Thanks a lot for the input. I went over to Pattaya this weekend. Arrived saterday late afternoon and back sunday. I ended up picking Jomtien based on the input on this and other forums. When looking for info, many sources seem to be negative on boystown and sunee, whereas many are quite positive about Jomtien.
I ended up at @home, got a place at the bar, quickly got connected with a guy, stayed there for a few hours, got completely wasted, woke up with the guy next to me this morning, fooled around a bit, then back home.
It was an interesting experience - especially since the magic of going to the bkk gogo has disappeared over time. Dont get me wrong, i still like to go, but i am in the phase where i have few favourite owners/mamasans and boys, so all becomes a bit more predictable. i was all nervous on my way walking from the hotel to jomtien, even so that i decided to pass by the street first, make a little tour, then come back - like a full newbie ;-) that similar kind of excitement when I went the first time out in soi twilight in Bangkok.