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A week later, and everthing is booked It's gonna look something like this: 3 night weekend in bangkok @ Lebua Club Tower. Not the best hotel for kidz but my in laws wanted that hotel since it is the hotel they saw on the movie The Hangover 2. 230 USD a night. Flying to Krabi Wity Bangkok Airways from Suvernahbumi since you guys mentioned it is better then DMK. Same price 40USD per person. 4 nights at Dusit Thani Krabi. Supposed to be very kid friendly. Again flight back to BKK 60 USD to Suvernahbumi. 3 night weekend just my husband, our daughter and myself. I really hope we'll get to have some fun at nights. I contacted several Au Pair services and hopefully we will be able to wonder off at nights. Most difficult thing for me to decide was which hotel to choose when it is just the 3 of us. Since there is so much time till the trip, I decided not to decide and just booked 10 different options haha. They are all "Pay at Hotel" and full refund till April. If anyone has any thoughts about any of these options, it might help me to start and disqualify some options: 1. Regular room at Siam kampinski 225 USD a night. Very kid friendly hotel. 2. Regular room at Sofitel So 240 USD a night. 3. Regular room at Le Meridien 200 USD a night. 4. 2BR suite at Bangkok Marriott Hotel The Surawongse 285 USD a night. 5. 2BR apartment at Oaks Sathorn. 203 USD a night. 6. 2BR apartment at Marriott Executive Apartments Sukhumvit Park. 250 USD. Not sure about the location. Supposed to be very kid friendly. 7. 2BR suite at Oriental Residence. 400 USD a night. Really beautiful suite but not sure it's worth it. 8. 2BR suite at Grande Centre Point Hotel Ratchadamri. 270 USD. 9. 2BR apartment at Ascott sathorn. 190 USD. 10. 2BR suite at Lancaster. 245 USD a night. Probably gonna cancel this cause they already told me that no locks for each bedroom. Writing this list also serves me cause I need to remember which booking I made so I don't forget to cancel them in April. They are all from different sites. Thanks guys!

So, it has been too long. After my last trip for last year's White Party, I decided that Songkran 19 will be my next trip to BKK. And as time went by, the chances of me traveling on that occasion declined due to my over traveling solo to other destinations. But, I miss my favorite city. Desperate times called for desperate measures: Family trip. My husband has never been to BKK and has only heard about it from me. I decided to convince my husband and his family that Passover will be way better this year if we spend it in the land of smiles. I am talking about April 2019 but after Songkran. I am well aware that this trip will be totally different than my previous ones. But, I prefer a trip than no trip. We are a group of 3 rooms: our room (me, hubby, 2yo daughter), his parents, his 2 siblings (adults). We travel together for a weekend in BKK and 4 nights in Krabi. After that my husband, myself and our daughter have a weekend alone in BKK. The rest of the gang splits to other destinations. Since this is my suggestion, I took the liberty to plan and book the entire trip for all of us. I need some help. 1. We plan to fly from Bangkok to Krabi after spending a weekend in BKK. There are plenty of good flights departing both from DMK and BKK. Should I prefer one airport over the other? 2. Hotel In Bangkok for the weekend we are all together - I need the best hotel 200USD a night can buy - and I want it to be close to the gay area so that when night falls, and grandma and grandpa kindly babysit our daughter - we can quickly be at the bars/Babylon/DJ station. If that hotel also has a kids club that would be even better. Any suggestions? I am thinking about Sofitel So. 3. Hotel in Bangkok for the weekend it is just the 3 of us - I have a vision of taking a hotel with connecting rooms so that we have our own room and our daughter has her own separate, lockable room. This will allow us to host at night when she sleeps. Under no circumstance we will host if she is nearby and there is not a lock separating her from us. It has to be 5 stars but preferably 100 USD a night. Any suggestions? I am thinking about Le Meridien. 4. Au pair - does anyone has any idea how to find a trustworthy women that will stay with us during the weekend we are just the 3 of us? I imagine us spending most of the daytime touring BKK with our daughter. But, doing that accompanied 24H with a nanny will be way better. Especially if she sleeps with our daughter in a room nearby. Feel free to answer all, any or none of my questions. Also, I would appreciate any idea or thought that would help me figure out how to max out this weird combination I am trying to do between a family trip and a fun sexy trip. If any one has any experience travelling to LOS with toddlers and is willing to share it - I will be more than grateful. Cheers!

Hey guys, Didn't see any posts regarding this subject. It seems that Pattaya is getting some attention from the gay Circuit party world. I recently saw advertisements of 2 different events taking place soon in Pattaya. The first, Fin Wonderland Festival is taking place in a couple of weeks: Dj Thomas Solvert also played in this years WP and House Of Labs is a REALLY good Portuguese DJ. This party publishes it self as the first Circuit party in Thailand that will be on the beach. The second one and probably the more exciting one is Circuit Festival Asia: They publish them selves as the Asian branch of Circuit Festival Barcelona. They will also have a water park party and a total of 4 parties. DJ lineup unpublished yet but it is the same producers as WP so it is gotta be good. I am not planning on going to neither but will definitely like to read some reviews if any board members are planning to attend.

Just so I am aware of the dates, is there a rough definition in months of low, shoulder and high season? Thanks Alexx! Looking forward as well

Thanks, welcome to the forum! Keep on reading and maybe later on writing too. This forum helped me a lot regarding rules of the game, mistake prevention and how to max out the fun! Thank you guys for the lovely and kind words and feedback! Well, I am familiar with the cyclic nature of holidays LOL. However, if I come again to BKK on April 18, I might need to get a divorce by May 18 Haha. So better just wait again for the right time. For now, Taking my husband by surprise to Madrid next month and also got plans for Cologne pride July 18 and Taipei pride October 18 so BKK April 19 seems now like a good fit, but lets see. I have also thoughts to do my next BKK visit not on SG19 but actually on a normal BKK weekend and maybe enjoy more the bars, massages and stuff that was more difficult to enjoy when demand is so high. But lets see as time goes by Shabbat Shalom!

Final post. I arrive at The Prince at about 2:30PM. Place is busy already but not as busy as yesterday. No one of the guys is exactly my type but a smiling lean-fit guy smiles at me so I take him. 1 hour oil massage (900BHT). His name is Gett. Pretty face. At the very beginning he asks me if I'm top or bottom. I tell him I don't wanna fuck. He says OK and explains that he asked in order to know if he needs to get clean or not. Massage is nice, we talk a lot, he tells me he works there for about 3 years but that he changes country depends on season. He gives me a really relaxing and sexy massage, touching my soft spots very well. I tell him I don't wanna cum (saving myself for the evening). After an hour he showers me, also with a sexy touch and I leave. I tip him 1500 THB. A nice experience. I wanted seconds and I decided it's time to get familiar with unknown territories. I remembered that last trip, DivineMadame suggested I try Senso. So that is where I went to – 14 mins walk by Google. On the way I spot a 711 and find it funny that I haven't visited a 711 yet considering it is my favorite shop in Asia. I stock up: sandwiches, protein shakes, crispy seaweed snacks for now and for home (we don't have it in Israel and I love it) and 003mm Japanese condoms for my husband since they are his favorite and also cannot be found here. Arrived there. 3 masseurs. None of them appeal to me. I leave. I walk another 14 mins by Google to Arena, an already explored territory. But this time, a disappointing one. 4 masseurs, none of them appeal to me. This is surly a NYE side effect. I do not give up. I open the forum and read the thread about DivineMadam's thorough massage places reviews ("Info on a bunch of…"). There I read that there is another tantric massage place at Silom Plaza called "Spa Bangkok". The review says that you need a reservation but I try my luck. They are willing to accept me, but the guys available do not appeal me. Did not give up yet, still with the help of the same forum post I start another 14 mins walk to Baantewa. There I decide it is either this massage or no massage. The masseur is not my type, he is dictionary definition of Twink. Named Toto. I decide that I get my massage here just enjoy and relax. 600THB for an hour. Room is nice and calm. Massage part is great, he knows the job. As a massage this was really one of the best ones. Fun part is OK, he touches, I tell him I don't want to cum, he continues to touch me, edge me which is fun. For some reason the whole thing takes about 80 mins. I tip him 1500THB, shower and leave. Thanks DivineMadame. Now to my swan's song. I think I finished most of my trips in Bangkok at Babylon and this was not going to be different. I arrive there at 6:30 PM with a note to myself - I need to get out of there by 9PM. I first rest and have a beer. Once finished, I start cruising. 2 minutes later, I pass by an Asian guy, my age, a little taller, muscular built with an adorable smile. We smile at each other. He says to me that I am sexy, I tell him the same and we continue walking on opposite directions. I grab a hold of myself after about 20 meters and go back after him. We enter a cabin. Later on he will tell me that his pride would have never let him to go back cruising after me. The reason for that is that he hates that white guys tend to think they are kings of Asia and that Asian guys should chase them and not vice versa. I know exactly what he is talking about. But in my case, if I see something I want, I go after it, and do not wait for it to come to me. We start making out and talking. He is also WP staff member, foreign. I laugh when I hear that and tell him that I just spent the last 3 days with another WP staff member. He wants to know who but I prefer to keep it to myself. Don't want V getting texts from that guy about me having fun with him the same day I said goodbye to V. That guy is the first Asian guy I meet who is actually kind of kinky. After about 10 minutes of making out he goes out of the cabin to bring something from his locker. He comes back with his bag and starts putting army fetish gear which gets me totally turned on. He also took some G and offered me – I declined. I brought from my locker my baby oil to get his military body oiled as well (I carry my oil with me in my bag pack until I throw it just before airport security). He also wanted me to fist him (never heard that request from an Asian), but having done that several times in the past, this is not really my thing so we do other stuff. After about half an hour we decide to have a break and go have a beer by the pool. We talk a lot, drink, smoke, make out and have a really great evening. I suddenly look at the time, and see 9:05 PM. I tell the guy that if we wanna cum it needs to happen NOW. We enter the cabin and have fun together. He also enjoyed being slapped hard in the face while being fucked, which is something that I love doing, but never had the pleasure of practicing this with an Asian guy. We cum. I exit the cabin to discover it is 9:30PM. I rush to the showers, kiss the guy goodbye, exchange details, 10 minutes later I'm on the motor taxi (with a strong sense of Déjà vu) on the way to Centara to take my luggage and 15 minutes later I'm on my way to Suvarnabhumi by taxi. Only carry-on so I am not that late. I buy my comfort 5+1 King Pow Roll. This I do every time I return from BKK. It is the only thing that makes coming home a little easier. My trip is over. Or so I think. But there will be one small last thing before it really ends. Although I did not need to check-in since I had an E-ticket and carry on, El Al has a special pre gate check-in counter near the gate where they do extra security. I go there and stand in line to start security. I look to my back and see a familiar face. 5 seconds later I freeze when I understand my flight just turned into Gay Royal Air Force One – the queen is behind me in line! Although Tel Aviv is a small city, she is nowhere to be seen there. She is very jealous of her privacy and does not go out much so actually seeing her, not behind the DJ stand, is a rare event. I look at her, shocked, like a 12 yo Justin Bieber female fan. I mumble some clichés like: I love you, you are the soundtrack of my life and some more embarrassing stuff better off not said or written by an adult. She is nice and also seemed kind of high. I ask for a selfie together, she agrees, puts on her wide sunglasses so no one sees her wrinkles (she is 54 yo which is very rare in that industry). I get my photo: I board, see the queen again while passing by business class so I wish her a pleasant flight. Sagi is with us well on board so I tell him he did a great job last night. I sit at my chair. I guess now my trip is over. I send V my picture with Ofra. He is happy for me and also jealous cause he didn't manage to get one from backstage although he tried. I then open this forum just to write this was the best trip ever. 8 hours later I wake up and start this report on the plane. 2 hours later it is 7 AM IST and I land, and 2 hours later I'm already at work. Later that day I am again with my husband and daughter returning to normal everyday life. More than a week after returning, I still text with V daily. Lots of text and pictures going back and forth. This was yet another great trip: a quick and intense break from fatherhood, a perfect combo of sex and music. I enjoyed writing about it and will later on enjoy returning to read it. Thanks for reading. I know this report is over detailed but this will allow me to relish on the memories in the future. So, what is next? I think next time I return to BKK will be in about 500 days for Songkran19. But, time will tell, maybe sooner, maybe later, I have lots of plans for other places to visit before and they keep constantly changing. So let's just see what the future brings on us. Thanks for all the comments and advice from the lovely people in this forum. I dedicate you this song. Hope you are indeed happy people. I know I was during this trip, and still am. Shalom!

Another video that I found, this time from the first party I attended with the American DJ, Hector Fonseca. It was taken from the opposite VIP platform from all my other videos:

It was maybe less simple than I described. the night before, V told me he wanted to spend the rest of my last day together. I was tempted to do that but also knew that I have just this day before I return home and wanted some last hours of hedonism. I explained to him, that originally, I was not planning to spend most of my time with one person and that after I check-out we say goodbye and I'll have some time to do the things I planned before meeting him. He understood and did not ask me for my plans - I think he preferred not to know which seemed reasonable. Leaving him was hard at 2PM as it would be hard if we spent the day together and split at 9PM and I wanted to max out the experience - That was my logic and I followed it. I told V the similar things the night before - I prefer feeling joy and then sadness than not feeling at all. No suspension needed, I am kind of a predicable and conventional person who follow patterns that previously proved as beneficial. Especially when time is of essence. This trip ended the in the same place the previous one ended. Babylon

Baby woke up early this morning. She went back to sleep. I couldn't, so it is an ideal time for writing. On to NYE! Bear with me this over detailed trip report. Just one more post after this one J After dinner and me playing dirty and naughty photographer, it is time to get ready for the WP NYE party. We both agreed that 22:30 is a good time to arrive in order to enjoy Suri's set for an hour and then kiss and Enjoy Sagi's set till the end. V's female friend is supposed to join us. We start getting ready. V has no obligations for WP this eve and we go, stay and leave the party together. I tell V I am in charge of what he wears tonight. I bought on Amazon a fishnet shoulder straps for this party but decided he will pull them off better than I do, so I give him those, alongside with his black, tight, short, pants and black boots. He is really hot and ready. He then asks me to oil his body before we go. I guess he started to like how oil looks on him. I do that happily. I wear fetish rubber suspenders I brought from home. His female friend is of course LATE. Women. We go down to wait on her. V looks amazing and people on the street actually stop near him and ask for a picture with him which I take happily. His friend is still late and he decides to stop waiting and go for the party at 2315 and let her come by herself. We arrive, go up on the VIP platform, and enjoy Suri's set for about 20 mins until it finishes. I guess I'll need to find another opportunity to hear this guy's full set. After that, there is a special show of dancers followed by a special show of lights and sound. I honestly don't get why they do those shows… They are fine but when I come to a party I wanna dance to the music, not watch a show. But never mind, it's a short show and I'm enjoying that too with my lovely man. Countdown starts. We are at the VIP platform, this time the one closer to exit but with a better and higher view. When countdown hits 0, we kiss passionately. I feel happy and lucky. He says he feels the same way. We stay on the platform for Sagi's entrance and also wait there for V's friend that is supposed to be close. An interesting thought regarding DJ choice of WPBKK: the 2 best time slots of the event (30th & 31st midnight) was given to 2 Israeli DJ's. I rarely am proud of my country but this makes me proud haha. Sagi comes up on stage, and it looks from our heightened and far platform like this: <For an unknown reason, embedding the videos did not work this time> https://youtu.be/esImsLkaD3c https://youtu.be/4LmjnAkpMCQ After V's friend arrives, we go to a closer platform and dance all together. She starts shy, but then asks V for E and half an hour later she is already high, happy and dancing with us. I drink my 2 beers and have a great time as well. This is the view from the closer platform: https://youtu.be/Jr7Ll7RUmhE Sagi is great. Really great and the audience loves him as well. In Israel some say he is better than Ofra, others say he is the successor. I say he is just #2 after the queen but incomparable. He puts on most of his known and good tracks. I know them all and enjoy them. Crowd loves him and so do we, we have a great time till 3AM when the lights turn on. WPBKK is over. V uses his pass and gets us all out quickly. 10 minutes later we are in the room again. This time V says he prefers no after party and to just spend the night together. Perfectly fine by me. This time he asks to be the night's DJ and I allow it although I am clearly a better sex DJ then he is but can't have it always my way… Night is great. Lots of talking, playing, resting, smoking and with similar sex as previous nights except that this night he is willing to be more submissive with me and I show my more dominant and aggressive sides which I guess worked great for both us. We go to sleep at about 6 AM. Before we go to sleep I tell V that saying him goodbye might be a little difficult for me, and that is OK but just to prepare him for a bit of drama that I might tend to tomorrow noon. I already know and recognize this from previous trips when I connect with guys that I care about and then leave. We wake up by alarm at 11AM. Last day. I need to check out by 1PM. We make out, play, fuck, have breakfast in bed. Room service is really nice in that hotel. I pack. V asks me to choose one of my worn sweaty underwear and tank top which I already wore and that I don't like that much. He says he wants to sniff me when I am gone. I give him my least favorite ones, that I wore yesterday when we went out and that really smell. He seems happy in a kinky way. We check out. He escorts me to the motor taxi. We both get emotional and cry. That was to be expected. Chemistry was intense between us. I give him a big hug and kiss, tell him that I love him, and that hopefully I will see him in a year or two. I go on the motor taxi, and tell him to take me straight to The Prince. Drama is over. I have about 7 more hours till heading to the airport.

I surly tried to max this experience out dodging all potential bullets. Travel experience along with forums advice sure helps. I am glad you were able to feel inside the ropes. V was indeed an ideal mate that I was fortunate to bump into this trip. Regarding weather I will mention that Tel Aviv is also suffering from a cold 14 degrees Celsius day so it is also (relatively) freezing here. Especially compared to the lovely 30 degrees of BKK. I am confidant that is true for both sides. We both had a really good time together and I felt that it was difficult for both of us to say goodbye. Now, a week after we said goodbye we still relish on our time together via text and photos that we send each other. Sounds special!

Thanks for the feedback, indeed way too short. But at least I think I maxed it out. No money was ever involved with V. That is why nor did I want nor he would (I think) take it if I offered. Shoes, as you said are just a great gift and a token of my affection to him. I did ask him if he ever did anything for money. Unsurprisingly, he told me he is offered daily that on the apps. Up until today he has claimed to decline. He thinks he cannot do that, technically and emotionally. Although he did say that he might reconsider if someone offered 20K BHT. Lol.

Check your inbox soon I also liked the idea of those shoes since they will serve him well at his job. He actually can afford those shoes and those won't change his standing among his friends (he recently bought him self shoes from the same brand for the WP). But they will still remind him of me and our time together and it is way easier for me to buy them than for him. Also, I would have never have imagined giving him actual money, I think that would offend him and make him back off. I might be wrong. You imagine correctly. I probably will have some writing time tomorrow!

Moving on to the morning of Dec 31st. We wake up at noon. Less than 4 hours of sleep but both of us do not want to waste too much time sleeping. We have some morning fun, I take some pictures of that. I then suggest V we do a proper photo shoot later this evening, I have dirty things imagined for that. He is game for that. We both are starving, I suggest to order breakfast, V suggest we go to out. We went out. I remembered from several years ago an impressive food court at Siam Paragon so I ask V to take us there. Outside weather is great and lots of people walking. We get to Siam Paragon and I spot a nice sushi bar called "Heiroku". I don't want to put V in a position he pays for things he cannot afford. Or maybe he can afford but is still really heavy on his pocket so I just tell him before we even get there that I am paying for it. He is a little uncomfortable with the idea so I explain to him the value of 2000 BHT for me and my currency and monthly salary vs. his currency and monthly salary. For me it is probably 1.5 hours of work's worth. For him it is about almost a week's work. He gets my point. Lunch was great, and now I am on a mission to find my husband the shoes that he asked for. This mission is important and I'd better return with those shoes otherwise just not return at all haha. V helps me and we finally find the shoes at CentralWorld after visiting 3 different stores. We both try on shoes ourselves in the same store. V has a membership card there so everything is 20 percent discount. I tell him that I want to buy him the shoes that he chose, just as a gift from me, he gets very excited and emotional. I tell him not to over think it, just a gift from me and to just take it. He starts getting emotional telling me that his recent ex-bf didn't but him any gift and they were 1 year together. I don't want things to get really dramatic and emotional so I tell him that it is just shoes, that it is not a big deal for me and that it is something I want him to have because I know he will enjoy them. These are workout shoes which he will use at the gym which he visits daily. We go from the store, happy, each of us with a new pair of workout shoes and an additional one for my husband. After that, I had a vision in mind, I start asking V how does he feel about a nice and sexy massage. He understands what I mean, and said that he did that only once and did not enjoy that very much. He asked if I want to have one, and offered himself as the masseur. I had other plans. He suggested I go alone. I was OK with going alone but I preferred he comes with me. I suggested we go to The Prince and have a massage together (was not sure that is possible but assumed it is). He took a minute to think about it. I assured him that if he feels uncomfortable then we leave. We arrive at The Prince probably at 4PM. Place is PACKED. For those that have been there imagine: no seating place available, people standing between the sofas and about 3 guys in the aquarium which are the ones that no one chooses. This is NYE side effect. I wanted to cut my loses regarding time and effort so we went back to the hotel instead of waiting and probably compromising or going somewhere else and having the same experience. At the hotel, we try to rest a little. V gets about an hour of sleep but I can't – the noise from outside gets louder and louder. Our room's view is to the outside area of CentralWorld and it seems that there are a million people outside already getting ready for NYE. When he wakes up I suggest we do the photo-shoot I had in mind. V enjoys being photographed so that works great. I start by oiling his whole body. We are both naked. I am totally hard during this entire session and play with myself and with his body while he poses and I take his photos. He does all the bodybuilder poses to emphasize each muscle, and when he forgets a muscle then I tell him what to do. I start also to fill the tub. I take the measurement tape out and start also to measure is well oiled muscular body. I take photos and videos of everything, including my hand enjoying his hard flexed muscles. These serve me well, nowadays, when I wanna JO at home. I then tell him to enter the tub, and we start doing some muscle foam pictures which are also very hot and make me very excited. We stop to make out in the tub, and then return to bed, and continue with some photos and videos of him being fucked, oiled and worshipped. My favorite one is the one I took while fucking his pecs' cleavage. He cums on his abs, and them I add my cum, and take a photo finish. This was way better than I expected. Total of about 220 photos and videos from that evening. We order room service for dinner and I want V to choose for both of us Thai stuff. He chooses way better than my previous western choices and everything is really great. Time to get ready for NYE!

Did exactly that. Thanks.

Thanks. Indeed, this trip is almost equally about music as it is about sex and that is what made it so special. I know straight guys do drugs in their parties too. But, I do believe gay guys, especially last decade, are way more into the combo: party, drugs, sex. I feel this combo is a problematic one to handle with an adult responsible life so I try to stick with sex and party and sometimes combine lightly with alcohol. That what works for me. And regarding V, I don't think that guy does or needs V, he is a pure bottom with the most beautiful piece of ass I have ever seem or tasted

Two very sexy songs I enjoyed dancing with V. One on platform and one from row: Lest song before encore, front row. Israeli famous old singer joins Offer with this French version of an Hebrew song. This one was just released a couple of months ago: Encore. My favoirte Ofra song. Front row. This makes me emotional. Long live the queen! Will continue my report soon. I know vids are kinda shitty but I still like them, they remind me of the event and I hope they give a little sense of the event.

Some more that I like. Ilan Peled who sings these nonsense songs and appears at the video is Ofra's BF. He is a famous comedian is Israel: Just an old song that I like taken from the platform:

Just a quick post after uploading some of my videos from Offer Nissim's White Party. Note that I am a shitty photograpther and that my motivation is more to dance and enjoy than to document so films are short and not mostly shitty. But they will give an impression from the venue and Ofra. Also, inside the films I put a link to the original song played. Sound is relatively bad in the videos, especially ones taken from front row. Notice also the beautiful VJ accompanies each song. this is very unique in the industry. These 3 is from Ofra's biggest international hit, Everybody Needs a Man. Taken from the VIP platform, I think I V did not yet join me at that time: This one, still one the platform, is Ofra's hebrew song, the only one she played at WPBKK18. V was with me already: I am posting this in 3 posts because of a weird embedded YouTube video limitation.

Yes, but those are not anonymous... If I upload videos to my YouTube which I am signed in by full name, and share the links there, I have to give up my anonymity. I will check dropbox's link sharing Anonymity. Or maybe try usr my fake Gmail with YouTube. Thanks!

On to the main event – Offer Nissim, White Party, Bangkok. My friends arrive at 23:48. I stay cool and just rush them to go as quick as possible. We enter the venue just to see that a show just ended and the club is full, dark and no music is on. This is classic Ofra – keep the crowd in the dark for several minutes and wait for her. I was very happy since that meant we did not miss her appearance. The music start, I recognize the intro immediately from last TLV pride. 2 minutes later when she appears the crowd is shouting and gives her a really really warm welcome. Show starts. She plays most of her new songs with some classics. I can write about it a lot, analyzing her choice of songs, and songs that she did not choose to play, but the only person this will be interesting to is myself, so I will spare you the text. My straight friends enjoy her music as well. They say that although the club is packed and sweaty it is way better crowd than a straight party. An hour later the wife gets tired and they leave. I am by myself, going to the VIP platform. I find a nice spot, and just dance to my favorite DJ, in favorite city and feel happy. I spot several Israeli Ofra queens in the crowd. It was especially easy to spot when she put on one Hebrew song and to look for people that sing along. V came about half an hour later. He knows what Ofra is for me and we dance together. Dancing with him to Ofra feels nice, especially in some of the sexy song. Same drill as yesterday – he dances in front so everybody sees him, me at his back holding him, touching. I know the lyrics for all the songs. When a sexy song comes along, I whisper him the words slowly from behind, while touching his sweaty, shredded, body as he moves with the slow and sexy beats. This was a great party. Half an hour before the end we get off the platform and shove our way to the front line. We make friends with 4 Israeli Lesbians and dance. We dance, sing, touch, and stay front line till the end. She puts my favorite song for last: Alone. I have a really nice video that shows the crowd's reaction for her finish but I cannot seem to be able to upload videos here. So we will settle for this poor video that she herself uploaded that probably one of her fans sent her. Sound starts only after 30 seconds for unknown reason. 3AM Show ends – the queen bows and leaves the stage. The crowd gives an enormous amount of love. This was a too short set, but nonetheless, a really great one. We are front line when the party ends – which should mean a long wait until everybody exits. But, V uses his authority to get us out from backstage. I try to look if the queen is there but she is already gone. 10 minutes later we are already in the room. V suggests we go to an after party (in Israel an after party after an Offer Nissim party is called After Ofra). He says that there is a nice music and play party at his friend's apartment. That is cool by me and tell him I do not want to go to sleep after 6AM so that tomorrow does not get totally messed up. So we start getting ready for the After Ofra at my room. V says that it is an underwear party which means everybody stays in their underwear. I then give V a sexy jock strap to wear that I brought from home. I do not wear them myself so that I don't mislead any potential men to think that they have a chance fucking me. I brought them with me to BKK because I like fucking guys in them. I put some sexy underwear myself. I drink another beer, V takes another E, and we leave. On the way there he has some requests that he presents for me: 1. Don't play with the host, who is his friend. This was a very funny request since the host is a very unattractive man and I was surprised that V thought that there was a chance that I will want to play with him. 2. Avoid fucking. He said that he doesn't mind that I play with people but it will be hard on him to see me fuck someone. 3. If anyone asks – we are a couple. I find the requests a little funny, but I get what stands behind them, and I assure him that I'm OK with what he needs. I must state that these sort of parties are usually not my cup of tea. Not because I don't like sex parties – sex and music is really my thing. But because these parties usually turn into Chem-Sex parties which turns me off a little. Especially if the more serious drugs are involved. We arrive at the After Ofra probably at about 4AM. There are about 20 men in that amazing and beautiful Bangkok luxury apartment. Men are mostly hot. But my guy is the hottest there and of course gets a lot of attention. He teases other guys, lets them touch him, and then comes back to me. Some guys actually come to me and ask if they can play with him, a situation that I found really funny. My reply was always, just ask V, I am not his owner. I find some guys at the balcony to play and smoke with (also a combination that I like). Party goes on, at my request some of the music is Ofra and Sagi. I have a good time. V and I make out a lot. He likes that I rim him (jock straps) and the others look. People coming, people leaving. Some have unprotected sex, some do drugs, some do both. I think the host is also a drug dealer. I was with no doubt the only guy there that was doing only Alcohol. At some point, a group of Israelis came. I did not know them but it took just one look to know that they are Israeli. V didn't understand how I could tell since they all look the same as each other but totally different then me. I then started explaining him the difference between Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jews me being the former and them being the latter (and usually sexier, in my opinion). Not sure how much he got it, being kind of high. V got their attention but once they realized he's is mine they took a step back. One of them told me as a joke in Hebrew that although he is a total bottom, seeing V's ass makes him consider, just for a second, topping just this once. That made me smile and laugh, V didn't understand but he knew we talked about him and I told them it was a compliment. Party carried on and V told me he wants to do K (ketamine) if I am OK with that. I was not OK with that, since K is not E nor is it G, it is a more serious drug. But I told him that he is a grown up (he is almost my age) and does not need my permission. But if he seeks my opinion then I do not want him to take it. He took it. This of course resulted in him being way too energized at 6AM which I already felt kind of tired. We kept on parting and playing with each other and mostly me also playing with others till 7AM. Back in the room V started feeling sick. I told him that he should go to sleep and rest, but both of us were rather horny so he declined and asked for 10 minutes in the restroom. He turned his music on so I am not sure what he did, but throwing up and using the toilet was surly part of it. 10 minutes later he seemed OK we shower together and fuck. This time with Sagi Kariv's New Year's set preparing got tomorrow's party. Same routine as yesterday and just as fun. I keep fucking him synced with songs beat, I love that. Went to sleep at about 8:30 AM. Not early as I wanted but everything was great so I don't care.

Heu guys, I'm trying to attach some videos from the party, and it seems like it is not allowed. Is there a way to attach/upload videos to a post? Not a YouTube one, a video file, just like a photo attachment. Thanks!

I leave the room and V at about 1PM, out to CentralWorld with a mission to buy 3 sets of earplugs. Why 3? I have an Israeli friend that lives in Koh Phangan. The same friend I visited on my list trip report. He and his wife were in BKK for NYE and thought about joining me for Offer Nissim. I was very amused by the thought of this innocent straight couple attending a gay circuit party so I encouraged them to join. V did not want or need earplugs. Of course, all the gay guys already bought all the earplugs from most of the pharmacies but after several stores that were out of stock, I managed to find a store that still had some and bought their last 3 sets. Now on to my well-earned massage. As I already mentioned, traffic on NYE weekend to and from CentralWorld was horrible. Just as Jasper warned me. So, Didn’t even want to try and see how long does it take via taxi and just took a motor taxi. Arrived at The Prince at about 2:30PM. Everything is the same as previously remembered. Took my time on choosing cause at first sight I did not see anything I really fancy. After about 5 minutes I see a handsome, tattooed muscular guy. He reminds me of V but with a tougher, cockier appeal which turns me on. I ask for that guy without consulting and we go to the room for 60 min oil massage (900 BHT). Guy’s name is Tiger. Massage goes exactly as I want – about 40 minutes of massage accompanied by nice teasing me in all the sensitive parts. After that I ask him to put oil on my hands since I want to oil him while he touches me. He gets what I want right away and shows off his muscles while I touch and lick them. Ended happily after about an hour and tipped him with 1500 BHT. Highly recommended, if that is your thing. Energized and refreshed, I walked from there to Sauna Mania (380THB). I had good memories from there and assumed it would be packed any time this weekend. I was wrong. There were about 50 guys inside. Only one of them was my type, and I wasn’t his type so no point on wasting my time. Left after 20 minutes for Babylon. Arrived at Babylon at about 5PM. Once I go off the motor taxi I spot a guy a fancy, tall, Asian, muscular, my age, and he is just before me in line entering Babylon too. I try to give him the gay eye but unsure if he gets it and what he wants. We enter. Place was PACKED. I have never seen so many people at Babylon. It was so packed that it was hard to walk by the cruising lanes. I prefer it this way. More to play with. After some cruising, I spot my guy from before, he stops near me, I compliment his ass, and he suggests we go to a private cabin. That was a difficult mission for that evening but we eventually succeeded. We talk, he is from HK. We had fun together and after sat for a beer and chat in the bar. After that I continue cruising. Not that horny but still energized. 10 minutes later I enter a cabin with my preferred type: Asian muscle daddy. He is local, 46 yo. I tell him I do not wanna fuck but I don't mind playing a little submissive with him. We play for about half an hour, cum, shower and that is when I decide it is my time to leave. At 7 PM I left Babylon to get ready for dinner with the couple that will later on come with me to the party. I meet the couple at the French café PAUL in Emporium mall, Shukomvit. Streets are insanely full. So many people everywhere. Took the sky train. We have a nice, peaceful and delicious dinner. I enjoy relaxing after a very intense 30 hour adventure. We separate at 9 PM and I tell them to come to my hotel no later than 23:15, wearing white. Offer starts his set at midnight exactly and one of the best parts of his set is his melodramatic entrance which I really don’t want to miss. I go back to my room. I dress up, white shorts from home, white harness bought at the WP booths and my new white shoes custom made by my BKK previous trip lover. They are LATE. They took a taxi and traffic was really bad. I already waited them outside my hotel at 23:20. They finally arrived at 23:48. I told them that if I miss Offer’s entrance because of them, I will kill them. We start walking quickly to the party. I will take just a one more minute to explain a little about Offer Nissim and my obsession about his music. First, no one in Israel calls him Offer. If you have seen him, you know he looks rather feminine. The feminine version of the name Offer in Hebrew is Ofra. So that is how he is called in Israel and that is how I will refer her. We are talking about a queen. Ofra is in the Israeli music industry since the 80’s. Her first major achievement is the production of the Israeli wining Eurovision song with Dana International at 1999. Early 2000’s she started being a big gay DJ in Israel. Growing up, gay, here, her music accompanied in various life points and is very special to me. I have a clear memory of reporting here that in Aniki sauna in Taipei, on the best sauna sex night of my life, they put on her music. That is just one example. She has songs that gay guys usually can relate to. I am just one of many Ofra queens (a nickname I recently learned about) that adore her music and can get emotional about it. Her critics say that she recycles her own material and that everything sounds similar. While this can feel somewhat true, I find her music unique but with a distinct, recognizable, expected signature. She became really big during the last decade. She travels the world picking usually 5-7 big parties a year combined with TLV pride and maybe one or two more TLV mega parties. So even in TLV, her parties are a really big event. In recent years she started also combining a great VJ (Video Jockey) that accompanies her to all concerts. Her last appearance in Bangkok was 2008/9 NYE. She is way bigger than she was back then. So after 9 years, I came to witness the return of the queen. She was scheduled for an extremely short set of only 3 hours – midnight till 3AM (this I learned from V, couple of days before my arrival since he sent me the full festival program). For comparison, in TLV her set is usually between 6-8 hours. So this is a little background of how big of a thing an Ofra party is in general and for me specifically. It is on that background that I literally told my friends to RUN after arriving so late because I don’t want to miss the queen’s arrival. Will continue later. For now you can enjoy her TLV Pride 2017 entrance in this official live FB video. She used the same entrance song at WPBKK. This song is called “Completely Yourself” with a Merlin Monroe intro monologue about how it is difficult for her to be “completely yourself”. Music starts at about 1:30 minutes and Ofra goes up on stage at 3:04 minutes. Enjoy.

So carrying on, Still on my arrival day. I think it is about half passed midnight I enter the party. Dj Hector Fonsenca (USA) is on stage with DJ Tommy Love (Brazil) who is about to finish. This party is the least important one for me since I am unfamiliar of the DJ and I find it that, in general, American gay DJ’s are not to my taste (and to most of non-American people haha). There are some exceptions to this thumb rule. But, this one is not one of them. Although he is not bad at all. Just not that good, just OK+. The party itself takes place at a venue called GMM live which is located at CentralWorld 8th floor. From my room to inside the party it takes about 7 mins including hotel elevators, a little walking, entrance security, etc. This is amazing and a big advantage of the hotel choice. Especially when the party is over. Production did a really great job. Very good and efficient organization in terms of bars and toilets which usually in these kind of events are really bad. Prior to the event I was not sure whether the 60 USD difference between VIP and standard full festival pass are worth it. Well they are. For one main reason: The VIP platforms. It is way nicer to dance on a heightened platform then on the main ground floor – It is just as crowded but view is way better. This was taken from that party from the VIP platform: I will take now the time to discuss the general party impression and refer to the other forum discussion regarding the crowd, age etc. So, as expected, the place is packed. If I have to guess, in the biggest party, the Offer Nissim one, it contained about 10K people. I may be totally wrong cause crowd size estimation is hard to do, but that is my guess. Some other personal estimates: 93% Asian, 1% Female, 80% high on drugs (mostly E), Average age 32, 95% percent of people age range: 22-45, body shapes of people varies but a dominant, above average, tendency towards muscle queens and twinks (I do not mean that these are most of the people there I just mean that their representation there was higher than other parties and places I have been to). In general, more than usual percent of the crowd is nice eye candy. Will you feel comfortable there? I will say it again, it depends on you, and how well and secure you feel in a crowd as described. Post party, I will add that this one is rather hardcore in terms of crowd so people with a slight tendency towards uncomfortable feeling in gay parties will probably feel uncomfortable at this one. I hope this helps people to decide. I will add that I think that some people in those parties that tend to insecurity use drugs to feel better and seem to have a good time when high. For me, at these events I really feel comfortable and this one is no exception and even better since the Asian crowd is friendlier in my opinion and makes me feel at home. Another unrelated addition that one might need to know – bring ear plugs. I don’t know if they heard about decimal limitation in BKK but they were way off the limit. While I enjoy my music loud, I also want to exit a party without my ears ringing. So as mentioned, I enter at half past midnight, take a beer and go on to the VIP platform. When travelling alone, I try to stay in control, and limit myself with 2 beers per party that keeps my mind right but with a nice buzz. I enjoy dancing on the platform for about an hour. Music is OK+, dancers, lightning, video and vocal systems are high standard. I make out a little with random people and dance. At 1:30 AM, V ends his obligations and joins me. Dancing with V is an unusual experience for me. He gets most of the attention. People come, smile at him, touch him, etc. I usually get my share of attention but when with him, he is like an attention magnet and that turns me on rather than making me insecure. I like it that people really fancy him, and that although he really likes and enjoys the attention as well – does not want to be with other people, just with me. If it was vice versa, I would definitely leave the guy I am with and butterfly with hotter guys but I understood really quickly that he likes to be the center of the party but does not actually wants to have sex with all the guys that want him – he wants me. We dance, touch, make out and I feel like I have a piece of jewelry that everybody wants but at the end of the party will come to my room. At one point of the party, a guy so hot tried to make a move on V, and I told him that he should go for it and that I would have if I was him. But he said he just wants to stay with me. weird guy haha. 2 AM V took me to meet two of his friends at the main dance floor. Then V suggested we go to G.O.D (which apparently reopened lately). I told him OK, but that if we stay together for the next parties I will not leave before they end, just this party I don’t care that much. We passed by the room, refresh, V takes E (ecstasy), I drink a beer in the room, and all 4 of us go to G.O.D. We arrive probably at 2:45 AM to G.O.D. Music is way way better than at this night’s WP. The place is fully packed with no place to move. V, takes my hand and takes me directly to the stage. He tells the guy dancing on the main stage’s speaker he wants to dance there instead. The guy leaves, we go up, dance, him in front, me at his back. I touch and worship his body while dancing and I have a great and sexy time. We stay on the speaker for a little more than an hour. 4AM lights turn on, we say goodbye to his friends and go out straight to a taxi and to the hotel. We are both sweating and I want to have sex exactly that way with his man smell but V insists that he showers so I join him. Great night filled with sex and music. I am the DJ of our sex, and this night’s sex session is accompanied by Offer Nissim’s pride set of 2017 and half of 2016. We go to sleep at about 6AM and wake up at about 11AM. At breakfast I want to order room service. V says it is a little expensive and suggests we go out to CentralWorld. I explain to him that food is on me and he agrees for breakfast in bed. Breakfast is great, sex is fun too. This time, I feel comfortable enough with him to reveal some of my kinks and to ask him if I can oil his body while fucking him. He agrees. I feel at heaven. V starts getting aware that what turns me on is that he flex while I touch his oiled body while fucking him and he does it to perfection. V leaves the room by 1PM to go workout. I tell him that I wanna go out but he can feel free to use the room and room key as if it was his. He seems happy. He also has to go after the gym to the venue. This works perfect for my afternoon planned adventures: Massage and Sauna. I leave and we schedule to meet during the this night's White Party. I am doing this in relatively small chunks because writing takes me time which I currently lack. Will try to write more, soon.

Everyone that knew my plans told me I am crazy and stupid for doing this kind of trip and that Europe is a much closer and better option for a weekend party trip. But they are wrong, and I will explain: Israel Standard time (IST) is one hour ahead of Central European time (CET). So, people think it is better for one weekend to change the time zone to the minimum possible. But this is wrong, If at a normal weekend I go to sleep at 1AM, at a party weekend I go to sleep at 7AM. IST is 5 hours behind Bangkok's Indochina time zone (ICT). So, if we refer to not to ICT but to Bangkok Party Time Zone (BPT), It fits almost perfect to IST and made it better than CET. In a weekend party trip, if I stay unadjusted to ICT and keep a 1PM till 7 AM day (BPT), I actually stay in terms of IST 8AM till 2 AM day which fits almost perfect for return and is way better than staying almost in the same time zone. Combine that with Elal's PERFECT time slots for night flights (back and forth) accompanied with Brotizolam 0.25Mg and you get a perfect weekend party trip with full function before, during and after trip.

My thoughts exactly! For a second there, at the entrance, I was sure that at least one of the prizes would be oiling one of the guys. So the doll was kinda not what I expected.