jason1975

I was initially out of weekend trips for this year 2026 but since there were two forum members I could meet, I took leave on Friday and flew in for the weekend. It helped that my guy is back in Bangkok so I went to meet him also.

Apologies I can't make it on weekends that you are in Bangkok. I have dinner gathering on those Friday nights plus some conventions on Saturday Sunday. Glad to hear that you having fun so far. May we meet again in 2027.

Congrats! And thank you for "live" trip report!

You might see him again tomorrow morning at breakfast buffet

Did you send a message to Grndr guy to say you also want to have what the cow had? Lol

Back to OP's question which started this topic. Here's my response. Tip for big cock show guys 100 baht. Not necessary to tip every guy. Only those guys whom you wish to tip. Not necessary to tip guys whom you invite to sit with you. You are already buying them a drink. But this is provided it is a short interaction probably 10 minutes. It's meant for both parties to introduce each other and talk about possible off. If no off forthcoming, the guy will go back on stage. If you ask the guy to stay with you to watch the show with you, you should tip him either 100 or 200 baht because he will be with you more than 10 minutes. You should inform him in advance. If you want to kiss and fondle, do be seated at one of the seats at the back or in the corner. You can tell him that you want to do that and you should tip more.

In the past, opening a bottle of whisky was a reasonable idea. 4000 baht to be with 3 or 4 guys and tip them 500 each for the night. But as of last year onwards, the bars insist that I buy each guy a boy drink even though I order a bottle. The only bar that doesn't do that is Jupiter but I don't fancy the guys there compared to those at Freshboy, Dreamboy and Good Boy.

I agree that sometimes it helps to ask mamasan if you have too many choices and you need to narrow down the number of choices.

Sometimes, it's the guy who will do these to you once you invite him for a drink. Of course, he does it to secure an off.

Rare for you? Lol!

100 baht each

I only tip the big cock show guys I know personally - either I bought them drinks in the past or I know they are good friends of my guy. At Dreamboy, I always tip 2 big cock show guys because they are my guy's good friends. At Freshboy, I end up tipping all big cock show guys - ranging from 6 of them working on a quiet weekday to 10 of them working on a weekend - because I know at least 5 of them personally and it wouldn't be nice not to tip the remaining guys!

No online. You can go there and there's plenty to choose from.

Sun Massage is my favourite shop in Silom. The en suite shower in each room is convenient and handy. My favourite B2B massage guy works in Adam Massage at soi 4 and unfortunately the showers there are outside the rooms. At Sun Massage, not only are the guys willing to provide extras, their massage skills are also decent. Over the years, I have developed friendships with many guys there. I currently have 4 regulars at Sun Massage.

Good choice of location!