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It was maybe less simple than I described. the night before, V told me he wanted to spend the rest of my last day together. I was tempted to do that but also knew that I have just this day before I return home and wanted some last hours of hedonism. I explained to him, that originally, I was not planning to spend most of my time with one person and that after I check-out we say goodbye and I'll have some time to do the things I planned before meeting him. He understood and did not ask me for my plans - I think he preferred not to know which seemed reasonable. Leaving him was hard at 2PM as it would be hard if we spent the day together and split at 9PM and I wanted to max out the experience - That was my logic and I followed it. I told V the similar things the night before - I prefer feeling joy and then sadness than not feeling at all. No suspension needed, I am kind of a predicable and conventional person who follow patterns that previously proved as beneficial. Especially when time is of essence. This trip ended the in the same place the previous one ended. Babylon

Baby woke up early this morning. She went back to sleep. I couldn't, so it is an ideal time for writing. On to NYE! Bear with me this over detailed trip report. Just one more post after this one J After dinner and me playing dirty and naughty photographer, it is time to get ready for the WP NYE party. We both agreed that 22:30 is a good time to arrive in order to enjoy Suri's set for an hour and then kiss and Enjoy Sagi's set till the end. V's female friend is supposed to join us. We start getting ready. V has no obligations for WP this eve and we go, stay and leave the party together. I tell V I am in charge of what he wears tonight. I bought on Amazon a fishnet shoulder straps for this party but decided he will pull them off better than I do, so I give him those, alongside with his black, tight, short, pants and black boots. He is really hot and ready. He then asks me to oil his body before we go. I guess he started to like how oil looks on him. I do that happily. I wear fetish rubber suspenders I brought from home. His female friend is of course LATE. Women. We go down to wait on her. V looks amazing and people on the street actually stop near him and ask for a picture with him which I take happily. His friend is still late and he decides to stop waiting and go for the party at 2315 and let her come by herself. We arrive, go up on the VIP platform, and enjoy Suri's set for about 20 mins until it finishes. I guess I'll need to find another opportunity to hear this guy's full set. After that, there is a special show of dancers followed by a special show of lights and sound. I honestly don't get why they do those shows… They are fine but when I come to a party I wanna dance to the music, not watch a show. But never mind, it's a short show and I'm enjoying that too with my lovely man. Countdown starts. We are at the VIP platform, this time the one closer to exit but with a better and higher view. When countdown hits 0, we kiss passionately. I feel happy and lucky. He says he feels the same way. We stay on the platform for Sagi's entrance and also wait there for V's friend that is supposed to be close. An interesting thought regarding DJ choice of WPBKK: the 2 best time slots of the event (30th & 31st midnight) was given to 2 Israeli DJ's. I rarely am proud of my country but this makes me proud haha. Sagi comes up on stage, and it looks from our heightened and far platform like this: <For an unknown reason, embedding the videos did not work this time> https://youtu.be/esImsLkaD3c https://youtu.be/4LmjnAkpMCQ After V's friend arrives, we go to a closer platform and dance all together. She starts shy, but then asks V for E and half an hour later she is already high, happy and dancing with us. I drink my 2 beers and have a great time as well. This is the view from the closer platform: https://youtu.be/Jr7Ll7RUmhE Sagi is great. Really great and the audience loves him as well. In Israel some say he is better than Ofra, others say he is the successor. I say he is just #2 after the queen but incomparable. He puts on most of his known and good tracks. I know them all and enjoy them. Crowd loves him and so do we, we have a great time till 3AM when the lights turn on. WPBKK is over. V uses his pass and gets us all out quickly. 10 minutes later we are in the room again. This time V says he prefers no after party and to just spend the night together. Perfectly fine by me. This time he asks to be the night's DJ and I allow it although I am clearly a better sex DJ then he is but can't have it always my way… Night is great. Lots of talking, playing, resting, smoking and with similar sex as previous nights except that this night he is willing to be more submissive with me and I show my more dominant and aggressive sides which I guess worked great for both us. We go to sleep at about 6 AM. Before we go to sleep I tell V that saying him goodbye might be a little difficult for me, and that is OK but just to prepare him for a bit of drama that I might tend to tomorrow noon. I already know and recognize this from previous trips when I connect with guys that I care about and then leave. We wake up by alarm at 11AM. Last day. I need to check out by 1PM. We make out, play, fuck, have breakfast in bed. Room service is really nice in that hotel. I pack. V asks me to choose one of my worn sweaty underwear and tank top which I already wore and that I don't like that much. He says he wants to sniff me when I am gone. I give him my least favorite ones, that I wore yesterday when we went out and that really smell. He seems happy in a kinky way. We check out. He escorts me to the motor taxi. We both get emotional and cry. That was to be expected. Chemistry was intense between us. I give him a big hug and kiss, tell him that I love him, and that hopefully I will see him in a year or two. I go on the motor taxi, and tell him to take me straight to The Prince. Drama is over. I have about 7 more hours till heading to the airport.

I surly tried to max this experience out dodging all potential bullets. Travel experience along with forums advice sure helps. I am glad you were able to feel inside the ropes. V was indeed an ideal mate that I was fortunate to bump into this trip. Regarding weather I will mention that Tel Aviv is also suffering from a cold 14 degrees Celsius day so it is also (relatively) freezing here. Especially compared to the lovely 30 degrees of BKK. I am confidant that is true for both sides. We both had a really good time together and I felt that it was difficult for both of us to say goodbye. Now, a week after we said goodbye we still relish on our time together via text and photos that we send each other. Sounds special!

Thanks for the feedback, indeed way too short. But at least I think I maxed it out. No money was ever involved with V. That is why nor did I want nor he would (I think) take it if I offered. Shoes, as you said are just a great gift and a token of my affection to him. I did ask him if he ever did anything for money. Unsurprisingly, he told me he is offered daily that on the apps. Up until today he has claimed to decline. He thinks he cannot do that, technically and emotionally. Although he did say that he might reconsider if someone offered 20K BHT. Lol.

Check your inbox soon I also liked the idea of those shoes since they will serve him well at his job. He actually can afford those shoes and those won't change his standing among his friends (he recently bought him self shoes from the same brand for the WP). But they will still remind him of me and our time together and it is way easier for me to buy them than for him. Also, I would have never have imagined giving him actual money, I think that would offend him and make him back off. I might be wrong. You imagine correctly. I probably will have some writing time tomorrow!

Moving on to the morning of Dec 31st. We wake up at noon. Less than 4 hours of sleep but both of us do not want to waste too much time sleeping. We have some morning fun, I take some pictures of that. I then suggest V we do a proper photo shoot later this evening, I have dirty things imagined for that. He is game for that. We both are starving, I suggest to order breakfast, V suggest we go to out. We went out. I remembered from several years ago an impressive food court at Siam Paragon so I ask V to take us there. Outside weather is great and lots of people walking. We get to Siam Paragon and I spot a nice sushi bar called "Heiroku". I don't want to put V in a position he pays for things he cannot afford. Or maybe he can afford but is still really heavy on his pocket so I just tell him before we even get there that I am paying for it. He is a little uncomfortable with the idea so I explain to him the value of 2000 BHT for me and my currency and monthly salary vs. his currency and monthly salary. For me it is probably 1.5 hours of work's worth. For him it is about almost a week's work. He gets my point. Lunch was great, and now I am on a mission to find my husband the shoes that he asked for. This mission is important and I'd better return with those shoes otherwise just not return at all haha. V helps me and we finally find the shoes at CentralWorld after visiting 3 different stores. We both try on shoes ourselves in the same store. V has a membership card there so everything is 20 percent discount. I tell him that I want to buy him the shoes that he chose, just as a gift from me, he gets very excited and emotional. I tell him not to over think it, just a gift from me and to just take it. He starts getting emotional telling me that his recent ex-bf didn't but him any gift and they were 1 year together. I don't want things to get really dramatic and emotional so I tell him that it is just shoes, that it is not a big deal for me and that it is something I want him to have because I know he will enjoy them. These are workout shoes which he will use at the gym which he visits daily. We go from the store, happy, each of us with a new pair of workout shoes and an additional one for my husband. After that, I had a vision in mind, I start asking V how does he feel about a nice and sexy massage. He understands what I mean, and said that he did that only once and did not enjoy that very much. He asked if I want to have one, and offered himself as the masseur. I had other plans. He suggested I go alone. I was OK with going alone but I preferred he comes with me. I suggested we go to The Prince and have a massage together (was not sure that is possible but assumed it is). He took a minute to think about it. I assured him that if he feels uncomfortable then we leave. We arrive at The Prince probably at 4PM. Place is PACKED. For those that have been there imagine: no seating place available, people standing between the sofas and about 3 guys in the aquarium which are the ones that no one chooses. This is NYE side effect. I wanted to cut my loses regarding time and effort so we went back to the hotel instead of waiting and probably compromising or going somewhere else and having the same experience. At the hotel, we try to rest a little. V gets about an hour of sleep but I can't – the noise from outside gets louder and louder. Our room's view is to the outside area of CentralWorld and it seems that there are a million people outside already getting ready for NYE. When he wakes up I suggest we do the photo-shoot I had in mind. V enjoys being photographed so that works great. I start by oiling his whole body. We are both naked. I am totally hard during this entire session and play with myself and with his body while he poses and I take his photos. He does all the bodybuilder poses to emphasize each muscle, and when he forgets a muscle then I tell him what to do. I start also to fill the tub. I take the measurement tape out and start also to measure is well oiled muscular body. I take photos and videos of everything, including my hand enjoying his hard flexed muscles. These serve me well, nowadays, when I wanna JO at home. I then tell him to enter the tub, and we start doing some muscle foam pictures which are also very hot and make me very excited. We stop to make out in the tub, and then return to bed, and continue with some photos and videos of him being fucked, oiled and worshipped. My favorite one is the one I took while fucking his pecs' cleavage. He cums on his abs, and them I add my cum, and take a photo finish. This was way better than I expected. Total of about 220 photos and videos from that evening. We order room service for dinner and I want V to choose for both of us Thai stuff. He chooses way better than my previous western choices and everything is really great. Time to get ready for NYE!

Did exactly that. Thanks.

Thanks. Indeed, this trip is almost equally about music as it is about sex and that is what made it so special. I know straight guys do drugs in their parties too. But, I do believe gay guys, especially last decade, are way more into the combo: party, drugs, sex. I feel this combo is a problematic one to handle with an adult responsible life so I try to stick with sex and party and sometimes combine lightly with alcohol. That what works for me. And regarding V, I don't think that guy does or needs V, he is a pure bottom with the most beautiful piece of ass I have ever seem or tasted

Two very sexy songs I enjoyed dancing with V. One on platform and one from row: Lest song before encore, front row. Israeli famous old singer joins Offer with this French version of an Hebrew song. This one was just released a couple of months ago: Encore. My favoirte Ofra song. Front row. This makes me emotional. Long live the queen! Will continue my report soon. I know vids are kinda shitty but I still like them, they remind me of the event and I hope they give a little sense of the event.

Some more that I like. Ilan Peled who sings these nonsense songs and appears at the video is Ofra's BF. He is a famous comedian is Israel: Just an old song that I like taken from the platform:

Just a quick post after uploading some of my videos from Offer Nissim's White Party. Note that I am a shitty photograpther and that my motivation is more to dance and enjoy than to document so films are short and not mostly shitty. But they will give an impression from the venue and Ofra. Also, inside the films I put a link to the original song played. Sound is relatively bad in the videos, especially ones taken from front row. Notice also the beautiful VJ accompanies each song. this is very unique in the industry. These 3 is from Ofra's biggest international hit, Everybody Needs a Man. Taken from the VIP platform, I think I V did not yet join me at that time: This one, still one the platform, is Ofra's hebrew song, the only one she played at WPBKK18. V was with me already: I am posting this in 3 posts because of a weird embedded YouTube video limitation.

Yes, but those are not anonymous... If I upload videos to my YouTube which I am signed in by full name, and share the links there, I have to give up my anonymity. I will check dropbox's link sharing Anonymity. Or maybe try usr my fake Gmail with YouTube. Thanks!

On to the main event – Offer Nissim, White Party, Bangkok. My friends arrive at 23:48. I stay cool and just rush them to go as quick as possible. We enter the venue just to see that a show just ended and the club is full, dark and no music is on. This is classic Ofra – keep the crowd in the dark for several minutes and wait for her. I was very happy since that meant we did not miss her appearance. The music start, I recognize the intro immediately from last TLV pride. 2 minutes later when she appears the crowd is shouting and gives her a really really warm welcome. Show starts. She plays most of her new songs with some classics. I can write about it a lot, analyzing her choice of songs, and songs that she did not choose to play, but the only person this will be interesting to is myself, so I will spare you the text. My straight friends enjoy her music as well. They say that although the club is packed and sweaty it is way better crowd than a straight party. An hour later the wife gets tired and they leave. I am by myself, going to the VIP platform. I find a nice spot, and just dance to my favorite DJ, in favorite city and feel happy. I spot several Israeli Ofra queens in the crowd. It was especially easy to spot when she put on one Hebrew song and to look for people that sing along. V came about half an hour later. He knows what Ofra is for me and we dance together. Dancing with him to Ofra feels nice, especially in some of the sexy song. Same drill as yesterday – he dances in front so everybody sees him, me at his back holding him, touching. I know the lyrics for all the songs. When a sexy song comes along, I whisper him the words slowly from behind, while touching his sweaty, shredded, body as he moves with the slow and sexy beats. This was a great party. Half an hour before the end we get off the platform and shove our way to the front line. We make friends with 4 Israeli Lesbians and dance. We dance, sing, touch, and stay front line till the end. She puts my favorite song for last: Alone. I have a really nice video that shows the crowd's reaction for her finish but I cannot seem to be able to upload videos here. So we will settle for this poor video that she herself uploaded that probably one of her fans sent her. Sound starts only after 30 seconds for unknown reason. 3AM Show ends – the queen bows and leaves the stage. The crowd gives an enormous amount of love. This was a too short set, but nonetheless, a really great one. We are front line when the party ends – which should mean a long wait until everybody exits. But, V uses his authority to get us out from backstage. I try to look if the queen is there but she is already gone. 10 minutes later we are already in the room. V suggests we go to an after party (in Israel an after party after an Offer Nissim party is called After Ofra). He says that there is a nice music and play party at his friend's apartment. That is cool by me and tell him I do not want to go to sleep after 6AM so that tomorrow does not get totally messed up. So we start getting ready for the After Ofra at my room. V says that it is an underwear party which means everybody stays in their underwear. I then give V a sexy jock strap to wear that I brought from home. I do not wear them myself so that I don't mislead any potential men to think that they have a chance fucking me. I brought them with me to BKK because I like fucking guys in them. I put some sexy underwear myself. I drink another beer, V takes another E, and we leave. On the way there he has some requests that he presents for me: 1. Don't play with the host, who is his friend. This was a very funny request since the host is a very unattractive man and I was surprised that V thought that there was a chance that I will want to play with him. 2. Avoid fucking. He said that he doesn't mind that I play with people but it will be hard on him to see me fuck someone. 3. If anyone asks – we are a couple. I find the requests a little funny, but I get what stands behind them, and I assure him that I'm OK with what he needs. I must state that these sort of parties are usually not my cup of tea. Not because I don't like sex parties – sex and music is really my thing. But because these parties usually turn into Chem-Sex parties which turns me off a little. Especially if the more serious drugs are involved. We arrive at the After Ofra probably at about 4AM. There are about 20 men in that amazing and beautiful Bangkok luxury apartment. Men are mostly hot. But my guy is the hottest there and of course gets a lot of attention. He teases other guys, lets them touch him, and then comes back to me. Some guys actually come to me and ask if they can play with him, a situation that I found really funny. My reply was always, just ask V, I am not his owner. I find some guys at the balcony to play and smoke with (also a combination that I like). Party goes on, at my request some of the music is Ofra and Sagi. I have a good time. V and I make out a lot. He likes that I rim him (jock straps) and the others look. People coming, people leaving. Some have unprotected sex, some do drugs, some do both. I think the host is also a drug dealer. I was with no doubt the only guy there that was doing only Alcohol. At some point, a group of Israelis came. I did not know them but it took just one look to know that they are Israeli. V didn't understand how I could tell since they all look the same as each other but totally different then me. I then started explaining him the difference between Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jews me being the former and them being the latter (and usually sexier, in my opinion). Not sure how much he got it, being kind of high. V got their attention but once they realized he's is mine they took a step back. One of them told me as a joke in Hebrew that although he is a total bottom, seeing V's ass makes him consider, just for a second, topping just this once. That made me smile and laugh, V didn't understand but he knew we talked about him and I told them it was a compliment. Party carried on and V told me he wants to do K (ketamine) if I am OK with that. I was not OK with that, since K is not E nor is it G, it is a more serious drug. But I told him that he is a grown up (he is almost my age) and does not need my permission. But if he seeks my opinion then I do not want him to take it. He took it. This of course resulted in him being way too energized at 6AM which I already felt kind of tired. We kept on parting and playing with each other and mostly me also playing with others till 7AM. Back in the room V started feeling sick. I told him that he should go to sleep and rest, but both of us were rather horny so he declined and asked for 10 minutes in the restroom. He turned his music on so I am not sure what he did, but throwing up and using the toilet was surly part of it. 10 minutes later he seemed OK we shower together and fuck. This time with Sagi Kariv's New Year's set preparing got tomorrow's party. Same routine as yesterday and just as fun. I keep fucking him synced with songs beat, I love that. Went to sleep at about 8:30 AM. Not early as I wanted but everything was great so I don't care.

Heu guys, I'm trying to attach some videos from the party, and it seems like it is not allowed. Is there a way to attach/upload videos to a post? Not a YouTube one, a video file, just like a photo attachment. Thanks!

I leave the room and V at about 1PM, out to CentralWorld with a mission to buy 3 sets of earplugs. Why 3? I have an Israeli friend that lives in Koh Phangan. The same friend I visited on my list trip report. He and his wife were in BKK for NYE and thought about joining me for Offer Nissim. I was very amused by the thought of this innocent straight couple attending a gay circuit party so I encouraged them to join. V did not want or need earplugs. Of course, all the gay guys already bought all the earplugs from most of the pharmacies but after several stores that were out of stock, I managed to find a store that still had some and bought their last 3 sets. Now on to my well-earned massage. As I already mentioned, traffic on NYE weekend to and from CentralWorld was horrible. Just as Jasper warned me. So, Didn’t even want to try and see how long does it take via taxi and just took a motor taxi. Arrived at The Prince at about 2:30PM. Everything is the same as previously remembered. Took my time on choosing cause at first sight I did not see anything I really fancy. After about 5 minutes I see a handsome, tattooed muscular guy. He reminds me of V but with a tougher, cockier appeal which turns me on. I ask for that guy without consulting and we go to the room for 60 min oil massage (900 BHT). Guy’s name is Tiger. Massage goes exactly as I want – about 40 minutes of massage accompanied by nice teasing me in all the sensitive parts. After that I ask him to put oil on my hands since I want to oil him while he touches me. He gets what I want right away and shows off his muscles while I touch and lick them. Ended happily after about an hour and tipped him with 1500 BHT. Highly recommended, if that is your thing. Energized and refreshed, I walked from there to Sauna Mania (380THB). I had good memories from there and assumed it would be packed any time this weekend. I was wrong. There were about 50 guys inside. Only one of them was my type, and I wasn’t his type so no point on wasting my time. Left after 20 minutes for Babylon. Arrived at Babylon at about 5PM. Once I go off the motor taxi I spot a guy a fancy, tall, Asian, muscular, my age, and he is just before me in line entering Babylon too. I try to give him the gay eye but unsure if he gets it and what he wants. We enter. Place was PACKED. I have never seen so many people at Babylon. It was so packed that it was hard to walk by the cruising lanes. I prefer it this way. More to play with. After some cruising, I spot my guy from before, he stops near me, I compliment his ass, and he suggests we go to a private cabin. That was a difficult mission for that evening but we eventually succeeded. We talk, he is from HK. We had fun together and after sat for a beer and chat in the bar. After that I continue cruising. Not that horny but still energized. 10 minutes later I enter a cabin with my preferred type: Asian muscle daddy. He is local, 46 yo. I tell him I do not wanna fuck but I don't mind playing a little submissive with him. We play for about half an hour, cum, shower and that is when I decide it is my time to leave. At 7 PM I left Babylon to get ready for dinner with the couple that will later on come with me to the party. I meet the couple at the French café PAUL in Emporium mall, Shukomvit. Streets are insanely full. So many people everywhere. Took the sky train. We have a nice, peaceful and delicious dinner. I enjoy relaxing after a very intense 30 hour adventure. We separate at 9 PM and I tell them to come to my hotel no later than 23:15, wearing white. Offer starts his set at midnight exactly and one of the best parts of his set is his melodramatic entrance which I really don’t want to miss. I go back to my room. I dress up, white shorts from home, white harness bought at the WP booths and my new white shoes custom made by my BKK previous trip lover. They are LATE. They took a taxi and traffic was really bad. I already waited them outside my hotel at 23:20. They finally arrived at 23:48. I told them that if I miss Offer’s entrance because of them, I will kill them. We start walking quickly to the party. I will take just a one more minute to explain a little about Offer Nissim and my obsession about his music. First, no one in Israel calls him Offer. If you have seen him, you know he looks rather feminine. The feminine version of the name Offer in Hebrew is Ofra. So that is how he is called in Israel and that is how I will refer her. We are talking about a queen. Ofra is in the Israeli music industry since the 80’s. Her first major achievement is the production of the Israeli wining Eurovision song with Dana International at 1999. Early 2000’s she started being a big gay DJ in Israel. Growing up, gay, here, her music accompanied in various life points and is very special to me. I have a clear memory of reporting here that in Aniki sauna in Taipei, on the best sauna sex night of my life, they put on her music. That is just one example. She has songs that gay guys usually can relate to. I am just one of many Ofra queens (a nickname I recently learned about) that adore her music and can get emotional about it. Her critics say that she recycles her own material and that everything sounds similar. While this can feel somewhat true, I find her music unique but with a distinct, recognizable, expected signature. She became really big during the last decade. She travels the world picking usually 5-7 big parties a year combined with TLV pride and maybe one or two more TLV mega parties. So even in TLV, her parties are a really big event. In recent years she started also combining a great VJ (Video Jockey) that accompanies her to all concerts. Her last appearance in Bangkok was 2008/9 NYE. She is way bigger than she was back then. So after 9 years, I came to witness the return of the queen. She was scheduled for an extremely short set of only 3 hours – midnight till 3AM (this I learned from V, couple of days before my arrival since he sent me the full festival program). For comparison, in TLV her set is usually between 6-8 hours. So this is a little background of how big of a thing an Ofra party is in general and for me specifically. It is on that background that I literally told my friends to RUN after arriving so late because I don’t want to miss the queen’s arrival. Will continue later. For now you can enjoy her TLV Pride 2017 entrance in this official live FB video. She used the same entrance song at WPBKK. This song is called “Completely Yourself” with a Merlin Monroe intro monologue about how it is difficult for her to be “completely yourself”. Music starts at about 1:30 minutes and Ofra goes up on stage at 3:04 minutes. Enjoy.

So carrying on, Still on my arrival day. I think it is about half passed midnight I enter the party. Dj Hector Fonsenca (USA) is on stage with DJ Tommy Love (Brazil) who is about to finish. This party is the least important one for me since I am unfamiliar of the DJ and I find it that, in general, American gay DJ’s are not to my taste (and to most of non-American people haha). There are some exceptions to this thumb rule. But, this one is not one of them. Although he is not bad at all. Just not that good, just OK+. The party itself takes place at a venue called GMM live which is located at CentralWorld 8th floor. From my room to inside the party it takes about 7 mins including hotel elevators, a little walking, entrance security, etc. This is amazing and a big advantage of the hotel choice. Especially when the party is over. Production did a really great job. Very good and efficient organization in terms of bars and toilets which usually in these kind of events are really bad. Prior to the event I was not sure whether the 60 USD difference between VIP and standard full festival pass are worth it. Well they are. For one main reason: The VIP platforms. It is way nicer to dance on a heightened platform then on the main ground floor – It is just as crowded but view is way better. This was taken from that party from the VIP platform: I will take now the time to discuss the general party impression and refer to the other forum discussion regarding the crowd, age etc. So, as expected, the place is packed. If I have to guess, in the biggest party, the Offer Nissim one, it contained about 10K people. I may be totally wrong cause crowd size estimation is hard to do, but that is my guess. Some other personal estimates: 93% Asian, 1% Female, 80% high on drugs (mostly E), Average age 32, 95% percent of people age range: 22-45, body shapes of people varies but a dominant, above average, tendency towards muscle queens and twinks (I do not mean that these are most of the people there I just mean that their representation there was higher than other parties and places I have been to). In general, more than usual percent of the crowd is nice eye candy. Will you feel comfortable there? I will say it again, it depends on you, and how well and secure you feel in a crowd as described. Post party, I will add that this one is rather hardcore in terms of crowd so people with a slight tendency towards uncomfortable feeling in gay parties will probably feel uncomfortable at this one. I hope this helps people to decide. I will add that I think that some people in those parties that tend to insecurity use drugs to feel better and seem to have a good time when high. For me, at these events I really feel comfortable and this one is no exception and even better since the Asian crowd is friendlier in my opinion and makes me feel at home. Another unrelated addition that one might need to know – bring ear plugs. I don’t know if they heard about decimal limitation in BKK but they were way off the limit. While I enjoy my music loud, I also want to exit a party without my ears ringing. So as mentioned, I enter at half past midnight, take a beer and go on to the VIP platform. When travelling alone, I try to stay in control, and limit myself with 2 beers per party that keeps my mind right but with a nice buzz. I enjoy dancing on the platform for about an hour. Music is OK+, dancers, lightning, video and vocal systems are high standard. I make out a little with random people and dance. At 1:30 AM, V ends his obligations and joins me. Dancing with V is an unusual experience for me. He gets most of the attention. People come, smile at him, touch him, etc. I usually get my share of attention but when with him, he is like an attention magnet and that turns me on rather than making me insecure. I like it that people really fancy him, and that although he really likes and enjoys the attention as well – does not want to be with other people, just with me. If it was vice versa, I would definitely leave the guy I am with and butterfly with hotter guys but I understood really quickly that he likes to be the center of the party but does not actually wants to have sex with all the guys that want him – he wants me. We dance, touch, make out and I feel like I have a piece of jewelry that everybody wants but at the end of the party will come to my room. At one point of the party, a guy so hot tried to make a move on V, and I told him that he should go for it and that I would have if I was him. But he said he just wants to stay with me. weird guy haha. 2 AM V took me to meet two of his friends at the main dance floor. Then V suggested we go to G.O.D (which apparently reopened lately). I told him OK, but that if we stay together for the next parties I will not leave before they end, just this party I don’t care that much. We passed by the room, refresh, V takes E (ecstasy), I drink a beer in the room, and all 4 of us go to G.O.D. We arrive probably at 2:45 AM to G.O.D. Music is way way better than at this night’s WP. The place is fully packed with no place to move. V, takes my hand and takes me directly to the stage. He tells the guy dancing on the main stage’s speaker he wants to dance there instead. The guy leaves, we go up, dance, him in front, me at his back. I touch and worship his body while dancing and I have a great and sexy time. We stay on the speaker for a little more than an hour. 4AM lights turn on, we say goodbye to his friends and go out straight to a taxi and to the hotel. We are both sweating and I want to have sex exactly that way with his man smell but V insists that he showers so I join him. Great night filled with sex and music. I am the DJ of our sex, and this night’s sex session is accompanied by Offer Nissim’s pride set of 2017 and half of 2016. We go to sleep at about 6AM and wake up at about 11AM. At breakfast I want to order room service. V says it is a little expensive and suggests we go out to CentralWorld. I explain to him that food is on me and he agrees for breakfast in bed. Breakfast is great, sex is fun too. This time, I feel comfortable enough with him to reveal some of my kinks and to ask him if I can oil his body while fucking him. He agrees. I feel at heaven. V starts getting aware that what turns me on is that he flex while I touch his oiled body while fucking him and he does it to perfection. V leaves the room by 1PM to go workout. I tell him that I wanna go out but he can feel free to use the room and room key as if it was his. He seems happy. He also has to go after the gym to the venue. This works perfect for my afternoon planned adventures: Massage and Sauna. I leave and we schedule to meet during the this night's White Party. I am doing this in relatively small chunks because writing takes me time which I currently lack. Will try to write more, soon.

Everyone that knew my plans told me I am crazy and stupid for doing this kind of trip and that Europe is a much closer and better option for a weekend party trip. But they are wrong, and I will explain: Israel Standard time (IST) is one hour ahead of Central European time (CET). So, people think it is better for one weekend to change the time zone to the minimum possible. But this is wrong, If at a normal weekend I go to sleep at 1AM, at a party weekend I go to sleep at 7AM. IST is 5 hours behind Bangkok's Indochina time zone (ICT). So, if we refer to not to ICT but to Bangkok Party Time Zone (BPT), It fits almost perfect to IST and made it better than CET. In a weekend party trip, if I stay unadjusted to ICT and keep a 1PM till 7 AM day (BPT), I actually stay in terms of IST 8AM till 2 AM day which fits almost perfect for return and is way better than staying almost in the same time zone. Combine that with Elal's PERFECT time slots for night flights (back and forth) accompanied with Brotizolam 0.25Mg and you get a perfect weekend party trip with full function before, during and after trip.

My thoughts exactly! For a second there, at the entrance, I was sure that at least one of the prizes would be oiling one of the guys. So the doll was kinda not what I expected.

I don't remember. I think 450 or 400. Also they gave a surprise egg that they call "lucky draw" that in it there is a chance to win a doll. I won. But did not take it, don't need to get stuck with a silly doll haha.

Take into consideration - demand is high and bars are full of customers while supply is lower than usual. Go and act fast if you see someone you like. I suggest you arrive early. 2230 was already too late last Friday and there were no good seats and the really hot ones were already with clients.

Hey everyone, starting to write this at the plane back home. I want it done while all is as fresh and accurate as possible. Starting again with an introduction. I'm a 33 year old Israeli, married + 1. This is my 4th trip (and trip report) to BKK. I love travelling alone for sex and party adventures. With the recent addition to our family, I felt an on going, growing desire to feel independent, self centered and have a trip that focuses entirely on MY needs. Don't be mistaken, I love my husband and daughter. But, I needed the break. My husband is well aware of all my needs and thoughts and while he does not accept them happily, he understands them and we find a way to make this work. I have been contemplating the idea of visiting BKK for a circuit festival party for the last 3 years but never got serious about it. When the White Party Bangkok (WPBKK) punlished the dj lineup and I saw 2 names that I liked - Sagi Kariv (Israel) and Suri (Spain) the idea of going started getting serious. Just didn't know how to sell the idea to my partner. Once the rumers of the arrivel of the mother of all gay djs, my favorite love, Offer Nissim, I knew that is my ticket. I will explain more what is Offer Nissim for me, for now lets just say I am a really big fan and my husband might understand if I wanna see my favorite dj in my favorite city. So started talking about it, also in this forum, and as time passed by it got more and more real. This was an expensive trip for me. That is to be expected from a short trip combined with NYE dates. Since this was a 80 (a little more that 3 whole days) hour trip (excluding flights) I did not see any other option than using the only direct flight with our shitty local airline that has bad prices, bad service and planes older than my mom. But also, for BKK they have perfect time slots for both directions to sleep very well and avoid any form of jet lag. That ticket was 1050 USD (and an additional 150 USD for TLV-BKK one direction economy premium) which is considered rather standard for that line at this time of year. No sane Israeli will come to BKK only for NYE weekend so there was no high demand that made ticket prices incline. That was not true for hotels. My gury, Vinapu, recommended that I order as fast as I can the hotel and he was right, prices inclined by the week. I usually stay in Surawong's Meridian but this time I followed Namazu's advice and ordered the hotel near the party area Centara Grand @ Centralworld (Namazu, best advice ever! Thanks). The price for 3 nights was 860 USD. Yes, I know, no one should pay those prices for lodging in BKK. But for me, it was worth it. Also purchased a VIP full festival WPBKK pass for 9000 BHT. European prices for an Asian circuit festival in BKK. So unfair for most of the locals that can only dream to enter there. There should be a discount for them. Of course that makes most crowd for the parties to originate from more wealthy Asian countries. This trip was also in very high risk for cancellation for various reasons so I insured the flight, hotel, party ticket so that I can cancel for any reason up until 12 houts prior the trip (100 USD). So paid more than I'm used to for BKK, but didn't care, this was MY trip and I wanted the best for myself as I don't get everyday to meet my favorite dj in my favorite city. One last thing before starting actually to report, as similiar to previous trips, I started sexting on the apps with FakeGPS a week before. It was on PlanetRomeo that I got a text from the guy that I will spend most of trip with. It was a profile that I would not text to myself. The reason for that is that it was a faceless, PERFECT, torso. Those usually seem unreachanle or fake to me so I don't bother. It's a good thing that he texted me. For the purpose of this report, and in order to respect his anonymity, he shall be called V after his perfect V shaped body. Some of the details are blurred to respect his privacy. So we started talking and he seemed not only hot but nice as well. He was in the WP staff. So we said we will meet when I arrive since he will probably be on a break. I didn't expect to meet him cause this guy is the kinda guys that can have anyone he wants from the party, and with all due respect to myself, that party has the highest percentage of amazing looking muscle gods (or gueez haha). So, after this long introduction, let's get into buisness. Arrived Thursday, Dec 29th at Ben Gurion airport for the 11PM direct flight to BKK. Saw dj Sagi Kariv at the plane, wished him good luck, took a sleeping pill (didn't want to leave anything for chance) and woke up 8 hours later. 2.5 hours later landed 2:50PM BKK time friday 29th. Smell of Suvarnabumi makes me happy, immigration queue (45 mins) makes me anxious. I had to pick up my festival pass by 5PM at Centralworld. Traffic was shitty most of this trip. Used more motor taxi im other cases to avoid it. Arrived at Centralworld 450 PM, took my pass, bought a 2000 bht worth of drinking ticket to use at the party, went to my room and texted V I have arrived to see if he has a break and wants to meet. Checked in Centara deluxe smoking room with king bed. As expected, a high standard, 5 star hotel. V came 10 mins after me, to my room. Overwhelmed by how he looks, I tried just to be cool and not to act excited. I suggested him to rest in his break but he wanted to make out so I complied haha. Connection and chemisry was intense immediately. I wanted to fuck him and he seemed tired for that and suggested after the party. Was fine by me. He asked if he can use the hotel gym later. Gave him my second key room and told him he can use it for the gym whenever he wants. I verified with him that he knows he needs to text me if he wants to come to the room to avoid any awkward situations. After he left, I met my almost monogamous boyfriend from my last BKK trip. The localy based fashion designer. I told him 2 weeks prior my arrival that I'm coming to WPBKK and that I need gay, white, unique party shoes. He did a great job. Met him for in room dining and sex at my place. Club sandwiches and beer were excellent, sex was too. He left at about 930PM. HPSQM (Homos per Square Meter) on Grindr was one of the highest I saw and resembeled Gay prides around the world. I was still a bit horny so invited a hunk aussie that suggested he just come to my room for bj and to drink my cum on his the way to the WP. A short, funny and hot 10 minute interaction. He was very high. Probably E. At that point I was happy and not horny at all. Decided to come late to this night's party cause this night was my only chance to go to the bars. On the other nights the parties were more important than the bars. Arrived at Tawan 22:30. Place was already full. I got a bad seat. There were two guys I would totally off for a muscle worship session but they were both occupied with other customers. Looked aroud to search for others I find attractive but did not find. I decided to leave at 23:00 cause I knew no chance for a good off and didn't want to waste my time on a show I have seen several times. So from there, based on forum recommendations went to Jupiter. Show already started. The show as a show is very enjoyable with some impressive eye candy. Rules of the place were less clear to me: who can be offed? how do I off? But as sexy as the guys were, they all seem unmotivated to be offed and so I just enjoyed what was a nice show. And I also kept in mind that hopefully, I'm returning to my room tonight with a guy that attracts me more than them. Passed by Soi Twilight, and returned to the room to get dresses for my first Asian Circuit party, The White Party: Military Ball. Bought at the WP booths a militay harness and straps to match so I followed the dress code. Left the room at about half passed midnight. Flight wheels touch the ground now. Slept great also on this return flight. Going straight to work. Will continue soon.

On the plane, waiting for take off. Going straight to work upon my 7 AM landing so I hope this 11 hour flight will contain long and much needed sleep. In short, I think this was the best trip of my life. The full report will come soon.

Finally, at Ben Gurion Airport. Good night Tel Aviv! Good afternoon Bangkok!!! https://soundcloud.com/offer-nissim/offer-nissim-sex

Vinapu, does this qualify for "getting ready"?

It is hard to tell. 50 is the new 40 But in general, there are no written rules for that as I see men over 50 feeling comfortable in these kinda parties and men below 30 feeling uncomfortable. I think it mostly depends on yourself. If you know that you enjoy circuit parties, then this one should not feel any differant. If you tend to feel uncomfortable then expect the same... You can always try If I have to guess most of the crowd will be 20 to 45 yo. But also for me, this is the first circuit party in Asia so maybe others will have more info.