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AdamSmith

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  1. Main problem for that business model is it was created in and for an era that no longer exists, and to serve needs that are rapidly dwindling out of existence. Here in Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill there is a vibrant and flourishing escort economy that advertises solely on backpage (see the explicit escort ads under the 'Dating' section: http://raleigh.backpage.com/ ) and whose escorts and clients alike have never heard of 'review' sites, and who fall out laughing at the needlessness of them when I sketch the concept to them. It is a new era and a new generation that simply do not have the hangups, fear, paranoia or repressed guilt that used to be part & parcel of hiring for many.
  2. Despite my attempts to see some bright spots, in my heart of hearts I'm afraid I'm with you on all this.
  3. Actually The Guardian, as liberal as they come, thinks the personal details are a crock of shit. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2017/jan/11/trump-russia-dossier-explainer-details
  4. All right, all right! I was being a big old...
  5. Anyone know what financial resources backpage has to pay for lawyering to keep fighting this, and survive? Their escort ads -- M4M, TS, and women for men -- were the sole source here in RDU. Rentmen and Eros.com are both waste lands by comparison.
  6. AdamSmith replied to IceMan's topic in The Beer Bar
    I think if somebody came and threw money and food and fucks at my feet in abundance at no cost, my first thought would not be to moan and bitch about it.
  7. Everything BVB said. Also, on-the-head lettuce keeps a lot longer than bagged lettuce or mesclun. I live close enough to stores that buying loose mesclun only enough for that day's/night's use works fine for me and is not a nuisance. In fact fits ideally with my habit of drifting into one or another grocery store a few minutes each day to just roam around, and see what raw ingredients in each & any department look particularly good, and I know or can imagine something to do with them, and seem to call out to be that night's dinner.
  8. AdamSmith replied to a post in a topic in The Sandbox
    I was trying to compliment how you meep-morphed Conrad into the style of HPL.
  9. You certainly can! http://raleigh.backpage.com/MaleEscorts/?layout=gallery
  10. Get 1% better at something every day. Over time it adds up. http://www.jamesaltucher.com Same idea from Scott Adams: Don't set goals; they defeat you. Instead make a system, then just keep doing it. https://www.amazon.com/How-Fail-Almost-Everything-Still/dp/1591846919/ref=as_li_ss_tl?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=&linkCode=sl1&tag=wwwjamesaltuc-20&linkId=2ff4fedb8086970448fa674d13befb71
  11. AdamSmith replied to a post in a topic in The Sandbox
    Actually that sounds more like Lovecraft.
  12. AdamSmith replied to a post in a topic in The Sandbox
    BRAVO!!!
  13. AdamSmith replied to a post in a topic in The Sandbox
    "Come up and Like me sometime."
  14. AdamSmith replied to a post in a topic in The Sandbox
    Having thought about it, Oz's path of permitting him to make tiny eeps and meeps through the Like button, but muzzling him from posting, is the most deliciously cruel punishment one could dream up for a felon with his particular uncontrollable pathological urges as displayed both Here and There.
  15. AdamSmith replied to a post in a topic in The Sandbox
  16. Or else it's a fiendishly clever new-member screening system.
  17. In spirit of the season, I'm looking for a meme I saw somewhere depicting the old English sport of Fruitcake Hurling.
  18. I was thinking...
  19. New org is great! Very clear & clean. Thanks! For once in IT-land, an update for the BETTER. Who knows, you might even start a trend.
  20. Well, above I mentioned my friend in MA who bought a house with his earnings from CL and then BP, no other sources. I know his life wall to wall, inside out. We would live together in his then apartment in South Boston for days and days on end. I know his family, and his best friends. He didn't hide anything from me; that was just not in his nature as a person. We both went way beyond the usual barriers -- and with entirely positive outcomes for both of us. We each gave the other some precious and needed human things that others in our lives weren't offering us at the time. (If you just can't believe a professional relationship can healthily exist in parallel with a genuine human one, you have my sorrow.) He would even show me, with deserved pride, his bank accounts and how his escort earnings were growing and accelerating, as he practiced, and refined with experience, his travel routes and schedules. So I know beyond any doubt that his sex work through CL and then BP ads was his sole source of income.
  21. They also have great contempt and scorn for escorts who catfish in their BP ads, thus contributing to the shady side of the site's reputation.
  22. P.S. I've seen a couple of them in their apartments. Judging from their nice digs, looks like they make a pretty good living off BP.

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