bangkok is occupied the first few nights I get back so going to see the spots I missed in the whirlwind visit. But there will definitely be another night in Jomtien (I forget which one is Boyz Town and which one is Super Town lol). He was a great tour guide. We got a lot in in a short time that day.
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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    I hear ya but I think we're saying the same thing... majority are looking for the financial stability... as I said earlier probably 80-90%. But I think the original poster's point was that you have better odds in places like Thailand of finding a younger dude into older. That's definitely true. I learned that in my first hour after landing in Bangkok and again today in Chiang Mai. My Grindr blew the f up in seconds with messages from guys that would be way out of my league back home. Yet on Samui, I was as invisible as I am in the US because it's basically Daytona Beach Part 2. 😆

    Sniffing out money boys or those not being up front about it is pretty easy to me. Profiles kind of say it all ... at least most of the time. And if the profile doesn't do it, the nature of the chat dialog does. At least for me it's obvious. The dying grandmother/pet is terminally ill/need books for class or will get kicked out... it's a running joke among my buddies I travel to Colombia with. But those stories are from rent boys to begin with, so it's not as if true feelings were ever in the equation in the first place.

    There are a couple guys in their 20s I've met in my Colombia visits that I connected with and still am in touch with. And I attribute it to the same thing... the exotic, being different, or like your theory ... the excitement of someone from a different culture. So to the original post's point, yeah I def think odds of finding something legit and not based on $ with a younger guy are better in places like this.
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    emiel1981 reacted to jason1975 in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    The pillar was blocking the view so I asked AI to remove them!


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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Yes he does. Jason nailed it... I being the true Gemini I am do want both. I really need to fine a cloning specialist. 😆 Maybe they're cheaper in Thailand like other medical procedures. I do enjoy #1's company too. That one's a little easier to schedule some extra fun because he has a M-F 9 to 5 job teaching. That leaves daytime wide open plus he can't be out very late. But #1 is very fun behind closed doors. And he's fun to spend time with just doing date night stuff too.
    Having this "problem" wasn't too tragic. It did wonders for my suffering self-esteem to have 2 really quality guys have interest in this aging former hottie. 😜 But hey I managed to complete the top 10 list and had 2 great massages too. And I certainly saved a lot of money. So that's good right? lol
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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Glad to. You guys gave me tons of info to prepare me for this trip. I owed ya. I'll be back for Round 2 in Bangkok at the end of this month. I'll start a "Adventures of a Rookie in Koh Samui" thread over on that board for anyone interested.

    Today was a low key day. Grindr #2 (Cambodian) and I met for lunch at an American place "Arno's". I think my palate has gone Asian because the burger and fries were way too greasy for me to enjoy. I NEVER leave fries behind. I think I ate about half of my order. The most enjoyable part was the salad. I asked my friends back home "Who am I? What have I become?" After we went to see the Spiderman movie at Paragon. I haven't been to a movie theater in forever... so it's probably not a new technology but the projections on the side walls is a cool new touch.
    As for tonight, gotta pack and then we'll see where things go from there. I really just want to go back to see that smoke show guy at Jupiter. But I have plans for one more night with #2. #1 mentioned he had plans tonight but he just messaged me while #2 and I were at the movie. LOL I'm so not used to have this to deal with. You have no idea... haha takes me back to my 20s.

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    emiel1981 reacted to jason1975 in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Maybe low season has hit hard and there's not enough boy drinks and offs hence they have allowed customers to take photo and video of the floor boys in the hope of promoting them to friends or letting customers remember how they look like, enabling them to come back to bar to off them.
    Anyway, thanks for sharing your photos @aaroninatl I really enjoyed reading about your adventures. Far too few trip reports nowadays. People are just reading and commenting but not contributing any latest information.
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    emiel1981 reacted to hank75 in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    I have taken bar boys to Fake many many times, they have always been enthusiastic and enjoyed themselves hugely especially the gay ones, Thai, Cambodian, Burmese notwithstanding. One boy picked up a date in the toilets (a social experience in itself). They accompanied customers there so often they were the ones who taught me the ropes. A Cambodian Jupiter boy is currently working there on busier nights.
    There is no obligation to buy any of the guys at Fake drinks. It is a club, not a host bar so there isn’t a drink system. Completely untrue. They’ll come down and drink from your open bottle for a small tip, if you don’t offer more they will move on.
    Again untrue I have been given a table near the stage multiple times, as long as there is one available. On nights with guest singers or special performers yes they take reservations in advance. You just have to indicate willingness to open a bottle so they know it is not going to someone buying two beers and a water. It is exactly the same system as in other big clubs. But if you do just want to have a single beer to check the place out it is entirely your choice. No compulsory spending.
    Somewhat exaggerated there are one or two security people but generally to break up fights on the floor. People giving the boys a grope and a tip are all part of the game. “Crazy” females are usually just drunk and pulled back to their tables by their friends. The performances aren’t particularly erotic especially by comparison to Patpong though the boys are good looking and (some) demonstrate teasing personalities on stage that makes it more stimulating.

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    emiel1981 reacted to jason1975 in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Foodland staff gives good service. Especially for regular customers. Local Thai families come to eat on Sunday morning and afternoon (after eating, they buy groceries from supermarket).
    Forum members here have received good service from Foodland staff. Whenever we enter in a big group (with our guys), they will combine tables for us.
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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Late Monday night update. We now have it ladies and gentlemen. Or gentlemen. Can't imagine we have many ladies in the crowd... at long last, here's my Top 10.
    I wandered into Moonlight just as they were about to kick off the show. My initial impression was ugh here we go again when I walked in and saw a handful of guys stonefaced and emotionless standing on stage seeming to be miserable. The mamasan chatted me up but wasn't employing the high pressure sales tactics even though at the time I think I was the only customer in the place. Eventually there was some motion on the stage and guys cycled in and out. There were 4 or 5 cute guys out of the couple dozen or so.
    I liked the layout of the place. You can't be far from the stage. Staff was decent... a few of the waitstaff were cute.
    I'm impossible to offend, but I did cringe a little when they played a remix that had the Asian chick doing "Me So Horny, Me Love You Long Time." Evil me cackled laughing inside. One thing that set Moonlight apart is they were cool with you taking photos and video when they are doing the model lineup. I thought that's pretty brilliant on their part. Many will post it to social media ... or say on a message board with creepy old men. 😆 I'm sure the models hate it, but I had to wait to be told twice that it's kosher.
    After they got past the awkward standing on stage thing, they finally got to the routines. I was glad the performances were from the actual models and not outdated extras or drag queens. There was a drag queen but she was accompanied by 2 of the dancers. The show was nowhere near the level of Jupiter, but much better than most in Silom.
    Within 30 minutes the club was probably 2/3 full but mostly with groups of young women. One looked to be a bachelorette party.

    Got the answer to my own question from earlier today btw at least for Moonlight. 2nd drink is 250 or 350 for a cocktail.
    I stuck around for about an hour. I saw enough... Moonlight doesn't come in at the top of my Top 10... but it's far from the bottom. Without further adieu, here is my final top 10... I'm still debating on switching #1 and #2... it's so close.
    Jupiter
    Dreamboy
    Freshboy
    Moonlight
    Super A
    Goodboy
    Banana Boy
    Hotmale
    Tawan
    Natureboy
    The night ended with a Bangkok downpour. I ducked into Foodland to try their chicken pad Thai hoping the rain would pass. Nope had to Grab. Have to give props to Foodland though... not for the chicken pad Thai... it was pretty forgettable. But they had staff out sweeping water off the walkway and a guy carrying a giant umbrella helped customers to and from their cars. You don't see that kind of service much in the US.




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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Monday night update…
    coming to you live from a Grab en route to moonlight. The Muay Thai might was fun from the front row. Couple of the fighters were 🔥
    stay tuned for the not all that highly anticipated completion of my top 10.

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    emiel1981 reacted to aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    Monday afternoon update...

    Stopped by Arena and Titan for a moment since that shopping center is pretty much across the street from my Airbnb. Just popped into both for a second as I'm getting ready to head to the boxing event. Arena is definitely not for me, but if you're a muscle lover, I totally see the appeal. Walking in to a gym setting is an interesting gimmick. All the guys were beefy and older as advertised. Just not my thing.
    Titan had a super cute twink at the front desk. I've been getting their daily lineups on Line. From all I read, the price is too high. And none of the therapists seem next level. But they're all reasonably cute. Titan might get some business from me if I get the late night hornies since they're so close and open until midnight. Didn't go past the lobby but seems very upscale. I guess it should be for that price right? I think they're fighting an uphill battle given their location. Very little foot traffic as they're tucked away in the back of a really basic shopping center.
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    emiel1981 got a reaction from aaroninatl in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026   
    It’s great to read that your introduction to Pattaya was so positive. You can certainly count on @bkkmfj2648 to show you around, he’s great company! If I’ve got it right, you only spent a short time in Pattaya City and didn't visit the raunchiest bar/show there? I’ve had some really fun nights there myself with @bkkmfj2648 , where we put hands on and tongues in multiple guys... oops. ;) lol In short: there is still something to discover during the next visit.
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    emiel1981 reacted to vinapu in Where have all the numbers gone?   
    I get it. I used to employ such an approach in my reports but dropped it for two reasons:
    one I already mentioned and jason stated it right above - everybody, not necessarily only members , including all kinds of weirdos, may read report.
    second is that I realized that #115 who fucked like a bunny , next trip had problem with erection, #193 gladly rimmed you but flatly refused to do it for me, not sure where curved part of #86 dick is coming from as I found his cock straight as arrow , possibly because boys switched numbers, anal warts story of #60 was revenge for him not yielding on tip request. #72 now lowered his expectancy to 3000 but is not entertaining any reduction and condom is a must , #132 found a sponsor and now wants 2500 but is clean of drugs and takes things slowly.
    or from real life - super manly hunk , straight top only , forget himself with customer who fucked him and he found he liked it by his own, NOT SOLICITED admission. Or another hunk who was always willing to do long time and wouldn't go home unless asked to all of the sudden started inventing excuses to get home at 2 or 3 a.m. When run out of excuses , admitted to having a girlfriend. Good news, although not sure that good for him, is he is back in LT business and I'd say even more accommodating that before.
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    emiel1981 reacted to macaroni21 in Where have all the numbers gone?   
    @vinapu @hank75 @a-447 my reading is different. I don't think that's what @12is12 meant. The fact is that boys in most bars still wear numbers. My sense is that that's not the "numerology" that he laments has disappeared. What he is saying is that on the Thailand board we do not discuss the attributes and service quality of specific boys (based on their bar name and tag numbers), but that we are too coy (some would say polite/ considerate/ respectful) to do so.
    I think @12is12 would much prefer we discussed the boys like cheap non-human merchandise: #115 will fuck like an energiser bunny, #193 will rim, #86 has a cock curved upwards and to the left, but the head is much bigger than the shaft, #109 has a short, but thickish one, but his best attribute are his low hanging balls that slap you joyfully as he bangs you, while #60 has what look like anal warts. Or: #72 asked for $4,000 baht, but can be negotiated down to 2,500, which is a bargain for one who will bottom for bareback. On the other hand, #132 who looks like a meth head asks only for 1,700, but he rushes things.
    There's a guy on the Africa forum who does that, cock pics, sometimes face-pics, prices and all. He's breaking the board rules, obviously.

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