Not living in the Silom area affords me different people to be close to on the apps. Most are office workers and college students. Most will never respond to me. I'm patient and and also don't mind repeating a "you are sexy" many times. I saw a lad 2 years back that I thought was adorable. He was cute and sexy. I messaged him. No response. 5 other times over the last 2 years, the same. Never even responding.

Today! Today was different. It was rainy and he was stuck in my area (just feet away) and did not want to go out in the rain so he responded. We chatted and I asked him what he was looking for an he said 1000 baht. I said OK. I know he was not a regular money boy as that rate was not regular. But, when he got to me he was very nervous. He chilled a bit with my BF and relaxed. Great sex. Afterwards many thank you's for a good time and he was off. Now, he has me on his friend list in multiple places and this cute junior accounting major has a new benefactor. He asked me to take him to a movie next week and I agreed. He said, "I'll buy your ticket if you buy dinner."  Agreed. 2 fucking years later. Damn!

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On 11/25/2022 at 7:57 AM, TotallyOz said:

I messaged him. No response. 5 other times over the last 2 years, the same. Never even responding.

A good salesman never gives up....

According to the National Sales Executive Association over 80% of sales happen after at least five interactions. Yet only 25% of sales people bother to make a second contact with a prospect.

"Energy and persistence conquer all things." -Benjamin Franklin

I have seen him about 5 or 6 more times. He is a nice guy and not looking for BF but just enjoys the English conversations and dinners. Sex is always excellent with him. He bought me a Xmas present which I found sweet (nothing expensive but a box of cookies).

3 hours ago, floridarob said:

A good salesman never gives up....

According to the National Sales Executive Association over 80% of sales happen after at least five interactions. 

really ? I thought after 5 calls salesman would be killed already

24 minutes ago, vinapu said:

really ? I thought after 5 calls salesman would be killed already

See the reply from Oz.....

I'm sure the "Vinapu Tuck" is just another method of not giving up either 😉

2 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

He bought me a Xmas present which I found sweet (nothing expensive but a box of cookies).

and you gave him.......🤔

2 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

"Energy and persistence conquer all things." -Benjamin Franklin

 

19 minutes ago, floridarob said:

See the reply from Oz.....

I'm sure the "Vinapu Tuck" is just another method of not giving up either 😉

if Franklin was so smart why he is dead already?

No , "vinapu tuck' is method of signalizing  future serious interest in guy while at the same time checking if he is shaved there which I don't like. Is known to enrich guy in question with red note. Generally not used on specimen intended to be offed the same night unless plan is devised to off two guys one after another ( science knows several such cases, last time in BBB Pattaya in November 2022 ), in such a case second one is subject to "tuck" while first will be just offered drink. Reports by some scientists that the same guy was subject of 'Tuck" more then once on the same trip are at best unconfirmed.  

14 hours ago, floridarob said:

and you gave him.......🤔

A partridge in a pear tree. (dollar tree that is)

I have similar stories of chasing boys for years and finally getting lucky.

I had a great off in Eros, the boy left shortly after but I got his contact details from waiter. I don't know what was the problem on the boy's side, but it took me 5 years until I could meet him again. Great body and activities as first time we met.

But don't drag it on too long! A boy I met in 2013, I saw again last year. 9 years can change a lot, in this case negative, not attractive any more. A video call would have saved me the time and money to meet him.

Just today, I had a lad I have been following on Instagram for ages and NEVER one response. I also follow his Twitter and NEVER one response. I saw him on Hornet today and reached out as he was in my area and now I have an appointment with him this weekend. Thank goodness I recognized him after following him for so long, linking every photo and post. Now, he did ask for 5k and I am not stupid.

 

Well, maybe a little as I have wanted him for so long.

Just today, I had a lad I have been following on Instagram for ages and NEVER one response. I also follow his Twitter and NEVER one response. I saw him on Hornet today and reached out as he was in my area and now I have an appointment with him this weekend. Thank goodness I recognized him after following him for so long, linking every photo and post. Now, he did ask for 5k and I am not stupid.

 

Well, maybe a little as I have wanted him for so long.

23 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

Just today, I had a lad I have been following on Instagram for ages and NEVER one response. I also follow his Twitter and NEVER one response. I saw him on Hornet today and reached out as he was in my area and now I have an appointment with him this weekend. Thank goodness I recognized him after following him for so long, linking every photo and post. Now, he did ask for 5k and I am not stupid.

 

Well, maybe a little as I have wanted him for so long.

He made an appointment, and didn't show. I waited to see if he messaged me for 1.5 hours. He didn't. I wrote to say he missed it. He said, sorry, he could come now. But, I was already busy and said another time. For 5k without bargaining, I would have showed.

 

Rid

2 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

He made an appointment, and didn't show. I waited to see if he messaged me for 1.5 hours. He didn't. I wrote to say he missed it. He said, sorry, he could come now. But, I was already busy and said another time. For 5k without bargaining, I would have showed.

 

Rude behaviour! asked 5k , didn't show up and didn't bother to update you .I would never consider to contact him again after such irreverence behaviour.

6 minutes ago, Boy69 said:

Rid

Rude behaviour! asked 5k , didn't show up and didn't bother to update you .I would never consider to contact him again after such irreverence behaviour.

The heart wants what the heart wants.

At least once.

6 minutes ago, Boy69 said:

Rid

Rude behaviour! asked 5k , didn't show up and didn't bother to update you .I would never consider to contact him again after such irreverence behaviour.

While I agree with your reasoning I have my doubts if you really would miss opportunity over missed appointment  to meet a guy you were lusting for 5 years

2 minutes ago, TotallyOz said:

The heart wants what the heart wants.

At least once.

I second it, specially that I'm in similar predicament as we speak. 

5 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

The heart wants what the heart wants.

At least once.

yes, the "heart"

 

41 minutes ago, fedssocr said:

yes, the "heart"

My self-respect always trumps emotion and ignored my heart ...

5 hours ago, Boy69 said:

 

My self-respect always trumps emotion and ignored my heart ...

 

14 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

The heart wants what the heart wants.

At least once.

I get the impression your heart is pretty full to overflowing 🤣 - like most of us!!!