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While Christian is perfectly capable of defending himself I need to rise to his defense. While he is not shy about advertising his frugal lifestyle which is his business and nothing wrong with that I can't recall any comment from him criticizing somebody else's spending habits. Is big difference if he says " I'd never spent that much on whatever" to statement " everybody paying more than .... for whatever is insane" , never heard from him. So may be you have different Christian in mind? But your point is valid as they were some pontificating about overtiping boys and thus spoiling market for others. So I guess we can safely assume that report you promised will materialize.

My advice was sincere. Over years of travelling I learned that skipping on purchases or sightseeing because of price, down the road created only regrets on missing opportunity so now if I like something I 'd just pay as long as there's degree of reason in price requested . The same goes with haggling with locals in order to get local price only to realize later that all spectacle was about some trivial amount for us but serious for the said locals. Sometimes I haggle just for fun but end up paying what was requested or close to anyways. Is better to have fond memories to return to, even if overpriced than having to deal with the scenes and a bitterness after. At end of day is up to us to decide if a deal presents good value for money or not. I always ask new boys up front how much they want and if answer is up to you if they request more than tip offered, tough luck for them as so far I never yield to their requests for more, taxi money etc. In my eyes this is sentence , I recall 3 who dared and no way I will see them again. With boys previously engaged or ones taken from places I offed somebody just recently I assume they know what I paid last time and I don't bother asking, if they want more / happened once, 5000 for long time /, again refused. But there are precious few in BKK I have soft spot for and if they asked for more I'd pay. So far they did not luckily for both sides as I'd have second thoughts for sure, just like firecat.

firecat , is he 34 years old ?

I missed his blog as well. Just curious, may be somebody from this forum has access to his blog. Is he still active or just felled silent completely ? I wish him well whenever he is

great looking boy and evidently knows his worth, hence request for more money. My advice - pay up and enjoy, if you don't , you will really sick thinking about missing opportunity. His smile on the second picture disarming / and disrobing /

You are very right but often in our societies even money is beaten by much stronger prejudices. Is not only Western disease though , look at Middle Eastern , or Indian subcontinent societies as well. My theory is that Thais are less uptight about those things because their relaxed attitude to sex, not being sexually repressed makes them relaxed in all life matters.

I can't advise you as never been there but nee to express hope that we can expect some report from the place in few weeks, right?

It would be nice if you sentenced yourself to the community service and report on Golden Cock please

justice at least !

Again great thread you created about your trip, thank you. Good thing you noticed that occasional, 2 weeks, once a year vacationers may look at attractiveness of bars from different angle than those who are living in LOS or being there frequently and for prolonged time. I, for one, am making sure to visit at least one go-go bar daily and if with a boy usually drag them into it as well as long as they agree and usually they do. There are few places in the world when we can have this type of entertainment and it doesn't cost that much also when done daily it adds up ! Somehow I'm never bored with them although I don't off bar boys that much. I agree with your assessment of how "attractive" we are in boys eyes and always have this moment of appreciation of their availability when in the room both of us are facing mirror. I guess your boy is one from Cupidol you mentioned in post #6, congratulations on finding such a gem and I'm sure he appreciated steady stream of income for a while as well. Often best looking specimens know it and their performance shows that they somehow think that good look gives them excuse of slacking on their side of bargains, so as you noticed , not looks but chemistry is what makes those encounters enjoyable. Have a nice time in Bangkok !

You promised and is now July 10

Welcome to the forum and we hope you post some of you discoveries from the road here. I, for one don't drive when vacationing there main reason being my diet of Singha and Chang.

Great words of wisdom and encouragement. Members should not worry about being repetitive and posting about the same boys and bars , just tell us what you saw, what you liked and didn't like as every trip report seems to en-live forum big time. Most of us gladly will read about A-bomb or Eros bars to no end, some out of curiosity and some to bring warm memories or to learn that their disappointment at the place was not that unique. What we are neglecting are experiences from particular venues and still when we look at number of times post were opened even most popular threads have less openings than say , Tarntawan /9019 openings / or Screwboys / 4796 openings / threads in Gay Bangkok section. so there's obviously interest in this type of posts as well.

it could be something else than stale mould as few people reported visit at Lucky 777 after re-opening and nobody mentioned stench

Earlier this week my friend told me the same about New York, I wonder i world is coming to an end?

dual citizenship can produce substantial savings when traveling as prices of visas sometimes vary enormously depending on nationality, i.e. most European passport holders enter Brazil visa free but Americans pay 160 apparently , the same goes with Colombians vs. Brazilians access to the USA

very interesting chart as well as discussion underneath. I found it amazing how may Americans think they are prohibited from going to Cuba by Cuban government while in fact it's their own who prohibits them from going to while it can be easily done through Mexico or Canada and Cubans are not even stamping their passports so trip remains discreet.

so it looks Boyztown is expanding with both Dreamboys and Lucky 777 re-opened

Flying over half of the world just for one week it's achievement by every means as I find those flights grueling. On coming home jet lag is an issue for me but surprisingly not when flying to Thailand. It must be the candy sights and all those massages keeping lag away

you are right and it's why most of my offs are actually from massage places , not bars. Not that I'm letting bars to die from lack of my custom as usually I drag my "off" to one of bars to watch the show, have a drink, tip most handsome boy from the line as well as big cock and fuck show participants. Can't comment on Tawan boys from personal experience but recently we had quite a few reports from posters actually very happy with Tawan boys performance.

There's market for both approaches, I like those more detailed as I seem to always learn something new from them. Agree with you about assessment of firecat's contribution.

try to give him and yourself time off from each others company during day. As I'm butterfly don't have much experience with that but several trips ago I sticked to one boy from Aqua Spa to the whole week and used that approach daily. But saying good bye was hard as at that time due to circumstances I didn't even know if I will be back in LOS and when.

don't you worry as it seems you find your cure - being squeezed by the boy during daytime is much better that all those stupid pills you smartly try to avoid. I find morning activities more enjoyable than evening ones . it's why I always try to off long time. I wake up and here it is , boy right there. While in Thailand I sleep very little / 3-4 hours / by the way and I credit all those massages for the fact that despite it I rarely feel sleepy

Your sentence sums it up very well, I like it. Both sides know what is going on and both should enjoy each other's company plus boy kind of steady income for a while and we access to his delicious smooth skin for the same period. As for planning I like doing that to, it seems to extend vacations and than I gladly see all those plans being ruined while there. It took me 9 visits to enter Tawan for example even if I walked by the place 100 times previously and I like big boys too.

nothing scary , it's just great that you missed your boyfriend. Yes you are in love, what's wrong with that, enjoy while it lasts !!!