Great updates! It sounds like you are still having a blast. If you want a soldier, go to the park across from the Palace. It is cruisy at night. There are reports on it on http://gaythailand.com Also, I agree with the heat but I love the 90's and high humidity. I hate cold weather.
The weekend market is a blast but hot as hell in the summer! I bought my 3 dogs there. LOL And, then had to wait in Thailand for another few months to get all their shots, before I could bring them back to USA. They do miss Thailand though.