22 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

first: we are rightly quick to condemn posting anything to ID another member.  But many here freely post information to ID the boys. Not good in either direction, unless the boy (or member) agrees with posting the ID information online.  Who would agree to that in this type forum ?  Maybe some of the online rentboys or pornstars who are out professionally, but probably not many of the boys working the saunas in Rio

This is the correct and decent policy. Just as board members wish not to be publicly identified (and posting on an internet message board, whether in a public or private forum, is public), sauna garotos and gogo boys that aren’t advertising their sex work online do not wish to be publicly identified either. 
 

25 minutes ago, Slvkguy said:

second: if you think you have any confidences or secrets w the sauna working boys, you are mistaken.  they openly discuss clients and will tell you just about anything.  among themselves, of course they gossip and share everything about clients.  after a visit or two to the same sauna, they know exactly what you like & how you tip. you are not anonymous.  proceed accordingly.

Sauna workers may be gossiping amongst each other about various clients, but they most certainly are not publicly posting about us on internet message boards. Therein lies the difference! I don’t understand why that is so hard for some posters to get. 

As an additional thought...

Why any real person would be concerned about their realness being questioned in a virtual forum? Why any real person would run to collect and share documentation and testimonies to prove their existence, if questioned in an anonymous virtual forum? 

I do not know what is worse, total trolls or totally dumb. 

An anonymous poster claiming they will sue for slander.  So who is being defamed? A made up screen name?? Not the brightest!