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What if I want boy but just not right now because I'm bar hopping with another forum member ChristianPFC? I don't want drag him with us for this or that reason so he must wait for me to pick him up. Sure he can dress and wait outside or even be directed to come to my hotel but on humanitarian grounds I don't mind if he stays in bar , being eye candy for others and perhaps earns tip or two from other patrons. But I expect him to be there ready to go when I return to pick him up. It's why MonBoy would not have a chance with me , but judging by numazu's narrative I would be loser by being so strict with my rules so sometimes it pays to be flexible. I like Jupiter system where boys who are booked or not available for an off given night don't sport number tags but still parade in their barely covered glory for all to enjoy.

no gogos allowed in Jomtien as of now

Then you did not overtip, you just used your entertainment ticket wisely

Boss, be nice to us

My line of thinking is , if I booked boy to pick him up later he is free to do whatever until pick up time but if I show in the bar he should excuse his client and come to sit down with me , exactly like Jack did

don't look for excuses and just go and report here how did you like it, just take an umbrella

perhaps you are setting it too low, I never have this sort of problems because A/c in the room but rarely I set it lower than 24 , usually higher. few times had problems after bus / car trip because driver fixed temperature too low, sudden move from 20 bus interior to 33 outside may hurt your resistance As for cold lasting a week , my grandmother used to say , if you cure it, it will go away after week , if you medicate yourself , should go away after 7 days

and in many cases also generators of wealth

it is but only to those who had this as their foremost priority. For quite a few reasons I'd not return to my previous job even if it was paying twice as much I make now and I'm sure I'm not alone . An no , it was not moneyboy job , LOL

never hurts to be a bit realistic , lol

grab it. You can easily spend 3-4 days in Luang Prabang and vicinity and use other 2 days for trip to Plain of Jars in Phonsavan. Can be done in 1 long day but not advisable as it's long drive.

you are not only one who does that, I had quite a few trips , not only to Thailand based on such impulse. Some e-mail with offer , short time to make a decision and deal sealed . Works with hotels sometimes as well - for my Jun 2016 trip I got an offer from Expedia for Raya I couldn't refuse and then I was forced to worry about ticket but for Jun is easy

welcome to the forum anyways

I prefer my system of picking up boy later to dragging him through the bars as bar boys rarely are interested in being in another bar so not much fun for them and more expenses / extra drink / and less freedom for you. depends on exchange rate I like that attitude, when flying to Thailand I know I'm not doing that in order to have a good sleep

I 'm feeling the some way, quite moving good bye, inner thoughts well written but who knows what future brings to both parties. We can only hope for happy and unexpected reunion, that would be story !

we do , it's labelled 'time'. I agree it's difficult and doesn't work always but time does it's work and that , in a sense, is a blessing

this can be said about many of us , working folks. We like the paycheque, we may even like going to work but certainly we like going home from work better. And probably it helps boy's self esteem if they can separate mentally work part from pleasure component. Sure , we clients can use some passion but asking for that in exchange for 1000 or even 3000 baht is perhaps too much.

get better fast, getting sick is very unhealthy

quite an end to an adventure. But that the story of our boys , one day we return anxious to see them only to learn that they are gone for good. Thank you numazu for sharing your adventures with us and we can only wait until one day you return to LOS

welcome to the forum with very good observation, often I feel sorry for guys being almost naked with cold air blowing from A/C's

nothing harsh, in order to have a pleasant option of dreaming about return to Thailand we need to leave first

hate them for obstructing THE VIEW

helping hand

while this is annoying I see an advantage as boys can be surveyed quietly without eye contact harrassment, nothing worse that boy you are not interested in smiling at you and piercing you with his eyes as you feel sorry for yourself and the boy at the same time.

what I did in such a cases was to pay off fee and tell boy I will pick him up at such and such time and slip him 100 baht so he can buy something to eat or tell him we will have a dinner before going home. At least now we know LT can be had at ToyBoys for 2000.