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Depends on what you define "getting ready". If Getting ready means: Buying fetish party wear, counting the hours till my flight, faking my GPS in the apps and talking to guys in BKK, getting measurement tape and oil, listening to Offer Nissim non stop, then yes I am getting ready! Flight departs in 36 hours and counting! P.S. Till now I always stayed at Surawong area. This time I am staying at CentralWorld. If I off someone from Tawan and we get into my hotel by taxi, I need also to pay him for a taxi back, right?

Yes! I'm going! any one planning on going there as well?

I didn't want to initially write more about it cause it was off topic, but I will add more of my impression with regard to what you have written. Your math is absolutely correct - It is kinda same regarding money but in my opinion WAY better then the offing, massage places, apps and other paying options that LOS has to offer. That Sauna usually has 30-40 guys and most of them are REALLY hot. And by hot I mean ripped, sexual, and endowed. As you pass by them they are showing off all their goods and you can talk a bit to see if there is chemistry etc. And fun starts Immediately in a room inside the Sauna. No wait, minimum surprises. Of course for me it felt like a candy store so I didn't settle for one guy Haha. Spent 200 Eur on 4 very ripped, muscular and passionate guys. Totally worth it. I was kinda shocked afterwards and came again on another day just to max out the experience before I returned home. There are other great saunas in BCN for that as well - for example sauna Casanova which I found to have very hot guys at weekend after party hours. But as mentioned, Thermas is for paying and fulfills that goal to the max. It is clean enough for me but defiantly not Babylon clean. Somewhere between Babylon and Sauna Mania on cleanliness level. lighting is above average - I think on contrary to other saunas where they want people to see less and imagine more, here they want you to see and it is defiantly an impressive sight. Having said all that, BKK is still the best city in the world (BCN comes 2nd). I was just writing about Thermas cause I think it is something worth knowing.

Ill be in BKK Dec 29th noon till Jan 1st eve. Regarding hotel, I'm travelling especially for the NYE white party which is at Centralworld. So, by Namazu's advice, I took the hotel that is at Centralworld called Centara Grand. There is absolutely no good reason to book that hotel if you are not coming for the parties. If you are just coming for regular BKK bar/gogo/massage fun, my personal favorite is Le Meridien which is walking distance from most places of my interest. It is a 5 star hotel so if you are looking for something more modest, there are more experienced people here than I am. I like to spoil myself when I travel to the best city in the world.

So, finally, this happened today: WPBKK18, here I come. Yet another too short trip, but it is better than having no trip If anyone wants to have a drink and meet, I would love that. P.S Namazu, thanks for the hotel (and all the) advice, I decide to go with your hotel recommendation. Will report!

Wow, great trip and report! Didn't have time to read the entire thing, but read enough to get totally jealous. Good job

Oh you're in BKK! Lucky you! Waiting to read all about it and hopefully in less than a 100 days to check it out myself

And now it's official, the queen is coming to Bangkok, and I'm not referring to myself Now I need to start and get things moving so that I'll be able to be there as well.

My pleasure! And thank you for this comment that allowed me to read again my latest bangkok adventure. Just 10 months ago. Seems like forever ago. I need to return. Hopefully soon. Surprisingly, I am coming to Berlin next month with my partner. Or maybe not so suprising since Berlin is the second best gay city in the world We plan on doing the standard gay Berlin experience: GMF, Lab.oratry, Boiler etc. Since I'm with my partner, I'd prefer not to meet with a forum member that has read my posts but I'll take your offer next time I'll travel solo to Berlin or if we meet in BKK (hopefully I'll be there for NYE with Offra and Sagi). קצת עופרה לקינוח, https://youtu.be/mlqGaQhxgmc

And just as I was complaining that the queen only appears once a year at her home country, this was just announced! It is going to be a happy new Jewish year after all (this does not change the fact that I wanna see him in BKK)

Not sure yet but that seems like a very possible and tempting plan. I feel kinda same! I too only have a couple of beers just to get to a nice mood but not more. I am kinda envious sometimes since I see most of my friends on E or G and it seems like they enter another dimension. Problem is that every single person I saw starting with those could not enjoy parties without their substance of choice. So even I am kinda tempted, I don't want the dependency. Considering the fact that I enjoy parties anyway I'm avoiding those. 1. Sounds about right. Although I don't mind being ripped off 2-3 times by BKK taxi since when you convert the ripping off fee back to home currency, it's still usually peanuts compared to being ripped off in a western countrt... 2. That's a very reasonable scenario... Although I don't exit and reenter parties. I usually leave at the end. If I meet someone usually we makeout at the party and if we really click we go at the end to my/his room. I think I'll go for Le Meridian. Still need to think about what you said. I'll deal with it once it becomes relevant. I sure will! Probably will know in about a month - after they announce the special DJ and I talk to my BF about my plans. Please update as well if you are coming! Thanks again!

And as you recall, I usually listen to what you say

First, without even referencing to the content, I just wanna say thanks for your time and effort! And also for the very valuable information you have provided. It's a really great comparison and it did help me focus. I now have a pretty good idea - I will probably go for both. But as I said - not in the same year since I want some diversity. As it looks now, and according to what you have written I think I'll do WP this year and SK next year. The main reason for that is indeed my favorite DJ Offer Nissim. Without him I would probably even not have WP in my list but the combination of 2 of my most favorite things (Offer & Bangkok) tempts me to come for NYE. I will wait for September for the official announcement. I am quite certain that he is coming since WP FB page states that they have a mega DJ coming that will be announced soon. A couple of days before TLV pride an article was published on a major Israeli news site regarding Offer promoting his pride performance. The closing statement of that article is: בסילבסטר 2018 יופיע בבנגקוק. Which translates to: On NYE he will perform in Bangkok. Offer Nissim is a legend in Israel. I am not exaggerating. He used to perform 5-6 times a year until most of the venues got over packed and shut down by the police. We currently do not have any closed club that can contain the gay crowd that come for him. So, it appears that he will only do one gig a year in TLV pride for us (in an open field). This is a taste from last TLV pride. So let's wait and see what the September announcement will state. Although even without him the DJ lineup is really impressive. Especially DJ Suri and Sagi Kariv which are kinda big world wide as well (linked some nice new sets). But lets wait and see. For me, NYE is as meaningless as SK and as meaningless as the Jewish new year (which is in just a month). I'm coming to party . I too will probably go only to 2-3 parties (for sure skipping the opening one). I don't want to force it and I also want a little time to enjoy the city, bars, Tawan etc. I also don't do G or E so I need at least some sleep between parties haha. Regarding accommodation for WP. I usually love staying in Le Meridian on Surawong near the bars. Do you also recommend taking accommodation near the venue for WP or only for SK? Thanks again!!!

I don't need fresh air. I need hot guys haha. Yes, I could do them both this year but I want some diversity in my trips. I thought about WP/Songkran for winter/spring and some european pride or festival for summer/autumn. If I go for WP this year, I'll do Songkran the next year or the year after. I have so many festivals and circuit events I wanna attend, it will take me at least till I am 40 haha. This includes (but not limited) to: White Party Palm Springs, The Week Brazil, Xlsior Mykonos, Mardis Gras Sydney, Taipei Pride, Miami winter party, Montreal Pride, Folsom Berlin and so many more... But all in good time. Now just need to think about WP vs. Songkran.

I'll try PMing him, maybe he has some advice. This is important! What does it mean "places closed"? Bars? Tawan? I'm not flying 10 hours just to discover my favorite bar closed... In general I will add some information that is guiding me. As mentioned, Songkran sounds like the best time of year to come for sex & party. But 2 things are guiding me towards White party on NYE. The first and obvious one is that NYE is only 4.5 months away. The second and more important one (for me), is the DJ lineup. They recently published the DJ lineup of the white party. That lineup is very impressive with some world top DJ's. Also, they have the main DJ unrevealed yet. It is rumored that my favorite DJ is the one: Offer Nissim. If this is true this will make this DJ lineup one of the best I have seen concentrated in one festival. Last year's DJ lineup of Songkran pales in comparison to the White Party's lineup (this is of course also a matter of taste and opinion). So it sounds like it is going to be a very good white party. But, if Bangkok and the bars will be closed then maybe it is better to be patient and go for gCircuit on Songkran. Also, If it is true that much more gay guys are coming worldwide that makes it also something to consider. Any more thoughts or advice?

Totally agreed! I visited that place on the same trip, last October. Reported on the 4th paragraph of this link: http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/10608-here-i-go-again-bkk-oct-2016-report/?p=98922

Not sure if only on Sunday evening. But certainly it is not always open since it was closed on Tuesday afternoon on the same week.

Hey guys, it has been way too long since my last visit to BKK! Now that I have setteled into parenthood, I feel again the need to visit my favourite city in the world. My partner and I have a new agreement in which I am entitled for 2 solo sex trips a year. After returning last week from Barcelona I am now planning my next one, preferably to BKK. I have for this a long weekend which I will dedicate fully to BKK. Trip goals are circuit parties and sex. My question for those experienced in sex and party BKK travel: which is better, White Party or Songkran? Any thoughts or advice? I know it is a little early for this but I need to start planning if I am going for new year's evening. Having a baby (which is great! BTW haha) makes planning more difficult. Off topic - Sauna Thermas in Barcelona is rentboy heaven. I have never seen or been in such a place. For 50 euros short time you get to fuck muscle gods that resemble or even better than those in Tawan. And, in my opinion, they are way more sexual. Highly recommended!

You recall correctly. When I was in Babylon Oct 2016 that area was open on Sunday evening (but not on a Tuesday afternoon). I think it is only open on specific times of the week. It is a naked zone. It is located on a lower level with special stairs. There is a staff member that takes your towel and gives you a bracelet for you to take your towel back upon going up. It is indeed a semi open dungeony area with some open and some private space for play.

First, Thank you all for the nice feedback and the warm wishes! Second, some of you PM'd to get some pics and details which I supplied. I do expect a nice and detailed trip report in return It is the result of years of objectification of the male body. This is my gay super power LOL. You should! It is the best muscle worship foreplay and gets both sides into the mood. Enjoy Yes - It is the first time I encountered that sort of Ageism. It is one of the most ugliest forms I have ever witnessed. It is quite clear that they want a certain crowd over there and wish to preserve it that way. In that manner, Babylon is way better and I think people of all ages, races, shapes and sizes can feel welcomed there. Thank you for the guidance and helping discovering my way to have fun in BKK. Regarding Pong, he does look as the pictures I was shown - kinda tall, muscular, sexy tattoos. He is not as lean as the photos show but still in very good shape. The photos do not show his shyness and insecurity which are kinda the opposite of what you think he will be. But maybe it was just in our encounter. But he was sweet and kind. Thanks again and I do hope I will have a chance to return. I think I will. Time will tell.

Last part of my report. It's 1AM. I'm tired, waiting in the lobby for that special hot guy that became my almost monogamous BF for 72 non consecutive hours in BKK. I see him again coming and I still get excited as I see this tall, handsome, muscular and sweet guy coming to my direction and wanting to spend with me my last night in Bangkok. We kiss passionately in the lobby and go upstairs. At the room we start drinking and talking. We talk about life, gay life, gay love etc. For two hours. We are also drinking. By 3AM we are both quite drunk and after a long talk. We make out for another half an hour and decide to go to sleep. This time he holds me and I feel safe in his big warm hands at night. We wake up at 10 AM straight to breakfast that closes at 11. After that we go to the room, fuck, and do our pool routine again: dip, make out, drink, talk. Sunday was an extremely sunny day in BKK and we both get a good tan. I need to check out by 3PM so we decide to go back to the room to say our goodbyes. The hard thing with those short intense connections is the goodbye part. I really liked him and was also extremely attracted to him. I get a little emotional on the goodbye phase. We kiss, promise each other that we will meet although we both know that chances are that this is the last time we see each other in this lifetime. A bit emotional, I did the reasonable gay relaxation activity for that situation. I went shopping. Arrived to Platinum mall at 15:30. Bought some nice and relatively very cheap underwear, polos, tank tops and shirts to both myself and my husband. We share all our clothes except underwear and shoes. Bought some more guilt relief presents like perfume and a necklace so he feels that he got real presents that are entirely his. I wasn't guilty of doing anything I was not allowed to, but still I felt a little guilty so more presents from him hehe. At 17:00, I was a little exhausted and I needed some relief. So, of course, no other option but return to Prince. As I return, the mamasan guy greets me and the same routine of display occurs. Supply of guys similar with a relatively bigger than others guy catches my eye. I ask the explaining guy about him and he says he's OK. I should have known that means something that is not that good cause yesterday he mentioned that my choice was excellent. But, I took him anyway since visually he was the best on display. After already choosing him a REALLY hot guy shows up. So I want to change but I don't want to offend no one so I decide to go ahead and if things are not great, go for a second round. The guy is nice, kinda hot, and does a nice massage. Upon turning he gives me a very good BJ. He continues working on me and wants me to fuck him but I refuse. I already decided in my head I wanted seconds The guy feels bad that I don't wanna cum but I assured him the massage was nice. I go outside sit down calmly and take a longer time to really examine the boys. No one thinks I'm asking for seconds so I allow myself to examine them all more thoroughly while drinking their after massage drink. After I spot the REALLY hot guy from earlier, I ask the explanation guy about him. He then asks me if the previous one was not good to which I answered it was OK. He then told me that my yesterday's choice is one of the best he's got and that the one I want now for seconds is quite a bad choice and he already got several complaints regarding him. He then takes his phone out and shows me a picture of quite a hot guy, named Pong. He is in good shape so I tell him it's cool and he comes and gets him from the back. Massage quality with him is kind of the same with again an excellent BJ. He is versatile. I explain to him I'm not into fucking him so he just massages my cock, balls ass and I cum. It was a nice one, but yesterday's guy was better than both of them. Although Pong is hotter than him. I leave Prince with two hours left till I need to take my luggage and end this adventure. Babylon it is. Babylon is way nicer on a Sunday evening. Probably 150 guys inside and all the inner mazes and room are open this time. Although lots of crowd that night, I spot only one guy that I want but he is talking near the pool to someone and they seem intimate. Also the naked zone is open. Having been in the past, I never saw Babylon’s naked zone so I don't know if it is new or just I didn't explore that place enough on earlier adventures. The naked zone is really cool and clean. Side note: all of Babylon’s facilities are always in super shape - this is probably the cleanest and tidiest sauna in the world I have ever been to. And I have seen way too many saunas in my life. Back to the naked zone - a really fun place where I have some fun with foreigners and locals but with none of them I wish to enter a cabin. I go back up again after an hour to see the guy still in the same position so I decided to just enter the pool and chill before I leave. I have one hour left. I enter the pool naked since my bathing suit is in my luggage. Apparently that is forbidden so they ask me to get out of the pool after 2 minutes. I thought that was a little strange since it is an all mem place but anyway I just needed the dip and I got it. I go to the showers and pass by the guy I wanted earlier and give him a gay eye gaze to make sure he understand that I'm into him. After I shower I see he left his guy just standing near the wet steam room. It is probable that the guy he was with hates me for taking his guy. Or maybe they were just friends to begin with. I don't know and don't care that much cause I'm horny and got one hour left. We enter the steam room. He is taller and his back his way wider than mine which I think that was what initially draw my attention to him. His shoulders also make me wet and I start touching them gently while kissing him. We talk a little. He is 31yo Argentinian expat in BKK. Versatile. I tell him I got only 45 minutes so we go, shower together and to the cabin. At the cabin we make out, suck, rim and I fuck him. Only wished he kissed better but other than that it was a nice and fun way to end this adventure. We cum, shower and leave Babylon together. It's 2130 and my Amman flight is at 00:30. I take a motorcycle to the meridien, take my luggage and arrive to suvarnabhumi. Flight is overbooked and they offer 200USD, hotel and transfers back to BKK to those willing to fly tomorrow. I pass. I had my fun, and it is my time to go back home, work, husband, dog. I board, sit, and feel very satisfied and overwhelmed about the past week. Fell asleep before lift-off and woke up in Amman 8 hours later. Short connection, and I'm home with my husband and dog. Life returns gradually to normal rhythm. It's already 5 days since this short and intense adventure ended. It was yet another great trip that I will surely remember and cherish. I really needed this one, my life is about to change upside down with the upcoming baby and I felt I needed my last chance for a true, self-centered, hedonistic, gay trip. I feel that I got it and can now approach more calmly this upcoming big change. In a matter of weeks we will be flying to the USA for the birth (it’s a surrogacy process in the USA because in Israel, gay couples can’t do that yet). I am both excited and scared. But at least I know now I had my last adventure before everything changes. Thanks for reading and for the feedback. Shabbat Shalom.

It is the venue I described on my last post. It is called O-Party and hosted in R3 sauna. More details about it here: https://www.travelgayasia.com/venue/r3-sauna/ It starts every Saturday at 20:30. But verify it before arriving. I Lined with them before arriving. Their Line ID is: R3sauna They are hosting tomorrow a speacial Halloween Orgy party with foam and fun. Wish I was there. Would really love to hear from someone about that if by chance any of you get the opportunity to go there tomorrow.

Of course it is, we are talking about prime Thai BEEF. It's must be God's intention that I have my way with it. Thank you guys for reading and encouraging to share. I do wish things wouldn't get so personal around here.Anyways, waiting for you to continue your report Sweet dreams You are indeed my GURU!

When I say something is gay I usually mean that if you see someone wearing it then most chances he is gay. My provocative shirt is a see through latex black tank-top. I usually think those are tasteless but this one is nice and I did spend one night with it in BKK - Soi 4 etc. I don't have pics of that shirt and all the pics I've got with me or my temp BF with the gay bathing suit are too identity revealing. Except one. And even that one I added a little edit cause I wanna stay anonymous here. This is me in Koh Phangan in the sunset hill's near pool showers wearing my fabulous gay bathing suit. I was with that bathing suit all the time in Koh Phangan - Cafes, Riding the motorcycle, walking the streets. I just got dressed for restaurants. I do like it minimal

So, after fulfilling my MW fantasie and having a serious imagined talk with Vinapu I decided to go to R3 sauna. It's located north and the taxi driver takes about 20 minutes. I arrive to see that this place is way cleaner than it's sexy but dirty old sister Sauna Mania (same owners). I like the style of the place. But, style is less important than crowd and on that night out of the 80 guys there I fancied one guy. That guy was top (or at least said so to refuse me politely) so after spending there an hour in the mazes and dark rooms I realized I should give up. I get some BJs on the way but nothing too thrilling or good. Took a taxi to the ugly old sister, Sauna Mania. I have very good memories of that place from 2 years ago. I arrive at 3AM to discover it is closing. I tell the taxi driver to continue to Babylon only to discover it is closed as well (I'm an idiot for not checking that online before coming). I decide it's my time to call it a day and I tell the driver to take me back to the hotel. On the way there I get a Grindr message from my temporary hot BF from Monday. I did not tell him I returned a day earlier as planned and I meant to meet him again after the orgy party on Saturday. When I replied him, he thinks I'm not really in Bangkok but just using fakeGPS again. I tell him I'm back and he doesn't believe me. Only after I send a selfie with Le Meridien on my background he believes and wants to come. He arrives at 4AM with four beers. We talk, have sex, drink, all mixed together. Really amazing vibe that night. And I have all to thank to internalized Vinapu that did not allow me to go to sleep! We went to sleep at 7AM. I wake up at noon and start playing with his ass again. He wakes up and we start making out a little and go to the hotel pool together. I give him my gay bathing suit and I enter the pool in my undies since he was too shy to that himself. He looks so sexy in my gay bathing suit - and I took lots of his and ours photos at the pool. We make out in the pool, have drinks, lunch and chill outside. It was not a sunny day but weather was ok. At 4PM he leaves just in time for me to visit my next place on my current checklist - Prince. I arrive at prince at 5PM. Impressive facilities. Much more than those of Arena. I sit down and again a guy explains to me the deal. On display most of the guys look nice but none of them were muscular like the Arena guy I had. One guy, lean with some defined muscles smiles at me so I choose him (again, internalized Vinapu suggested that). The explaining guy said it's an excellent choice but I'm not sure if he says that regarding all guys. We enter, I shower, then he showers, and the massage starts. Again, nice massage for that kind of place. He also does an AMAZING butt hole massage. When I turn over the service starts. He gives me a great blowjob, handjob, body to body. I did not plan on fucking him since I wanted to take the massage to just relax and let him do all the work. He asked me if I'm top and I told him yes but I don't want to fuck him. But I guess my cock was sending mixed messages so the guy decides to just take a condom and sit on me. I ambivalently surrendered and fuck that cutie - first I let him just sit and do the job but as a control freak, that lasts for me just two minutes until I change the position and power up the intensity. He cums and then makes sure I cum. That was really fun and combine that with a nice facility which makes it a great experience. Again, he asks for my phone so he can come later to my hotel. We exchange Line ID’s but I know perfectly well that I am not going to see him again because of the lack of time. Surly, with more time I would have met him - he was really fun. I see now on Line that his name is James. Went back to my hotel, and straight to soi twilight for a beer before the R3 Saturday orgy party. That party is really something special. It's not that good as it is unique. Probably 400 guys (4 of them were foreigners) were in that night. Party started at 20:30. I expected more hot guys but most of the guys were too twink for me. Even so there were some hot guys to play with. The party starts with some guys fucking in front of everyone to start and make people horny. The action it self happens on the top level and you are allowed up only naked and erect. Yes, there is a guy verifying your erection LOL. Upstairs a lot of action going on. There is a guy in charge that makes comments about the action going on and narrates the entire venue with a microphone. He also gives poppers to people. It’s hilarious, weird, and can turn me both on and off simultaneously. While I was getting a BJ he came near me and said something in Thai and everybody laughed. I knew it was not bad but only later some guy told me he said that he could see I love Thailand LOL. He was indeed right. Left that party when the orgy part ended at 22:15. As I said it was more unique than actually good by I do recommend just going and experiencing it. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not bad at all and I played with lots of guys - it’s just isn’t THAT good. But I haven't seen anything like that anywhere in the world. From there, went straight to the 22:45 Tawan show. I arrive at Tawan, get seated in a more distant spot than yesterday but I’m OK with that. In my mind I already decided I’m offing #45. Again meet with Soda and some other guy that talks to me but I invite neither. After about 20 minutes #51 sits next to me. He wears a shirt and underwear. He is quite the handsome guy and surly good on the massive side - He lets me touch his biceps and pecs and I start getting really turned on. He his not as lean as #45 or #48 or Soda - I can tell that even with his shirt on since I have a really good eye that can usually tell body fat percent using visible facial clues. He is not fat - just not shredded - that means he is without visible and prominent veins, abs and muscle fiber which all are kinda important for me. Dilemma - I think the guy is hot, we have a potentially nice start of a connection - he touches me nicely and lets me touch him and I suspect he knows how to be worshipped. Again - I have something good in my hand but maybe better elsewhere although I did not yet spot #45. I decide again in favor for what I have over what I maybe will have. We discuss price 2000 baht, I pay his off fee and we leave. I’ll spare you the detailed MW oil, flex, touch, lick routine since it was quite similar. Indeed the "not enough low fat percent" had some effect on my satisfaction but it’s still very hot. There were only two things in this session that compensated on his not low enough fat percent: the first was a really good BJ which I did not expect, and the second is that I cum by fucking his bicep. That really turned me on. If you have no idea what I’m talking about or how does that look like, you will always find a porn film that will help All and all a really nice session. We shower together, I pay him and he leaves. After that, probably 1AM, I’m tired As Fuck and text my new BF that I’m going to sleep, and he is more than welcomed to come to the lobby, tell them to call and wake me up so I can come and get him from the lobby. I tell him I don’t mind that he comes in the middle of the night, I just want to hold him again one last night. He sees that and says he is coming in 5 minutes with beers so instead I just go to the lobby to pick him up for our last night together. Last part coming soon.