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Just adding everything @speedoo1 explained here is 100% correct.

Yes, Dark Club is an institution. They still pack in the crowds on weekends and holidays. Have been a number of porn actors doing shows at the club this year: Viktor Rom did a three night stay in April, Jay Carter did an event in April-May (can't remember), and there were others. So yes, still a very popular venue. Last visit was in April and the variety of men was impressive.

Surreal but they reopened in a new location for Gay Pride weekend on June 28 https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLXyrpRMz2O/ Purple is back, baby.

Several have reached out asking about finca event specifically in Cali. The main host is the Black & White sex club, although Regia bar also hosts exclusive events outside the club as well. The next finca weekend takes place on August 2nd and will run all night. Transportation back to Cali starts at 4am. Three DJ's for the outdoor rec space, wet zone with pool, jacuzzi and turco, with large grounds for things that happen in bushes. There will also be go-gos and live sex shows during the event. You can contact the club directly for more info, including video footage of the space, the DJ's profiles and interviews with some of the performers. Last year's event was a big hit, so this should be a fun sex-filled event.

Depends on timing, if you are there after Christmas, the feria de Cali takes place from Dec 25-30 and is packed with events and parties. Caleños love to go hard and will no doubt have tons of special events going on . There will be several finca parties and local orgies happening during la feria.

Because I cannot type -- just confirmed they have two on X.com 1. @bwhitecats_ <-- verified 2. @bwhitecats1 Account is also @bwhitecats_ on Tik Tok. They do promote a number of special events there. Have seen many promotions for nights featuring local Only Fans creators and several parties featuring interactive sex with porn performers. Cool to see that they are doing programming and not just waiting to see what punters show up.

BCN I have fewer details, however his escorting in London was confirmed to me by a trusted friend last year. Would need specific details about how they connected, but I assume it was through one of several private gay members clubs in London. Caio charges a significant fee, so have your pocketbook ready.

Possibly...I find many Colombian men are open to gay-for-pay, but you might get your teeth rearranged by openly asking random people. You may want to check out some of the swingers clubs in Laureles, where men who are more included to play can be found.

I promise all my bovine partners that I will never kiss and tell. Colombians have a "cure" for absolutely everything, so while this is a new one to me, zero surprise at this video.

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It was just a matter of time as Bogotá had a string of sex clubs close in the past year. El Sillón rojo club is opening in Bogotá in Chapinero in the coming weeks. They had hoped to be open for Pride weekend but delays, blah blah. You can get on the notification list for the grand opening by signing up on the website, they will be looking to make a splash as I understand they are going to be selling memberships. Website https://elsillonrojoclub.com/sede-bogota/ There are also social media accounts set upon Instagram and X but not adding those here to avoid the trackers.

If you are curious about the types of lads who attend these finca parties, Sillon Rojo Medellín is having a contest to award free entry to the August finca event. Finalists will be posted to their X account at

Hey, just so there is no confusion, Afrodisia is not a gay bar (it's across the street from Chiquita) however they do host gay nights during the holidays like La feria de las flores. Its definitely an upscale club and I would be surprised if anyone had issues at the place, but the crowd is generally not the horny queer boys you will meet at Chiquita, Querida or even Industry. Yes, they always seem to have hot door men and security guards at the entrance, but it does not only cater to a gay crowd. Glad you enjoyed your time in Medellin.

D'oh. I knew that the location/name had changed last year. Look for the nights tagged as "Sensual", normally means at least one stripper. Not sure how it works, but there appears to be an endless supply of strippers from nearby Barranquilla that perform in Cartagena clubs.

Okay, so a few options for strippers - with no promises. 1. Gabanna Club has go-go dancers on Saturday nights. They move around the club to different locations and you can touch-tip depending where they are located. Obviously the area over the dance floor is not an option. Sunday night "interactivo" always includes a show where you can interact with the performers -- right up to sucking dick and eating ass. Some performers will have sex in the area behind the stage for the right price. 2. Avatar Bar can have strippers but the shows are earlier (11pm - midnight) to bring in the crowds earlier. Call ahead to confirm programming. 3. Club Geminis Video Club also has strippers and boys onsite for weekend events. Check ahead for the programming. Be aware this club is located within the city center, outside the tourist area. You will need to be comfortable in your ability to function in Spanish or translate.

I believe the correct answer here is "mileage may vary". As I have discussed here on the forums, the "older male/young male" fetish is a strong one in Colombia. However, I cannot guarantee that the attendees at this event will fall in that category. If I could predict the future with such accuracy, I would just purchase the next jackpot-winning lottery ticket and call it a day. Probably purchasing one of those enormous mansions in the mountains above Avenida Las Palmas overlooking Medellín. But I digress. Do I have grey hair? Check. Does leg day still hurt? Absofuckinglutely. Am I packing enough to grab most boys attention? Thank you Jebus, yes. Do I have a roster of medical specialists to help me age in a healthy way? Hell to the yes. Do I still do squats to keep my butt full and firm? Check and check. I guess my question for you is whether you are showing up to a gun fight with a knife in hand? From my experience, which I have shared many times when meeting in-person with multiple board members, you can make out just fine on the open market in Colombia if you show up prepared. Know how to connect with the Colombian boys you seek and you will be just fine.

These events take place at private fincas, homes that traditionally served as a second home outside of the city for the upper classes in Colombia. You will find listings for fincas on Airbnb and VRBO throughout Colombia. Most of these homes feature large outdoor areas, typically around a pool, with barbecues, gardens and large social areas. Many include dormitories to accommodate additional overnight guests since these homes are designed for entertaining. Today they are regularly rented out to third parties in Colombia for fiestas, birthdays, engagements, and yes, raunchy sex parties. #IYKYK There are fincas everywhere in Colombia, but the biggest concentration around Medellín would be near Copacabana, Sopetrán and Giradota in the north, and around Guatapé in the east. Regarding old gringos at the events -- they are clearly welcome to attend as long as they purchase a ticket. Unclear what your definition of "to party" is, so will not offer an answer to that question.

By request, here is one of many finca sex parties during La Feria de las Flores. This one is sponsored by El Sillon Rojo August 6-7. There will be three hosts onsite as well.

Awful to hear about this, but unsurprising that the police treated this as normal. They are seeing a lot of gringo sex scams these days in Medellín unfortunately. A reminder to always find out the variation of the 911 emergency phone number in any country you are visiting. The correct number for emergency services in Colombia is 123. For Police services it is 112.

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The building where Purple nightclub on La 33 was located suffered a serious fire and will be closed indefinitely. https://telemedellin.tv/incendio-afecto-dos-locales-laureles/759945/ The damage to the building is significant and will require reconstruction. No word yet whether the club will continue or relocate in the city.

Both Scruff and Sniffies are popular in Medellin. While Sniffies appears to be mostly foreigners, I did notice a number of organized sex events happening on the app this year.

New WhatsApp number - March 2025 +57 305 3838460 - this is where they post updates and event details now

Awww, thank you. I think I have been pretty open that I spend an extended period of each year in Medellín, so am tuned into the the scene here, which changes frequently. I want to share what is not usually found on Google search about what the local scene here is really like, beyond the usual suspects located in El Poblado and Laureles. The action here is much more diverse, however as a predominantly Catholic country, there are still some challenges to prominence and longevity of gay-positive spaces. I will continue to add the ones that appear to be here for the long-term so more people can experience what is happening in this very vibrant city. Enjoy.

New entrant to the Medellín scene in late 2024, this place has found a following among locals looking for some easy relief. Vachu is a bar, but features a glory hole room, dark room and a mirrored sex room within it’s facilities. Occasional theme nights, but this bar is really about cruising and getting off on premise (similar to Cali's men's clubs). The biggest crowds shows up after work, as the bar opens at 6pm weeknights. The nearby university helps keep the punters younger, but the crowd is mainly professionals from nearby Laureles and Belén neighbourhoods. The set up is perfect for cruising and getting off in the back rooms, although some nights the crowd gets a little more heated. Recommended hitting this place up during or after the local Nacionales futbol team plays. Lot's of stress relief or celebrations seem to happen afterward. The bar is open until 4am Friday and Saturday nights. Location Calle 33 #74b-50 - Located slightly west of where Avenida 33 crosses over Avenida Nutibara. Bar entrance is on Avenida 33 (at Transversal 39A) - Walk west past the formal wear store until you see the black staircase. Go up those stairs to the door on the second floor – this is the entrance Hours Weeknights 6pm - 2am Weekends-Holidays 2pm - 4am Contact - WhatsApp +57 3207288183 - X-Twitter @Vachubar - WhatsApp Chat Group (request to join) https://chat.whatsapp.com/KZIZ4kT6En0HFB8ZJQvt8s