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    The Thai police were not investigated, however 18 months after the arrest of Kevin, Thai police admitted that Kevin had been framed. Since the cigarettes were provided by Kevin's two business partners, it was believed that the two owners of Boys, Boys, Boys and the Ambiance Hotel colluded with the police to frame Kevin. With Kevin behind bars, he was effectively removed from the partnership, thus enriching the remaining two partners. Kevin had invested heavily in Boystown, and was a 50% shareholder in Throb and Splash bars, and Copa massage and hotel. While Kevin was locked up, the partners stripped him of his assets in Boystown. The duo even took Kevin's car, and used it as a taxi to transport Ambiance Hotel guests to and from the airport.
    This was not the first case of a business partner of the duo being eliminated from the Boystown empire. In 1990, a 28 year old man who had invested heavily in the business as a partner died in a mysterious fire in a room of the Ambiance Hotel, located above Boys, Boys, Boys bar. The 28 year old man was another Scot, named Ian MacDonald, who had invested £250,000 with the duo in the businesses.
    Even more bizarre, after young Ian MacDonald died in the fire, paperwork was produced showing he had left his 50% share of Boys, Boys, Boys and the Ambiance Hotel to a Thai go-go boy, who just happened to be the boyfriend of one of the duo. Ian's 50% share of the businesses was worth £250,000, a princely sum to bequeath to someone who was not even his boyfriend. All very shady. How many 28 year olds would make a will? And then make a go-go boy he was not in a relationship with the sole beneficiary of that will?

    https://www.tomminogue.com/tom/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Lock-Stock-And-Two-Smoking-Boyz-The-Judgment.pdf
    https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/scots-sex-club-kings-lose-1053788
    https://www.thetelegraphandargus.co.uk/news/8029313.former-bradford-man-was-framed/
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    The drugs (less than 100 yaa baa tablets) were found in a carton of cigarettes, that much is true, however there was overwhelming suspicion the drugs were planted there, and then the party that planted the drugs notified the police of exactly in which carton, and which pack within that carton to find the drugs.
    As for the cigarettes having been smuggled, no, they were still in the country of purchase, they had not been smuggled. Kevin was stopped still inside the Pattaya city limits. According to news articles:
    "The cigarettes were acquired by his partners, and came from Don Muang airport duty free via a friendly policeman." and "In one of the packets in just one of a staggering 198 cartons police found just under 100 yaa baa tablets.  Quill was not a drug user. Yaa baa was certainly not the drug of choice of his destination, the UK, and never has been."
    It's obvious that Kevin was set up. A carton of Benson and Hedges cigarettes contains 10 packets. Kevin had 198 cartons in his car, so that's 1,980 packets of 20 cigarettes each. Out of the 1,980 cigarette packs, the police knew exactly where the small amount of pills (less than 100 tablets) were hidden, inside just one packet. How is it the police did not open the other 1,979 cigarette packs?
    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/2106000.stm
    https://www.andrew-drummond.news/prisoner-of-boyztown-gets-sentence_15/

    And here's the video of the seizure. The unopened cartons of Benson and Hedges can be seen on the table, and Kevin can be seen in the video. It's highly unusual that upon finding illegal drugs, that police searching for contraband would stop looking after finding less than 100 tablets, leaving all the other cartons unopened.


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    And the police knew exactly where to look!
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    Kevin was a decent and fair guy who had bar(s) in Manchester. He wasn't naive but had the misfortune to be perceived as a threat by the scottish mafia, whose influence, corruption and malevolence he underestimated.
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    Yes @BjornAgain I agree. I really miss Barry and after his awful death crossing the busy Thappraya road - I have since changed my walking patterns as I used to often use that same area to cross Thappraya road to get to either FoodMart or to the Jomtien bus station for the busses to the Suvarnabhumi airport in BKK. Noteworthy is that for 153 baht each way it (the buss) is truly the deal of the century.
    By the way, this video, produced by Glistening Stories of the day in the life of the Tourist Police in Pattaya is very well done - excellent UK journalism in my opinion.
    What I found fascinating about this particular edition is that it was published on Jun 22, 2023, but references very important stories/cases from the year May 2001.
    Especially the case of Kevin Quill, as he was one of the many financial investors in what we all know today as Boyztown.

    Years back, I had read many of the controversial articles that were published about his case - especially those produced by Andrew Drummond and I was always left in shock on how something like this could even happen in the early years of 2,000.

    https://www.pattayamail.com/408/news.htm
    Other related articles for who is curious:
    https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/scots-sex-club-kings-lose-1053788
    https://www.andrew-drummond.com/2010/03/23/lock-stock-and-two-smoking-boyz-judgmen/
    https://www.andrew-drummond.com/2015/01/16/another-good-day-or-thai-justice/


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    I came across this video that I had never seen before. It was record just before my arrival in Thailand/Pattaya. I had heard Kevin's Story and the Crazy Pub was of course still open. Was interesting to see these figures on video so many years later.

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    whitemouse reacted to travguy in Edinburgh and Athens August 2025   
    Many thanks to all of the various posters in this and other threads
    Further adventures: with the Air Canada strike I got sort of stuck in Athens for a few extra days. So doing a ton of work from the hotel. Why a hotel: large good bf and good wifi. Not bringing anyone back to your room is quite reasonable here. Had I met other middle class folks in Athens, then yes, would think about bringing them back to my place. Please, I am not trying to be prejudicial here. Even Grindr hook ups can go bad. I took a day off from sex for sightseeing. Next day I met up with the Iraqi or Iranian guy. He tried skype calling me multiple times - but why – we did not understand anything except price. LOL. He was on time to the meeting spot near Omonia Hondos Centre and we went to the Hotel / Hostel Mansion to play. 5 Euros for the hotel and 20+5 for the guy. He wanted 30 euros but I said no and left the room. I just didn’t like being hustled, but it was more like begging. I would gladly have paid for lunch with him to follow. Communication issues. Did a bit of shopping. Went back to cine at 1400 hours. I think they have a true noon lunch crowd too. Found the guy from the past who you could suck off for 10 euros. Still does not speak anything but Greek, LOL. He did look older post covid. Played with a somewhat non lean Albanian guy. Room to play in was so hot we just stopped before either could cum. I paid him 20. Oh well. Another word of caution: one rent guy kept following me, especially right after I entered. It was so dark and it takes time for your eyes to adjust. I tried to stay as far from him as possible to avoid a pick pocket. Of course, he might have been just plying for sex work and nothing else. Trust your cautious instincts. Did more regular stuff and then went to the big park around 6pm. There was trade available, but I was a bit hungry for food and did not find the young guys too hot. I could have stayed longer and likely would would have had a couple of scores. As before, lots of families, joggers, and the most security folks I have seen this trip. They seemed to be checking into a group of adults as I walked nearby. But I needed dinner as I skipped lunch and thought it ok to leave, I had already cum and was not super horny. As for hunqz, I think it is part of the Romeo app. If so, I really did not find much. Maybe it is a separate app and given how hot Athens is now, maybe the boys are elsewhere. I am not sure. Happy to be clued in. After wasting hours on the phone and chat I finally got a flight out of Greece.
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    whitemouse reacted to travguy in Edinburgh and Athens August 2025   
    Khaolakguy I think I was in Athens around 2 years or ago, as COVID was waning, I think....
    Next day just had one guy at the cinema around 1500 hours, but he could not / would cum and would not get me off either, LOL. I saw that guy hanging out near the cine entrance on other days as well. Did a couple of regular guys too. Was not feeling great due to many mosquito bites and contact allergy, so no more sex.
    4th day was busy: maybe a not so very young Moroccan guy in the park before 1500 hours. He spoke some French. Like other guys, not interested in sucking me or bottoming for me. It was fun though. 20 euros to blow him, with him cuming. The park was not blazing hot today. Saw a few guys but some might have been hanging out with other older local punters or other young friends. At least one seemed less Arab looking and more central European looking. A few minutes later and some left and others showed up. So, maybe it was best to hang out for a long time, but I had some fun and time for next stop. Cosmo Theatre area was again devoid of boys. Not far from the Hondos center entrance near Omonia Station or maybe across the street and on the west side by another station entrance I saw 2 young guys hanging out. Smiled. And then said hello due to eye contact. Neither spoke anything other than ? Arabic. Could have been Afgan, not sure. I thought we had agreed to go to a hotel for sex and that I would pay him 20-. He seemed to know a female sex trade worked on the way to the ? Odysseus Hotel. 5 euros at front desk for room. After he came I gave him 20 euros. He would not get me off and seemed not to like me grabbing his ass while blowing him. Was watching straight porn on his phone the whole time - this was also true for some guys at the Kosmo Cine pre covid. He demanded 30- and started to make a scene. I started shouting – we were on a floor just for sex and there was a maid or 2 around. After blocking door, he let me out while trying to pick my pocket. Not a happy meal, but no violence in the end. After eating and a bit of shopping I saw a guy walking on the street in the Indian / Pakistani area just west of Omonia and he looked a bit like someone I had sex with in the past, pre covid – 10 E to suck that guy off. Maybe an Afgan guy, but not who I thought he was. We did the eye contact and second and third looks as we walked past each other. He was shopping too, but also in the sex trade as he knew where we could play. We went to the Hotel or Hostel Mansion, about 2 blocks from the Kosmo cinema and just a few blocks from where we met on the street. Nondescript looks on the street but in hotel room he was thin and muscular and looked better with his clothes off. I fucked him but he did not cum for me. Traded whats app info. Great. Next day I just did sightseeing. Bites / contact allergy still looked bad but not as itchy. We texted a few times but did not hook up again. As I write this, waiting for a reply on whats app, but he has not been on whats app since last night. Hopefully, he will reply, but I won't keep my hopes too high, lest this be like Brazil. Might head to the park early today for “dessert”, or more  
    Also over the past few days: Daytime I walked past but did not go into Samis Bar (correct spelling), which was closed – just a late night, early am place, or Bizzar Club (which I did not find, but only later realized I was on airplane mode to save battery, LOL. These are just west of the big park north of Ntl Arch Mus and near Victoria Metro stop. Did not try the train station a bit further west. I skipped the gay clubs in Gazi as I was asleep at 0200 hours Friday and Saturday nights. If you come to Athens, be sure to do the touristy sunset on the hill near the Acropolis main entrance, I think just to the north and a relatively quick 10 minute walk from Monasteraki metro station. It is truly magical. (But not a place to hook up)
    Folks, be careful about what is in your pockets ! ! ! Napkins, condoms, and lotion for lube, plus maybe 50 euros at any time for expenses.
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    whitemouse reacted to travguy in Edinburgh and Athens August 2025   
    EDI: A few folks on grindr but no hook ups. Actually, saw one of the guys in a queue next day. Old CFS site is now closed and I never did figure out location for cruising area and cruisy toilet from many years ago. Did not check the sauna either. Whole month of August is Fest and Fringe and town is packed. But it is also very expensive to be here now as a result of this. Most folks will spend the day seeing plays, comedies, etc and lots of drinking. So, folks are likely too tired and hung over to play and it really is not a big gay event per se although tons of LGBTQ+ are in town. Also, the couple of gay bars are at the edge of the downtown core and not up against the main staging areas. I think the sauna is peripheral too. Not aware of any pay for play.
    ATH: Cine Athinikon near the Fresh Hotel. This cine is the one closest to the corner. There is another one as well – never saw any comments about it. First night - just a few guys for play and only a few regular punters. Pre Covid Cosmopolit / Kosmopolit Cinema was much busier. Maybe my timing was bad. I got pick pocketed so be very careful. Whoever did it was really good. Very lucky I did not lose my phone and credit cards. Went with one average looking guy for 20 e. As of this posting he was the one only guy that would suck me off and only kisser. Also, the most average looking guy I had paid sex with. On this trip the young paid guys were all about servicing them – and it was good fun. Had non-paid sex with some regular non young guys too.
    Kosmopolit cinema is still closed. But alley way on the right is cleaned up now, so no place for sex. (Some of the Kosmo area druggies have moved a few blocks west, but think the current drugged out folks area was in the same general area before covid.) Cosmo / Kosmopolit Hotel next door is open. Only boys I saw were likely regular teens staying at the hotel having a beer outside. No other young guys hanging out in the area. Looks like the area got cleaned up, really cleaned up. Same was true in the large park just a few blocks north of the National Archaeological Museum that has the large Konstantinos statue with him on horseback. They really cleaned up this park. Did not see any druggies and tons of joggers, folks walking dogs, families, etc hour before sunset. However, just beyond the 4 red steel poles on the left side of a main walkway I did find a few boys hanging out and smiling at me when I looked at them. Met with a smooth hot twink like young Afgan guy. I had no idea where it would be safe to play but he knew of a spot. Maybe 21 cm cut cock, but small balls, and he could not cum. Was not into blowing me and no kissing. LOL. He gave me his whats app so maybe we could meet next day. Cost was 20 euros; I should have paid less.
    Next day I had multiple young guys in the cine Athinikon from 3-6pm. Only 1 did not cum for me. None would even play with me, much less anything else. Had sex with 1 young guy in the park at sunset. Hard for him to cum. Not into playing with me, etc. I must have been eaten alive by mosquitoes and maybe also had a contact allergy to whatever leaves / bushes etc were in the shrubs where we played. They got quite bad the next day. Third day was a national religious holiday and 3-day weekend. Downtown Athens seemed almost deserted! Only 1 working guy in cinema around 3 pm. Had sex with regular guys too. Got more mosquito bites in the cine, so left and did not go to park before sunset.
    Seems the hot summer is a bad time to be looking for sex in Athens. Many mosquito bites did not help. The 3-day holiday weekend made things even worse for sex as I assume many get out of town. Grindr, Scruff, Romeo, adam4adam, and sniffies have been a bust so far. One guy could not stop being chatty long enough for sex. Another wanted video calls for chat on scruff and only a few folks on sniffies. Some flakes and scammers too. A4A and Romeo had like 2 folks locally. Will likely skip Sammies and other nearby bar as I probably am not up to heading out at 0100 hours.
    Thanks in advance for any other suggestions where to find guys.
     
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    whitemouse reacted to vinapu in The peanuts , and cold towel   
    Nobody gave me any peanuts nor cold towel in Constantinople when Turks conquered it few years ago, I guess it was 1453 or something.
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    whitemouse reacted to Thefiloboy in Cairo Report (September 2026)   
    I remember seeing people ask about Cairo here, and i’ve finally experienced it for the first time last week. So i thought i’d share my own experience.
    For context, i was there for a few days (Saturday night until Wednesday morning) for work. I only had a few nights to explore outside of my scheduled meetings.
    I saw somewhere a recommendation of a hammam where some guys were offered hand jobs or more. Since this place was only 20 minutes from my hotel, I went there twice (it also helps that massages are quite cheap in Cairo).
    Wary that this is a sensitive topic in Egypt, i’m not going to post here the name of the place, but feel free to DM me if you are visiting soon.
    The first time (Sunday night), i was assigned a hot masseur (bald but with facial hair, which i loved, and he looked super masculine), he was wearing a tshirt but i could tell he had a toned bidy, but not that tall (maybe 164cm). He massaged me quite well, and gave special attention to my glutes. I knew he was onto something because he would always ask, ‘Good massage??’ whenever he’d glide his hands through my butt crack. And every time, i’d let out a moan-ish ‘Yeah…’ so he knows i’m also up for it lol. When it was time to turn around, i noticed he kept looking at the print of my hard dick under the towel. When he would massage my upper thighs, he would lift the towel a bit more and glance at it, and would find a way for his arms (not his hands) to very teasingly brush against it. He moved above my head and started massaging my torso and, to my surprise, played with my nipples! At this point i had been giving soft moans to signal i was enjoying and that was more than willing to go wherr he wanted to take the massage lol. It was at this moment, when i was sooo turned on and bricked up, that he said ‘Give me good tip?’, to which i replied ‘For sure!’. He then reached for my dick (which was at this point already had so much pre cum lol), and jerked me off. He moved to my side to get closer to my dick, and jerked my off with one hand while the other played with my nipple. I kept looking at him and was letting out moans, but he took my hand and put it on my dick, kind of telling me to jerk off myself. I didn’t mind since i’m into nipple play and both his hands were playing with my nipples, while i jerked myself off until i came. He then made me take a shower in the en suite bathroom. I gave him a 400EGP tip in the end, and seemed happy to receive it. In total (including that tip), i spent 1200EGP which is like 20€ (talk about bang for your buck!).
    The next night (Monday), i went to the same place and tried also getting a Turkish bath to see if there was anything happening in that area. Long story short — nothing happened. But still, it was quite hot to see locals in the steam bath, sauna, and pool. Some of them chatted me up, but i don’t think that kind of thing happens in that place. A twinky guy (who looked 17yo 😭) bathed me and scrubbed me down, but again, nothing happened.
    When it was time for my massage, i was led to the massage rooms where a super hot and manly guy was waiting for me. I got super excited because he was very buff, tall, and handsome. Dark skinned, with nice face, and a very nice chunky body. He looked young, too. Unfortunately, though, while the massage was great, he did not show any signs that he wanted to offer a happy ending. I asked him in the end if he wanted a nice tip, but he said ‘Anything you give is enough.’ I tried to push a bit more by fixing my dick under the towel, but he would just look at me and said ‘I hope to see you again, Sir.’ I didn’t push it any further, and just thought the quality of the massage was still worth it. I gave him a 200EGP tip and he seemed happy too.
    Also, funnily, i met the owner while waiting for my uber (lol) outside.
    On my last night (Tuesday), i had contemplated if i wanted to go for a third time (in a row lol), but in the afternoon, a super hot 27yo athletic local hit me up on Grindr and wanted to meet at night. We ended up spending more than 3 hours together, so i wasn’t able to go anymore. Let me know if you want a rundown of what happened there.
    Overall, despite pretty harsh laws and horror stories online, i still found my fair share of gay fun in Cairo. Everything is quite cheap, and the men are just hot. 100% would recommend and would come back.
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    whitemouse reacted to bisexysf in Tunisia   
    Nobody responded. But it's ok.
    Here my takeaways from a trip to Sousse in September. I spent about 6 days there.
    You can find what you like, but you need to be focused and patient.
    Corniche of Sousse - I was there twice and I walked back and forth - nobody is looking of approaching you even if you are alone. I saw families with small kids and parents walking together and mostly groups of guys and women hanging together. They all just ignore you. I didn't see single guys or girls looking for meetings or even attention. Waste of time.
    Antistress hammam. Waste of time. When I came they paired me with a masseur who took me to very private and quiet room. I was excited at first. When I took of my clothes he almost screamed at me to put boxers on. (What? Boxers?) I told him he can cover me with towels but he called for receptionist and I just left. Too much hassle. It didn't promise any fun.
    Tej El Hahra Spa. Looks modern, but kinda busy. I had to wait for so long to get both hammam and massage. They let you in, take your money and you end up waiting and waiting. It killed my mood. They have men who work there (and not bad looking) but it feels rushed and they were not interested to play.
    Royal Jinene Spa. Things are more interesting here. They have ladies and guy (who acts like receptionist and manager). If you choose a guy he is very nice in massage - very sensual, completely naked and they have enough privacy to feel comfortable. He also offered happy ending.

    Le Monaco Spa and Thalasso. They also have women and one young guy working. I visited twice. The lady in hammam is so sweet and you can be naked there with her (she is not beautiful but it was surprising for Tunisia that you can be nude with lady). The young guy is good looking and first time he groped me a lot but still kept me covered because they are afraid of management. During second visit he was more brave and let me suck him and cummed quickly. He kinda looked liked a bottom guy but acted more like a hungry top guy haha.
    Other Spas in city are usually with women only and if it's says VIP they will offer happy endings, but I was not interested since ladies are not good looking with too much make up on them.
    I rented Hotel (all inclusive) and AirBnB (very close to each other).
    On hotel's beach I wore swim thongs every day so all eyes were on me. Guys smiled to me all the time. I had quick sex with 2 staff members. One with a very young guy from kitchen (we connected on Grindr) and he quickly came to hotel 's restroom where we had long kissing session with me sucking him till he cummed. Very juicy encounter. Second guy was from housekeeping and again he looked like a bottom guy but when he got undressed with me he took the lead and basically wanted to fuck me. We had a nice cuddling session with BJ and he cummed on my butt. It was sweet.
    Airbnb. Used just a few times to meet two guys from Grindr. One of them was very dominant - he was slim with big cock. The other was a worked from another hotel and he was nice but not very energetic. Probably tired after work.
    Facebook: you can find some guys in Facebook from groups like Gay Sousse or Gay Monastir. Also you can add just any guys from those cities and some of them will start asking you questions and eventually can switch to possible sex encounters. But it takes time.

    Hope it was helpful. My next trip is to Morocco in a few months.

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    whitemouse reacted to smorgasbord in Tunisia   
    There are local guys just hanging out (I'm into 20s / early 30s but there were others) and walking around.
    The ones that approached me were usually looking to be a guide (so they get a cut of anything you buy)  If you like the look of them, play along and they'll usually offer you themselves. 
    One took me to his apartment after checking his wife was at work and sneaking me in the side entrance. It was about an hour all in. Good looking, average sized but a very pleasant experience. 
    Another one I took up, still stayed with his family so he arranged short term accommodation (that i paid for) and I asked I pick up some local beer too. We spent a few hours in apartment together. He was fairly rough but extremely girthy and did whatever I wanted. 
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    whitemouse reacted to smorgasbord in Tunisia   
    I'm recently back from Tunisia and It the action was definitely more limited simply by the hotel design this time. As others have said - there are cameras everywhere -  so the staff need a legitimate reason to be in the room or it happens somewhere off camera. I always tip for good service anyway and that generally helps with small talk that leads to other more options. 
    In terms of Sousse itself, I had various options from from guys in the street, shop sellers to taxi drivers. So either there and then or they'd offer you their WhatsApp or Social media. Seemed to make zero difference if they were married or not.
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    whitemouse reacted to khaolakguy in Egypt and Jordan trip   
    As a new poster with prior experience why not share your experience in the first instance(see previous comments in the Africa section on reluctance to sharing information with people with no history on the forum).
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    whitemouse reacted to Bruno in Senegal and The Gambia   
    I will be travelling to Senegal and The Gambia in March. All tips are welcome.
    Our route: Dakar - Gomée Island - Saint Louis - Saly - Saloum Delta - Gambia coast south of Banjul (14 days).
    For The Gambia: any beach hotel you would recommend?
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    whitemouse reacted to Keithambrose in Optometrist Jomtien complex   
    Could keep the optometrist in business for years!
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    whitemouse reacted to Keithambrose in Optometrist Jomtien complex   
    Enough to match his personalities.
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    whitemouse reacted to Londoner in Optometrist Jomtien complex   
    Yes; I reported last year that he helped me with an adjustment, refusing to accept payment for twenty minutes plus work. My experience led my partner, who was due to buy a new pair of  spectacles in Pattaya Tai, to use his services instead.  He was very pleased with the service he received; and the price.
    A guy like that , working alone, deserves customers.
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    "Level of jobless is now lowest in history because Russia now is on historical demographic low"
    Isn't that because so many have been killed in your pointless Ukraine invasion? So a reduction in young male population means more jobs available, especially in the army!
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    I think it's strange to be proud and boast about the war one's country started
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    great to hear that worker's paradise from USSR times is now back
    that's the difference between aggressor and it's victim
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    Thank you for sharing the Kremlin's latest propaganda with us. 🤨
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    Hey
    I haven't insulted any country or any opinion posted on this blog. 
    Referring to my post about my (only) one-week February trip to Ghana, I clearly stated that I am not an expert, and that all my posts are solely based on biased experiences. That said, I genually do believe that the majority of people on this blog are looking for exciting gay encounters and that you find those best in the more closeted countries. Having lived in Egypt myself for three years, I am convinced that the sheer number of (sexual) encounters to be found there is directrly linked to their conservatrive gender-divided culture. 
    You definitely should question what you read online, yet let me be clear: making up stories as a 42-year old curious man on a 'travel blog' would be the lowest humanity could fall. 
    Enjoy the night - and the travels!
    X
     
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    It is very difficult to explain how my experience of Ghana was potentially differenet to someone else's.
    However, let me be clear and humble, I have only been one week in the country and as probably already mentioned, it was my first time in Sub Sahara Africa. I therefore am not entitled to generalise or make assumptions about other people's experiences, countries in the region or whatsoever. 
    The one thing that surprises me though about some of the reactions posted on this blog is that people seem to make the assumption that if being gay is illegal this automatically leads to no gay activity present. Bizarre. On a personal level, I fondly remember my trip to Iran in 2016. I was 31, travelling by public transport, invited into Persian homes (due to the incredible hospitality I had encoountered), so I can say that I have met 'the Persian / Iranian culture' in these three weeks. In my humble opinion: Tehran (and many other places, mainly cities in the country) is a gay paradise. It's all hidden, out-of-bound and underground, which is what it makes it so sexy and a treasure. On a contrary note: the most boring gay-place on earth in my opinon is Thailand. The men are small, average looking, fake and being gay is as commercialised as a slice of pizza in the US. Again, that's an opinion and obviously, utterly subjective.
    Bottom-line: visit Ghana! It's exotic, in full development, beautiful, easy to travel in and the men look approachable, fit, gorgeous and skilled. 
    Some detail I even forgot to mention in my previous post: take a seat on the sand after 6 pm on Accra's Labadi Beach and count the amountg of men willing to engage with you in an hour. If I were in the mood that week, boy I would have had fun.
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