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Funny story: I had a crush on her when I was 16 and I had a life-size stand up poster of her that I got from a book store. I kept it in my room and dreamed of her often.
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I agree but no one is Joan. However, Nicolette is great and I love seeing her on the screen. I think a great choice.
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Finally, Alexis comes back into the picture. This show gets better each week. Loving it!
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Thanks everyone! Much appreciated!
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Beautiful new look. Great job.
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http://money.cnn.com/2018/03/23/technology/craigslist-personals-shutdown/index.html
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What an impressive man. He will be missed.
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Lucky, if this happens, let me know. I'd even fly back to the states for this!
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One thing I have noticed, esp. on the A Newbie's visit to Brazil, and other threads is the clever gif's that you guys and others find. Where the fuck do you get these things? The suck it up gif on that thread, almost made me laugh till I pissed my britches. Come on guys, is there a repository somewhere for this shit?
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A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
In the end, we all have mommy and daddy issues that arise. Right Grandma? -
A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Who the fuck said everything had to be positive? I didn't. Did I? I don't expect all sunshine and bubbles. What I do expect is a decorum and when you disagree with someone, do it in a respectful way. It is as simple as that. And, guess what? I am the one that gets to decide! Ain't that a shit? -
A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I don't see you or Badboy or Rockhard as difficult to deal with. But, I am too mellow. Maybe the weed? -
A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble. Yehuda Berg -
what a differnce a decade makes!
TotallyOz replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I don't think so. Most of the ex's clients are older than him and have been with him for years. Many of his clients are in their 70's and 80's. But, like others, I still see the same guys in Thailand and Brazil that I saw 20 years ago. If I met them today, I would not see them. But, good memories and I know good sex awaits. A bit older and not as in shape, but the fun times are there in my mind and thus I like the repeats. -
A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I appreciate your perspective and thus why your post was not removed or edited and why you were not warned or banned. I believe in free speech and rarely get involved when people have issues with posts. However, let me help you edit your first post to be more positive and not rude (as I and OTHERS who wrote to me) believed it was. Rude You: From what I could make up from the overly long (extremely detailed) and somewhat confusing encounter...you had a good time...Happy to hear (read) that Your writing/typing sounds like somebody else who also writes long, hard to follow encounters with boys in Brazil... FYI...Most of the guys don´t steal especially if they know they have the opportunity to make more money with you and also if they know they may run into you again... Glad that you were able to entertain so many guys on here.. Not Rude You: From what I could make up from the extremely detailed and somewhat confusing encounter...you had a good time...Happy to hear (read) that Your writing/typing sounds like somebody else that use to post on this site. FYI...Most of the guys don´t steal especially if they know they have the opportunity to make more money with you and also if they know they may run into you again... Glad that you were able to entertain so many guys on here.. Oz here again: So, see, just a few words can make a big difference. You thought the OP's post was not to your liking. You said that in a rude way. I thought your post was not to my liking and I said that in a rude way. I guess I was trying to treat you like you had treated the OP and hoping that you would see how you could be just a bit kinder in THIS instance to help new posters feel more welcome as opposed to alienating them (much like another poster here from years gone by). Also, notice that your pissing on this thread did not cause me to piss on your other thread. I view things very separate. I think many would say that is the wrong approach but I'm old and my ways are kind of set in stone at this point in time. I can truly count on one hand the number of people banned from this site (other than one poster who created 10 or more names and we banned them all). You are appreciated here. But, rude comments to others are not appreciated or loved. -
Why pay for non-performance?!
TotallyOz replied to 12is12's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I ran an escort agency years back. When there was a complaint from a client, I gave them a free date. That came out of my pocket. It was rare but it happened. The customer is always right and sometimes personalities just don't mesh. That said, I have been in situations where service was not rendered and I have always paid. One in LA through Craig's List was adorable but he was a shitty fuck. I still paid him and gave him a tip. He asked to see me again and I told him he was cute but not good sex. He asked for another chance which I gave him and he was fantastic the next 10 times. When boys know they are going with someone who is known, they don't fuck up as much. When they know they can get a repeat, the smart ones work harder as it makes their life easier. When I was traveling to Rio multiple times a year for a few months at a time, I never had any issue as they all knew I was good and consistent. But, with tourists, they also know they most likely will never see them again and some do stupid things to ensure they get as much as possible for the least amount of time. I have never refused to pay at a sauna or at a massage place in Brazil or Thailand. And, I have had bad "dates" in both. I just consider it the price of admission. As I always tip the mamasan in Thailand before I leave when the boy is bad, I give no tip and tell her he was not good. As a former pimp, I feel that is needed. But, in Brazil, the boys do not work for the sauna and they are independent contractors and what happens at all stages is between the two parties. I bet most sauna owners do not want problems. But, at the same time, as a foreigner, I do not want an issue in a country that is not my own. -
Congrats on finding another place to ho around! Now, your schedule will be full? Wait, no, wasn't it already full? You need to add more hours to your day to keep up with all the Rio guys!
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what a differnce a decade makes!
TotallyOz replied to Tomcal's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I have a friend (ex) in NYC and also Brazilian who is in his 50's and still escorting. It is all he has done for 25 years since I introduced him to The Gaiety. He still get clients and he has worked no other job in all these years. When I was at Stella's Bar in the 90's there was an older Puerto Rico dude in his 60's and still getting clients. He was old but apparently a big dick and a good fucker. Luckily, there is someone out there for these guys. -
A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Let me help. If you like big muscle tops and a thread is started on that and you say, wonderful. Great. If a thread is started on skinny bottoms and you have to insert an opinion there just to downgrade someone, then, that is not great. That is being an asshole. In other words, we all have preferences. Your comments to the original poster in this thread were rude. And thus why I called you out for being an asshole. If you didn't like this thread, the polite thing to do was to move on to another one. But, to insert your comments when unneeded and toward someone who is trying to contribute positively to the community, makes me wonder why you felt the need. -
Badboys March 2018 Rio Recap
TotallyOz replied to Badboy81's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Thanks for the report. How much was your place and was it from AirBnB? Do you use Jackd? -
The amount of profiles on Grindr that say they are on PrEP, at least in Thailand, is pretty high. Interesting the shot scenario as I hate needles.
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A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I am bothered because I hate people shitting on people who are trying to make the place more enjoyable for all. I may not like black guys, but you won't see me posting about in a post (I love black guys but you get the point?). When you read something you don't like, move on. No need to be a negative nelly. IMHO Goodness, I had near 10 boys living with me at one time and not one was effeminate (other than me). They were as manly and as masculine as any guy I met in Harlem, Brazil or Spain. True, none were fat (one was chunky) but none of the one I had sex with in other places were anything but in shape and thin as well. -
Pilot's spectacular photos taken from an airplane cockpit
TotallyOz replied to AdamSmith's topic in The Beer Bar
Adam, I blame this all on you. You posted photos that I loved and I guess I am not intelligent enough to like anything more than the ordinary. But, photos are in the eye of the beholder. I find the beautiful. I had one of my Maltese riding up front with the pilots as they always loved me bring my male dogs with diamond collars on board. They thought the dogs were more diva than a real diva so what the fuck do pilots know? I digress. How care you put up photos I enjoy looking at. The gall of you. Shame. Shame. Shame. (said like the brotherhood as Cersi walks down the street nude). -
A Newbie's First Time in Brazil
TotallyOz replied to numazu's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
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Pilot's spectacular photos taken from an airplane cockpit
TotallyOz replied to AdamSmith's topic in The Beer Bar
Truly spectacular. The one with the lightening is amazing!