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Birmingham boy

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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Mavica in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Time to give you an update:)
    First of all - plenty of unpaid sex, barely used the pay guys. If you need bottoms - go on Tinder. There are thousands of them, all interested in unpaid stuff. If you need tops - just be ready to use Grindr instead. 
    I had amazing experience and yet every single guy I met from Grindr warned me against using Grindr saying it's unsafe. I get that, use your senses, I've seen lots of fake pics and weird guys in there. 
    Been offered to join a "secret " group on Telegram for married guys meeting only foreigners. Thought was a scam- no, all real. Had 2 great tops from there so far. Good dicks, middle class kinda guys. Had to explain prep +doxy and they agreed to no condoms. 
    My major problem with the unpaid guys is that even if they liked you and you liked them - it's unlikely you're going to meet again. I wanted to repeat with at least 3-4 guys that I liked (and I KNOW they liked me too), but the second meeting never happened. Spoke to a local bttm friend about it - he says it's typical, too much choice of bottoms, even if they like you, they probably found another 5 while you agreed on a second meeting:) IE had a guy who stayed with me for 3 hrs, managed to cum 4 times. Was asking me if I'm free to spend today or tomorrow with him, didn't want to leave. Like he liked me a lot. I said I'm busy but let's meet another day. Another day comes he says he is busy. Another day I text how about today - no reply ever since. And that's typical behaviour from all the guys, even if they actually initiated the second meet. Odd and I never experienced that before...
    Been to Marlowes- didn't like any of it, the guys tried to scam for getting money even though couldn't get hard but I still had to pay because I touched him etc. The whole darkness situation wasn't very appealing either. I don't understand why you'd go there if they are paid guys on Grindr of better quality. 
    Been to the cinema, towards the closing time and was shocked by how many hot sporty guys were there, some of the guys I've seen there were better than any guys from Marlows and could be paid if they wanted. I'm not sure if I enjoy the darkness and overall state of that place but it can be a fun experience if you spot the right guys. I guess..
    Overall I had no need for the paid guys yet and had only one paid experience in SD so far, the guy from Grindr said he didn't need money although I suspected he was a ppg  but he was actually straight watching straight porn when he arrived. It was just bj. Asked for money when left (no amount, just money, I gave him 500 DOP), he left. Then he contacted if I wanted to repeat a few days later. I said yeah only if you can fuck me, no condoms, 700 DOP (less than 10 EUR, I was kinda trying to get rid of him). But he Agreed. Done what he promised, cheap and quite hot considering it's a straight guy who was watching lesbian porn on his phone that he put on my back while fucked me😀
    My major encounters and the best guys were from the chats I had while I was back home - from baddo, tinder and even sniffies. I pre-agreed that we are going to meet when I come. Had amazing unpaid young guys, great dicks, really good sex. So it's worth exploring prior to your arrival especially if you dont spend much time here. 
    So far so good. Tricky and challenging in palces. But I like it here. The weather has been great through the past two weeks, clear skys, pleasant temperatures, I don't even use a/c , just the ceiling fans. 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Axiom2020 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Just to wrap it up. Overall I liked it and probably going to return... 
    Weather was just brilliant - not hot, very dry, it rained a couple times within a whole month. 
    Unpaid guys- lots of hassle but possible and the choice is vast. Right now feature on Grindr is the way to go. Tinder - 99% of it's audience are bottoms, I only met one guy from there. 
    Paid- Grindr offers lots of options as well, sometimes as cheap as 500 DOP of you negotiate. It's a bit riskier- more dodgy people. More fake pics. Totally get the appeal of using Manny. 
    Spa - ok, but not much action, cinema is gross but can be an interesting experience, Marlows is just odd. 
    Chatting prior to arrival on websites like Badoo, sniffies, Tinder - helped a lot. The best unpaid guys I met were the ones I actually pre-agreed to meet with. 
    Uber eats is the most reliable app to use for deliveries. Airbnbs without the security but with the cameras- worked well for me, ask the guys to send ID before coming though. You don't have to stay in Zona Colonial to meet guys, especially if you want the unpaid action. 
     
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Axiom2020 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Hola everyone. I had a very slow start so not much to share. I'm surprised to see the prices for medicine ie Doxy are quite high(around $1 per one 100mg tablet, different pharmacies, even online). My first week was in Punta Cana which is quite deserted - everyone is spread along the coast so not many ppl actually around to meet. This didn't stop me from meeting unpaid locals - the guys here are just so my type, tall, masculine! I had a few unpaid guys from tinder/Grindr and one paid who asked for 20$. Still felt quite slow in terms of pace, it's not as chaotic as SD.  
     
    Now I'm in SD, Im in a quiet area for now, Mirador Sur. Lots of unpaid locals here looking to fuck, again different types and sizes available. In a local park there are plenty of straight guys selling their dicks (500 DOP is the starting price), also there are lots of fit guys training in that park and offering paid stuff. I had quite a few unpaid guys from Badoo/Tinder I chatted with before I came to DR, so I'm still going through those guys before I move to the paid guys (incl Manny potentially). 
    So far so good! 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from FunFifties in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Just to wrap it up. Overall I liked it and probably going to return... 
    Weather was just brilliant - not hot, very dry, it rained a couple times within a whole month. 
    Unpaid guys- lots of hassle but possible and the choice is vast. Right now feature on Grindr is the way to go. Tinder - 99% of it's audience are bottoms, I only met one guy from there. 
    Paid- Grindr offers lots of options as well, sometimes as cheap as 500 DOP of you negotiate. It's a bit riskier- more dodgy people. More fake pics. Totally get the appeal of using Manny. 
    Spa - ok, but not much action, cinema is gross but can be an interesting experience, Marlows is just odd. 
    Chatting prior to arrival on websites like Badoo, sniffies, Tinder - helped a lot. The best unpaid guys I met were the ones I actually pre-agreed to meet with. 
    Uber eats is the most reliable app to use for deliveries. Airbnbs without the security but with the cameras- worked well for me, ask the guys to send ID before coming though. You don't have to stay in Zona Colonial to meet guys, especially if you want the unpaid action. 
     
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from BlkSuperman in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Just to wrap it up. Overall I liked it and probably going to return... 
    Weather was just brilliant - not hot, very dry, it rained a couple times within a whole month. 
    Unpaid guys- lots of hassle but possible and the choice is vast. Right now feature on Grindr is the way to go. Tinder - 99% of it's audience are bottoms, I only met one guy from there. 
    Paid- Grindr offers lots of options as well, sometimes as cheap as 500 DOP of you negotiate. It's a bit riskier- more dodgy people. More fake pics. Totally get the appeal of using Manny. 
    Spa - ok, but not much action, cinema is gross but can be an interesting experience, Marlows is just odd. 
    Chatting prior to arrival on websites like Badoo, sniffies, Tinder - helped a lot. The best unpaid guys I met were the ones I actually pre-agreed to meet with. 
    Uber eats is the most reliable app to use for deliveries. Airbnbs without the security but with the cameras- worked well for me, ask the guys to send ID before coming though. You don't have to stay in Zona Colonial to meet guys, especially if you want the unpaid action. 
     
  6. Haha
    Birmingham boy reacted to BlkSuperman in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Lol! You know me too well my slutty friend! 
  7. Like
    Birmingham boy got a reaction from BlkSuperman in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Appreciate the advice, but it's been a month of endless dicks, I'm honestly fine at this point😀😀 I'll leave them all to you
     
    On a side note, Grindr feature called "right now" does wonders here - use it for yourself and to explore those willing to meet even from far away. Both paid and unpaid. 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from FunFifties in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Time to give you an update:)
    First of all - plenty of unpaid sex, barely used the pay guys. If you need bottoms - go on Tinder. There are thousands of them, all interested in unpaid stuff. If you need tops - just be ready to use Grindr instead. 
    I had amazing experience and yet every single guy I met from Grindr warned me against using Grindr saying it's unsafe. I get that, use your senses, I've seen lots of fake pics and weird guys in there. 
    Been offered to join a "secret " group on Telegram for married guys meeting only foreigners. Thought was a scam- no, all real. Had 2 great tops from there so far. Good dicks, middle class kinda guys. Had to explain prep +doxy and they agreed to no condoms. 
    My major problem with the unpaid guys is that even if they liked you and you liked them - it's unlikely you're going to meet again. I wanted to repeat with at least 3-4 guys that I liked (and I KNOW they liked me too), but the second meeting never happened. Spoke to a local bttm friend about it - he says it's typical, too much choice of bottoms, even if they like you, they probably found another 5 while you agreed on a second meeting:) IE had a guy who stayed with me for 3 hrs, managed to cum 4 times. Was asking me if I'm free to spend today or tomorrow with him, didn't want to leave. Like he liked me a lot. I said I'm busy but let's meet another day. Another day comes he says he is busy. Another day I text how about today - no reply ever since. And that's typical behaviour from all the guys, even if they actually initiated the second meet. Odd and I never experienced that before...
    Been to Marlowes- didn't like any of it, the guys tried to scam for getting money even though couldn't get hard but I still had to pay because I touched him etc. The whole darkness situation wasn't very appealing either. I don't understand why you'd go there if they are paid guys on Grindr of better quality. 
    Been to the cinema, towards the closing time and was shocked by how many hot sporty guys were there, some of the guys I've seen there were better than any guys from Marlows and could be paid if they wanted. I'm not sure if I enjoy the darkness and overall state of that place but it can be a fun experience if you spot the right guys. I guess..
    Overall I had no need for the paid guys yet and had only one paid experience in SD so far, the guy from Grindr said he didn't need money although I suspected he was a ppg  but he was actually straight watching straight porn when he arrived. It was just bj. Asked for money when left (no amount, just money, I gave him 500 DOP), he left. Then he contacted if I wanted to repeat a few days later. I said yeah only if you can fuck me, no condoms, 700 DOP (less than 10 EUR, I was kinda trying to get rid of him). But he Agreed. Done what he promised, cheap and quite hot considering it's a straight guy who was watching lesbian porn on his phone that he put on my back while fucked me😀
    My major encounters and the best guys were from the chats I had while I was back home - from baddo, tinder and even sniffies. I pre-agreed that we are going to meet when I come. Had amazing unpaid young guys, great dicks, really good sex. So it's worth exploring prior to your arrival especially if you dont spend much time here. 
    So far so good. Tricky and challenging in palces. But I like it here. The weather has been great through the past two weeks, clear skys, pleasant temperatures, I don't even use a/c , just the ceiling fans. 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Primeone385 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    So Mirador Sur is a cruising spot during the day for sure, but according to locals - all action starts after dark there. I personally wouldn't risk it though. The left side(look at the map) faces more rough parts- definitely to be hunted during the day, but I wouldn't go there at night, hell no. The rest of the park feels pretty chilled and safe, it's a good location just for a casual walk as well. Many of these guys would be on Grindr, you can just walk or sit there, be available and see if anyone is going to approach, text on Grindr etc. 
    Great shout about ubereats- it bloody works! Tried PedidosYa which is like the main app here and none of my credit cards work for payments, only cash. However Uber and Uber eats work perfectly. Happy to confirm Uber here is safe and very cheap. 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Primeone385 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    I was staying in Airbnb in both PC and SD. No problem getting guys in, I asked Airbnb host before booking if guests are okay. 
     
    Mirador Sur park. Just walk along and be on Grindr and things are going to happen. However if you want to use purely paid guys and Manny you better staying close to Sona Colonial. 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Primeone385 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Hola everyone. I had a very slow start so not much to share. I'm surprised to see the prices for medicine ie Doxy are quite high(around $1 per one 100mg tablet, different pharmacies, even online). My first week was in Punta Cana which is quite deserted - everyone is spread along the coast so not many ppl actually around to meet. This didn't stop me from meeting unpaid locals - the guys here are just so my type, tall, masculine! I had a few unpaid guys from tinder/Grindr and one paid who asked for 20$. Still felt quite slow in terms of pace, it's not as chaotic as SD.  
     
    Now I'm in SD, Im in a quiet area for now, Mirador Sur. Lots of unpaid locals here looking to fuck, again different types and sizes available. In a local park there are plenty of straight guys selling their dicks (500 DOP is the starting price), also there are lots of fit guys training in that park and offering paid stuff. I had quite a few unpaid guys from Badoo/Tinder I chatted with before I came to DR, so I'm still going through those guys before I move to the paid guys (incl Manny potentially). 
    So far so good! 
  12. Like
    Birmingham boy got a reaction from FunFifties in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Hola everyone. I had a very slow start so not much to share. I'm surprised to see the prices for medicine ie Doxy are quite high(around $1 per one 100mg tablet, different pharmacies, even online). My first week was in Punta Cana which is quite deserted - everyone is spread along the coast so not many ppl actually around to meet. This didn't stop me from meeting unpaid locals - the guys here are just so my type, tall, masculine! I had a few unpaid guys from tinder/Grindr and one paid who asked for 20$. Still felt quite slow in terms of pace, it's not as chaotic as SD.  
     
    Now I'm in SD, Im in a quiet area for now, Mirador Sur. Lots of unpaid locals here looking to fuck, again different types and sizes available. In a local park there are plenty of straight guys selling their dicks (500 DOP is the starting price), also there are lots of fit guys training in that park and offering paid stuff. I had quite a few unpaid guys from Badoo/Tinder I chatted with before I came to DR, so I'm still going through those guys before I move to the paid guys (incl Manny potentially). 
    So far so good! 
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    Birmingham boy reacted to SDQfrequent in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    This is probably late. But, I use Ubereats all the time in SDQ and any supermarket like Nacional has ATMs that are very safe. Yes there are plenty of pharmacies 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from NoGagSuckerSF in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Finally heading to DR 🥳 Just wanted to check a couple of things. Do I need to be careful where to withdraw cash from ATMs, any supermarket or only specific "safe places"? Also, anyone knows apps or services for food and medicine delivery? I'd need to buy doxy, presume I can do it any pharmacy? Ideally I'd want to use the delivery to order online so If you know any good apps/services like Rappi in Colombia- please shout:) Thanks! 
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Thickarmour_softpretzel in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    I'm going to post some reports here when I'm there. 3 weeks to go...
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Thickarmour_softpretzel in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Ah. Thanks for the answers guys, I've given up at some point 😃 
    Well, I might need to balance Manny and going elsewhere as I simply won't be able to afford to get so many paid guys for over a month:) Had some experience with Badoo in the meantime and it's a very dodgy audience there so I wonder if Tinder is any better...
    I shall leave my review once I'm there and hopefully it all goes well🤞Final call if anyone is visiting SD around mid Jan- mid Feb, drop me a private message:)
     
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from bmonster2020 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    I'm going to post some reports here when I'm there. 3 weeks to go...
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from floridarob in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    I'm going to post some reports here when I'm there. 3 weeks to go...
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from NoGagSuckerSF in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    I'm going to post some reports here when I'm there. 3 weeks to go...
  20. Thanks
    Birmingham boy reacted to Primeone385 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    You know one of the best person to ask is @BlkSuperman. He knows this place like the back of his hand !!!!!!!
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    Birmingham boy reacted to Canadianbtmguy in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    My last trip was my first post-vaccine, so I think that would be early 2021 so it could be some of my experiences are out-of-date. I stayed in a Hotel Colonia Casa Conde or something to that effect hotel on the first block of the Conde, main street of the Colonial Zone; cheap and cheerful. The neighborhood seems to deteriorate quite quickly heading uphill (north) so that many posters advise an Uber for the 3 blocks to Juan Binbin's (house of boys). I walked but the last block did feel a bit unsafe. Not sure if things go downhill so quickly to the west. I wasn't really that into Manny's guys (yes, they have enormous dicks, but typically lacklustrer body and face, in my opinion; of course now, 4+years later, I imagine he has a whole new stable.) As a result, I was Grinding (granted at about 20 pounds less than today!) and I met quite a few handsome Dominicans who were looking for fun, not money (although there are plenty of the latter too). It may have changed but I would say not to shy away from Grindr. I did meet one paid guy from Grindr: I spoke to a prepago, who contacted me various times but I was not interested until he said that I might be interested in his friend, who was almost too good to be true. But I met them outside the hotel, he was for real, and it was a really great and memorable experience. (I had him stay over on my last night, which sadly was a bore.) I later tried contacting each of them via WhatsApp (I wouldve gone back just for him alone!) but neither of the messages went beyond the single check-mark stage)
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    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Primeone385 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Hey everyone. I've just booked my tickets and accomodation for SD and wanted to drop a few questions here. Any advice is appreciated. I'm going for more than a month, so budget is going to be limited..
    1. I had a lot of success in meeting unpaid locals in Colombia(80% of my meets probably) and just top it up with the paid guys. From reading the forum I rarely see anyone mentioning unpaid meets in DR, is that just not realistic? I'm going to use Manny for some guys but won't be able to afford it every day:) Any feedback on this front? I'm not a sauna/cruise kinda person so would rely on online connections. Anyone used Tinder there? 
    2. I used cheap local restaurants for the menu el dia in Colombia, is there anything like that in SD? Or maybe an inexpensive restaurant chain you could recommend? 
    3. Where would you recommend going for the weekend beach trips from SD? Read that Boca Chica isn't great, anymore options nearby? Would be a shame not to use the opportunity to visit the beach during the peak season...
    4. I'm staying not far from Zona Colonial, but still a bit outside- a couple of places on the left side of it, Google shows 10-20 min ride away from zona colonial (Bella vista and around it basically). I just really want some quiet walkable places to stay in and would rather avoid the touristy centre, also it is cheaper for the long term stay.  Anyone stayed that side of the city, any issues about the guys not coming because of the location being outside Zona Colonial I should consider? 
    5. Hows the overall speed of WiFi on the island? I had no issues in Colombia but noticed none of Airbnbs kinda mention the speed which is sus. I need to video call remotely for work so wonder if that would be an issue... Presume there is no issue to buy a local SIM with internet for the foreigner in case I need it?
     
    Also If anyone is around at that time and wants to hang out or share the guys - let me know. Also, if anyone got safe contacts to share for the local tops - please DM. 
     
    Thanks! 
  23. Like
    Birmingham boy got a reaction from FunFifties in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Ah. Thanks for the answers guys, I've given up at some point 😃 
    Well, I might need to balance Manny and going elsewhere as I simply won't be able to afford to get so many paid guys for over a month:) Had some experience with Badoo in the meantime and it's a very dodgy audience there so I wonder if Tinder is any better...
    I shall leave my review once I'm there and hopefully it all goes well🤞Final call if anyone is visiting SD around mid Jan- mid Feb, drop me a private message:)
     
  24. Like
    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Docbr01 in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Ah. Thanks for the answers guys, I've given up at some point 😃 
    Well, I might need to balance Manny and going elsewhere as I simply won't be able to afford to get so many paid guys for over a month:) Had some experience with Badoo in the meantime and it's a very dodgy audience there so I wonder if Tinder is any better...
    I shall leave my review once I'm there and hopefully it all goes well🤞Final call if anyone is visiting SD around mid Jan- mid Feb, drop me a private message:)
     
  25. Like
    Birmingham boy got a reaction from Mavica in Jan-Feb26 in SD   
    Hey everyone. I've just booked my tickets and accomodation for SD and wanted to drop a few questions here. Any advice is appreciated. I'm going for more than a month, so budget is going to be limited..
    1. I had a lot of success in meeting unpaid locals in Colombia(80% of my meets probably) and just top it up with the paid guys. From reading the forum I rarely see anyone mentioning unpaid meets in DR, is that just not realistic? I'm going to use Manny for some guys but won't be able to afford it every day:) Any feedback on this front? I'm not a sauna/cruise kinda person so would rely on online connections. Anyone used Tinder there? 
    2. I used cheap local restaurants for the menu el dia in Colombia, is there anything like that in SD? Or maybe an inexpensive restaurant chain you could recommend? 
    3. Where would you recommend going for the weekend beach trips from SD? Read that Boca Chica isn't great, anymore options nearby? Would be a shame not to use the opportunity to visit the beach during the peak season...
    4. I'm staying not far from Zona Colonial, but still a bit outside- a couple of places on the left side of it, Google shows 10-20 min ride away from zona colonial (Bella vista and around it basically). I just really want some quiet walkable places to stay in and would rather avoid the touristy centre, also it is cheaper for the long term stay.  Anyone stayed that side of the city, any issues about the guys not coming because of the location being outside Zona Colonial I should consider? 
    5. Hows the overall speed of WiFi on the island? I had no issues in Colombia but noticed none of Airbnbs kinda mention the speed which is sus. I need to video call remotely for work so wonder if that would be an issue... Presume there is no issue to buy a local SIM with internet for the foreigner in case I need it?
     
    Also If anyone is around at that time and wants to hang out or share the guys - let me know. Also, if anyone got safe contacts to share for the local tops - please DM. 
     
    Thanks! 

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