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  1. I would be grateful for Spoon's comments. I have read up quite a bit about religious extremism in countries like Malaysia and Indonesia. It seems from what I have read that both countries were much less concerned with such extremism prior to 1979. That year of course saw the return of the Ayatollah Khomeini to rule Iran with his firebrand Islamic revolution. Increasingly governments in countries in Asia with a majority Islamic population (and even Singapore with a minority of Muslims) became increasingly concerned that Khomeini's strict interpretation of Islam and anti-western stance would spread generally to the Islamic world. So greater attention was soon paid to reinforcing religious laws. Is that too general a view?
  2. There are also some very good restaurants on that soi. I have dined three times at the relatively new The Commons. This is a group of very nice smallish restaurants in a cluster rather like a small shopping mall. The one restaurant I avoid on that soi is Bitterman. Only dined once but the service was dreadful and the food little better than mediocre.
  3. Apart from the tragedy of five deaths and one girl now scarred both physically and mentally for life, what would have happened if there had been a group of people crossing that road, or a car coming in the opposite direction? A taxi is seen stopping at the accident site in the opposite direction just moments later. That more were not involved is almost a miracle.
  4. Out of curiosity, what is the meaning of hooboy? From what I can read in various on line dictionaries, it relates to negative emotions or dismay!!
  5. Interesting article on the CNN website this morning regarding the problems Boeing is now facing. The 777 has proved a profitable and reliable aircraft for the company. But some existing 777s are proving unpopular with airlines. Last year Delta announced it would retire all 18 of its 777s even though 8 had been in service for only 10 years. Then Boeing's latest longer range model the 777X has been affected by serious delays in getting the first production model off the ground. Like all twin engine jets, production of the 787 Dreamliner is being affected by very slack demand due to the pandemic and the resultant major reduction on international routes. As a result, one of the two plants that build the aircraft will be closed down. Worse, late last year Boeing halted deliveries due to problems with the 787 horizontal stabiliser. Then last Friday the FAA ordered inspections of more than 200 already delivered 787s due to torn decompression panels in the cargo holds. The FAA considers this could result in a risk of fire. Not very encouraging for those thinking of flying the 787. https://edition.cnn.com/2021/02/22/business/boeing-widebody-jet-woes/index.html
  6. Knowing that part of Singapore only vaguely, I was curious to find out how the estimated speed of 200 kph + was reached. The uploader of this video uses the simple calculation of time and distance. He also illustrates how that speed could easily have been reached by giving more details of the section of Tanjong Pagar prior to the start of videos showing the crash and subsequent fireball. Shockingly, it also shows from a different angle that the girlfriend of the driver was at the roadside actually recording her boyfriend driving his BMW Coupe as he made four circuits, each time gaining greater speed. In the original video a large piece of the car is propelled across the road immediately on impact. From the state of the car as it was towed away, it appears that it might have been the door on the driver's side (although this could have been cut away later by first responders). Even if they had been conscious, the three in the back had no chance as the car only had two doors. In the event the front passengers were vaguely conscious, their fate was sealed. They would never have got out in time. At the crash site it is clear the bonnet (the engine cover) had been propelled upwards and forwards. This could have breached the front windscreen and effectively killed those in the front. In the video below the bonnet has been placed back close to its original position. While this is all pure speculation, my hope is that every youngster taking their driving tests everywhere is shown these videos to illustrate the awful danger of speeding.
  7. After the engine explosion on the United flight from Denver, 69 Boeing 777s in the USA and Japan using that same engine type have now been grounded. But Boeing has recommended grounding more than 120 aircraft worldwide. Japan has also banned all such aircraft from overflying its airspace. If memory serves me correctly, the arrival of the 777 in the 1990s and the rapid extension of the rules permitting twin engine aircraft to fly over water for more hours were a direct result of more powerful and safer engines. United 328 to Honolulu was only minutes after take-off when one engine failed. With the engine continuously on fire, the captain of the United flight was able to quickly turn around and land safely back at Denver. What I wonder would have happened if the engine had failed and continued on fire half way between the west coast and Hawaii? That's a flight time of about 5 hours over water with no intermediate airport. Would the continuing fire then have started to melt part of the 777's wings? The 777 has an enviable safety record. But this was a failure of an engine produced by one of several engine suppliers. As has happened before, regulators were aware of potential problems with this Pratt and Whitney engine type. Yet little seems to have been done to correct the problem. With the much bigger engines nowadays, we have already seen the sort of damage that can be done in a sudden failure when Qantas pilots managed to get their A380 en route to Sydney safely back to Singapore even with most of their control systems out of action and damage to the fuselage. But that again took place less than 5 minutes after take off from Singapore and depended on the fact that there were two cabin crews on board. What would have been the result if it had been mid-way over the Indian Ocean on its previous leg? I am starting to miss the tried and true Lockheed L1011 Tristar.
  8. This is no longer news as the events took place a week ago. But it illustrates the very serious danger when young guys in fast cars take it into their heads that they can race along narrow city streets just to have a good time. Several friends between 26 and 29 had been dining very late at a Korean restaurant near Singapore's Chinatown. Most had worked for a finance company and were self-made men. Around 5:15 am they decided to call it a night. Whether the 29 year old driver had been drinking has not yet been determined. From reports it seems he offered to give some of his friends a joyride to show off his BMW Coupe along some of Chinatown's narrow roads. At least two had intended taking a night bus home but they decided to have a bit of fun. The video shows surveillance footage of the car going out of control as it tries to make a slight turn. Some reports allege it was doing approx, 200 kph. It then skids along the narrow road lined with old-style Chinese shopfronts slowly rotating 180 degrees. It then hits the pillar of an empty shophouse back of the car first. The force of the crash may only have rendered the occupants semi-conscious. But after about 15 seconds it bursts into flames and their fate was sealed. Some seconds later a car stops of the left side and a man gets out. He was apparently a friend of the victims and was later seen on his knees howling in anguish. The girl seen running towards the crash is the fiancee of the 29-year old driver. Although the video has been cropped at this point, she runs straight into the flames to try to get her boyfriend out of the inferno. She was immediately taken to hospital and is fighting for her life having suffered burns to 80% of her body. Ironically in the light of the accident, BMW's advertising for the model read "Sympathy for the Rebel. Can't Stop. Play with Fire. Chasing New Levels." That was quickly taken down. It appears cars racing along these narrow roads in the early mornings is not unusual. Why Singapore authorities had taken no action to erect speed bumps or another speed control measure is unknown. They have announced in the light of this accident they will revisit the idea. A photo of four of the young men who died has been widely circulated.
  9. The post is real. You are as entitled to your opinion as anyone. And i did request opinions. But I know what I did and why I did it. And with respect, I know these two unfortunate people a great deal more than you. I would not do as you imply you would. I do remember when someone gave me a daily calendar decades ago with a proverb or saying on each page. One said, "Never lend money to a friend as you will lose your money and your friend." Call me a fool if you wish. I did what I did and am in no way unhappy that I did so. I understand your viewpoint, but I do not regard the contributions I have made as charitable donations. I have tried to help two guys with whom I was on friendly terms for many years. Period. I believe if the situation was reversed, they would do the same. I have seen them a few weeks ago when they were almost like skeletons. Why? That's the big question to which I have no clear answer.
  10. Medical insurance is probably the one issue which many of us just do not factor in at a sufficiently high level for retirement. I had a great world-wide plan with the company I worked for but I knew I could not take that with me when I retired. Even if I had, the premiums would have been prohibitive. From around 55 years old, my experience is that premiums for all medical policies will jump quite dramatically every 5 years with usually greater than inflation increases in the in between years. I even heard of one insurance company based in the USA which raised its premiums by 50% and then 25% - and these were in the in-between years. Private hospitals in Thailand are great but they are now a lot more expensive than they were 20 years ago. Public hospitals can also be very good for many of the doctors work in both the public and the private sectors. But in return for the much lower costs, you have to join waiting lists which can often be months long for non urgent procedures. You pays your money and takes your choice!
  11. Many thanks for your comments. I believe they came to Thailand with quite a large nest egg. From what they told me, their money management has been near disastrous, with far too many risky investments at a time in their lives when risk has to be avoided, the more so with very meagre pensions which go nowhere near meeting the minimum required by Immigration. My apartment is basically a two bedroom apartment which I converted to a one bedroom. They have seen it. There is absolutely no way they could live here, nor would I let them. What I fail to understand is how they did not see all this coming years ago. But then we can all be blind to reality when it suits us, I suppose.
  12. This is a longish and sad tale. I have a horrible feeling it will end very badly. For 15 years or so I had two western neighbours in the double-sized apartment next to mine. They had retired and decided Bangkok would be a good option. Neither is a bar hopper. In fact, I don't believe they have ever been into a gogo bar. They also do not read any chat rooms. Why two guys needed a three bedroom apartment with a huge living room I never asked. Not my business. Occasionally wed meet in the corridor, chat and a few times dropped in on each other for a glass of wine. Five years ago they sold their apartment which had been on the market for probably around 3 years. I know they got a lot less for it than they hoped. They then moved into a nearby rented apartment that I believe was almost as big. Last November one called and asked if it might be possible to borrow some money for a couple of weeks until his pension payment arrived. I was reluctant because we were not especially friendly. But I did lend them a few thousand Baht. I then learned from another friend that their landlord was owed several months rent and had switched off the electricity in their apartment. They later confirmed this was true. As of today I think they have had no power at all for at least 4 months. A couple of weeks after providing the loan, I dropped off three bottles of wine. Soon after that I had another request for cash. I told them I was not in a good financial position myself and it would be difficult. Then they told me they had nothing to eat and the loan was only for another couple of weeks. After thinking about it and knowing both were in their early 80s, I gave them another few thousand baht. When I delivered it it was clear both were very thin. But I had to tell them I simply could not be their banker of last resort and this would have to be the last 'loan'. In the meantime I was told the landlord had taken them to court. The judge had given them a month to get out. That was about 2 months ago. How they are still there I have no idea. About 4 weeks ago I had another call. They were down to one tomato. Could I possibly lend them just a little more. I said I could not. But I would try and get some food as I was going to the supermarket that day. I got some nice sandwiches, soups in special containers, ham, cheese, bread and a little fruit and veg. They were overjoyed when I took it round. Then a few days later I was asked if I could possibly get a little more food. I talked to several friends about this. With their agreement and great reluctance, I had to say I could not continue to help them. They obviously have huge problems. No electricity for months and many months in rental arrears. They say they have no other friends here. Although this may seem ridiculous, I recall I never once saw them with any others when they lived next door to me. When they told me about being given a month to get out of the apartment, I asked what they would do. They would return to Europe where friends/relatives would put them up. With no cash, the Embassy had said it would provide air fares to be repaid at a later date. On later asking them how it was that they had not left, they told me their accommodation arrangements overseas had fallen through. The Embassy would only provide air fares if it had proof of such accommodation. I do know that the pensions they receive from overseas are very small, certainly too small even to provide basic food for a month. Yet, despite their financial woes, they still take a taxi to a shopping centre nearby almost every day to buy simple food at the supermarket. When I queried why they waste about 600 - 700 baht a week on taxis, they told me they also need to put a small charge into their mobile phone. I pointed out that there are 2 convenience stores within 50 meters of their condo. 100 baht could perhaps buy enough basic food for 2 for a day. It will also heat up some of the food they buy. Their condo also has a pool and gym which must have electricity outlets for topping up a phone. I got no reasonable answer. Eventually their landlord will surely evict them, and they have nowhere to go. Soon Immigration will surely realise they do not have anything like enough for their retirement visas (assuming they are on retirement visas). What happens then, goodness only knows. I feel guilty but all my friends say I have done my bit and the 'loans' have never been repaid (but then I did not expect them to be repaid). I just do not know if I can do any more. Lastly, I know they are not conning me. They really are in a dreadful position. There are perhaps a few details they have left out, but I have no doubt what they have told me is the truth.
  13. Before I am attacked on all fronts, RIP in the title stands for "Righwing Idiot Passes". I don't know why it concerns me as I am not an American. But I heard enough of the words of this nasty, bigoted deliverer of hate-filled rants to be utterly appalled. That this man made $85 milliion a year and had his own private jet is also appalling and unbelievable. I for one am glad he is gone.
  14. Thanks anddy - sorry I mistook your point. You are correct. The 20 year is now 1 million from the get go.
  15. You are correct anddy in respect of the 20 year membership. This has now been reduced to 1 million baht. A friend has just purchased one. But your second paragraph is definitely now wrong. If you already have the basic 5 year Elite membership, you can do a one-time upgrade to a total of 15 extra years for a one-off 500,000 baht. There is no longer a need for 5 years increments. My other friend has confirmed he just got his 5 years upgraded to 20 years by paying 500,000 baht.
  16. The boy in my first two pics turned up again, this time with a different sign and without the facemask. A Burmese friend knows him. To protect his identity I will not say which part of Myanmar he comes from but he works in Yangon. The other pic is the scene yesterday at Inle Lake.
  17. In the handful of times I have been upgraded to long hasl F class over a long period of time, I have always enjoyed it, especially for the wines, although I'd aways ask for an extra helping of caviar! For some reason, though, I found Emirates A380 is the only plane where I did not want to be cooped up in a box-like suite in the front. I am sure the perks were great but I just loved their biz class which to be frank had most of the trimmings of first class including the stand up bar at the back serving premium drinks and canapés. Qatar does come close, though, with its Q Suite biz class. Now if only they served caviar
  18. The A321 Neo and the Boeing 737 Max are more or less the same type of aircraft - narrow bodies that can fly the Atlantic. Like fedssocr I loathe the idea of a narrow body on a longish haul route. At least en route to London Qatar flies A350s and 777s. I'll take an A350 any day over other aircraft, but I will certainly miss the A380 when it finally bites the dust. That is my favourite aircraft, especially if you an afford the biz class upstairs.
  19. I got an email from Bumrungrad Hospital yesterday. It states this - "According to the announcement of approval COVID-19 vaccines from The Food and Drug Administration of Thailand and and they will soon be available to the public. We would like your thoughts regarding the COVID-19 vaccine." For some reason the survey only applies to those aged between 18 - 65. It asks three questions I'd like to get the vaccine as soon as possible I'd like to get the vaccine, but not immediately I do not plan to get vaccinated for COVID-19 It points out that this is not a request for reservation. But the fact that it is seeking information at this relatively early stage surely indicates that it will be offering vaccinations sooner rather than later.
  20. Unfortunately I have not seen It's a Sin but keep hoping I will find it somewhere. So far, the comments have been extremely good. The Hollywood Reporter ends its review - "The cast's performances are uniformly terrific with Alexander and West in particular embodying the youthful radiance the virus slowly steals from its victims." The Telegraph wrote, "Fear and confusion and panic build, and the prejudice against the gay community is shocking." AIDS affected many of us in ways we could never have imagined. I can never forget a weekend in October 1984. Three Japanese friends of mine had a birthday within days of each other. They invited me to a joint birthday party even though I lived hours away. I told them there was no way I could be there. As the weekend came close, I changed my mind. These were all really good friends. We had had such fun together. Air tickets were not expensive and so I decided to surprise tham. When I knocked on the door of the small apartment, there were hugs and kisses all around. The party was great. During the course of the evening I met a young man for the first time and he came back to my hotel when the party was over. He was great and I was sorry when he had to leave the next morning. Within 5 years, my three friends were dead of AIDS. Other reactions to the series are here - https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2021/feb/10/its-a-sin-there-is-such-a-raw-truth-to-it
  21. A friend has told me there are two main changes. 1. If you already have the basic Elite visa valid for 5 years which had cost you 500,000 baht, you can now extend it to 20 years for the price of another 500,000 baht. This compares to the basic price for a new 20 years visa of around 2 million baht. 2. If you are thinking about a Thai Elite visa but do not have one, the price of the basic 5 year one has now been raised to 600,000 baht. Unlike other retirement visas obtained here, there are no other financial requirements - i.e. no need to keep cash unused in an account or to remit a monthly amount. This information is from someone who has just extended his visa to 20 years. I am assuming it is correct.
  22. This news item does not bode well for a return to anything like normal in the next year and more. THAI is laying off 395 pilots leaving the airline with only 905. Worse, it is grounding much of its wide body fleet - the Boeing 747s, A380s and A330-300s. This is in addition to the A340s which it has been trying unsuccessfully to sell for about 8 years and which are stored at U-Tapao. Other airlines have been reducing their fleets by getting rid of long haul aircraft. British Airways has already sent its 31 747-400s off to a graveyard in the States. Qantas has mothballed all its A380s until 2003. This surely presages a major reduction in long haul travel. https://thethaiger.com/news/national/thai-airways-lays-off-hundreds-of-pilots-under-debt-rehabilitation-plan
  23. I love the photos of this guy featured in the Myanmar protests who has been in the media on two separate days. Wonder if he might be gay???
  24. I stand corrected. Thank you. I have many happy memories of meeting up with friends using the old style 1920s telephones along the bar and on the tables. It was fun just to watch someone's reaction when their telephone rang. I found that most first looked around the bar to see who would have a receiver at their ear before answering! In the mid-1990s I had a client who visited the Oriental Hotel once month. Each time I had to have breakfast on the terrace with him. The hotel had quite a few cute waiters at that time, but this one was special. I noticed that he smiled at me as he passed our table on my first visit. Every time thereafter, we would smile at each other, occasionally winking, but I never had the courage to go up and chat with him. After my client's project was complete, I popped into Telephone Bar for a final drink before flying home the next evening. Who should be sitting at the bar but the cute waiter from the Oriental. I went up to say Hi and he gave me a very, very long mouth to mouth kiss. He gestured that i should sit with him. End result was that we had a lovely chat and it seemed he was very interested in coming back to the hotel with me. As I got up to leave, he asked if Id like him to join me. Of course, I said yes. He then pulled my head gently to him and whispered in my ear 20,000 baht!!! Oh well. I suppose some who stay at the Oriental can afford that kind of tip! I did not even try to negotiate. I smiled and said goodbye. Never did see him again.
  25. This is very sad. But surely the bar is not 34 years old - unless it started in a different location. I thought it opened in Soi 4 around 1993. I certainly remember visiting what friends told me was a new bar in Soi 4 with an interesting concept around that time. But memory can play tricks! Around that time one of the barmen was Khun An. He later left the bar to live in London. There he met Khun Tee and the two returned half a dozen years ago to open the excellent Le Table de Tee off Soi Saladaeng. Sadly that lovely little restaurant was one of the first casualties of the pandemic.
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