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Requesting bareback?

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First, lets be adults, and realize that we can all make our own decisions and live with the consequences of them.  If I wanted to hear someone preach, I would go to church.

 

That said, are there spas/locations where you can negotiate for raw?  If so, how has the process been?

1 hour ago, tahomatom05 said:

That said, are there spas/locations where you can negotiate for raw?  If so, how has the process been?

likely, you suggest , they decline

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1 hour ago, tahomatom05 said:

First, lets be adults, and realize that we can all make our own decisions and live with the consequences of them.  If I wanted to hear someone preach, I would go to church.

I suppose you consider a young gay massage boy who has not been able to work for months who has trouble paying off loans and sending money to his family and can not afford PReP will always make a rational decision when faced with your question. I suggest you put yourself in his position before you talk about raw sex. 

 

It is astonishing that this still a topic of discussion. In some ways, it is a remnant of the west's imperialism; everything is OK for us at home due to improvements in treatment, so why consider those benighted parts of the world where, for some, Hiv is still a death sentence, or at least involves a lifetime if struggle? 

Someone I have seen several times offered bareback & I declined.

He says he's taking PREP,  but from what little I have read of that, it's not improving the odds sufficiently for my tastes.  

Topics like this, opinions like this ... scare me immensely. Shoving boys in a (health risk) corner scares me ... why on earth would you put any human being in such a predicament?

I find there is often the temptation to bareback when waking up whilst in bed with a boy, rather than fiddling about with a condom, but I have resisted in recent years,  Unlike when I first discovered Thailand and Pattaya 20 years ago when I used up my luck in this department, not contracting any infections, despite anal sex with a lot of boys.

On 6/17/2020 at 8:15 AM, Travellerdave said:

I find there is often the temptation to bareback when waking up whilst in bed with a boy, rather than fiddling about with a condom, but I have resisted in recent years,  Unlike when I first discovered Thailand and Pattaya 20 years ago when I used up my luck in this department, not contracting any infections, despite anal sex with a lot of boys.

Why do you resist your true nature, Dave? No reason. We should enjoy the little time we spend on this planet. 

1 hour ago, gaperking said:

Why do you resist your true nature.....

Because the other guy in the bed has a true nature

2 hours ago, gaperking said:

Why do you resist your true nature, Dave? No reason. We should enjoy the little time we spend on this planet. 

Im disappointed that you didnt even bother to answer OP and give advise.

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