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QR codes can introduce malware into your phone. They provide minimal savings for restauranteurs. Unless I have no other restaurant choices, I see no need to take on a risk for the minor convenience the business enjoys. I see no reason to help someone spy on me.

Not the first time I've seen his stubbornness.

I think you mail have hit the hammer on the nail. Interestingly, they seem to understand (apparently) that their demographic wants to hear '70s and '80s music (see prior post about my wondering why no more recent music at the evening entertainment), but don't seem to understand the demographic when it comes to their surveys. Or maybe they really aren't interested in hearing their guests' opinions.

Interesting. I looked at their reviews and, indeed, close to half of the reviews seem to be written by 1-time reviewers. That being said, there are quite a few 5-star reviews from established reviewers. But there can be little doubt but that the hotel writes its own reviews much of the time.

I use Tripadvisor to my benefit, but I know to ignore all postings made by those with fewer than 10 prior posts, and pay most attention to those posts made by posters with at least a few dozen reviews. I will tend to avoid hotels, restaurants, etc., which clearly add a lot of fake positive reviews to dilute the negative ones. One problem with TripAdvisor is that they don't weight reviews by experienced posters more heavily. Unfortunately, one can't just go by numbers of stars. One has to go through a few pages in order to determine if that business has mostly genuine reviews, or if they load up with BS reviews.

We recently took a cruise with a cruise line we haven't cruised with before, Regent Seven Seas, a line which caters to older passengers. In the past, we've mostly cruised with Celebrity Cruises (which also caters to an older crowd), and Royal Caribbean. On the other two lines, we're invited to fill out surveys online, via e-mail. I was surprised on RSS, however, when I found out that the only way to complete their survey was to scan a QR code, which was available at the Guests' Services desk or in the Library, and complete the survey on one's phone. This did not seem appealing to me. In fact, at the final evening entertainment, the cruise director announced that only 80 of the ship's 750 passengers had completed the survey, and asked others to participate. In asking, I verified that scanning the QR code and doing the survey on the phone was the only way to complete the survey--and it had to be done prior to disembarking. That seemed to me to be a way of discouraging passengers from filling the survey--and to get only brief responses. This seemed especially true given the cruise line's demographic: mostly baby boomers and older. I was one of the younger passengers, probably in the lower 10%, and my hubby definitely in the lower 5%. So was I just being an old fuddy-duddy myself, or did it seem the cruise line didn't want to hear what the passengers had to say? Although my experience was mostly positive, I did have a couple of potentially helpful suggestions. I suppose I could do it the old-fashioned way and write a letter? I don't have the energy to do a YouTube blog like a younger generation might.

I sometimes fly Alaska Airlines, although I do it the other way around: as a code-share American Airlines passenger. My husband and I generally fly them when we go to Puerto Vallarta, which is almost annually, and when we've gone to Alaska or otherwise up the coast (once to Seattle, once to Victoria BC, or from Burbank to Oakland). I have to give it to them: they often upgrade us based on our OneWorld status, over their own customers with lower status. They're a good airline, but with a caveat: their best seats are domestic first-class seats, which are comfortable for up to 6 hours. There's nothing to compare with AA's business class, much less Flagship First class. It's an interesting strategy to join Alaska's club, but never fly their aircraft, only codeshare. I'm surprised OneWorld lets them get away with what they do--both allow full credit for flying other airlines, then allow them an apparent generous ability to fly other airlines with miles. Generally, when I fly code-share on other airlines' aircraft, there's a bit of a premium to pay. I haven't researched that the other way around (i.e. if I were to fly on American flights via the Alaska website). I do get some benefits from sticking with AA. For one, I'm now a Million Miler™ with them, which means lifetime gold, and hope to make Two Million Miler™, or lifetime Platinum with them with the next several years. Also, they give Systemwide Upgrades, which recently got me upgraded from London to LAX from Flagship Business to Flagship First on a 777, which was extraordinarily luxurious. At the Flagship First lounge, I had venison loin for lunch (how they got venison in early June is mysterious to me) with a Moet-Chandon kir royale, then for dinner on the plane a lobster salad followed by monkfish main dish, which is very expensive and difficult to find in the US. Alaska's network is definitely more limited: I can definitely understand joining Alaska's program, but hardly ever flying with them. If One World cracks down on them, however, one will end up with a lot of loyalty to an airline with limited options itself. That would always make me nervous.

Interesting. I guess I'm the exception rather than the rule in that my favorite artists these days are Sabrina Carpenter, Lizzo, Chappell Roan, Dua Lipa, and the like. And I suppose that explains why these cruises never have any music from the 21st Century...

You hit the hammer on the nail. This is why it's important to try to seek the actual science and facts of the matter. Just because someone in a position of power says something, doesn't mean it's true. This is especially true of matters which we firmly wish were true (such as a heavenly afterlife, immigrants are the cause of one's strife, I don't want to get a shot, and so on). If you firmly want to believe something, you can always find a charismatic leader to convince you that you're right, even though the truth is more difficult to accept. Trump is the ultimate master of deceit. He's especially convincing with the feeble-minded, and tells the most bold-faced lies with complete sincerity. Blame your economic woes or missing pet on foreigners. Come up with "easy fixes" (which will only make matters worse). You don't even need to take your shots. Shots are bad for you. Who wants to believe hard truths? Similarly, it's much easier to say "Get this simple blood test. It'll protect you from prostate cancer." Believe me, it's much faster, easier, and financially rewarding to say that, instead of taking the time to try to educate patients that the issue is far more complex than this. And when the results come out positive (because it will if you keep checking), it's easier to say "Eeek! Get it taken out!" rather than point out that in most cases (especially Gleason scores of 7), it's probably wise to see if the cancer regresses, rather than take aggressive action. And if action is taken, it's more financially rewarding to tell the patient the half-truth that if you get radiation, then you won't be able to have surgery later--but failing to mention that in localized cases radiation failure is virtually unheard-of. People want to believe we know what we're doing with PSA screening, so they'll believe the slick talkers, as well as the testimonials of the many men who (usually falsely) believe their lives were saved by PSA screening. Again, so many will believe what they want to believe, rather than what the experts and the science tell us. Getting people to face unfortunate truths is usually an uphill battle.

We're halfway through a 2-week cruise, on a voyage where most of the guests are in their 70s and 80s (neither of us is). The evening entertainment consists mainly of shows containing music of the 70s and 80s, when most of the guests would have been in their youths. There doesn't seem to be any music from the last 30 years. Well, I'm in my early 60s, yet I usually listen to more contemporary music. Yes, sometimes I listen to music from my youth, but less often. I don't necessarily listen to every latest song, but I prefer listening to more current singers. Obviously, the cruise line tries to cater to its target passenger, but is it really the case that older people aren't interested in what's currently playing? Am I unusual in having interests in recent hits, in addition to older music? I have an old (well, very old) friend who was born in 1919 (as of last December, at least, she was still alive). She lives on the opposite coast, and when we got together we would enjoy going to jazz clubs together. It wasn't until my husband and I met her that we mused "Well, I guess that's the music which was popular in her youth!". Do you older men mostly enjoy the music from when you were young, or do you more often listen to the latest hits?

I couldn't agree with you more! 😃

People believing what they want to believe instead of actual facts? Believing some doofus or doofuses instead of examining actual facts and listening to the experts? Where have I heard that before? Oh my goodness!

That statement is so incredibly both stupid and factually wrong, it hardly deserves comment, but here I go. As you know, I wasn't quoting my opinion, but rather consensus statements and professional guidelines which were put together by groups of health care experts (which you are definitely not) who read, digested, and spent large amounts discussing among themselves (none of which you did). It is you (and your family members, apparently) who have the arrogance and foolishness to believe you know better.

Well, since these data followed the patients for over 10 years, and new radiation techniques which protect the bladder and rectum have only been around 7-8 years, the data would tend to over-estimate the complication rates of radiation therapy. However, given the identical 5 and 10-year overall survival rates (i.e. those who survived regardless of cause of death), one has to ask whether the outcomes are any better or worse for those who chose surveillance (in other words, neither surgery nor radiation). Those studies tend to show surveillance as a wiser choice: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamaoncology/article-abstract/2826069 (The abbreviation PCA means prostate cancer) "...3946 participants had PCA, among whom 655 were treated with prostatectomy and 1056 with radiotherapy. The 12-year hazard risk of urinary or sexual complications was 7.23 times greater for those with prostatectomy (95% CI, 5.96-8.78; P < .001) and 2.76 times greater for radiotherapy... The incidence per 1000 person-years of any 1 of the 10 treatment-related complications was 124.26 for prostatectomy, 62.15 for radiotherapy, and 23.61 for untreated participants... This cohort study found that, even after accounting for age-related symptoms and disease, PCA treatment was associated with higher rates of complications in the 12 years after treatment. Given the uncertain benefit of PCA treatment for most patients, these findings highlight the importance of patient counseling before PCA screening and treatment and provide a rationale for pursuing opportunities for cancer prevention...". Unfortunately, as this discussion clearly shows, adequate patient counseling and eduction both prior to obtaining consent for PSA screening, and after results are given, are more the exception than the rule. You earlier asked "How can a blood test lead to bad results?". Well, this is the answer.

I'm glad you had a good outcome. With modern technology, the advice regarding surgery vs radiation may have been out of date. Radiation now has better cure rates and fewer side-effects. The first surgeon may have had it right in that respect:

Wow. That story demonstrates another problem with screening. Obviously, it's not the test itself, but what one does with the results which determines the outcome. With a low PSA and a Gleason of 7, especially 3+4, the expected outcome is wildly different from a Gleason of 9. One has to wonder about the reason for the massive difference. Was the first pathologist just doing "CYA" (Cover Your Ass) because he wanted to force the patient into surgery? Did he genuinely lack the skill to interpret the biopsy? (pap smears are generally read by computers these days, so more reliable) More than likely, in this case active surveillance would have been a great option, as the outcome would probably have been fine in any case. The science is still out on genetic analysis. If the science proves robust, that may change outcomes (and subsequent changes in guideline recommendations), but that's speculation at this time. Most of the time, when men find out they have a cancer, the immediate reaction is "Get it out!", and the surgeon or radiation therapist is happy to oblige. Pathologists, as in this case, may push the scales further in the wrong direction, either through lack of skill or unscrupulous behavior.

While one cannot, of course, come to any conclusions from a single case, @lookin's post demonstrates one of the problems with PSA screening. Some of the more aggressive cancers won't produce PSA, while harmless ones will. Another problem is interpretation of the biopsy results. A Gleason score of 9 is highly alarming and would warrant aggressive treatment. A Gleason score of 7 indicates a possibly harmless cancer, for which active surveillance would be an option. Which was correct? Any pathologist would know that giving a score of 9 would prompt aggressive treatment, while a 7 might not. I'm happy there was a good end-result for the poster.

Well, all public health experts and professional organizations have guidelines which state that PSA screening in those 70+ is harmful, and should not be offered (see above), much less "generally recommended." Such behavior is, therefore, by definition unprofessional. While there's nothing wrong with a discussion, the fact that the writer states he "generally recommends" the test is de facto proof that these discussions contain misinformation. The vast majority of men over 70 have prostate cancer, few of which will ever affect the life of that person (and probably most of these cancers even regress). Checking PSA in one's 70s or 80s is like playing Russian Roulette with a bullet in all spots except one. You're going to get burned most of the time. Neither that speaker, nor, much less, the poster of this post, has any data to backup the (incorrect) contention that testing in the 70s (or beyond) is helpful for the man being tested. Just because you can name someone (such as the Secretary of Health and Human Services) who agrees with you does not entail a shred of evidence that your false beliefs are correct. This is all just more BS, without a shred of scientific fact. It's all a bunch of "someone agrees with me" rather than "Here's some data to support my belief." The only "support" you offer for your belief is testimonials, rather than fact. It's all rather childish. So RFK, Jr. thinks vaccines are harmful. Where's the evidence? And what's your excuse? Do you have a worm in your brain?

No surprise. No facts to backup your BS statement. Was anyone taking any bets?

A consensus statement (or professional guideline) is different from a scientific study. By definition (quite different, in fact). However, consensus statements are made by evaluating scientific studies--lots of studies. And if you've read extensively about this subject and know of even one (or, preferably, more than one) study which was somehow overlooked by the experts on the subject, why not share with everyone, instead of pretending to be such a smart-ass (with nothing but the opinions of his relatives to back him up)? Or will you fess up to lying about having read "extensively" on this subject? (And, no, polling your relatives doesn't constitute a valid scientific study)

No, you did not do the same: "...Adequate evidence from randomized clinical trials (RCTs) shows that PSA-based screening programs in men aged 55 to 69 years may prevent approximately 1.3 deaths from prostate cancer over approximately 13 years per 1000 men screened. Screening programs may also prevent approximately 3 cases of metastatic prostate cancer per 1000 men screened. Current results from screening trials show no reductions in all-cause mortality from screening...". But what can one expect from the forum's resident liar? Not everyone on this forum is a brilliant mind, but you're unique in your propensity to lie (as opposed to just spouting dumb stuff). You are correct that I don't think that any of those consensus statements came out this year, and, since technology advances, there could be updates. If you know of any recent studies which contradict the current professional guidelines, please share with a link (though, knowing you, I will certainly go through any link you post, since you have a habit of stating that a source says one thing, when it actually says the opposite). So far, no one has posted any evidence which contradict these guidelines, unless you believe personal opinions constitute hard evidence (which apparently some people on this forum do in fact believe). I'm doubtful that such evidence exists, since it would be so ground-breaking that it would make international news everywhere. However, I'm all ears.