41 minutes ago, chum_soccer said:

As I was tipsy already, I had the guts to ask him if he would like to drink with me after his shift.

The old liquid courage, lol

 

6 hours ago, chum_soccer said:

I just came back from 4 night trip in Pattaya which was a partial success but mostly disappointing but I guess, this what makes the "hunt" more exciting and challenging 

 

that's true, hunt is more exciting and challenging and if brings reward at the end , big ego booster. 

On another hand we need to be careful with various boundaries as easily we may land in hot water so if signs are clear guy is not interested , it's better to give up than trying to coerce him just by allure of money. 

Straight guys are in my opinion better for those games because if successful , they collect their reward and may even ask for another chance  along 'business is business lines" without any drama. 

It took me three trips to finally get statement " we should have  a drink on Sunday" from guy I meet on the street by chance few times in short time span. Then I decided it's not coincidence and decided   to chase him as every time there was smile toward me. Persistency paid off and we meet every trip at least once. When he knows I'm there  he sends me Line " what about tomorrow at 3 to 7 ?" and it's "yes" or "no" on my side without any fuss if I don't have time. Then he may suggest another day and usually does.