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We must have the same type. When I first went in many were trying get me to buy them a drink. I said yes to one I liked but another one I didn’t rly like also sat beside me being very friendly eventually asked me for a drink and I said yes to him too just cos he was being nice… but then I couldn’t get rid of him. Eventually I did after having to be very direct. Then I got a drink with a third and ended up going with him. Then the other two got angry at me… idk if I did something wrong lol. But anyway it was a good night. The show was really good imo too. Boy drinks are only 150 which is pretty good I think? Maybe standard for jomtien. That’s why I was ok to buy a few. All up spent 2500 for the entire package…. Much better than the 2000 I spent at Olivia massage in bkk while getting very little in return…
Are there any other bars in jomtien like M bar? 

We must have the same type. When I first went in many were trying get me to buy them a drink. I said yes to one I liked but another one I didn’t rly like also sat beside me being very friendly eventually asked me for a drink and I said yes to him too just cos he was being nice… but then I couldn’t get rid of him. Eventually I did after having to be very direct. Then I got a drink with a third and ended up going with him. Then the other two got angry at me… idk if I did something wrong lol. But anyway it was a good night. The show was really good imo too. Boy drinks are only 150 which is pretty good I think? Maybe standard for jomtien. That’s why I was ok to buy a few. All up spent 2500 for the entire package…. Much better than the 2000 I spent at Olivia massage in bkk while getting very little in return…
Are there any other bars in jomtien like M bar? 

So. Anyone around? 🥹
Staying in jomtien for the first time. Feel so awkward walking past all the bars and you look at someone for 1 second and they want to drag you in and it’s never the one I’m attracted to. So I just end up walking through really fast and then feel weird to go back again. Anyway I’m gonna go get a drink at M Bar and see what happens 

This is so cool I’m going soon and just the kind of info that will be helpful. Any tips on the gay scene?

So. Anyone around? 🥹
Staying in jomtien for the first time. Feel so awkward walking past all the bars and you look at someone for 1 second and they want to drag you in and it’s never the one I’m attracted to. So I just end up walking through really fast and then feel weird to go back again. Anyway I’m gonna go get a drink at M Bar and see what happens 

So. Anyone around? 🥹
Staying in jomtien for the first time. Feel so awkward walking past all the bars and you look at someone for 1 second and they want to drag you in and it’s never the one I’m attracted to. So I just end up walking through really fast and then feel weird to go back again. Anyway I’m gonna go get a drink at M Bar and see what happens 

Update on your trip?

You sound an ideal customer!

Who cares if they don't like you ,
I'm not there to be thier friend .
I hired a guy from the Airtasker app the other day ,.
a locksmith for my unit door broke 
, the price wass paid through the Airtasker app
Asian guy ( Chinese) turns up and soon as he is out of the lift the first thing he says ... "oh my parking 🅿️is extra $10 I had to find street parking 🅿️ 
There was no hello how are you etc it was my parking extra $10.
"Who gives a fuck I said .  
I said who gives a fuck ,we agreed on a quoted price , im not your lover ,im not your friend , fix the lock🔑🔐 and fuck off !
they are the service provider and im the customer, if they agree on a quoted price then I couldn't give a fuck if they like me or not !

Idk why I always thought 'OFF' meant like offing someone [like releasing of semen, ejaculation] LOL I was so far off 😆😅

Hey y'all,
Lol I am back with my specific questions topic. I always go through and read posts after post to gather as much info possible and then if I have any remaining questions about a location I create a topic. Because I understand it can be annoying without reading anything then just creating a new topic and asking people for information.
So after reading and reading for hours and days about Thailand [Bangkok specifically], I have some questions that seems unanswered for me and I would some guidance from the forum members:
 
1. I see the term "OFF" being used only in Thailand forum and no where else. Now I know it might sound dumb but what does 'off' mean in Thailand context? Is it only handjob or only BJ or what? Can someone please elaborate? I see people saying they get a guy from the club to 'off' him.
2. If I go get a guy from the gogo bar, does my hotel needs to be close to the bar/club?
3.  What is the process of choosing a guy from the bar? Do you wait for the show to end? Do you ask mamasan? How does it work?
4. Is there a gay concentrated area in Bangkok or is it spread all over the city? I do see 'Silom' being mentioned a lot.
5.  is the new 'Atlas Bar' same as Tawan? [I am into more hunky guys] 
 
Thank you all. 
This forum is treasure and I am so thankful people are always ready to share information to guide others.
[BTW I am planning between February or April, Not sure which month is better weatherwise for first timer in Bangkok] 
 
 

Thanks for your suggestions. NGL i am still struggling. I find the similar thing when I go to Jomtien Complex lol so I just mainly go to gogo bars 😢 What happened before when I went to Jomtien was i got a bit flustered and didnt want to look weird looking at all of them so ended up stuck with one i had no interest in LOl

Whenever i see the boys outside the massage shop - how do you choose the masseuse? Do you stand there and stare at them for a few moments? it feels kind of awkward. Then today I saw one that I was really interested in, but he just looked down at his phone, and then a one next to him called out massage but I wasn't interested in him and then would feel guilty if I choose the other one and rejected the one that called out. The one that calls out is never the one I am interested in. So how do you handle this? I don't want to look like a creep standing there and assessing them on the side of the road ma...

Whenever i see the boys outside the massage shop - how do you choose the masseuse? Do you stand there and stare at them for a few moments? it feels kind of awkward. Then today I saw one that I was really interested in, but he just looked down at his phone, and then a one next to him called out massage but I wasn't interested in him and then would feel guilty if I choose the other one and rejected the one that called out. The one that calls out is never the one I am interested in. So how do you handle this? I don't want to look like a creep standing there and assessing them on the side of the road ma...

Whenever i see the boys outside the massage shop - how do you choose the masseuse? Do you stand there and stare at them for a few moments? it feels kind of awkward. Then today I saw one that I was really interested in, but he just looked down at his phone, and then a one next to him called out massage but I wasn't interested in him and then would feel guilty if I choose the other one and rejected the one that called out. The one that calls out is never the one I am interested in. So how do you handle this? I don't want to look like a creep standing there and assessing them on the side of the road ma...