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not quite twice and they are going down a bit now but yes , they increased steeply.

ignore them politely, do not engage in conversation, do not admit ( where applicable ) it your first time in Thailand or their bar. If they ask you anything, answer briefly without elaborating. If they ask you which boy you want tell them you like girls better. I do this all the time, nobody believes but everybody gets clear signal 'leave me alone". When nothing works stronger statement like ' I'm Ok , I don't need anything " or more sophisticated ' Me no speak English' may work'. In bars with twinks you may also say " I like only big boys like In Tawan", conversly in Tawan tell them you like small boys and if they show you their resident twink tell them he is still too big for you. if you visiting bar with somebody i.e. another forum member tell them you are with boyfriend. Never buy them a drink unless YOU want to. They are not rude , just opportunistic , if they sense we are weak in knees they exploit it. Don't be rude as at some point you may need their help, for translation for example. Then you turn all smiles but only then

he was in May , I happened to be of quite different opinion about him as he helped me few times including one when boy was not so sure he wanted to go with me and he vouched for me I'm good guy ( shock here ! ). But fact is I never used him nor any other mamasan in any bar to negotiate fee neither I asked them what fee should be.

+1

keep knocking and will be opened for you Good Book says

good to have King with sense of humor

now you know why I try to keep all those papasans / mamasans at distance and only allow them to interfere when I need transation. Waiter had no option other than refuse your offer since if he accepted it , papasan would be losing face. I wonder how much of that 3000 had you accepted would go to papasan. My educated guess is 1000. 2000 for short time in Pattaya is still very generous so I'm glad you did not accept that extortionate offer.

like STD ?

we don't have Thailand forum We have Gay Thailand forum. If this was posted there , objections would no doubt arise that quite a few taxi drivers are NOT gay and topic belongs to Beer Bar forum even if apparently there are 3 or 4 taxi drivers in BKK who don't drink beer , at least not on the job

don't cut yourself short !

I have no idea what endoscopy is but I know from people that it's unpleasant, it's why I used that example

what bar they are from , certainly not Tawan ?

yes, right !

Even king deserves his half an hour of pleasure.

for me nothing outside of comfort zone other than endoscopy and filing cavities if any But I hope to travel even more, brave myself to finally completely retire and , for the first time since high school, spend real vacations with my sister as so far either she was vacationing at my house or me at her place, now we want go somewhere together just for fun of it. Oh right, if she opts for Thailand , it will be outside my comfort zone indeed.

blame yourself, you should stay away from his boyfriend

good luck with achieving at least half of it

I'm gald you rteurend to nomral wirtign

I like HongThong better

calm down girls, it's not how things are done here

very sound advice I gladly second. Generally it's always bad idea to pay in advance unless boy in question is tested before several times. Multiple day off , even with best guys may turn sour after 2-3 days as inevitable boredom sets in unless both sides are very compatible in day time, non-sexual activities or giving themselves time off every day

perhaps but who would be taking 13 hours cruise departing from Pattaya of all places to look for sex in Samui if 10 minutes baht bus ride will do

so it shared a fate of Sodom and Gomorrah and it's gone now

I don't want derail this thread so will tell you when we meet atop of MahaNakhon again

still I did not get it, how pure alcohol may have bad taste is beyond. You know what is better than shot of rum? Two shots of rum☺️