Are there any venues in Sto Domingo where you can check out and chat up available young men? I'm into very good looking, muscly types, but most importantly, I have to meet a guy in person first before knowing whether I want to hire him. Pictures rarely convey the full chemistry. There used to be a big disco (Club Aire?) where I met one of the hottest hires of my life. That's what I'm thinking of, though a bar, hotel, gym, beach, or any other casual social setting could also work.

Nope....Santo Domingo is really not known for "upscale"...you may be able to meet some guys off the apps that are pay for play but as far as any of the places you mentioned, not really

You will tons of guys around and speaking some Spanish will increase your chances

 Narsisco's house?

I am not sure if you can select the boy there in person or if you need to do it via Whatsapp....

By upscale, I mean he doesn't look like a starving homeless person or dangerous street trade. (Not there's anything wrong with that!) I mean he takes care of himself and can afford at least a gym membership and protein shakes. I saw a mention on another site that there are a couple chic straight mainstream discos that are welcoming to gay guys as well. That tends to be where the upscale gay-for-pay that I like show up. 

Interesting (to me) development of the conversation. The OP inquired about availability of "young men."

Badboy replied, using "guys."

But, it ended up, so far, with "boy."

I know that I am not the only one who likes to see the guys we talk about referred to as men or young men, or guys!

But then, the website is not called Mentoy.

13 hours ago, davet said:

By upscale, I mean he doesn't look like a starving homeless person or dangerous street trade. (Not there's anything wrong with that!) I mean he takes care of himself and can afford at least a gym membership and protein shakes. I saw a mention on another site that there are a couple chic straight mainstream discos that are welcoming to gay guys as well. That tends to be where the upscale gay-for-pay that I like show up. 

i wouldn’t call any of them upscale but by your definition there are plenty of men.  Most of the guys I’ve seen Manny provide are well manicured.  And if you log into Grindr in that area you will find plenty of “upscale” guys ready to take your money. Dominicans take great pride in their appearance so the only ones you will find that look run down are the new street guys or the ones that are past their time.  

Edited February 4, 20206 yr by Kevie770

9 hours ago, Lucky said:

Interesting (to me) development of the conversation. The OP inquired about availability of "young men."

Badboy replied, using "guys."

But, it ended up, so far, with "boy."

I know that I am not the only one who likes to see the guys we talk about referred to as men or young men, or guys!

But then, the website is not called Mentoy.

 

This is a strange obsession of yours. Why do you not let everyone use the word they prefer? No one is forcing you to say "boy." Everyone knows my English is weak, but I have learned in America that 60 years old men call themselves "boys". 

Beyond the name of the site, I have never seen context here or at Daddy's that would lead me to believe that the contributor talking about fucking his boys was incurring in pedophilia, which we all condemn not because it is illegal, but because it is wrong. 

So why do you feel compel to bring this topic back so often? You are not behaving like a good boy. 

 

As others mentioned, Santo Domingo is not upscale. It is rough on the edges to say the least. But availability is high, so their must be tons of boys of your liking! Street trade is everywhere, but even if that is not your thing (as you said) there can be a very cruisy atmosphere in other parts of town too. Try Plaza cc Central and cc Acropolis shopping centres: quite high end with same kind of visitors. And shopping centres like this are gay heaven when it comes to cruising. 

Grindr is a good option too. You can always meet up for a drinks first right. And then there is Instagram. Some call it the next grindr. Great to get in touch with 'normal' and curious guys. Just take your time talking to a guy and start well before your travel dates.

I woud argue that Narcisso's house is also a bit to extreme for you. Without being judgmental, I just think you will find that experience a bit overwhelming. To pick a guy from this heavenly meat market (emphasize 'meat') is fantastic to satisfy your inner slut, but then again: hardly upscale.

NOTE:     I'll be in Santo Domingo march 19-30. Anyone there happy to go for a beer and swap stories? Drop me a DM!

Edited February 5, 20206 yr by snwbrdr015

Silly question... but how do you cruise guys in shopping centres etc if you don't speak the language, any tips?

Or just sign on to grindr?

Do you need to talk when you are street or mall cruising? You are doing it wrong.

@Latbear4blk hahaha, probably true!! Just peeking aside at the urinals will do the trick!

@redxs If you use Grindr, you don't need to go to a shoppingmall I guess... In general: Google Translate is your friend. Get yourself a local SIM card (try the provider Claro) so you have internet acces everywhere. Having that said: real time cruising, winking to a guy, a smile, the whole experience...it can be soooo much fun!!! So many horny, testosterone filled and open minded guys around, enjoy it!

Then...as a general remark...please don't take it the wrong way......to our English speaking forum members...or those with that jolly accent which is called 'American English' ;-) : 
Learn. A. Bit. Of. Local. Lingo! (eg Spanish...)
Wake-up call: the majority of people on this planet DO NOT speak English as their first language. Take in consideration that Spanish is more widely spoken then English. Get out of your 'language bubble' and learn the basics. You will be surprised how easy and how REWARDING it is! TopTip app: duolingo. It helps you to pick up the basics with half an hour practice a day.

 

Finally, to motivate you: I attached a photo of some fine, prime meat from Narcisso's house ;-), Yummeeeee!

 

Edited February 12, 20206 yr by snwbrdr015

Cheers!

Can I DM you about Narcisso's house? How to get invite etc....

Sure! Happy to help.

On 2/12/2020 at 9:50 AM, snwbrdr015 said:

@Latbear4blk hahaha, probably true!! Just peeking aside at the urinals will do the trick!

@redxs If you use Grindr, you don't need to go to a shoppingmall I guess... In general: Google Translate is your friend. Get yourself a local SIM card (try the provider Claro) so you have internet acces everywhere. Having that said: real time cruising, winking to a guy, a smile, the whole experience...it can be soooo much fun!!! So many horny, testosterone filled and open minded guys around, enjoy it!

Then...as a general remark...please don't take it the wrong way......to our English speaking forum members...or those with that jolly accent which is called 'American English' ;-) : 
Learn. A. Bit. Of. Local. Lingo! (eg Spanish...)
Wake-up call: the majority of people on this planet DO NOT speak English as their first language. Take in consideration that Spanish is more widely spoken then English. Get out of your 'language bubble' and learn the basics. You will be surprised how easy and how REWARDING it is! TopTip app: duolingo. It helps you to pick up the basics with half an hour practice a day.

 

Finally, to motivate you: I attached a photo of some fine, prime meat from Narcisso's house ;-), Yummeeeee!

 

That would fit comfortably at the back of my deep throat. Heading to the DR in March to feast on big cocks. Getting my temporary glory hole arranged with my hosts. Bet his cum is tasty.

On 2/2/2020 at 6:24 AM, lopesv2 said:

 Narsisco's house?

I am not sure if you can select the boy there in person or if you need to do it via Whatsapp....

This house might be better than Juan binbin and the terrible encounter I had there on my first trip. That rush job with a bored straight boy who said time was up after 25 mins is why I steer dudes away from the brothel.