NickM

I’m heading to Johannesburg, South Africa on business soon, and I’m planning to spend a few days exploring Cape Town afterward. I was under the impression that it would be a prime spot to meet big black guys, but after browsing Grindr, RentMen, and Hunqz, I’m honestly disappointed. Most of the escort profiles have very few photos, and the quality is so poor that they all look fake. I realize there might be reasons for this like a stigma, but it's still frustrating. And it looks dangerous. Has anyone had a good experience with escorts in South Africa? Alternatively, does anyone have escort contacts or know someone who can handle the arrangements for me?

Thanks for reply. Any difference with Cuban guys?

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Hi guys. I’m considering a trip to the DR, but I’m still on the fence. I was there once about 15 years ago, but it was strictly for diving and the beach. I’ve been reading through a lot of trip reports and put together a few questions. Hopefully, these will be helpful for others as well. I’d especially appreciate feedback from anyone who has experience with the scene in both the DR and Brazil because visited Brazil many times. 1. What’s the safety situation like? I’m used to being on high alert in Brazil, but honestly, I’d rather avoid that constant tension and the eyes in the back of my head feeling regarding robberies or getting my drink spiked. I know nobody can give me hard stats, but I'd love to hear your personal experiences, especially compared to Brazil. Am I right to expect a more laid-back vibe in the DR? 2. Accommodation: I prefer Airbnb over hotels, so I won't be able to register guests at a front desk. Are there usually any issues bringing guys into an Airbnb? 3. Neighborhoods: Aside from Ciudad Colonial, where else should I look? I’ve checked out a lot of apartments there and realized I’d be much more comfortable in a more modern, up-to-date place. 4. Performance: As I understand it, most of escort guys are straight. Right? How are they with staying hard? I can’t stand it when a guy has to watch straight porn just to stay hard enough to fuck me. In Brazil, that’s rarely an issue - is it common in the DR? 5. Groups: How do DR escorts feel about groups? Are there any issues if they are both straight? Do they get awkward or tense with each other? 6. Rates: What are the typical rates for an overnight with a fit/athletic guy? I’m not looking for anything monstrous - 8 inches is enough for me, haha. 7. Helpers: Are there any other helpers besides Manny? I’d appreciate any contacts or recommendations.

Thanks for the reply. Any idea how much extra they charge?

I partly agree with Caeron. You have to understand that the islands are very small, there isn’t much staff, everyone knows each other, and very few people would want to take that kind of risk. Also, of course, it’s a matter of taste, and I respect other people’s preferences and everyone in general. But in my personal opinion, 99.9% of the staff simply don’t trigger any sexual attraction. Again — for me personally. Where I disagree with Caeron: I’ve visited more than 85 countries. I’ve never experienced better beach vacations than in the Maldives — anywhere in the world. Not in Asia, not in the Caribbean, not in the Americas, not in Oceania. It’s an unforgettable experience and pure pleasure. But by day five, I always start to get bored.

I’ve been there many times. Here’s how I see it. There are basically two types of islands in the Maldives. Some are fully occupied by resorts. Others are local islands where people actually live, and far fewer tourists go there. On resort islands, most of the staff come from India, Pakistan, Nepal, and Sri Lanka. On local islands, you’ll find the locals — they’re dark-skinned, short, and, honestly, mostly not very attractive (sorry). The Maldives are pure hedonism. Everything there is designed to make your body feel good. Perfect humidity, amazing water temperature, fresh air, soft sand. It’s an ideal place for sex. But you need to bring it with you.

Really want to believe that. But let’s wait until they turn 70.

These days Ipanema has almost no nightlife, sadly. Except for New Year’s and Carnival, it gets very quiet after 8 in the evening.

It's fraud 100%. In any country

Hi. Thanks for the detailed report. By the way, are there muscled guys there?