Your Most Memorable Sexual Experience

[PeterRS]

I almost titled this "Raunchy Sexual Experience"  but felt that might be too limiting. Most of us here will have enjoyed many sexual trysts not just in Thailand but also in other parts of the world. I expect, too, that at least some will remain in our minds as among the great experiences of our lives, be you older or younger. Talking with friends the other evening, we were trying to recall if there was one experience that outclassed all the others and that when the time comes for us to shuffle off this mortal coil (well, bringing a quote from Hamlet into the thread might raise the tone if just a little  ), we will take with us to the next world.

The older one gets, I am sure the more difficult it becomes if only because so many trysts have been in their own way incredibly memorable. I have written a few months ago in a series of long posts about many of my own adventures, from the cutest Indonesian in an Amsterdam sauna, a night spent with as cute a Vietnamese whom I'd met in a Paris sauna who lived in the poshest of circles being the boyfriend of a very rich Frenchman who lived in one of the most elegant addresses in the city (thankfully the French guy was in the USA for 3 weeks!) or the first nights of sleepless passion with a Japanese in Tokyo. 

The one I might remember most? So hard to pick just one. But I would choose another Tokyo adventure. Armed with the Spartacus Guide - those of us of a certain age before the internet will recall that this thick tome was amost the only Guide which purportedly provided information on most of the world's gay venues - I happened to find a sauna in one of Tokyo's trendiest districts, Shibuya - not known then for gay hang outs. It was up a hill in a small building with a few floors and a roof terrace. I happened upon the most delightful young Chinese. We soon found our way into a smallish room and started what became a long session of love making. After some time, he suggested we go up to the roof and continue there. That even longer session quite literally under the stars was just something I could not forget even if I tried. Naturally it is not the sky or the stars I remember. It is merely the most beautiful face and body of someone who seemed as enrapt as I. Ah! What a memory!

[TMax]

For me there are two times both equally memorable (both mentioned in my series of firsts posts) and both that will be with me for ever, the first was my very first m2m sexual encounter in Phuket that was a real eye opener and one hell of a climax (I still think of it quite often). The second was my first 4 hands massage (3 some), nobody had ever even seen me holding hands with another guy let alone having sex with one but having one watch me having sex with the other guy was a real delight, then he joined in which topped it off rather nicely. Lately I have been thinking about my next trip in November and am keen to try something other than the massage shops, if it's anywhere near as good as I'm thinking it will be a new long term memory.

[floridarob]

14 hours ago, TMax said:

am keen to try something other than the massage shops

Maybe:
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[NIrishGuy]

Having a threesome with two BEAUTIFUL asian identical twin twinks at an private pool party / orgy in Bali and having partaken of a ton of viagra for the party man I was on form that day and put up on hell of a performance, both with them and the seeming multitude of beautiful local guys who seemed to just keep on coming in every sense of the word after them too  - still brings a smile to my face today just thinking about it all 🙂

 

The party was sold as a ticket only event aimed at Bule buying the quite expensive tickets and the local uber cute guys were allowed to attend free ( basically to have fun with the apparently well off Bule I guess. I'd kept a watch on ticket sales and noticed they weren't selling and the day before the party I rang the host to ask was the party on or not and what price where the tickets now etc  - trouble for him was the tickets hadn't sold well and in the end he gave up on the sales idea and just threw a massive party for the locals for himself and a just few friends to "enjoy" and as I knew him from the bars he very kindly just said "fuck it, come along as my guest" - the end resuly being there was myself and perhaps another two maxmim three white guys who were still of an age to have "fun" , so there was us and maybe 20/30+ locals all there for a good time - and Im pleased to say I lead the charge and fought a valiant battle to the bitter end on behalf of white guys everywhere ! lol. What a day THAT was, I'll never forget it !   

[PeterRS]

1 hour ago, NIrishGuy said:

Im pleased to say I lead the charge and fought a valiant battle to the bitter end on behalf of white guys everywhere ! lol. What a day THAT was, I'll never forget it !   

Alexander the Great would have been proud of you!

[floridarob]

5 hours ago, NIrishGuy said:

ticket only event aimed at Bule buying the quite expensive tickets

For those that haven't been to Bali, Bule = Farang  😉

Sounds like a hot party, I'll have to be on the lookout for something like that next time....🙏

[NIrishGuy]

Just as an aside to my post ( and not wanting to derail the thread or anything in any way here) but I remember an interest fact from that day, where I'd said to the white guy host who owned the large villa with a pool etc something like " my god you've really got it all here, this is living in paradise, lovely villa and as many locals wanting to fuck you as you can manage" to which to my surprise he replied "No, dont be fooled and dont ever move here as it's shit actually as ( same as in Thailand) when you're here on Holiday you're a popular guy but once you move here and the locals twig to that they almost instantly lose interest as one or two of them try to lock you down and warn the others off you "or else".   He was actually packing up to move back to Germany or wherever he was from as he was that bored and disillusioned with the whole place.   He was that bored with it I almost felt guilty BEING the new guy and shagging all round me like a mad man at HIS party - yeah but JUST "almost" ! lol 

[PeterRS]

3 hours ago, NIrishGuy said:

Just as an aside to my post ( and not wanting to derail the thread or anything in any way here) but I remember an interest fact from that day, where I'd said to the white guy host who owned the large villa with a pool etc something like " my god you've really got it all here, this is living in paradise, lovely villa and as many locals wanting to fuck you as you can manage" to which to my surprise he replied "No, dont be fooled and dont ever move here as it's shit actually . . .

That's exactly the same as I heard from a European who used to live in Thailand for more than a dozen years. He was a painter and he moved to Bali both to have freedom to paint and because he had been told that one European he vaguely knew lived there with regular parties at which many dozens of gay Bali boys would cavort naked around the pool. This was allegedly a weekly occurrence. Having packed up his house outside Chiang Mai he made the move. Within a year he was back. He'd had a great first few weeks and then it just became boring, boring, boring, he told me.

[jimmie50]

Like many of you, it is so difficult to pick just one.  Probably the most memorable was a young man I met at a Starbucks in Taipei.  I had taken a one year sabbatical from teaching and was living in Taiwan during that time.  I was teaching English at a private school, as well as studying Mandarin at a local university.  The Starbucks was near the campus and I would usually hang out there for a period of time several days each week.  We made eye contact one day, then started a casual conversation.  Before you know it, we were back at my apartment and it was some of the best sex I have ever experienced.  After that, we would get together at least once a week for some play time during my stay.  Remember that time fondly.  

[PeterRS]

1 hour ago, jimmie50 said:

I had taken a one year sabbatical from teaching and was living in Taiwan during that time.

As readers will know, Taipei is one of my regular haunts with visits 3 or 4 times a year. The first was in 1986 when martial law was still in force and gay life was almost zero apart from the boys who would congregate in the New Park not far from the old Hilton Hotel. That park is now Peace Park and the hotel remains as the Caesar Park. The times are detailed in the book Crystal Boys set in 1971, later made into both a movie and later a moving TV series.

I wonder if any city has changed as much as Taipei in its attitudes to gay men and women since then? I find it one of the most fascinating cities with an increasingly active gay life of its own in which foreigners are always welcome. Like @jimmie50 I have had many amazing experiences there.