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BenjaminNicholas

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    Womp. Womp.
    I don't get into pissing contests online.  It's not worth my time.
    Enjoy Rio.  Don't enjoy Rio.  Up to you.  I will continue to
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    Womp. Womp.
    I don't get into pissing contests online.  It's not worth my time.
    Enjoy Rio.  Don't enjoy Rio.  Up to you.  I will continue to
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Riobard in Adjusted PrEP plan   
    Interesting, but with a much less effective rate.  86% leaves a lot more wiggle room than the 92-99% effectiveness of daily regime PrEP.
    Bottom line (for me), until the manufacturer and leading ID doctors say it's as effective, I would never do intermittent cycles.  Daily use results in maximum protection.  Protection is the very reason why we take the drug.  Why would I want to cripple the effects?
     
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Lucky in Adjusted PrEP plan   
    Interesting, but with a much less effective rate.  86% leaves a lot more wiggle room than the 92-99% effectiveness of daily regime PrEP.
    Bottom line (for me), until the manufacturer and leading ID doctors say it's as effective, I would never do intermittent cycles.  Daily use results in maximum protection.  Protection is the very reason why we take the drug.  Why would I want to cripple the effects?
     
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from floridarob in Adjusted PrEP plan   
    Interesting, but with a much less effective rate.  86% leaves a lot more wiggle room than the 92-99% effectiveness of daily regime PrEP.
    Bottom line (for me), until the manufacturer and leading ID doctors say it's as effective, I would never do intermittent cycles.  Daily use results in maximum protection.  Protection is the very reason why we take the drug.  Why would I want to cripple the effects?
     
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from AdamSmith in Adjusted PrEP plan   
    Interesting, but with a much less effective rate.  86% leaves a lot more wiggle room than the 92-99% effectiveness of daily regime PrEP.
    Bottom line (for me), until the manufacturer and leading ID doctors say it's as effective, I would never do intermittent cycles.  Daily use results in maximum protection.  Protection is the very reason why we take the drug.  Why would I want to cripple the effects?
     
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to AdamSmith in Adjusted PrEP plan   
    Thank you. From the cited article:
    "In Ipergay, gay men and other men and transgender women who have sex with men, and were at high risk of HIV infection, were asked to take two Truvada pills (or a placebo) from one day to two hours before they anticipated having sex. If they actually did have sex, then they were to take another pill 24 hours after having sex and a fourth pill 48 hours after it. The period of taking PrEP would thus cover two to three days. If they continued having sex, they were told to continue taking PrEP until 48 hours after their last experience.
    My problem is I very rarely "anticipate" having sex. It just happens in the moment.
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from AdamSmith in Adjusted PrEP plan   
    Can you please provide a link to research that supports your 'on-demand' taking of PrEP provides the same level of protection as daily use?
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    I have thought this over. If one of us lost a partner, no one would question us posting about it. Hell, if we lost a dog we'd be posting about it. So where does the rule get drawn that you cannot post about a loss- of any kind. It's the same thing Oz is always telling us- ignore what you don't like. Obviously an escort and a client can form a close bond. It can hurt when bonds no longer exist. So post about it. Many of us will be here for you.
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from jacksw3 in Barcelona and Uber (Sauna Thermas)   
    As others have mentioned, the metro is clean, safe and efficient.  I've used it and recommend it.
    I will say that getting too used to Uber makes me feel totally lazy at times as a traveler.  When cities go through their spats with Uber, it's a nice reminder that other forms of transportation are widely available and often times a lot more fun
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to Badboy81 in Flights to Rio On Sale from MIA   
    The flights were on LATAM from MIA...
    I really dont care what type of carrier it is as long as it gets to to Rio in one piece and that it has television on the flight
    I just flew to Salvador Bahia on GOL....great price but neither the flight to or back to MIA had any TVs on the long flights...
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Lucky in Visiting Brazil - are we crazy? Brazil has changed!   
    Womp. Womp.
    I don't get into pissing contests online.  It's not worth my time.
    Enjoy Rio.  Don't enjoy Rio.  Up to you.  I will continue to
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Latbear4blk in Visiting Brazil - are we crazy? Brazil has changed!   
    Womp. Womp.
    I don't get into pissing contests online.  It's not worth my time.
    Enjoy Rio.  Don't enjoy Rio.  Up to you.  I will continue to
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    The problem here is mvan's belief in the danger increasing, his own history of being attacked, yet he continues to visit Brazil. Why the effort to discourage others to visit when this history exists for him? If it's okay for mvan to visit Brazil, it is okay for any other savvy traveler. And I do believe that mvan is a savvy traveler.
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Latbear4blk in Visiting Brazil - are we crazy? Brazil has changed!   
    To me, Rio is no more or less safe than it's always been
    I use my head and I've always been fine.  I don't put much stock into US Consulate messages.  They fear-monger and make it easier for networks like Fox News to keep The Kettles in their tiny, airless bubble.  A part of world travel is learning to be a bit intrepid.
    That said, I'll be back in Rio in March for my 13th Carnaval.  I can't wait
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Tomasian in Visiting Brazil - are we crazy? Brazil has changed!   
    To me, Rio is no more or less safe than it's always been
    I use my head and I've always been fine.  I don't put much stock into US Consulate messages.  They fear-monger and make it easier for networks like Fox News to keep The Kettles in their tiny, airless bubble.  A part of world travel is learning to be a bit intrepid.
    That said, I'll be back in Rio in March for my 13th Carnaval.  I can't wait
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    I agree with Ben. I have always been on guard when I travel. I always get taxis and never use public transportation in Brazil. I felt safer that way.  On one of my first visits in 2002, there was crime all over and I remember one guy coming to my hotel with blood on his shirt from a shooting that took place on his bus to get to me. He was not even affected by it and just asked to clean up. 
    I have been in Thailand with military coups and in Saudia Arabia when they encouraged people to kill Westerns. I always take precautions. Perhaps it is my NYC in the late 80's and early 90's that made me be more cautious or leery but I always keep my guard up. I never felt unsafe or in danger.  I have felt watched before but I think it was because I am so handsome and not because I am obviously American or a tourist (although it could be the latter). 
    Have fun at Carnival Ben.  It is my favorite time of the year to be there.
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from TotallyOz in Visiting Brazil - are we crazy? Brazil has changed!   
    To me, Rio is no more or less safe than it's always been
    I use my head and I've always been fine.  I don't put much stock into US Consulate messages.  They fear-monger and make it easier for networks like Fox News to keep The Kettles in their tiny, airless bubble.  A part of world travel is learning to be a bit intrepid.
    That said, I'll be back in Rio in March for my 13th Carnaval.  I can't wait
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    He who has the money holds the power. That's economics. If you don't want to be at the mercy of your clients' hours, shift careers. Open a store that serves clients 9-5. 
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to RockHardNYC in The Other Forum Closing   
    Maybe. But if you scream too loud and too often, you'll end up a lonely queen that no one wants to be around. Balance is everything.
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to Lucky in The Other Forum Closing   
    Naked top, I understand your pique with Daddy. But since it seems that you keep harping on it here, maybe he has a point. Put that behind you and join in the content here. Your participation could be instrumental to the success of this board and the attraction of new members!
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    BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from mvan1 in Villa Gianni in London, UK   
    VG is open and has been open.  The sky is not falling Chicken Little.
     
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to mvan1 in Villa Gianni in London, UK   
    Have you ever been to the facility?  I suspect not.  
    There never was a sign.  You simply obtain the address or phone number and knock on the door or you can call them from your cell phone and they will come to the door to greet you.  
    The facility is located within a large building that looks like an apartment house.  It would be inappropriate to have signage on the facility considering the type of building it is.  
    As to their website being down, the website is unimportant.  The website, the employees and the management NEVER advertise the facility on its website as a brothel.  For purposes of the facility, it is a place for only a massage - and for the address and for the telephone number.  
    If their site is temporarily down, Google will provide their phone number.  
    If you were to call and ask for sex, you will get a negative response.  
    Each and every time I was there, as the concierge closed the door with me and one of the guys, the concierge always said, "have a good massage"
     
      
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to RockHardNYC in Do not Post any photos   
    There are plenty of self-absorbed, insecure gay men who don't want other men having more fun. Any theory that involves envy, jealousy, and one-upmanship works for me.
    If my memory can be trusted, pics were originally posted on the open forum. That's how I know about them. All it takes is one mistake like that and the bad apple has his worm.
    There's nothing special about that photo. It's out-of-focus, and it's not very flattering to either actor. A model's face should never be placed on the outer edge of a lens to avoid lens distortion. BelAmi boys have access to seriously talented photographers. Why on earth would they put that unflattering photo in their ad? Sounds to me like someone enjoys the feeling of escort tongue up his ass. (Can't say there's anything wrong with that.)
    +1
    Sharing a photo on the internet in a private area is only "private" if you trust every member of that club. Sharing a photo with an in-person friend is not the same thing as giving that photo to a friend. Any photo shared on the internet, private or not, is a gift. It can be stolen and used with negative intent. Typically, I fall into the camp of trust no one in order to secure less disappointment.
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    BenjaminNicholas reacted to RA1 in Tipping flight attendants! What next?   
    A few years back when things were much bleaker in the airline industry there was a running joke that pilots were carrying signs that said will fly for food.  Having the cabin crew work for tips is a sad commentary on the state of the industry.  Professionals do not work for tips.  
    I have never been offered a tip as the pilot in command and the owner of a business but my pilot employees did get tips from time to time for service above and beyond.  I always said, good for you and good for our reputation.
    Best regards,
    RA1

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