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Blackoch

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    Blackoch got a reaction from mvan1 in A Newbie's 2nd Time in Brazil: Sao Paulo and Porto Alegre   
    Since you care only about the garotos experience, why are you spending so much time acting like a literary critic.
    Move on already!
    he s one of the mostly highly regarded members here, his threads are all successful... so maybe he s being smart by ignoring your (or anybody else) inputs.
     
    you re about to make this thread about his writing style. 
  2. Haha
    Blackoch got a reaction from SolaceSoul in Will Tomcal Wed?   
    Damn you re cold! Lol
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    Blackoch got a reaction from axiom2001 in Will Tomcal Wed?   
    Damn you re cold! Lol
  4. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from Tomcal in Will Tomcal Wed?   
    Damn you re cold! Lol
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    I assume the same thing.
    i can feel how frustrating it is for some garotos who have more education than many clients but have to make ends meet in the saunas because they Of the tragic underachievement of the Brazilian political class.
  6. Like
    Since you care only about the garotos experience, why are you spending so much time acting like a literary critic.
    Move on already!
    he s one of the mostly highly regarded members here, his threads are all successful... so maybe he s being smart by ignoring your (or anybody else) inputs.
     
    you re about to make this thread about his writing style. 
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    Blackoch got a reaction from numazu in A Newbie's 2nd Time in Brazil: Sao Paulo and Porto Alegre   
    Since you care only about the garotos experience, why are you spending so much time acting like a literary critic.
    Move on already!
    he s one of the mostly highly regarded members here, his threads are all successful... so maybe he s being smart by ignoring your (or anybody else) inputs.
     
    you re about to make this thread about his writing style. 
  8. Like
    I assume the same thing.
    i can feel how frustrating it is for some garotos who have more education than many clients but have to make ends meet in the saunas because they Of the tragic underachievement of the Brazilian political class.
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    Blackoch got a reaction from floridarob in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    I noticed the age difference as well.
     
    Damn, you go hard on this. Lol But don’t you believe that regardless of which continent the garoto is, he eventually becomes jaded after a few years? It’s not like São Paulo & Rio are small country towns. Those metropolis are bigger than every European metropolis.
    São Paulo in particular is more of a capitalist jungle than than any city in Europe. They Throw the biggest gay pride in the world for a reason. They have as much of a “gay scene”. 
     
    And the overall inequality Brazil is known for could make some even more bitter.
    i mean, clients are gonna be clients anywhere. But in Brazil, Many garoto have to take a 2 hour bus ride back to a favela. At least in Europe, they get to go back to a decent piso or even luxury hotel room.
    Wouldnt it make Brazil a worst place for resentment from older Garotos?
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    Blackoch got a reaction from mvan1 in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    I noticed the age difference as well.
     
    Damn, you go hard on this. Lol But don’t you believe that regardless of which continent the garoto is, he eventually becomes jaded after a few years? It’s not like São Paulo & Rio are small country towns. Those metropolis are bigger than every European metropolis.
    São Paulo in particular is more of a capitalist jungle than than any city in Europe. They Throw the biggest gay pride in the world for a reason. They have as much of a “gay scene”. 
     
    And the overall inequality Brazil is known for could make some even more bitter.
    i mean, clients are gonna be clients anywhere. But in Brazil, Many garoto have to take a 2 hour bus ride back to a favela. At least in Europe, they get to go back to a decent piso or even luxury hotel room.
    Wouldnt it make Brazil a worst place for resentment from older Garotos?
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    Blackoch got a reaction from SolaceSoul in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    I noticed the age difference as well.
     
    Damn, you go hard on this. Lol But don’t you believe that regardless of which continent the garoto is, he eventually becomes jaded after a few years? It’s not like São Paulo & Rio are small country towns. Those metropolis are bigger than every European metropolis.
    São Paulo in particular is more of a capitalist jungle than than any city in Europe. They Throw the biggest gay pride in the world for a reason. They have as much of a “gay scene”. 
     
    And the overall inequality Brazil is known for could make some even more bitter.
    i mean, clients are gonna be clients anywhere. But in Brazil, Many garoto have to take a 2 hour bus ride back to a favela. At least in Europe, they get to go back to a decent piso or even luxury hotel room.
    Wouldnt it make Brazil a worst place for resentment from older Garotos?
  12. Thanks
    Blackoch reacted to numazu in Some notes on Bogota   
    Thanks for the feedback so far.  I'll get to some of the questions posted here, but I thought I'd post a response I wrote from some PMs I got because of this post.  Some members have asked me on how to visit a Chaturbate studio in Colombia. The owners of these studios of course do not want their studios to be known as brothels, and what the models do on their own time is their business, but to those who want to visit a studio, here was my response:
    Hi there,
    I guess I lucked out on the first Chaturbate model I contacted to meet with me. He is one of the favorites of the studio, and the model was eager to show me the studio and to meet the owner as well. Soon after that the boys came to know me (or my reputation), so I did not have problems getting other models to agree to be my companion. The good thing about this is that first model was a gossip, and my sexual preferences came to be known in the studio. So the other models who went with me knew exactly what to do to please me. On the other side of the coin, they knew that I did not pay this first model for his time (just the occasional shopping spree), so I started right.
    My suggestion to you is of course go on Chaturbate, strike up a conversation with a model you think is a good fit with you (after paying for play of course, depends on the model). Ask for his WhatsApp, and then just setup a meeting from there. He may even have suggestions on other companions that may accompany him (and you). You'll know from your conversations that that he is from a studio versus just being a independent contractor, and maybe a visit to his city may facilitate a visit to his studio. Your mileage may vary of course.  I've visited two studios so far. 
    These studios are really a cottage industry in Colombia, so these are not "professional studios" per se. These are usually just residential houses with good internet connection and rooms outfitted each with computers and an HD webcam. Sometimes these studios also house the boys, providing them with common areas and access to laundry facilities and a big kitchen. It is perfect, for example, for a hot young Venezuelan without any legal documents to stay in Colombia (and there are a few I've met) to earn money they otherwise would be incapable of earning back in their country, without any need to possess any prior useful work skills except possessing a hard body, a big cock and pretty hole. They won't even need a place to stay or clothes to wear. Everything is provided by the studio. Lots of drawbacks in this arrangement. The owner gets a possibly unfair cut of the boy's earnings. But oh well.
    I've actually stayed the night in one of the studios (but not in the boys area with bunk beds, but in the owner's bigger bedroom with other boys), and the ambiance of the house is not really designed for sleeping if you are a light sleeper. Lots of boys graduate from staying in the studio to getting their own place, once they earn enough money, because it is simply not ideal living conditions, due to the sheer number of people who live with you, with music always playing in the background, and the boys (and girls) transmitting in all hours of the day. I did not get sleep that night I stayed, but for a number of reasons in addition to the the noise.
    Hope this helps.
    numazu
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    Blackoch got a reaction from Badboy81 in The Whole Race Thing In Brazilian Saunas....   
    @Latindude
    i appreciate your insight but can socio-economics be sepsrsted from race in any country that was built on slavery?
     Isn't it harder for a darker skin to work in the service industry in Latin America? If so, how can one be expected to improve his or her socio economics outside of sport & entertainment?
    I have always felt like it was a cop-out use to push the "Racial Democracy " myth and not deal with the actual issue.
     
    I do see value in people being able to embrace all parts of themselves (including the white heritage). But sadly, this is often use in order to draw a division between dark skin black (like me) and lighter skin ones.
    in the USA, we had the same house slave (lighter skin blacks who were allowed to work inside the slave owner's house)  Vs. Field slaves (darker and could only work in the field). But i am glad that in the US,  people of color realize that this ranking system was bad for everybody as it would by definition still put white people at the head of the food chain.
    We still have colorism issues in the USA but nowhere near what we see in Latin America.
    Dark skin have access to all kind of jobs at the very top of their professions: Johnny Cochran (legal),  Ben Carson (medical), Oprah...
    Every major us cities has had a dark skin black mayor.
    And a light skin man who wants to become president can marry a dark skin women and see her be a political advantage: Michelle Obama. 
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    Blackoch got a reaction from Riobard in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Tattoos are my weaknesses
     
    I know you have had this conversation before with solace but I will confirm that some desirable men chose to pay for sex. It is not only for people “who can’t get it for free”.
    Christiano Ronaldo, tiger woods, mike Tyson, Sean penn, Hugh grant, the entire French soccer team are some of the people who could get laid with ANY WOMEN on earth but have still been caught with prostitutes.
    in my case, I can get that rio beach play experience in Sobe without having to worry about getting my things stolen, language barrier, sneaking locals into my hotel room...
    Paying for garrotos:
    * provide a controlled and safe environment (saunas) in a wild city (rio).
    * it’s 100% all about me. It’s about what I like, when I want it and how I want it. I don’t have to worry about what my partner likes and having to please him. The money is what pleases them.
    * Keep me from being stalked by somebody who thought we had “a special connection “ when all we did was have great sex. Money clarified things and we don’t even need to exchange numbers or contact infos.
    * The fantasy & power that comes with being a client. Having the hottest guys not just hook up with you (that s easy), but actually work their hardest to sell themselves to you, advertise hard. Kinda of the same way groupies have to fight for a rockstar attention
    * It saves a lot of time compare to regular dating/flirting or Grindr catfishes.
     
    But you are right man. To each is own. That’s the beauty of this forum, our diversity.
  15. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from Riobard in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    I am mostly into Padros & other black guys Myself. They tend to be less likely to charge 300Reals in Brazil.  
     
    I could be attracted to the Mediterranean look but I go through phases for that one.
     
    100% attraction. They tend to have both: perfect bodies & perfect faces.
  16. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from brockmiller in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Tattoos are my weaknesses
     
    I know you have had this conversation before with solace but I will confirm that some desirable men chose to pay for sex. It is not only for people “who can’t get it for free”.
    Christiano Ronaldo, tiger woods, mike Tyson, Sean penn, Hugh grant, the entire French soccer team are some of the people who could get laid with ANY WOMEN on earth but have still been caught with prostitutes.
    in my case, I can get that rio beach play experience in Sobe without having to worry about getting my things stolen, language barrier, sneaking locals into my hotel room...
    Paying for garrotos:
    * provide a controlled and safe environment (saunas) in a wild city (rio).
    * it’s 100% all about me. It’s about what I like, when I want it and how I want it. I don’t have to worry about what my partner likes and having to please him. The money is what pleases them.
    * Keep me from being stalked by somebody who thought we had “a special connection “ when all we did was have great sex. Money clarified things and we don’t even need to exchange numbers or contact infos.
    * The fantasy & power that comes with being a client. Having the hottest guys not just hook up with you (that s easy), but actually work their hardest to sell themselves to you, advertise hard. Kinda of the same way groupies have to fight for a rockstar attention
    * It saves a lot of time compare to regular dating/flirting or Grindr catfishes.
     
    But you are right man. To each is own. That’s the beauty of this forum, our diversity.
  17. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from Badboy81 in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Tattoos are my weaknesses
     
    I know you have had this conversation before with solace but I will confirm that some desirable men chose to pay for sex. It is not only for people “who can’t get it for free”.
    Christiano Ronaldo, tiger woods, mike Tyson, Sean penn, Hugh grant, the entire French soccer team are some of the people who could get laid with ANY WOMEN on earth but have still been caught with prostitutes.
    in my case, I can get that rio beach play experience in Sobe without having to worry about getting my things stolen, language barrier, sneaking locals into my hotel room...
    Paying for garrotos:
    * provide a controlled and safe environment (saunas) in a wild city (rio).
    * it’s 100% all about me. It’s about what I like, when I want it and how I want it. I don’t have to worry about what my partner likes and having to please him. The money is what pleases them.
    * Keep me from being stalked by somebody who thought we had “a special connection “ when all we did was have great sex. Money clarified things and we don’t even need to exchange numbers or contact infos.
    * The fantasy & power that comes with being a client. Having the hottest guys not just hook up with you (that s easy), but actually work their hardest to sell themselves to you, advertise hard. Kinda of the same way groupies have to fight for a rockstar attention
    * It saves a lot of time compare to regular dating/flirting or Grindr catfishes.
     
    But you are right man. To each is own. That’s the beauty of this forum, our diversity.
  18. Thanks
    Blackoch got a reaction from floridarob in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Tattoos are my weaknesses
     
    I know you have had this conversation before with solace but I will confirm that some desirable men chose to pay for sex. It is not only for people “who can’t get it for free”.
    Christiano Ronaldo, tiger woods, mike Tyson, Sean penn, Hugh grant, the entire French soccer team are some of the people who could get laid with ANY WOMEN on earth but have still been caught with prostitutes.
    in my case, I can get that rio beach play experience in Sobe without having to worry about getting my things stolen, language barrier, sneaking locals into my hotel room...
    Paying for garrotos:
    * provide a controlled and safe environment (saunas) in a wild city (rio).
    * it’s 100% all about me. It’s about what I like, when I want it and how I want it. I don’t have to worry about what my partner likes and having to please him. The money is what pleases them.
    * Keep me from being stalked by somebody who thought we had “a special connection “ when all we did was have great sex. Money clarified things and we don’t even need to exchange numbers or contact infos.
    * The fantasy & power that comes with being a client. Having the hottest guys not just hook up with you (that s easy), but actually work their hardest to sell themselves to you, advertise hard. Kinda of the same way groupies have to fight for a rockstar attention
    * It saves a lot of time compare to regular dating/flirting or Grindr catfishes.
     
    But you are right man. To each is own. That’s the beauty of this forum, our diversity.
  19. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from axiom2001 in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    In order of preference, mines are:
     
    bae #1
     
    Bae #2

    Bae #3

     
    Bae #4

  20. Thanks
    Blackoch got a reaction from SolaceSoul in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Tattoos are my weaknesses
     
    I know you have had this conversation before with solace but I will confirm that some desirable men chose to pay for sex. It is not only for people “who can’t get it for free”.
    Christiano Ronaldo, tiger woods, mike Tyson, Sean penn, Hugh grant, the entire French soccer team are some of the people who could get laid with ANY WOMEN on earth but have still been caught with prostitutes.
    in my case, I can get that rio beach play experience in Sobe without having to worry about getting my things stolen, language barrier, sneaking locals into my hotel room...
    Paying for garrotos:
    * provide a controlled and safe environment (saunas) in a wild city (rio).
    * it’s 100% all about me. It’s about what I like, when I want it and how I want it. I don’t have to worry about what my partner likes and having to please him. The money is what pleases them.
    * Keep me from being stalked by somebody who thought we had “a special connection “ when all we did was have great sex. Money clarified things and we don’t even need to exchange numbers or contact infos.
    * The fantasy & power that comes with being a client. Having the hottest guys not just hook up with you (that s easy), but actually work their hardest to sell themselves to you, advertise hard. Kinda of the same way groupies have to fight for a rockstar attention
    * It saves a lot of time compare to regular dating/flirting or Grindr catfishes.
     
    But you are right man. To each is own. That’s the beauty of this forum, our diversity.
  21. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from brockmiller in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    I am mostly into Padros & other black guys Myself. They tend to be less likely to charge 300Reals in Brazil.  
     
    I could be attracted to the Mediterranean look but I go through phases for that one.
     
    100% attraction. They tend to have both: perfect bodies & perfect faces.
  22. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from SolaceSoul in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Well I did say it is my 2nd visit.
    Also, I am a 6ft, muscular, 35yo black man who s lived in Devlopping countries before & grew up in the DC inner cities, and when not at work, I have an urban/hip hop swag. (Think rapper 50cent). Trust me, I have “developing country” smarts and people are usually intimidated by me, not the other way around. 
    I am definitely moving forward with my plans on hooking up with gogo boys. I do appreciate advice on this though. I understand one can never be totally safe from violence nor from being a victim of a hustle.
  23. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from Tomcal in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Well I did say it is my 2nd visit.
    Also, I am a 6ft, muscular, 35yo black man who s lived in Devlopping countries before & grew up in the DC inner cities, and when not at work, I have an urban/hip hop swag. (Think rapper 50cent). Trust me, I have “developing country” smarts and people are usually intimidated by me, not the other way around. 
    I am definitely moving forward with my plans on hooking up with gogo boys. I do appreciate advice on this though. I understand one can never be totally safe from violence nor from being a victim of a hustle.
  24. Like
    Blackoch got a reaction from torogen in Lagoa's SUPERSTARS   
    Well I did say it is my 2nd visit.
    Also, I am a 6ft, muscular, 35yo black man who s lived in Devlopping countries before & grew up in the DC inner cities, and when not at work, I have an urban/hip hop swag. (Think rapper 50cent). Trust me, I have “developing country” smarts and people are usually intimidated by me, not the other way around. 
    I am definitely moving forward with my plans on hooking up with gogo boys. I do appreciate advice on this though. I understand one can never be totally safe from violence nor from being a victim of a hustle.
  25. Like
    Looking forward to read the rest 

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