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I note that this is docbr's first post. Well said, doc. Welcome to posting, too.

Sex among male inmates is rather common in most prisons. Again, I don't really have first hand experience, but I do hear a lot. I just can't imagine all those willing ladyboys not being taken up on their offers, even by the guards. The other common thread in Thai newspapers when I was there was corruption. The whole country seems corrupt, so the prisons would likely also be. It's my thinking that Thailand lost its innocence when Taksin ruled. The yellow shirts learned that someone wanted to take away what they had always taken for granted as rightfully theirs, and the red shirts gave the poor some hope that they might finally get a leg up in society. It all came crushing down, and Thailand will never be the same. Naturally Taksin was as crooked as anyone, using the poor for his own devices.

The Bangkok Post ran another article on ladyboys while I was there. Although I find them annoying on the Beach Road, apparently many others do too. But no one should be discriminated against, right? Read the hard life of a Pattaya ladyboy: http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/334018/prejudice-in-pattaya-sees-ladyboys-locked-out-and-targeted-by-cops#.UQ36g2NXcTI.gmail

The Bangkok Post says that many ladyboys thrive in a prison setting. Sundays sound especially fun! Find out why: http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/334017/ladyboys-lost-in-legal-system Well, I admit I did not re-read the article before I posted it. In the newspaper article, it mentioned that Sundays are the only non-workday, so that is the day orgies take place in prison. It isn't mentioned in the online article.

No, Porto Alegre is not worth your time. You will not like the boys there, and more importantly, they will not like you. So don't go! One must have a certain level of respect for the sauna boy to engage him in activities which may be mutually pleasurable. A level of self-respect is helpful as well.

I resent the suggestion that just because I am jerking off in a park that I am a moneyboy...well, I don't really resent it, but if someone mistook me for a moneyboy I would wonder how they could be driving.

What I don't understand is why someone with 27 posts would come to this forum and be critical of the information provided by people over several years. If anything, this forum has been a wealth of information. No one has really raved about Lagoa for a long time. Porto Alegre and Rio seem to be the sauna cities, and Rio has been inconsistent and people here have said so. I doubt that the OP did much research here before he posted.

This is one of my all-time favorite gay movies.

Firecat, did you go to Japanese saunas or gay bars that allow westerners to mix with locals?

Both the bf and I enjoyed a fine massage at Hero earlier this month. My guy was also named ice, but he was 25, not 31. Still the cutest guy in the place, or so I thought. The bf was very impressed with the level of care he received from the guy he selected.

Honeyboi, what I think is that you weren't so much anti-Black Party as anti-sex. Sex is dirty, right? People have sex and they get stds! Doesn't matter where they have sex. Could be at the Black Party, could be after the Black Party, could be after meeting online or at a gay bar. You color your anti-sex tirade with an anti-Black Party exterior, but it's really gay sex that bothers you. Most of the people going to the Black Party don't have sex there, but you would shut it down. Tsk tsk. Gay men really shouldn't have sex because of those stds. I had a great time at the Black Party, and I went twice. But if you had your way, neither I nor the thousands of guys who enjoy it would be able to go. It would be shut down!

Well, I personally think that crap like jimboiyvo's posts should be shut down, but no one listens to either of us anyway. The guys in the picture above look silly in those silly outfits. Fortunately the Black Party itself is a lot of fun.

Using the word "theater" together with Los Angeles can be cringe-inducing. But I was tempted to go in and see The Gift when I got an email offer from the Geffen Theater. The cast isn't bad: The email offer used some rave quotes from Variety, but I was smart enough to check the LA Times review too. The Times says that the play, a comedy, is "pretty much pointless," and "wraps itself in banalities." The story is "not even remotely credible," according to the Times, and that saves me a trip to LA and the cost of the ticket! http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/arts/culture/la-et-cm-jekyll-and-hyde-review-20130214,0,2494742.story *** Also playing in LA is Jekyl and Hyde, a revival of the surprise Broadway hit of a few years ago. It stars Constantine Maroulis of American Idol fame, along with Deborah Cox. The show is on a pre-Broadway tryout, and if the Times is correct, and I don't doubt that they are, the theater world would best be served if the musical died in LA. Cox gets kudos for her singing, Maroulis for his acting, but the musical "runs amok." It's way too loud for the times critic. http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/arts/culture/la-et-cm-jekyll-and-hyde-review-20130214,0,2494742.story *** The Times also has an article saying that the conservative Foursquare Christian church lost some 2 million dollars on the Kathie Lee Gifford Broadway musical Scandalous. Good. I lost about $65 on the show, which I left at the intermission.

My point was that the entire culture excludes others, thus yes, it is xenophobia. But were we to try to find a starting point to change it, as gays we would look to our fellow gays to stop excluding gays because of their national origin or any other reason. I am with EXPAT that I won't go beyond Narita to contribute one dime to this society until change occurs.

He has not posted in ten or so days, unusual for him. I hope he is okay and just taking a break.

My assumption is that Totally Oz writes the reports since they are posted under his name. The writer had the task of mentioning racism and discrimination in Japan, while at the same time posting a positive and upbeat report. He did a good job. It is never any fun to be discriminated against. I once went to the baths in LA with a friend who was turned away as "too old." He was 46. Gay guys taking their sisters to a dance club suddenly learn of rules designed to keep women out. (No open-toed shoes, for one.) And in Japan, westerners quickly find that their money is so welcome in the shopping mall, but not at the dance club or the sauna. Of course, it is not really their money that is unwelcome, it is them! Japanese like to socialize with other Japanese, and foreigners simply are kept out. And we have not even begun to discuss weight and looks, just skin color. In Bangkok, they have one nice street in Patpong that is devoid of vendors and full of clubs catering to the Japanese-only trade. It's not to pick on the Japanese that I mention this. Discrimination is practiced widely enough that we don't even notice it when there are no fat people present, or old people, or fill-in-the-blank people. But for gay men to discriminate so widely against other gay men as the the Japanese gays do is really a bit much, I want Asian men to be free of discrimination in dealing with the western world, but the Japanese are not helping.

We are less than hour from the New Year here in Hong Kong. The bf and I are in, but we have a (partial) harbor view, so can see many of the skyscrapers lit up and decorated in New Year colors. Dinner was festive as families gathered at restaurants all over town. And lucky for us, the bf's family was able to join us as well. In Hong Kong, every tall white man is accosted multiple times a day. By strange men on the street! But they either want to sell you a suit or a "copy" watch. It actually gets quite annoying. Lots of women offer massages too, but no guys. The restaurant where we ate was managed by two cute guys who look all of 14, but I am assured that they are much older! Cultural differences! (Oddly enough, two men said to me at different times today: " You are a lucky man." How did they know?) So, it's another opportunity to celebrate a new year. This is the year of the snake, and I could easily come up with the top candidate for snake of the year, but that wouldn't get my year off to a good start, would it? So, I'll just wish all of you a happy new year, wherever you are.

Oh, don't worry. They will come!

It shouldn't take the words of someone else to answer the question, no matter how many words it takes him. Hmm, let me try it: I exist because my parents fucked and I popped out. I exist because the Almighty wanted to see what he would look like as a human. Which one works for you?

I like lurkerspeaks and want him to have all of the fun he can get, but the words "high school" worry me. Yes, 18 is the legal line, but I think a guy should graduate high school before he is turning tricks. I hope that you have seen his ID.

Having considered the opinions expressed above, I guess it's fine with me, too, to post links to this site at other sites, even in situations where they might be deleted.

It's been years since I braved a Saturday night out to the movies, but I had a free pass about to expire, so last night I went to see Parker. The movie stars the hunky Jason Statham, but his character has suffered so many wounds that it is a map of his prior battles. But it is hunky, and he is shirtless at points. Jennifer Lopez is also in the movie, an almost embarrassingly bad actor. The guys around me didn't seem to mind. Parker starts out with a caper that is quite fun to watch, and then it ends with a caper that is good but not quite up to the first one. In between we watch preparation and planning (yawn) with the occasional fist fight. But, it was free right? I had a nice seat all picked out, but then a Hispanic family with a small child sat behind me. Mommy kept kicking my seat, so I moved behind her. This put me in a circle of people who wouldn't shut up during the movie. And the young child in front of me acted quite predictably. When he finally bored after about 30 minutes, they gave him a cartoon-watching device that had a nice, bright light in the darkened theater. He also couldn't keep his mouth shut or sit still. Yet no one, even me, said a word about it. Perhaps if the parents had forgone their Jumbo popcorn and super-sized drinks they could have afforded a baby-sitter. So, I endured the movie more than enjoyed it. But it was free!

Some 35 years ago I was briefly involved in a court case that made the national news. At the time there were just the 3 major networks, and they all sent sketch artists into the courtroom. I was a focus of one of the sketches, which aired that night across the nation, along with my name. (No, I was not the defendant!) Not exactly fifteen minutes, but a few! There was a bitter-sweetness to it as I was still closeted and went home to watch the stories all by my lonesome self.

That is so often true- the cock gets better with age. Guys learn how to use it by practice, practice, and practice. Then, of course, there are those born with a natural talent...

Well, my mistake for not noticing how old the thread is. In a perverse way, I am glad that I don't have to compare my weight loss to yours after all, but I do wish both of us the luck on that. I should have wondered if you had yet gone to Sao Paolo as well.