How much $$ have you spent over the years ?

[PeterRS]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

If he made his family living in some shack with no water  and toilet in the woods because he couldn't afford anything better due to his love for new cars , that would be "stupid, unreasonable or weird".

But I still would not tell him that to his face, sorry. Only if he was a very good friend would I even broach the subject. Otherwise, it's his money to spend as he wishes in my view.