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For eye candy, yes. But, for me these places were not places I offed any guy till now. I know other members were way more successful in Moonlight. I was more successful at Tawan. I was surprised as well considering the reviews written on this place. There were some guys leaning towards the athletic build, but not something that I would pay for. At the middle of the show, there was sort of a break dance show with professional dancers that were not part of the team, and seemed non-offable. That team had 2 pearls but I did not even try to pursue them, it seemed that they were not related to that scene. I was there another time during my 6th leg with the exact same experience.

I must say I do not agree with the majority's opinion here. Yes, for me anal sex is fun and sometimes a crucial part of intercourse. But I had a lot of very pleasurable and intense sexual encounters that did not involve anal sex. But that is just me, I know some people just don't like it or prefer to avoid it. And I know a lot of people that cannot imagine a sexual encounter without it. But all of this does not matter, neither my opinion nor others'. You are the sole person who can answer that question.

His work was during day time. But, he was very paranoid about meeting me. Centara Grand Mirage is consisted of 2 buildings and his room was on the other building. He would only sneak to my room after midnight when most of the hotel is sleeping so when he crossed the lobby from his tower to mine no one would see. He said the hotel had a strict policy against staff entering guest's room. One possible reason is that he knew I wanted a body scrub because after "what about me" he also wrote me that he is not skillful at that. Other explanation is that he did not want to offer it directly in front of his staff.

Leg 2 - Pattaya - ALL inclusive hotel Arrived Pattaya mid week Monday till Friday. Hotel review - Centara Grand Mirage - 2 interconnected rooms (150 USD per room per night): This hotel is for families. I see no reason for a gay solo/couple coming here without children. It is far north and kinda isolated. For my needs it was great because this hotel has children activities, water park, children's pool etc. They also guaranteed me in advanced the interconnecting rooms which was the most important thing for me because I wanted privacy at night but also to be near my daughter and nanny. Breakfast is OK, but not more than that. Hotel Gym is one of the best I have seen for a hotel. Grindr hookup #3 - same as in Bangkok, I fakedGPS to the hotel a week before arriving. I then realized that one of the staff members is hot and gay. We first met on my arrival day but just for drinks cause he had a day off and was headed to BKK for the night. So 3 out of 4 of my nights there, my night fun was also provided by the hotel. So, I had zero intrest in leaving to explore out Pattaya. Fun with that guy was awesome with great chemistry and sex so meeting him night after night was something I was anticipating. This hotel was really ALL INCLUSIVE for me. Pattaya night out - I went out on my first night cause that was the only night my hotel entertainment was out of town. I started with BoyzBoyzBoyz that had a nice show but too twinkish guys for me. After that walked to Sunee which was dead so returned to Boyztown. Saw a really shredded guy outside Scandic offering me a massage. He stated the price of 1500 THB which seemed high for Pattaya but I was horny so didn't care. Later on I realized that 1500 included the tip but I guess that place enjoys the vagueness of that fact. Massage was fun so I didn't care that much. Place is horrible in terms of cleanliness and facility but for me it's not that important. It's always all about the guy. Helios Massage - on my second afternoon in Pattaya, I decided to try their soap scrub that was previously reviewed here. I texted with the place using LINE. They were unwilling to send photos of the guys working and mentioned they have athletic guys but none of them big muscle. The words "athletic", "muscular " are quite subjective so I had no other option but to try and see. Went there and was unsatisfied with the guys on display. Mamasan was hot but I didn't ask since he didn't offer. Upon exiting the shop he texts me "and what about me?" I then returned to the shop for my massage. That massage was awesome. It's in a special room and mattress with lots of foam being rubbed in sensitive places. I really loved it. Poppers in Pattaya - my second night in Pattaya was my first night with my guy from the hotel. We had lots of fun together but he said he can't do anal with me unless he has poppers although he's ok with keeping sex without anal. I had lots of fun with him but really wanted to fuck with him on the next nights. Morning after our first night of fun, I texted mamasan of Helios. He connected me with another guy and 35 minutes and 850 THB later I had been delivered poppers to my hotel. I love Thailand. Anal sex with that guy was awsome. He had a handless prostate orgasm, which is something I haven't seen till then. After 4 great nights in Pattaya, weekend came again just in time for me to do be Bangkoking again during the third leg of this trip.

I think you do need to plan how to do it. If you wouldn't need to plan for that it would have probably happened till now naturally in at least one out of many encounters you had with guys. But it seems that something is making things a bit harder for you regarding anal so in my opinion getting help on that is a preferable way of choice. I agree with @ggobkk that an expert will be beneficial for that manner. Not a regular bar boy but a highly rated guy from RentMen. These guys, if they are highly reviewed, have seen and done it all and you will be able to discuss everything with them freely. I would even start with a first encounter with non anal just to see if you get comfortable with the guy. I also agree with @spoon regarding that you should lower your expectations on enjoyment. It's a barrier that needs to be crossed and after crossed you might start enjoying that. If still in difficulty, and this subject is of importance to you, I would recommend seeking help with a sex therapist, preferably one with experience with gay men. If what you are experiencing is indeed Aidsophobia (which is not that rare with gay men), it can be sometimes related to hypochondria and/or some variation of OCD. A professional therapist would know how to make a better diagnosis and help you overcome the barrier with some guidance and support. On the other hand, you can decide that this subject is not that important to you and identify as Side: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side. Good luck!

As much as it is tempting to accept this explanation, I do not think that my endowment was something that memorable that he remembered 6 months after our first encounter. He took it like a champ both times. If he works at Prince he surely saw and took all sizes and shapes. I tend to think this explanation is more reasonable. Although I prefer the too big explanation LOL.

Shalom y'all! Just landed. Took some plane time to start writing. Some Background. 35yo married + 1. Israeli. This was my 6th trip (and trip report!). My husband has a big exam soon so he asked me to take our 3 yo daughter and go somewhere for the entire Jewish Holidays period (almost a month). Without any hesitation I booked us both a ticket to BKK for 26 days. The first 10 days of my trip was accompanied by a Thai nanny, and the rest was with my parents that decided to join some parts of my trip to spend quality time with their grand daughter. The trip was devided to 7 legs and so will this trip report. I scheduled it so we'll be in fun to party places during weekends (Bangkok, Singapore) and the mid week we went to places where it doesn't matter that much if you come on weekends or not (Pattaya, Chiang Mai). Since this trip was relatively long, and most of my time was spent at kids stuff with my daughter, this report will not be a detailed one. I'll try to stay focused on things that will be of interest to this forum. Take into consideration that my trip was about 70% child play and 30% dad's play haha. The report will focus on dad's play. Leg 1 - BKK weekend - Engines on TLV-BKK 11h flight went easy considering the fact that it was just me, 3yo girl and a fair amount of carry on luggage. The fact that I won the bid for upgrade to buisness class sure helped LOL. Suvarnabhumi Fast Track - after getting recommendations from forum members, I ordered Fasttrack, golf car, porter and a car with a child seat. 14 minutes from airplane gate to the car!! It was not cheap (4800 THB) but very helpful for a dad in need. Upon arrival, met the nanny which we already knew from our previous trip. Hotel review - Somerset Park Suan Plu - 3BR apartment (220 USD per night): This place was conveniently located a 3 minute short walk from Prince. When traveling with family, the concept of serviced apartments is my preferred. Apartment was all I could ask for: big, clean and each room had a lock haha. Breakfast was medium. Will return. I decided that first day of my trip will be dedicated to commercial sex and the days after will be dedicated to non commercial sex. Prince #1 - My goal with fasttrack was to arrive to the hotel at 4PM so my daughter will nap immediately upon arrival. I've become an expert in adjusting her naps to my needs haha. So it was no more then 15 minutes upon arrival that I was already at Prince after checking in, greeting the nanny and putting my daughter to sleep. Guys on display were nice as always. I saw the guy I was with last time, who is nicked Cha. For some reason, this guy seemed to be actively avoiding eye contact with me. At a certain point he actually stood behind someone and appeared hiding. He was of course the hottest guy there that afternoon. And by hot I mean shredded muscle. Retroactively thinking, I'm not sure why I chose him knowingly that he is avoiding me. But that is exactly what I did. I don't come to Prince to get massaged so can't comment on that. But his service was even better than our previous time. And by service I mean getting fucking him while he flexes. And also the prefuck teasing. All was so good I have really no idea why he was avoiding me. But I am sure he was. Left that place very happy and satisfied. I will see Cha a week later at XXO party. He looked at me and said "you look familiar". I told yes, I know. He then said "from the gym, right?". The whole situation was so weird I told him no and just smiled and went on. I then found his Grindr and IG. He states there specifically that he is not a MB. I contemplated the thought of sending him a massage and talk but that stayed only a thought. Anyways, Prince was a great start. Tawan #1 - after my daughter woke up, we went to Asiatique market for a pleasant evening. Recommended. I Put her to sleep at 22 with the goal of making it on time to Tawan. Arrived at Tawan 22:30 and finally met this forums superstar massage reviewer, DivineMadame. We had a nice conversation and inspection of guys. We both appreciated the looks of one guy in particular over there. He definitely seemed like a superstar and got his share of attention and tips from the crowd. When the show ended, encouraged by DivineMadame, I went to say hi. I ask for his name, of which he replied Tiger. 15 minutes later we were at my room. I didn't expect much from that guy cause I thought he was more eye candy than bed candy but he was mind blowing at what I needed from him. Which was a intense and intimate muscleworship session. The next day I took my daughter to the weekend market. An exhausting and nice place. When it was time for her nap, it was time to go to Babylon (#1). Until that point, Babylon never failed me. Nor it did this time. Had a taste of the local buffet of Asian crowd and some white guys too. I really like that place. After some more quality time with my daughter, it was bed time for her and play time for me. Had a sex night with someone I met on Grindr (#1) during my previous trip. This guy wanted to film our action. I only agreed to do that with my phone so we did that, then watched, then played more. It was a great night. Came back way to late considering the fact that at 8AM my daughter will wake me up. Next day, after some more exploration of Bangkok's children's play spaces, it was dads play time at Babylon (#2). This was the first time Babylon failed me. Don't know why. Maybe I was too tired, maybe just bad karma, maybe after a while I got too picky. But after about 2 hours I decided that I need to face the fact that no fun will probably happen here. So I left Babylon unorgasemed for the first time and to date also the last time. At the evening I took my daughter to the Cat Cafe. It was a nice experience although I think the cats were way too friendly and probably drugged. After putting her to sleep I had some time to kill before my Grindr hookup so I went to Banana boys and the show and guys has improved since the previous time I was there. Grindr hookup #2 - I started working BKK Grindr a week before arriving with FAKEGPS. A week before arriving I just started talking to ALL the hot guys there. One guy, I actually talked to several times before but it didn't work out till this trip. He unsurprisingly works in the fitness industry. This time he was more eager to meet. We met for drinks at Silom. I then realized that this guy, as hot as he was, had serious issues of low self esteem. I usually find it tiring cause then I need to invest energy in making him feel desired and hot. So, I play along cause I have a goal of bringing him to my room. An hour later we are in my room. He still needs a lot of me ensuring him that he is good enough for me which is a little turn off for me. But I was really into fucking that guy so out of 3 hours meeting, one hour was probably dedicated on sweet talking him to bed. But it was worth it cause that guy did everything I wanted in bed. He also had a very clear OCD which made him very sensitive to his cleanliness. But he softened with time. All and all it was a great night. 3AM, 20 mins after he left, my daughter woke from a nightmare. I was very happy that it did not happen earlier. I did not want her exposed to the other side of this trip. After about 4 hours of sleep my daughter woke me up, and we started packing and getting ready for our next leg - Pattaya!

Got it. Thanks. Goals for this weekend: Attend every 10:30 show this Friday, Saturday, Sunday and off for a short time a different guy each time. This is my last weekend in Bangkok. Let see how that goes hahaha. If anyone wants to join me for one of the nights this upcoming weekend, PM me. Cheers!

This thread is too long to read it all Can anyone write here the current show times of moonlight?

Finally, after so many years of knowing you online. It was my pleasure. Thanks!

Last Friday, from about 20 guys on display, half muscular. Only one of them was shredded muscle. Number 38, Tiger. But as Vinapu once wrote. You only need one

P.S. Tiger @ Tawan. Wow.

Yummy. Will probably check it out. Will report.

As always, Bangkok never failed me. Arrived today to Pattaya. It seems that hotel staff here can entertain my daughter at day and her dad at night :)

Although I'm going to be in BKK very soon, a new BKK countdown has just started simultaneously to the current one. God save the queen.

Thanks all for your suggestions ❤

I know tropical weather forecasting is inaccurate. I'd like some thoughts or advice regarding apps or services that show relatively accurate weather forecasts for the upcoming hours. For example, if I decide to go to the weekend market, I want to verify an hour before I leave my hotel, that it's not raining in BKK for the next 4 hours. Any ideas? Mission impossible?

I'm thrilled to read this so close to my trip! This report eases the pain of waiting :) Vinapu, Hope to have overlapping dates sometime in the near future. keep up the good work.

Cool. I'll be in Bangkok 4 till 8 Oct (among other dates). PM me if you're up for a drink :)

In my opinion, A trip is better than no trip. One of my best trips ever was Bangkok's 2018 White Party. I came just for the weekend (3 nights) plus 11 hour flights for each direction. I say go for it :) If you have some flexibility with dates and enjoy gay circuit parties, consider coming at the beginning of October.

I thank you deeply for taking the time not only to explain my mistake but also on explaining the proper way to fix it. I'm doing the Singapore part of my trip with my parents. My dad likes the Shangril-la on other cities so he asked to choose that hotel from your list. My parents wanted to keep the MBS for at least 2 nights to see what all the fuss is about. So we will be doing 2 nights at the garden wing in Shangri-la and 2 nights at MBS. You saved us about 600 USD and probably some misery. Thanks again. Will update on my impressions of both hotels.

Thanks for this. I will look for alternatives. I need a hotel that guarantees adjoining rooms so my options are a little more limited.

Hey guys, I'm lucky enough to return to my favorite city in the world, once again this year. This time for my longest stay yet. My husband has a big exam soon so he asked if we could let him study quietly during the month of the Jewish holidays. So it is just me and my daughter coming this time. I will be accompanied by a nanny for 10 days and the remaining time by my parents who refused to be away from their granddaughter for such a long time. This is my itinerary: Sep 27 BKK 3 nights (Somerset Park) Sep 30 Pattaya 4 nights (Centara grand Mirage) Oct 4 BKK 4 nights (Sofitel So - XXO Party) Oct 8 Chiang Mai (first time there) 3 nights (Le Meridien) Oct 11 Singapore (first time there) 4 nights (Marina bay sands) Oct 15 Pattay 3 nights (Centara grand mirage) Oct 18 BKK 3 nights (Grand central point Ratchadamri) Same as the previous trip, most of the day time will be kids fun stuff with my daughter (I have other forums to get advice for that) and night time will be daddy's fun time. I know some of my hotels are not the first choice of a gay traveler but they were chosen because they were family friendly. I'd rather take a taxi to the gay area and keep my daughter in a hotel that is suited for her. Needed: 1. Any current advice and information on what's fun now on any of my destinations, especially the ones I haven't visited. 2. If anyone wants to meet and have a drink at the bars of BKK or Pattaya, I would love that. 3. Most of my hotels are with cancelation. But, as I said, if you think a different hotel is better, take into consideration that I'm traveling with a almost 3 yo ninja :) One month to go!!

Thank you all for the kind words ❤

Finishing this report. Sunday morning (exactly one week ago) we took our daughter to Emporium mall in Sukhumvit. Yet another BKK impressive mall. We went there by recommendation of our nanny that mentioned a nice play space for kids. I must admit that BKK's fancy play spaces for kids are really impressive and professional and I'd wish we had places like this at home. They even measured her temperature before allowing her inside which is great in my opinion. We had our family fun there and returned in time for her nap. Sunday afternoon in BKK means it's Babylon time. Arrived at Babylon at about 4PM. I think the best time to come is at about 6PM on Sundays but we were limited by nap times. I think Babylon never failed me. Nor did it this visit. I saw a recent discussion regarding dark rooms. I have really shitty night vision. My strategy is to wait outside the steam/dark room and go after someone I already checked out. My first prey was a British guy which we had sex in the Jacuzzy and later on in a cabin. Afterwards it was a young Japanese guy which we played in the steam and later on a cabin. Both were really my type and I was very happy, and satisfied. My partner also seemed to have fun but also a little angry at me for letting him wait for long time while I have fun and he already wanted to go. This is usually what happens when we go together to a sauna – I want to stay for way longer than the time he wants to stay. I really lose sense of time at those places. And to be honest, I knew already he is somewhere looking for me and wanted to leave but I had too much fun so I preferred my needs over his. Yes, I can be a selfish bitch sometimes, especially when it comes to men Haha. I apologized, and we carried on. From there we went back to the room and took our daughter to have dinner at Unicorn Café. It's a tacky funny pink experience in which you can rent unicorn onesies, have unicorn colored food etc. After that we put her to sleep and went out for our final night in town. Arrived at Tawan at about 1030 PM. House is half full but front row is empty. I am not sure why people hesitated sitting that so close to stage but we didn't mind and sat front row. On stage is a super lean and muscular bodybuilder which is for sure a current super star there. I remember he had a two digit number almost surly starting with 3. That guy was the hottest guy I ever saw in Tawan and although he is probably not so cooperative in bed, I would definitely off him if I was alone. He was not offed. Alongside him is an old friend, number 48, boonthone which I offed several years ago. Still ripped and impressive and he was offed quite early. Show was nice, as I remembered it and we both enjoyed it. One guy behind us was caught filming, so there was quite a scene there with his phone and the manger. After the show ended we went again to gay Sunday night at Maggie Choo's with the same enjoyable experience as a week before. From there we went to the room and started Grinding. I did use Grindr a lot this visit mainly for making connections with hot locals for the next time I am there alone and logistics will be way easier. A couple living near our hotel invited us. It was our last night in town and although we wanted to sleep early the night before our flight, we decided to pay them a quick visit. We arrive at a luxurious tall building and met an expat couple living in BKK. The thing that they failed to mention upon inviting us is that they were high. I don't mind having sex with people using drugs as long as they are cognitively preserved in a way that I can feel their presence. In this case they were high on Ice which made me want to leave the minute I understood that. But I guess I was horny enough to stay, and in contrary to my expectations that encounter was fun although it ended a lot later than I wanted. Retuned to sleep at 4AM. Woke up at 9AM. As I promised my partner I'll make it up for letting him wait for me in Babylon, I took our daughter to a play space with the nanny and let him sleep and pack. Returned in time for her early nap. We had 2 hours before our late checkout and I wanted my last massage. Arrived at prince Monday 2PM. It's a little too early and when we left there were more masseurs working but we couldn't come later so we had to work with the guys already working. The handsome fit guy that I chose wanted to keep his towel on him during the massage part, he said he is shy. I found it weird but remembered by BKK rule: Don't try and change the Thai people but try and adjust to them. This rule always saves me anger and disappointment in Thailand. I told that rule to my partner several days ago when he asked for special requests in his coffee order. He of course got a shitty coffee. Remembering that, I tried to enjoy my last massage and while the massage part was rather weird, the fun part was fine and in general this was probably my least enjoyable experience in Prince but still an OK one. For my partner this was his best experience out of his three massages this trip. That's about it. Went back, woke our child up, said goodbye to the nanny and tipped her 2000 THB for her good work. Flight went great with our daughter sleeping on me 9 out of 11 hours and me sleeping about 5 hours which is more than I expected. Even succeeded during her sleep to watch GOT S08E03 which aired several hours before our plane took off. This trip was yet another great trip to my favorite city in the world that never disappoints me. Although the nature of this trip did not allow me to fully enjoy what the city has to offer, I was very satisfied and actually surprised that I did succeed on pulling of my plans for fun in this trip. Also, I did enjoy spending the time with my family and showing my husband what BKK is all about. Seeing BKK through my daughter's eyes was also a unique experience. Until next time, Cheers! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYnN_fP59C0 Offer_Nissim_-_Set_My_Mind_Free_Full-HD.mp4