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Your experience with B reminded me of a similar incident I experienced in my first trip to BKK (also with a model from Jupiter). Handsome guy with a muscular body, but when we got back to my room, he doesn't really wanna do anything other than receiving a BJ (with a condom on) and let me feel/play around with his body. After sending him off, it sorta left a bad taste but lesson learned. From that point, I would always ask the boys what they can do at the bar itself, before taking them out. If there's no indication of interest from the boy at the bar, I wouldn't bother no matter how hot he may be.

Hopefully they'll be hanging out there and accepting ST/LT offers before the bar reopens. I need my my muscle boys 😭

The closest alternative (though not quite the same) would probably be Arena massage, or the Moonlight models (real pricey though). I'm still holding hope that they will announce a re-opening, maybe at a new place or something (and hopefully before my upcoming trip) 🙏🙏🙏.

I've only ever gone to Screwboys once in all the times I've gone to BKK. Looks like I should pay this bar a visit in the month's trip 😛

Thanks for that info @macdaddi Just a follow on to this, if I may, does that that mean you can bring different guys here as long as it's just one person at any given time and that person will be registered for that period that they are with me in my room, or registered as my +1 throughout my stay? Where would you suggest having fun with the guys you meet if it's not at your room?

Hi guys, I'm planning a trip to Medellin in August and I'd like to ask your opinion on hotels in the El Poblado neighbourhood that are guest-friendly. I was going through Agoda looking for hotels and noted that in some of the reviews of a few hotels, there were complaints about not being able to bring a guest back to the room. I've kinda narrowed down my options to Haven a Design Hotel, Celestino Boutique Hotel or the Charlee Lifestyle Hotel but open to other suggestions. Thank you in advance 🙏🙏🙏

Personally, I feel that it might be a little more affordable but not that far apart. And like @floridarob mentioned, there's no gay gogo bars like those in Thailand but the apps are full of guys offering their services. The rates are generally cheaper compared to Thailand, with the few exceptions. Jakarta city might not have much in terms of tourist attractions but the food/cafe scene is better than Bangkok, for me at least. I do alternate between Thailand and Indonesia often, just for a change in scenery (and types of guys I'm looking for).

Oh no. I hope this isn't true. This is one of my go-to bars whenever in Bangkok. If this is true, I hope there'll be another place where I can still see the Tawan boys.

In all the times I've brought guys back to my hotel room, never had their IDs checked by the receptionist at the hotel. I've heard some hotels (e.g. Tarntawan) might have that policy in place but most probably don't. I think this differs between individuals but for me, a hotel is my preference when it comes to Thailand mainly because the rates are about the same with (or sometimes better than) AirBnBs, and you'd generally get better service at a hotel (e.g. breakfast, daily room cleaning, etc.).

I'm a little jealous reading this. Can't wait for my trip in April 🎉🎉🎉

Oh wow, Apollo closed down? I was just there in May 2023. But to be honest, I'm not a big fan as the music's a little too loud for my liking. But there are plenty of hot guys to meet on the apps.

If (and hopefully not) they do have to close down, hopefully we'll know where the boys will go to next 🙏🙏🙏

Haha yeah, I noticed. I tend to prefer bigger rooms and at each of those hotels, I'd usually pick the one-bedroom unit, with a separate bedroom and living room. Not sure why but I love all that space 🤣

I tend to stay at hotels not too close to (but not that far from) the bars (like Bandara Suites, At Ease Saladaeng, Silom Serene etc.) and so far, had no issues with bringing guests back in other than the knowing smiles of the doorman or receptionist 🤣🤣.

But is this something you'd discuss with the manager before selecting the boy?

One of the main reasons I started exploring the idea of going to Colombia...the webcam sites! 🤣🤣 I've been in contact with two guys I met online via IG for a little over a year now. Hope to meet up with them if I manage to land in Medellin this year.

Just want to ask the members here who usually go to the massage shops, is it common for the guys to only help you cum but they themselves won't cum unless it's closer towards the end of the day? In the few times that I've gone to massage shops, that is the usual response I get from the guys (most of whom will ask for extra tips if I want them to cum).

I hope it's just a temporary close. I'm looking forward to meeting those hunks later this April 😍

Thanks for the reply @vinapu. I'm planning a trip to BKK end of April, hoping to miss the Songkran crowd 😅

On the topic of Songkran, just wondering how is the crowd like in Bangkok after that weekend? (E.g. will it continue to be crowded throughout April or most would leave after the Songkran weekend)

If you're nervous about going there alone, maybe try the bigger bars first (e.g. Jupiter, Moonlight) as the gogo boys won't be too focused on you, and ease your way to the other more intimate bars.

Hi floridarob, Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm a bottom, and unfortunately I don't speak Spanish or Portuguese 😅. I'd like to think that Google translate would be of help when travelling to those destinations, but happy to hear your thoughts on the language barrier.

Hey guys, Just wanted to get some thoughts on your preference between these two countries, especially in the context of gay scene, escort scene, nature and touristic sites. Just a bit of background: i'm a southeast asian guy in mid-30s, relatively fit. I've never been to South America before, so I'm planning a trip there sometime later this year. From what I've read, these 2 countries have quite a good gay scene, plenty of escorts and a variety of touristic things to do. Just wanted to get some insights from the members here. Appreciate any feedback you have on this. Thanks!!

I've only done this once, several years ago and it was one of the bar boys. The only reason I hired him for around 3 days (if memory serves me right) was because I've hired him a few times before for one-offs, and we were quite compatible during those sessions. Mind you, he was not a professional tour guide or anything, so for me it was more of having company to visit some of the touristic sites. The rate I paid back then consisted of the bar's off fees + his tips for 3 nights. If you plan to go down this route, both of those rates would depend on which bar you're taking the boy from.

Haha yeah, I did enjoy myself and not just from the bar visits (mind you I was bar hopping almost every night lol). I managed to do a lot of the non-bar stuff too (e.g. visiting Khaosan Road, Asiatique, exploring the cafes around Silom and Sukhumvit, shopping etc.). In hindsight, this would've probably been the better way but I guess seeing the hot guys after all this time kinda throws logic out of the window for a bit lol. But I do remember him, and would hope to off him on my next visit (if he still shows the same interest). Thanks @vinapu. The one thing I experienced quite differently perhaps from what you reported (and also my previous experience there) was the reaction of the boys in Tawan. For some reason, I felt a little unwelcomed by the guys there (or maybe I was just overthinking it). I would still visit again on my next trip to see how it'll go.